₦airaland Forum

dejii01:
Have you seen a girl that secretes lots of testosterone? Well, I have. If you hear the deep voice, you go fear

Some Indian girls are born like that.

AfricanApple:
most of our naija men are fond of putting their siblings as their next of kin thereby leaving the wife to suffer if he dies before her, not even when she has been very submissive like most of you are obsessed with. they also forgets that they have children that the wife would now be left with the burden of taking care of them alone

why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sibling. Must be male, gold diggers everywhere.

Chiamaka01:
No, of course not. So, what you're saying is that suppose i get married to a sissy, he'd put 80% into the decisions made? And i'll just say, 'yes, lord'. That's some serious b.s.

He still has to be the head of the family. Guys like this usually leave decision making to their wives. Don't they?

Chiamaka01:
Are you also an oau 'asundergrad'?

Yeah

Timmytimmy:



Btw, I'm going for Chemical engineering. You?

Urban & Regional Planning. Scored 277 in post utme, you?

Yes

Chiamaka01:
That means, i should be the one making decisions or at least 80% input, right? The thinking or feeling function isn't gender restrictive. I eagerly await your reply.

Do you have testosterone?

uumm:
in my opinion, the "thinker or feeler" or "thinker and feeler" ideas don't do it quite well.
I think it would be best if one had so much control as to switch between both modes when and if necessary.. there are moments that call for 100% feeler and some otherwise. Now how would a 20% feeler handle such situations?

She would after learning in Submission.

Timmytimmy:
Are you serious?
We are resuming May, I hope.

Course?

An in form player like thus could have easily sent us to the NC, but for an ego ridden paunchy coach, Keshi.

Chiamaka01:
The both of them should because the thinker's decision though rational could use a little moderation. Who do you think should make the decisions? Thinker or feeler?

Thinker, with a little mix of that of feeler e.g 20% As the considerate thinker wills.

Timmytimmy:
Unfortunately,yes. God knows best na.

Irony! Me too. When are we resuming?

Timmytimmy:
All na education now. We are discussing what plagues the students of OAU.

I'm getting on your nerves again?
Which ones now?

Have you just gotten admission?

Chiamaka01:
It depends on what you mean by 'head'. I believe in joint decision making or if one person makes the decisions, it has to make sense to me, if not, it's going in the trash can.

Is it a feeler or a thinker that should make the decision or both? Why?

I thought it's a female o, big fôol, sorry, àss.

Chiamaka01:
This is the first time i agree with you. As for the other points, let's not do this, we're derailing as it is.

want not wasn't, don't mind the prediction thing. As for marriage things, how do you think a good marriage should look like? Is it a man heading his home with love and understanding like the Bible says or there shouldn't be a head at all

dejii01:
@ the bolded, some can't help it

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

You have actually hit the nail at the centre of its circumference. You see, it is when a woman actually start to battle with her natural feminine instinct(estrogen) which necessitates that she submits to testosterone, that's when she becomes a bïtch! Many a times, the bïtchiness is caused by external influence (s).

Chiamaka01:
You have come, again. What do you want me to say, now?

Anything. Following the traditional pattern has its own advantages too. In fact, the stricter the patriarchy, the more the value of women. Do you wasn't the situation of women to be like that of USA? God forbid!

Timmytimmy:
Cool, it's a free world. You are free to hold whatever worldview you want as far as it's not against the Law. Goodluck.

You don't understand satire when you see it.

Chiamaka01:
Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

Women are too emotional and should be kept at home.

Chiamaka01:
As in, ehn. Thank God more women are opening their eyes.

Don't mind those silly men that still think that its their job to care for and protect women in this 21st century. Skunks!

Who gives a fvck about the over hyped phenomena called beauty? Why will men continue to make money and spend it on frivolities?

Wetin MANkind no go see? Ordinary IV of an almost certain 'failed marriage' making fp.

SAMBARRY:
Gbam.oya take for nailing it hard

In fact the way men are emphasizing on this feminism matter every now and then is becoming boring. Choose the wife that fits into your picture of what your wife should be and stop complicating the world with your vain repetitions and whinning

Gambari, don't mind them jaws. They are scared of equality while am able to practice it with my wives.

bukatyne:
Feminism is NOT the basis of abuse by ladies

Tenk

I have 5 wives and we practice equality.

Feminist? Yes, I love the idea of 50:50 in a relationship, it gives you the opportunity of conserving your money, out of which you can easily employ a temporary (at specific time e.g 2:5 pm daily) house help to do the over hyped house chores, instead of spending your life savings on a passive element.

babysmart:
U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Don't mind the dude jawe, only God knows why men don't think like me. 50:50 is what men should be thinking of exploiting now. It gives men the chance to save their money while doing some over hyped home chores, out of which they can hire a temporary house help till the kids mature enough. I still wonder why men still think its their job to provide for a dull, passive element. Mthcheew

princeozzilly:
My friend, you are certainly not married, huh, the opposite of submissive is "nagging", "quarrelsome", "opinionated" etc. Trust me,you won't survive one week. You don't have to believe me, I dare you to marry such a woman then we can chat again in the future.

Don't worry. No be did nija we due live so? Women and their feeble minds are the least of my worries. I need doe.

I'm the man in question. I don beat her like mad, chastised her, but the fear of me in her is the bedrock of her wisdom. Don't blame me, I'm a man of principles.







I despise women.