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Catching a liar in action can be pretty tricky. Falsely accusing someone can start a big fight, but at the same time, you don't want to seem too naive.
So how do you know for sure if your boyfriend is lying to you?
I've put together 10 signs that your boyfriend might be a liar. Keep these things at the back of your mind.
Also keep in mind that these aren't foolproof - the truth is, there are some people out there who are great liars and are hard to catch in the act.
But in general, these will be helpful for

figuring out whether or not he's a liar:
He's not acting like himself: Usually when someone lies, they feel a little uncomfortable and worried about getting caught. If your boyfriend is lying to you about something big, chances are his attitude will change a little bit.

If he's usually really open with you and very happy and he's suddenly being secretive and jumpy, that may be a sign that something is up.
He doesn't look at you: Pay attention to your boyfriend's body language whenever he's telling you something that you think he's lying about, or whenever you ask him if he's lying. Will he look you in the eye? If he'll look anywhere except at you, that's a good sign that he's not being honest.
It's hard to look in the eyes of someone you care about and boldly lie. If you think he's full of it, say, "look me in the eyes and say it." If he can't do it, he's probably lying.
His story is never the same: Lying can be difficult, especially if you're lying about something complicated. Pay attention to the details your boyfriend gives you when he's telling you something.
Wait a few days, and then ask for the same story again. If some things don't add up, it could be because they didn't happen.
If this happens more than a few times, it could mean he's making stuff up and isn't good at keeping track of everything.
He gets super defensive: How does your boyfriend react when you accuse him of lying? If he gets super, super defensive, it might mean he's lying and is freaking out about getting caught.
This one is tricky, because it's completely natural to get defensive whenever you're accused of fibbing, whether you did it or not.
However, if your boyfriend's response is over-the-top, it could mean he's in panic mode.
There are a lot of long pauses: According to Cosmopolitan, long pauses before an answer are a sign that he's not telling you the truth.
If he pauses for a minute before answering or repeats the question before responding, he could be giving himself time to come up with an answer.
He accuses you of lying all the time: Sometimes when people feel guilty about their own lies, they try to shift the blame a little bit. If your guy is constantly accusing you of breaking his trust, it may be because he feels bad about breaking your trust.
Or, if he counteracts your probing question with one of his own, he could just be trying to distract you.
He never gives you any details: Do you think your boyfriend is lying about who he was hanging out with earlier? Try to ask some innocent-sounding questions like, "what did you do?".
Don't grill him for details, but ask a few questions. If he keeps saying, "Um, I don't know" or "I don't remember" or if he blows up about it, it's probably because he doesn't have any real details to give you.
He's super weird with his phone: I would never advise you to take a secret peek at your boyfriend's phone, but keeping an eye on how he acts with it is okay if you suspect he's lying.
Does he constantly keep it with him, even if he's just running to the bathroom? Does he freak out if you touch it when it goes off? If he's crazy private about his phone, it could be because there's stuff in there he doesn't want you to see.
He has a history of lying: If your boyfriend has a history of lying to you, what makes you think that this time is going to be any different?
If he's lied to you once or twice about little things, that doesn't mean he should never be trusted. But if he's fibbed about some major stuff before, he could very easily be doing it again.
You have a gut feeling: Honestly, in the end, you really need to go with your gut. You can go through all of the steps above and still not find out for sure if he's a liar.
But if you have a serious gut feeling that he's being dishonest, then you probably have that for a reason.
Trust yourself - dig deep down to see if you really believe he's lying or not. Sometimes we have these feelings because we're right.

You are a liar

the came to thank God, you said they are indulging in politics. should they snub buhari and co?? OP. I go wound you o

fijiano202:
Have you eaten? most of what u wrote is pure buhaha

you crushing??

And what school would that be??

And what school would that be

Kolade354:
nobody hit the like button do you know why..............you should have pray to be bless financially not on nairaland cos i dont knw the benefit of blessing on nairaland. Hapi new year dude.

SAME TO YOU

Obiagelli:
Na only boy dey watch ball?

no but when a boy analysis I know

Obiagelli:
Enrique should take the blame for this, what kind of silly starting lineup is that.

are you a GIRL??

otbliz:
I wonder
No source, not logical enough, and i smelk lies.
BTW how did she keep count of 324.

its just a fake news. some op's trying to make FP since 1000bc

[color=#990000][/color] Wow I am the first to comment on a FP. First time thou, also on the first Sunday of the year.


Hmm now I see, pastor said if we testify, God 'll bless us more, and I testified today at church. so I guess this is a sign of the blessings and many more to come this year.


Hit the like button if you want me blessed this year.


NO I DON'T AGREE WITH THIS LIST

And what has this got to do with POLITICS

joeblac07:
Hi, from the Biblical account of earth's creation to Adams creation is 5 days. So a total of still about 6000 years. Compared to what science posits which is in billions of years. smh for u.

u'll be shaking it until it falls of. in the begining God created the heavens (and) the earth was without form and void. d word "and" there does not specify how long it took the earth to become formless and void. he made the angels and satan before it was formless. look here's my number 08071129778. call me and get more insight. I'll b glad 2 share mysteries with you

joeblac07:
13. The Earth is 4.56 billion years old the same
age as the Moon and the Sun.

The holy book of Christians say otherwise. The Bible posits that the earth is about 6,000 years old.

So are you gonna believe what the Bible says by faith or are you gonna belief what science has proved so clearly, by evidence.

thats since the recreation. after God created man, from the time of adam to moses is 2000 years, moses to Jesus 2000 years, this is 2015 b.c. btw before God created Adam the earth had been in existence, that was when satan fell from heaven. so keep your faith before you confuse people here

Etruth:
Yes. When I believe in a cause,I put in my ALL.....but I must be convinced first. And it applies to every area of my life. The Bible says in Proverbs 10:4 ' He becometh poor that DEALETH WITH A SLACK hand;but the hands of the DILIGENT [Unyielding, Vehement,resilient,irrepressible] maketh rich.

hey, u gone too far. well just saw your signature

baseg25:
lol. Pls comment o.

bro am speechless

Etruth:
Vehement support is not the same as Violent support. It means whole-hearted and passionate support.

you sound like one of them vehement supporters

do I get 4gb or 50mb

guy no screenshot, #100 is my last card

Etruth:
And what is wrong with vehement support?

nothing, no just kill yourself

Obadiah77:
How have i insulted you?

lol. smh

Obadiah77:
you are stupiid, you will also die if GEJ did not win

why GEJ?? oh cus he's the top contender or what?? didn't say i'm a fan of GEJ. can see you support APC vehemently, well we all know its common for APC supporters to rain insults down on people. so insult me for all I care.

stunningjudy:
U really love to open threads about women

what do you expect

Obadiah77:
Make i die if Buhari no win next month election

no offense but, I wouldn't want to attend your funeral. so get a life and rephrase yourself. happy new year

ya, many people prepare for their wedding, which lasts for a day, but fail to prepare for their marriage which lasts a lifetime. my own little contribution sha



*walks outta thread*

bablononi:
smh for u

lol, can technology go any futher?? guess they are at their peak.

emiye:
so long? i went through it in less than 3 minutes.

good for you. guess am a slower reader

CERKEYNAH:
Nigerian with reading culture. What's long here?

to you it migh not be.

cococandy:
nothing new. Males out number females

the last time i checked, females were more than males

END TIME THINGS

God bless you bro, do you do this everyday

but dem make sense sha

was expecting something very expensive