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A lot of them are lesbians.

Match of matches. Ameobi for Super Eagles.

Nice

If you want to cheat, make sure you have something in your brain, else, you have entered one chance.

jboy73:
Hehe.
Okey, mr lalasticlacla your copy paste story is too long.

My sister is smarter than any average Nigerian girl like the one u just copy paste about.

Zeus can't read it.

Wait, let me inform Shango, he loves stories like this.

Godfullsam:
because girls are plenty and cheap like wrapper .

I was watching a documentry on a woman shamed, who later killed herself for not being found at home when married. The film then goes on to accuse the man and asking if the groom himself was a virgin. Though he might not have been, but there is no proof. Women were used to check how sex was being performed in the society back then. The more the virgin females, the more the virgin males, the more the value of sex and the higher the value of women. Women nowadays have been turned to sexual objects. The checking of women's virginity is not about witch hunting women, it was about protecting them. The bible says, In the length of days is wisdom. But our generation is quick to dispose certain traditions, forgetting it was not passed into law overnight, it was passed for a reason.

Unibenstudent:
and the girls are what incarnation's?

They are also satan. Satan is often confused as lucifer (he is). Satan means someone who stands in your opposition, He (owner of playboy) stands against morality, He's the father of po.rnography.

The man in the middle, he's satan incarnate.

I will congratulate her

Silly president

Yes, if she takes it as her role to be a servant leader and not the feminist pastors (what accord does Christ have with lucifer?) littering the morally bankrupt west.
P.S. Maclatunji is afraid of skeptics and atheists.

If not for extreme corruption in the north. Fyn boy, proud of you.

Since when? Stale news.

Justfollowit:
I think the relationship between a husband and his wife should be like a partnership and yhe same a team work (leader and team members)

Not a master and slave relationship

You are right.

I also want to be a footballer

Some crimes don't make the tiniest of sense.

Good

Justfollowit:
I don't know

You are the man

You tell me

But I will not use something that petty to describe a man

His administrative prowess.

Justfollowit:
Why do you think what a man does in his own home defines whether he is a man or not?

What do you think defines him?

Justfollowit:
That is your problem, you can ADAPT

Or you could reach an agreement with your wife


Why would a woman hold off her career except if clearly she wanted to

Do you think it is that easy to go in and out of job market

What about HER career

How many family can conveniently afford a maid

The idea of second wife is common among Muslim families in UK

But still I don't fully support it

Because what if she does not want to share her husband

Can two walk together unless they agree? I think it is more about communication and appreciation. Maybe if women reference (are humble and obedient) to men that do the dirty jobs at home, maybe chores that look unmanly can even be a source of fun to the man, fun which he will live to relish for ages.

Justfollowit:
I think men have failed to adapt

Women ave taken more roles that were no there in those days

They have to work and yet they are also expected to do everything in the house

They may not earn more but they worked as hard all the same



To me I believe if the family setting can be changed to what we had in those days that is family members living all around you

Either in the same compound or on the same street

It would reduce the stress on the woman and she wouldn't need to ask her husband to mop up the living room because she is tired

Till then, The modern woman is doing more than her ancestors had to do

Therefore do not expect her to behave exactly like they had done

You are right. Maybe second wife, maid(might be daily, which comes in evenin, bringing family members to live with you or being full housewife till the children come of age can help cos some duties aren't befitting for the male ego(except you are the meek type) as quarrels (marriage breaking) will surely emanate.

Justfollowit:
I am so ashamed of myself right now

I don't remember

I remember that name though

When he saw her, he said, Look at this yellow lady. After that, what came to his mind was how he could acquire her for a wife. I think that is a lot of respect, considering the fact that women are seen for sexual pleasure these days, thanks to the west.

Justfollowit:
I never said they did not submit

You need to go out there and observe what is really happening and what happened

Because I have tales and I have witnessed some myself

Are you saying women are being oppressed by their spouses more than ever before?

Justfollowit:
I read Eegun Alare

I can't remember

Would you care to summarise or just point out something to jog my memory

Do you remember when Ije Laarinaka's father saw his son's wife? What went through his mind? What exactly was he seeking to do with his son's wife?

Justfollowit:
Yep

Well, at least to me

I would have loved to have that freedom of moving from one man's house to another

I reject it

Women have lost a lot of dignity. Do you agree? Did you read Eegun alare?

Justfollowit:
Even with polygamy

If they feared their husband so much

They wouldn't pour sand or salt in his soup #rivalry#



My greatgrandmother was an Ijebu woman

She married her husband, also an Ijebu

She was the 2nd wife

According to my mum, he married her because the first wife was mean

She was devil reicarnate

Sometimes when she is angry

She wouldn't serve him his food

Did it changed when he married my greatgrqndmother

It did but then sometimes she had to travel Oyo on foot to buy her goods

Who cooked for him while she was away

She died before the first wife

And even at that old age

It did not change anything- she will share her food when she feels like it

Most of these men get punished for their mistakes while they were young

The women that endured it made sure they paid them back when they were helpless



This is not just mere words o

You carry out the research yourself

I laugh when people say women are more insolent

No, they are not

They simply could't wait like their mothers did

Even most loving Mummy and Daddy relationships you see nowadays

Try to observe and live with them for a couple of days and see how the man is being treated

You go fear

I must say your mind games was working(not now) , because you painted a side of the story that nollywood have left behind or try not to portray with ancient times or we young generation think they were perfect, but we can't remove the fact that submission was not choice but necessity. They show this by kneeling down to serve food and using captivating words like 'olowo orimi' (my owner) We just can't ignore the thrills. Bye to the good times of yesteryears.

flinton:
The Rabbit is hidden in the Left Tusk of the Elephant

Its at the cheek of the lion

Justfollowit:
You need to know your history

I won't be the one to narrate it to you

Then it is right to say the coming of the west is of disadvantage to women, even considering the huge worth placed on their body, all of which has been lost.