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sulmeza:
D harder the scientists research..d mre confused dey get......dia are mre unexplained happenins around d world than d explained ones.......God's
rili grt..Allahu Akbar

If u study science deeply enuf...u'l be pushed towards blivin in d existence of d Supreme being..Allah

davien:
If you cannot understand that an atheist does not believe in "god",then this conversation is over....
I can't keep running around in circles explaining atheism to you.

Naijasinglegirl:
I have been making most of my withdrawals across the counter since my ATM card got expired last month.

Anyway, I breezed into a random Diamond bank yesterday afternoon to withdraw money. Got the withdrawal slip and wrote out a whooping sum of two thousand, five hundred Naira. ( I had to spell it in full so the amount would seem huge)

My hands were stretched out nonchalantly to the female banker and when she raised her face to receive my slip, I recognise her as Seun, my room mate in my 200L.

'Damn!" I cursed. Not when I am appearing this shabby.

I should have added another zero to the N2500 if I knew I was going to bump into Seun. As girls who haven't seen each other in more than two years, there was bound to be some sort of comparison. I heaved a sigh when I remembered my account balance is just N22000.

"Lord have mercy! Naijasinglegirl? Is this yewwww?" she exclaimed, stretching out her short arms in an unsuccessful attempt to hug me over the counter.

She snatched my slip and gazed at me pitifully.

"Babezzz are things that bad? This one N2500 is bringing you to the bank. I could pay you from my pockets you know."

No thanks!

During our days in the university, Seun was a flippant part time student. We often teased her that her type may go as long as ten years without getting a job.
I even promised I was going to lend her my NYSC khaki to take Instagram photos in her backyard since part time students were not eligible to participate in NYSC orientation exercise.

Today, the wheels of fortune has spun in her favour.

I had to lie I actually came to the bank to withdraw 15K. I took the slip from her, tore it into two and wrote out another draft of 15K which she paid from my account.

On getting out, I had to board a vehicle to another branch of Diamond Bank to pay in the 12.5K balance sharp sharp! Zero tolerance for extravagance.

Last night, we had a lengthy conversation on phone.
She wanted to know why I was unemployed and I kept dismissing her with,

"Don't worry about me jare. I'm working on something."

"Something ke? Lie lie! You think this your good girl attitude would get you anywhere in this country? Don't you know I got my banking job through Chuwkudi, that my sugar daddy. If you didn't dull his friend your story would have been different today!"

Chuwkudi's friend was a stinking oil rich magnate in Portharcourt. I met him through Seun but there was a problem. He was married!

Seun is of the school of thought that there is absolutely nothing wrong in dating a married man so long as both parties share some fringe benefit in return.

Chuwkudi's friend was generous. He was ready to dash me one of Nigeria's oil well if only I was willingly to spread one of my legs to the South South and the other to the North East for him whenever he needed TLC.
Each time he came by my hostel, he would squeeze N10000 to N15000 into my palms for dinner.

During my first and unfortunately, my last tour to his company's lodge, he promised me an IT placement in Mobil. I was going to get an already furnished flat at his quarters after graduation. He was going to influence my NYSC posting to an oil company and of course, a well paying job upon completion of NYSC.
All these promises in exchange for my hymen...

"Sir, but I told you I cannot...I have not done this before..." I trailed off.

He tore off a page of his cheque book, scribbled something down and handed the paper over to me.

"This would be yours if you spend tonight with me. . . I would make you the envy of your friends." He swore.

Six hundred thousand Naira was written boldly on the cheque.

The highest amount of money that had ever been offered leisurely to someone in my family's genealogy. Honestly, It took a special level of grace to dropped the cheque on his table and walk out that door forever.

Did that singular 'goodgirl' attitude cost me my surest ticket to this good life I crave for? I hope not.

clevvermind:
These are ten things you should never do to your wife.

1. Never cheat on your wife.

2. Never deny your wife sex.

3. Never beat your wife. Whether slap or blows.

4. Never call your wife names such as witch, whor'e, b'itch, fool etc.

5. Never hate your wife. Only love your wife.

6. Never cease to buy your wife good gifts.

7. Never cease to give your wife money for market and her upkeep.

8. Never cease to pray for your wife.

9. Never cease to call your sweet names. Always tell her sweet words.

10. Never cease to defend and protect your wife.

So help us God.

blemon44:
Apostle Paul is a mare human

JESUS is our lord and savior so in him will i put all my trust

why will i obey a mare human,when my God Jesus christ has made it clear for me


As for me and my family we will serve the lord

SAMBARRY:
yeah right the same way Mary kay, Oprah Winfrey network etc were founded by men



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activefibre1:
what's this one saying...josh. Some comments are just so annoying....

crackhaus:
Definitely female, caught the sarcasm BTW.
The only reason females can't be physically abusive towards men is lesser strength.

