This one weak me

u have been seeing the signs b4 u marry him but u ignored it, even if he begged heaven and earth, he will still cheat again, pray that God will take control of his heart........and why the hell will u tear someone's cloth and didn't wait to tear ur husbands' cloth at home.......Find a way of doing things better than this next tym

some people won't have sense until karma give them one.

Yes.......she's right, not everybody has what it takes to stay married

Alright, partners must b able to protect each other

I hear o, d man wey Neva marry u

RIP. These people have family na, wickedness

kitchen and toilet together? wa..... uh

Adorbs:
They want you to be yourself.
One of the biggest mistake you can make is to change yourself just to please a guy.
Right from the onset of the relationship you were a square peg trying to fit into his round hole.
Nothing attracts a guy more than a lady who is confident in herself and needs no validation from anyone.
Mind you there's nothing wrong in wanting to please your man, but the moment you start changing your identity, you lose yourself in him and that's not healthy.

Yes you shouldnt have done it with him, but dust yourself and move on or else you might develop low self esteem soon with the way things are going because i read you asked him to pick between you and the girl when you could have just broken up with him.

it's very hard for me to let go, I mean very very hard, d thought of it sef is killing me

Chuksdede:
Trust me sis the dude is nt worth d panicking jst move on.... A beta man will come ur way

tanks

I am so sad right now, I am thinking of getting out of d relationship, I and my bf started dating in January, he was in camp wen I said yes to him and after d camp, he was posted to his place of primary assignment, wen he came back home for Easter, I caught him cheating on me with another girl on his watsap and I also saw how he pic mix d girls' and himself on his fone and how he told his friend dat he is dating d girl and sent d girls' picture to his friend and not even mentioning me at all, I confronted him with d pictures which he denied saying she is his cousin, I finally told him I saw his chat on watsap and he started begging me and I forgave him, I told him to either choose me or d girl, he said he will choose me over her 10times dat he is just playing with her and nothing more is happening between them.
He came to visit me in schl and d girls' call entered wen I was with his fone, initially I Neva thought of going through his fone, I decided to check his fone wen he went to bath, he has deleted all his watsap chats and other social network chats leaving only 2 peoples' chat on his watsap and dis really got me thinking, I decided to check his call log and I found out dat he calls d girl very well and d girl calls him too, in fact only my name and her name appeared on his call log and even her name appeared more frequently than my own, I am so sure he is still dating dat girl, he met me b4 d girl, I am wondering wat he saw in d girl dat I don't have, I am thinking of just texting him tomorrow after he is gone dat I am no more interested again, I am hurting, I can't sleep, dis is a guy I don't ask for money from him, I can calculate how much he has spent on me since we have started d relationship which is not up to 3k, he even met me as a virgin sef, though make up is not really my tin but I had to start applying it because he loves it, I don't wear trousers b4,I started wearing it because of him, wat does he really want and I knw I don't have a bad character. wat should I do, he is not even proud of me. I am so sad right now, I want to b myself again and want to b loved d way I am, I am thinking of telling him to just stick with d girl cos I know wit tym, I will b OK.

Nma27:
This op is an upcoming bastard! Many guys do not deserve loyalty. Op bet me eh d lady u wanna dump that your gf for will render u useless.. Just watch out

yes, some guys don't deserve loyal ladies, let him leave her now, another guy who knows her worth will come around, karma still dey for gym dey exercise

guy, u wicked o, dis girl loved u with everything and now u want to leave her, karma will fall on u like an iroko tree if u leave her, who can person trust in dis world sef ?

Just try ur best and leave d rest, if she wants to go, she will go even if u buy her d whole world, also b ursef and don't go out of ur means to impress any lady, some ladies ain't worth keeping

The law

lol, lefulefu don't want to get married because to him, no girl can ever b faithful to only one man

He is not d poorest but d richest. He is rich in giving, if u have money but can't give to d poor, u ar also poor.

y don't u face ur promiscuous husband instead of pouring acids around, se na d girl come meet ur husband no, even if she did, if ur husband said he no do nko? orisirisi

lovely but my heart did not melt

Don't generalize, not all girls, d type of places u go determines the type of girls u come across.

long distance relationship is not advisable at all, it's better u people are together.

Flakosixfive:
Y'all can see how thankless the task of raising female children is. After all the trouble you take to give them a swell upbringing, what do you get in return? Nothing. Nothing at all!

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what do u mean by female children? some said they will marry a person like their father and some said no, it depends on d way they were treated when growing up, u can't expect d person u didn't treat right to treat u right in d end so it is applicable to both sex not only female children, moreover if u do a thankless job, u will get a thankless reward.

And to d question, yes and no, he has some good qualities and has some bad qualities also, but all in all, he doesnt c d task of raising up famale children as thankless task, he takes good care of all of us as one and doesn't segregate

firstking01:
You sound like you are still new in the game sha.

who is new? kikikikikiki

firstking01:
Relationship these days is just a game....if you ain't ready to play it don't stake a dime cos NO girl, i repeat, NO girl can be 100% faithful to you.

lol, d truth is GUYS DONT APPRECIATE A LOYAL BABE, all dis guys ar cheats but want ladies to b faithful to them, u take a person dat loves u truly for granted, u don't give her attention and weneva she sees a dude dat makes her happy, u will com to nairaand ranting no girl can b totally faithful to u,just ask ursef ar u totally faithful to her too? u take a girl dat gives u gud advice,doesnt disturb u for financial help, ask u about ur future as being desperate, stop saying no girl can b totally faithful to u, there ar still good girls out there, u just av to appreciate one wen u c her

Girls always stay faithful in ur relationship, u ar not doing ursef any good by having multiple partners, it doesn't pay at d end, is it because of money, guys owe u nothing, work and make ur money rather Dan depending on guys for financial help, if he chose to help u fyn but guys owe u nothing, but if u c a guy dat doest appreciate ur faithfulness take a walk and Neva look back, some guys ar not worth ur tears and headache

some guys cannot just keep to a girl, my boyfriend claim he loves me but has another girl wea he is currently serving, he calls just once in a day, we hardly chat these days, I think if I mean anything to him, he will treat me better than dis, guys don't appreciate loyal ladies, let him go now, by the way he has his own girlfriend, u can't force a man to luv u, he knws wea his heart is, LET HIM GO.

His nephew is also a lecturer in my schl AAUA, he is a professor in d area of transport geography, he is currently lecturing us on research methodology in 300l, D man knws how to lecture in way u will perfectly understand, I think dis lecturing job runs in their family

I don't think u av kids around, do u live alone?

c their face o, ladies covering face b4 ar now flower girls

I am a 300l student of aaua, I am in geography and planning science department, I need information about GIS department in OAU, I want to confirm whether they accept SIWES students in this department because am planning on going there for my SIWES. Any useful information?

@OP, for that house to have that X mark it shows the building must had violated the tow planning code which is applicable to that area. It could have violated the zoning, setback, orientation code, it could had been built on a piece of land which isn't suitable or meant for the purpose it was for, it could had been that the owner had not gotten a start work notice and hurriedly rushed to start erecting a structure, it could had been a new road, power line, pipeline or government building is to be sited there and hence a demolition notice.
However, go to the local town planning authority in your area and seek clarification on that issue.
Thanks.

TPL Mike.[/quote] u've said it all, or d op should tell his brother to look for another house

ISIS and hypocrisy ar 5$6