₦airaland Forum

Quelme:
Nigerians are chronic tax defaulters.

They don't want to pay tax but yet want their country to look like Germany.

Share how the ones being paid, has been value for money, has been properly utilized.

LtChisom:
But you can say what you want, but you want me to gag myself.

Are you a yoruba?

I am Swahili.

LtChisom:
Is it she was whoring in OSun state?

So very wrong!

What has Uzodinjo achieved in Imo state that justifies that huge debt?

Dtruthspeaker:
is it his saying No that stopped him from getting another job? Everything is wrong with you oo

It is way easier not to have a safety net, when you struggle to say NO.

There are some job openings that an extra layer of skill/training/qualification would help increase one's chance and personal development is not selfishness.

I confront Black Tax for what it is and will not get guilt trip into going beyond the range of the limit I have set.

Dtruthspeaker:
What do i gain in blackmailing you? You are not a member of my family.

And all i am pointing out is that your judgement on the man was most wicked and unfair.

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You are also not.

Wicked and unfair? Struggling to get another job and accommodation till now, with no safety net is what is wicked and unfair, not me.

Dtruthspeaker:
See how you changed post from How does sayingI "No" to his family stop a job loss? And your Psychologist is only half right. Who says "No" to family and friends without justification? Even your psychologist does not keep to this quote.

To Even God does not say YES, to all our requests?

And now here you are commiting the fallacy of over extension. for the op only reported "paying the brothers children's school fees" and nothing about private or public school. but here you are adding to the case.

Clearly, you are a very bad family member who thinks that it very bad to help others.

God Rules and surely, it would one day be your turn to require help and just is will be served on you.

Help others but don't fuel their sense of entitlement, when exhibited.

I know what is my responsibility and what is not, can't be pressured nor blackmailed.

God Rules and surely, it would everyday be my turn to gain more blessings from the Lord....you think cheap emotional blackmail works on me?

Such jobs need regular therapy sessions and paid intermittent leaves as part of their welfare package.

Tayorshd87:
U be mumu u quickly relate it with Nigeria own when her rent alone is 2000 dollars gas bill nepa bill etc yet that money will never be enough for her unless she do another job again just to meet up bills ..


But in Nigeria one job alone with even 150k pay self one can still manage to live and eat without burden of monthly rent and fear of not meeting up demand for taxes

Out of that N150K, how much will the earner set aside monthly for rent, light, water, transport fare, feeding, clothing, healthcare?

Not bad.

Esthered:
You'll be said to be stingy. Inasmuch as he wants the best for his son, it should be within his budget and not burden people for his choice. I wonder how people think when they make choices that isn't convenient for them.

He knows very well that whatever he says doesn't bother me.

You have to make realistic decisions based on what you can afford, others can even be motivated to support you when they see you are struggling but building castles in the air and expecting others to subsidize that illusion, is crazy!

I attended a public secondary school and a public university in Nigeria for my first degree, I still achieved what I am today.

Weaponize poverty and lure them with food and small cash....sure format.

Sad.

Esthered:
Your relative was bold with that request.

And I made sure I was bolder with my response, I am not obligated to fund his choice.

Instant justice.

Dtruthspeaker:
Now you have changed post! Who told you ny guy did not say No? look at the report, he even gave them to of his accord and on really important stuff. So he deserves to be praised and prayed for especially as we know many many relations who are rich but are never there.

Changed post?🙄

Paying for your elder brother's children' school fees from your salary because your elder brother is too big to have his children in public schools despite the fact he couldn't afford to pay fees?

I guess because he has been created to be the messiah of the family and must give all, not thinking of himself, investments nor personal development. Now he is down and out, everybody go don calm down.

A relative requested I help him with some funds to help him sort out fees for his son who got admitted into a private university, he even went ahead to convert the fees into Pound Sterling to make it look smaller and I asked him clearly that based on his financial health, why didn't he get his son to apply for a public university but he chose to pick offense with me and I did not bloody care.

Black tax is not a joke.

Dtruthspeaker:
How does sayingI "No" to his family stop a job loss?

And your Psychologist is only half right. Who says "No" to family and friends without justification? Even your psychologist does not keep to this quote.

Even God does not say YES, to all our requests....let that sink.

Zonefree:
Make they drop aza make I begin dey pay my own small small. No time.

Also help me pay my own, if you don't mind.

So far away!

Insensitive and eyebrow raising.

TheChameleon:
You dey mind the Mindlog mumu guy?

UK based but ALWAYS on Nairaland 24/7 wasting his unproductive life abusing Tinubu whose excreta is greater than his entire lineage past, present and future COMBINED

We love to see and read his foolish fantasies. Very entertaining

Continue reading. 😂😃😃😃😃

Pennilessword1:
You are very lucky...you have no idea what you have done for yourself until you just come visit Nigeria. Then you will kiss the ground of wherever you are now

I know and I am grateful for where I am, today.

Eriggs:
...... and na dis idiot wan become president.
If everybody run commot,
Who will he preside over.

Anyways, he told us he takes advice from mad Men.
It's now obvious

Everybody run commot?

The percentage of Nigerians that can afford to migrate is not even up to 1%.

I did and best decision, ever.

yarimo:
Investigation has no time limit it can be now or any other day

Yarimo, the yarimo!

yarimo:
Why won't he be Donating again after stealing from labour party campaign contributions

He stole and he hasn't been arrested?

At least he didn't marry 3 extra wives with his money rather he donated for human capital development and in future, most of those student nurses would end up working abroad and remit huge sums back to Nigeria. Last year, I was admitted into Cambridge University Hospitals and one of the Nurses who attended to me, studied at School Of Nursing Umulogho, in a rural community in Imo State,....do you know what working there means to her, her family, her community and Nigeria as a whole?

Yarimo the yarimo, your delusion dey in concentrated form but you intrigue me like that.

Kemi is now being used to divert the mind from the pains of Nigeria's reality.

Na wetin Kemi talk dey influence the price of garri for market.

They are not faceless, go legal.

EmperorCaesar:


Thats a whole lot!

This is what you get when you have an accountant on the helm of affairs

This was the plan all along. Its unreasonable to say the FG have been paying subsidy and that PBAT has no true plans in mind

This is an attestation report

God Bless Nigeria

MANNA do pass this one, for 8 solid human years!

Now he has no job nor accommodation, are his siblings and mother, dead?

Well many of us struggle with the Messiah Complex and it has stunted many people's growth.

It is said, you can't pour from an empty cup, self-care is not selfishness.

Learning to say NO without feeling guilt, is a survival skill I have learnt. Back then during my undergraduate days, our Head of Department who is a Counselling Psychologist had the attached quote, boldly pasted on her office door and it helped students to prepare their minds before entering her office.

femi4:
Unfortunately, the best among them won't be picked

And it would reflect poorly on the students but most state governors don't care while ignoring the fact that those kids are the most important "mineral resources" of their states.

TJOS:
What are the specific conditions for obtaining a loan from the IMF? Let’s start from there.

Why would you go obtain loan from a Shylock, in the first place?

Worst still, the loan will be hugely mismanaged despite the conditions attached to it.