Nigerians may be considered gullible 4 all I care o, they've said d truth. Ur best friend is nt a man? Wht of u sef, how did u manage? Op, I support them. Pls examine ur heart, pls I beg u. U re sinning against God. Sex goes way deeper than just penetration. Abeg o. I knw dis may be hard 4 u 2 adjust, since romance is thrilling, but if truly u re a Christian, clean up to make God hapi, and see how He rewards u. Seperate 4rm dat ur best friend. It'll be hard, I knw, but if u re a Christian, do it. Meanwhile, pls, a child of God will nt go that far without feeling terrible, pls, check urself, nd ask God 2 help u. He will help u. Be brave about dis. Stop it, it's definitely wrong, sin is sin, abi, sebi juice is juice, whether apple juice or water juice.

Please, does it mean freshers' screening is on 6th? How about d screening schedule and all?

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Thanks Op. I saw sm1 recommend The Purpose Driven Life, I have that book. God used it to change many things abt me, so do read it, nd let God minister 2 u. Hope u re a christian. I'll also recommend my two favorite books on relationship: 1.'I Kissed Dating Goodbye' and 2.'Boy Meets Girl', both by Joshua Harris. Also, check for 'Sex is not the Problem (lust is)', by d same Joshua Harris. They are common bestsellers in Christian bookstores. Stay pure, make God proud. God bless you.

Permit me... My stepfather 1ce gave me an illustratn abt pre-marital sex using chocolates, cos he knew I enjoyed eating chocolates. Let me try nd quote:
'One day, your mom comes home with a large box containing all sorts of choco-bar nd toffee nd wafers dat u've never seen b4. Yum yum. U shout 4 joy but soon mellow down when your mom held back the whole box 4rm you and kept it on d top of a very high wardrobe in her room with instructions of 'touch not' to everyone, especially you. Oh, that's an impossible thing! You thought. Why wait? And meanwhile, there are hundreds of sweets there, she surely wuld never know if u take one once in a while. There u go. Maybe once in three days, u climb all d way 2 d box, risking ur life as u may fall nd get badly hurt, but u go anyway, for the exciting thrill of just one of those sweet things. This probably go on for two months. And one day again, mom brought down d big pack and hands it to u with her biggest smile, 'It's all yours, child.' Ah! It was meant to be a surprise, u realise, but never mind, u cry out with excitement nd begin 2 eat fifteen sweets at a time, oh it feels so good. Oh yeah? Me gives ur excitement a little time. U discover that after a short tym, as short as after a week, u start 2 lose your excitement abt it, so much so that sometimes, for days, u may not eat more than one of them sweets. Then you lament, 'Oh how foolish I've been.' If u had waited, you'd have had more fun, nd cherished d fact that u were able to wait for your gift delivered legally.'
Sorry for d long post but I hope u got my point. I want to have real sex with my husband in marriage. I want to jump into d marriage bed with cries of joy, not with sighs of 'Well, I've been there and done that'. It's a matter of choice, people. Hope sm1 learns. @Op, if your post is true, keep the zip locked, u won't regret it. God help us all.

I don't think thr's anythn more enjoyable than being at peace with God.

This write-up is dedicated to:
my virgin sisters who seek the right man.
I don't mean 'virgins' as in only those who have never had sex, I also call 'virgins' my sisters who have committed to God, whose pasts have been forgiven, whose garments have been made clean, my sisters who are ready to live to please the One True God, regardless the dirty past. This write-up is for you, I want you to carefully understand it.
It's a question you should ask that man seeking your hand. Pose this poem to the 'he' who asks. His answer means a lot.
A poem written by Lena Lathrop, to challenge men, though, I have modified some of its wordings to fit our culture and time here, but the original message remains untouched and timeless. Here it goes:

Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing
Ever made by the Hand above?
A woman's heart, and a woman's life-
And a woman's wonderful love.

Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing,
As a child might ask for a toy?
Demanding what others have died to win,
With the reckless dash of a boy?

You have written my lesson of duty out,
Manlike, you have questioned me.
Now stand at the bars of my woman soul
Until I shall question thee.

You require your beef shall always be hot,
Your socks and shirt be sparkling clean;
I require your heart be true as God's stars,
And as pure as His Heaven your soul.

I require a man and a king,
A king for the beautiful realm called Home,
And a man whose Maker, God,
Shall look upon as He did at the first,
And say, "It is very good."

I am fair and young, but the rose may fade,
From this soft young cheek one day;
Will you love me then amidst the falling leaves,
As you did among the blossoms of May?

I require all things that are grand and true,
All things that a man should be,
If you give this all, I would stake my life,
To be all you demand of me.

If you cannot be this, then a laundress and a cook,
You can hire and pay little,
But a woman's heart and a woman's life,
Are not to be won that way.
* * * * *
Let them answer us, sisters, for a loving woman finds Heaven or hell on the day she is made bride. Let us have our standards high set, not unrealistic, but high, with eyes wide open, and not be as those described in an icon's quote: "They sleep in courtship, and in wedlock awake", and then it's too late. Up, up, sisters, I may not know you, but my heart rejoices with all of you true and loving, who will be patient, and by God's Grace be hooked with the right man.
I require all things that are pure, grand and true, how about you?