But when it comes to other women and children they can prey on, you'll realize that the number of women who are physically abusive to their helps, maids, children, or other women whom they consider a class lower than they are, grossly outnumber abusive men.

A man would hardly treat a child that way no matter how angry or bitter he is.

jennykadry:
It's sad. Hitting children? hardlyyy...they are more good at their paedophilia job

cold:
For starters,your god did not create anything or you'll have to start by telling me who created your god. Secondly ,the world will never come to an end. You'll pass away & that's the end of the world for you. Same applies to everyone else.

Eyop:
Ishilove is this you

QMark:
God had enough clay to waste when He was moulding that part.

I just hope the brain has the same proportion of clay.

ifeness:
Christ is not a person but a collective positive awareness of everyone who have awoken from ignorance. Anyone with good intention is a Christ.

Fela was a Christ,so are positive minded people.

cold:
So who created god? Oh yeah let me guess,your god exists out of time. Thus, cannot be created. Yeah right,i've heard that one before..sigh

ifeness:
And is yet to be be found when we need a supernatural cure to the Ebola Virus

ifeness:
Yahweh of the bible is not God. God is not judgmental

ifeness:
God is not a person,just an attribute like Love,Joy,Peace. The name God has been hijacked by Religion to keep humans in bondage.

The Jews are still bombing Palestine today in the name of God. People do evil with the name #God

ifeness:
A God that condemmed people to death doesn't seem to have an attributes of a God at all. God is an expression of Love and unlimited compassion,doesn't look like the one that makes laws. Laws are barbaric. Real laws cannot be broken. Mention a law that can be broken and i will tell you it is not a law.

gatiano:
GOD IS ONE! But in your state, you will never understand what that means.

ifeness:
The bible God doesn't seem wise. A God who claimed women on menstrual cycle are dirty,showed lack of knowledge on something it "allegedly created". Modern society doesn't consider women on their period dirty or condemn them to the wilderness. We have acknowledged them unlike the bible Dog. We have also acknowledged gay people are normal and have rights.Nature Given Rights

beryl04:
In the Netherlands, it has been legal for a man to marry another man and for a woman to marry another woman since 1998,till now the Lord has not rained fire and brimstone on them!
A lot more places had legalised gay marriages and hell had not broken loose!

People like da vinci,Michaelangelo and even Galileo was homosexuals and their activities duly recorded in history ,yet almost 6 centuries has passed and God has not destroyed the world!!!
Haba people,think rationally,think outside d bible sometimes!!!

beryl04:
Morning people and happy sunday.

As the initiator of this thread I feel obliged to post it cos I went thru most of what the young man up there went through if not more.
And a lot more gay people are being damaged psychologically d world over through similar ways.

I'll leave u guys with this ---

Homosexual people are a minority by virtue of circumstances of their birth. it is now widely believed that instead of the genes that the hormones is responsible for homosexuality.
The persistence of epigenetic changes in a mother's womb has been touted as the most likely explanation for a child's sexuäl orientation. If you would read about the hormonal theory of sexuality, you would understand this better.

We should be reminded that white supremacists back in the day tried to use "scientific research" to "prove" that black people are inferior. Yes, there really was such a time when -- just as you are doing today -- people believed blacks were less human. And they had "science" to justify their belief. And might I add that the people who believed this nonsense were in the MAJORITY?

But it wasn't nonsense then, though. In the 19th century, the "science" of Phrenology was a very popular concept that was used to justify slavery to great effect. Based on this "evaluation", laws were made. Yes, barbaric laws that stripped black people of any rights at all, essentially reducing them to animals. Today, in the 21st century, we all laugh with scorn at such extreme ignorance, because we now know much better. The descendants of those that touted those lines of argument are constantly embarrassed because science has advanced so much to the level that such reasoning is now rightly considered ridiculous. The same will happen with homosexuality sooner or later, whether you like it or not. It's just inevitable.

I often imagine some trivia facts in the year, say, 2132 that goes thus:

- Did you know that in the year 2014, many people all over the world still believed homosexuality was abnormal?
- Did you know that up until the year 2016, homosexuality was a crime in places like Nigeria?

And our grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren will read these facts with so much horror and sadness and incredulity, and anger. They will not be able to fathom the magnitude of our ignorance - just as we, today, cannot fathom the ignorance of the 19th century slave owners. Most importantly, they will not be able to understand how we managed to boldly exhibit such inhumanity towards fellow humans. Needless to say, they would be greatly disappointed, and greatly ashamed.

We still have a chance to salvage the situation... a chance to be on the right side of history. Say NO to Nigeria's anti-gay law!

ifeness:
Who wrote that?

cold:
Like you didn't know?

ifeness:
Who wrote that?

cold:
I think this is a more succinct definition...