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How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 4:05pm On Dec 04, 2014
1. She must be God-fearing
2. She must not be materialistic
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
4. She must show signs of discipline
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
7. She must be humble and obey the man
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
10. She must always be cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by holatin(m): 4:13pm On Dec 04, 2014
any woman that has all this is either a jinn/gene/spirit or husband don suffer am

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Misogynist2014(m): 4:17pm On Dec 04, 2014
These petty things don't worry me at all. Who cares if she's submissive?

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by IamLEGEND1: 4:21pm On Dec 04, 2014

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 5:19pm On Dec 04, 2014
Misogynist2014:
These petty things don't worry me at all. Who cares if she's submissive?
My friend, you are certainly not married, huh, the opposite of submissive is "nagging", "quarrelsome", "opinionated" etc. Trust me,you won't survive one week. You don't have to believe me, I dare you to marry such a woman then we can chat again in the future.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 04, 2014
Misogynist2014:
These petty things don't worry me at all. Who cares if she's submissive?
what!

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Misogynist2014(m): 5:23pm On Dec 04, 2014
princeozzilly:
My friend, you are certainly not married, huh, the opposite of submissive is "nagging", "quarrelsome", "opinionated" etc. Trust me,you won't survive one week. You don't have to believe me, I dare you to marry such a woman then we can chat again in the future.
Don't worry. No be did nija we due live so? Women and their feeble minds are the least of my worries. I need doe. tongue

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by gechivi(f): 5:50pm On Dec 04, 2014
9/10

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Bunker1(m): 5:50pm On Dec 04, 2014
you must be talking about Virgin MARY...who else will have all that.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 8:59pm On Dec 04, 2014
Bunker1:
you must be talking about Virgin MARY...who else will have all that.
trust Me, Virgin Mary 10/10, my babe 8/10

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 04, 2014
Grade is 7.5/10. Dang it. I scored higher than I wanted or expected. Being a wife ugh.......I have panic attacks and possibly anaphylactic to that word. I prefer partner. It sugarcoats it for me so wifely duties are super palatable.

PS. I took half point off 2 ( I like nice things); 6 ( I am too smart and crafty where it matters); 7 (obey really?- not a dog.) 9 (yea..no, some has to know about your sheningans. At least a psych. To keep me from going bananas); 10 (ha!! U wish. What do I look like pollyana barbie doll).

Yea...thats how I roll.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by mesoade(m): 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2014
Misogynist2014:
These petty things don't worry me at all. Who cares if she's submissive?
father forgive him cos he doesn't know what he's saying

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 04, 2014
No one is perfect angry

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 100Cents: 10:50pm On Dec 04, 2014
princeozzilly:
1. She must be God-fearing
2. She must not be materialistic
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
4. She must show signs of discipline
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
7. She must be humble and obey the man

8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
10. She must always be cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

She lacks the bolded.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by 100Cents: 10:51pm On Dec 04, 2014
PinkObsession:
No one is perfect angry

Ignorance is not an excuse.

When you want to discuss such points with a lady who you think is serious with you and she enters defense mode, should one take her seriously ?
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 7:29am On Dec 05, 2014
100Cents:


Ignorance is not an excuse.

When you want to discuss such points with a lady who you think is serious with you and she enters defense mode, should one take her seriously ?
It depends on which of. The points she's defensive about. As a man, there are some points listed here that you can tolerate or cope with but there are some others that you must not allow to fly if you want to live long.

Also, don't bother trying to change any girl, if she resisted change when her parents tried to purge her bad habits, what makes you think you'll succeed. Brothers, there are still very sweet, amiable and good natured sisters out there, just search harder and in the right direction. I don't recommend church girls ooo, unless you want to die young. You rearly find the good ones at church.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by DieeDiee: 8:08am On Dec 05, 2014
princeozzilly:

1. She must be God-fearing. - I'm God loving (I don't fear Him) does that count?
2. She must not be materialistic - I like the nice things in life and I love being surrounded by beauty.
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker - I'm a good supervisor and I know the difference between clean and dirty so I can supervise our housekeeper
4. She must show signs of discipline - hmm... You are going to need to clarify discipline for me. If you are talking about being loud, brash, getting drunk and dancing on tables then we are on the same page. I have a very soft voice therefore I can't even shout. Yes I love having fun but I'm a responsible adult. Surely that's okay isn't?
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs - no problem but please don't forget it's a two-way street
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
- I don't have a diabolical bone in my body besides being deceitful is too much work. Planning, scheming, lying ... all that time and work I can just invest in loving you
7. She must be humble and obey the man - Hmm... Another amber sign requiring caution. Humble? Only if the situation warrants it. Obey? I've had one father I don't need a second one. How about we discuss and reach an amicable solution?
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man. - Straight up - NO! Nah ah this can be the deal breaker. I don't mind following your lead but I will not submit to you.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents. - Of course and it goes without saying the opposite is true, right? We'll deal with each others short comings in private.
10. She must always be cheerful. - Always? You are being ambitious, life is not some alcohol advert and don't forget you have a HUGE role to play in my feelings. That being said, I was born with a happy disposition so as long as you don't injure my spirit you will find me cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material. - How do I score?

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Tymax(m): 8:12am On Dec 05, 2014
That your number 2 ehn.....abeg comot am. No single lady can measure up to that one.
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by DieeDiee: 8:20am On Dec 05, 2014
PinkObsession:
No one is perfect angry

Bet you OP is no M&B man and has shortcomings of his own...
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 8:32am On Dec 05, 2014
@0p then what has happened to this quote" love is not finding the perfect person but making the imperfect person perfect" grin

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 05, 2014
op is talking about a robot or a mannequin. One of his bizarre obsessions.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:25pm On Dec 05, 2014
PinkObsession:
No one is perfect angry

GOODwife......not perfect wife.
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by princeozzilly(m): 2:39pm On Dec 05, 2014
[quote author=DieeDiee post=28608097][/quote]very nice and candid view
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Nobody: 2:44pm On Dec 05, 2014
princeozzilly:
1. She must be God-fearing
It's not hard to do.
2. She must not be materialistic
You are right. I don't need to be materialistic.
But, any girl who's materialistic shouldn't be blame because you guys objectify our beauty and we objectify your money. cool Draw-draw
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
What a short-sighted way of reasoning. If she must be a home keeper, there's no way she shouldn't be materialistic.
4. She must show signs of discipline
Good grin
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
Like seriously? undecided
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
Stùpidity and low self esteem.
7. She must be humble and obey the man
In what ways?
It's 50/50. He obeys me and I obey him. smiley
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
If I am rich, I would be submissive and he will also be submissive.
A man can't make a home without a woman. cool
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
Good! A man shouldn't do the same. cool
10. She must always be cheerful.
Same as men.
If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

10 over 10 cool

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by DieeDiee: 3:48pm On Dec 05, 2014
princeozzilly:
very nice and candid view

Thank you but you forgot to grade me. Am good wife material or not?
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Tic4tac(m): 5:02pm On Dec 05, 2014
next
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by OCTAVO: 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2014
Ok.
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by jnrbayano(m): 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2014
A good actor can fake these qualities over a period of time to achieve a goldmine.

You can never get it all in marriage and that's why we need God's help.

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Anaskie(m): 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2014
Very, very correct.
Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by Ebukabauer(m): 5:03pm On Dec 05, 2014
undecidedThe way una dey move things for fp dey make me mad

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Re: How To Identify A Good Wife Material by NaijaOptimist: 5:04pm On Dec 05, 2014
kokan Aye

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