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Celebrities / Davido’s Ex-girlfriend ,chioma Chills In London As He Vacations In Jamaica by misspetite(f): 7:05pm On Jan 15, 2019
The first photos of Davido’s girlfriend ,Chioma have surfaced since she deleted her Instagram account .

Davido and Chioma’s relationship allegedly hit the rocks ,prompting her to get off Instagram by deleting her account .


Though Davido claimed she was taking a break to concentrate on her cooking ,rumourmongers claim infidelity on his part played a huge part in their separation .


The couple have been apart since his December 27th show in lagos .

They did not celebrate Christmas nor the New Year together .


And now,Davido is in Jamaica on vacation with his friends while photos posted on social media yesterday ,show Chioma is in London .
http://misspetitenaijablog.com/2019/01/15/davidos-girlfriend-chioma-chills-in-london-as-he-vacations-in-jamaica/

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Celebrities / Photos: Cossy Ojiakor beaten Up by Abusive Neighbour by misspetite(f): 7:04am On Jun 21, 2018
[img][/img]Nollywood actress,Cossy Ojiakor revealed she was beaten up by her abusive neighbor,Mr Martin.She revealed she was trying to intervene while he beat up his wife when he pounced on her . She took to Instagram to call him out writing

This is Mr Matin Obinka Maruche, he deals on Italian mens wares and also own the plaza where a bank and also @kaffydance studio somewhere in badore, Ajah. Martin is an uneducated big boy from Agulu Uzoigbo in Anambra state. He maybe an ideal husband material hahahhaha, tall dark and handsome he also owns assorted property in Lagos. and unfortunately is also my neighbor. He is so fond of beating up his wife at anytime it please him.


I also heard crazy stories from his various house girls that u won’t believe, you will just wonder why!!?… His wife is a drop dead gorgeous lady. Her hips will make most woman go green with envy. I remember the night he pushed her down the stairs. Well…. Tonight another episode..he was beating her on the streets. The child was begging him to stop and he hit the little girl with his belt..I stupidly went to intervene and he used belt to wipe me so hard..see the picture broken finger, torn leg, elbow, boobs sef not spared.



This guy wicked ooo…hmmm my dear i no no who send me, I for jejele stay put in my house. Anyway for The wounds he gave me I present to you Mr Martin Obinka Maruche, a Child and wife beater…. Am wondering if I should go to police or just take care of my wound.


Up till now i can still hear the wife scream for help. Guess by tomorrow she will use foundation and eyeglass to cover the wounds he is inflicting on her right now. Sometimes its better to be single or be a baby mama than end up with men that can destroy you . Mr Matin Maruche phone number +2348034017578 #notime #fordrama #foreversingle. #babymama mode activated.
http://misspetitenaijablog.com/2018/06/21/photos-cossy-ojiakor-beaten-and-injured-by-abusive-neighbour/

Celebrities / Bobrisky And Jacob-how Fame ,MC Galaxy Tore Nigeria's Most Hilarious Duo Apart by misspetite(f): 7:58am On Dec 05, 2017
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It's no news that Bobrisky and his famous gate-man,Jacob have fallen out. And Bobrisky was quick to cry foul,alleging his once very loyal Jacob conned him of N60K after lying about his father's health.

Honestly, I saw this coming from a mile away.Not Jacob allegedly swindling his master of cash,but Jacob suddenly wanting MORE.


I'm not sure Bobriky's initial intented to make Jacob famous.It all started out as a strategy to brag ''Hey guys, I have a gateman at my beck and call''.

However, Jacob's infectious nature wasn't hard to miss and people fell inlove with his character and once Bobrisky noticed that, he started to milk this unlikely new star who is loved by many,his HATERS included .

Recently, Bobrisky decided to spice up his paid video promotions by including Jacob who ended up taking the shine.Of course, Bobrisky was paid to dance to those tracks.

Deep down,Jacob may not have been comfortable with his boss's personal choices but had no choice but to play along.

MC Galaxy,inspired by Jacob , recorded a track called ''Jacorb Dance'' which many agree is a hit.He even posed with Jacob and vowed to help him. Jacob is featured in the video too.
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There lies BOBRISKY's problem.Bobrisky loves being the center of attention and this video did not include him.



In Bobrisky's rants, he kept emphasizing about someone promising to give Jacob N2million...
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Guess who did? MC Galaxy
He wrote yesterday ...
JACOB IS NO MORE A GATE MAN �
So guys I came back from Miami 2 days ago and people told me JACOB can't even work on the road again lol ,, So I think its time to Bless him , now I have a budget of 2million naira for Jacob �. So I need you guys to advice me on what to do for him with 2million naira
BEST ADVICE WINS
Isn't it coincidental that Bobrisky suddenly raised alarm about N60k after this post ?It's obvious Jacob decided to leave Bobrisky ,not the other way round .

In an effort at damage control,Bobrisky made it clear ,Jacob knows nothing personal about him..Just incase Jacob starts to spill the beans...

Well,while Jacob has Bobrisky to thank for making him an overnight internet sensation,Bobrisky should realize, Jacob has tasted fame and we all know it's intoxicating ....
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With Jacob now under MC Galaxy's wings,let's hopethe musician keeps to his words and has a meaningful impact in his life .

As he said ,Jacob is nomore a gateman .I agree. .m
And oh,Bobrisky has already replaced Jacob with a new gateman,Titus.. (who was introduced to Bobrisky by Jacob).He says we should watch out for him in 3months ..

We are watching!!
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/12/bobrisky-and-jacob-how-fame-mc-galaxy.html?m=1
Celebrities / MPN Exclusive :former Bffs Banky W And Teebillz Have Fallen Out by misspetite(f): 10:53am On Nov 30, 2017
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Banky W and Teebillz have fallen out.Miss Petite Nigeria Blog has learnt.MPN went digging and learnt TeeBillz was absent at Banky W's wedding in Nigeria and South Africa ,while his wife, Tiwa Savage attended the Lagos wedding and sent out congratulatory messages on their white wedding.

If you recall, Banky W and Billz were so close that he was not only his best man, but intervened during Teebillz and Tiwa Savage's public marital breakdown in April 2016,
Banky W was the first to publicly beg TeeBillz not to commit suicide after his bizarre rants on Instagram.He also rescued him as he attempted to jump over Ikoyi -Lekki link bridge.
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After that,Banky W accommodated Tee Billz until reports claimed Banky's mum asked her son to throw Billz out after watching Tiwa Savage's tell-all interview .
Fastforward to July that same year,When asked to comment on their relationship,Banky W said
I am not going to change my stance on Tiwa and Teejay. I will say that I love both of them dearly and as a friend all I am trying to do is be there for them, trying to help them work through the issues that they have. I wish them all the best,” he declared

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Now, TeeBillz who didn't attend Banky's wedding, didn't even congratulate him on socialmedia . Lets hope they rekindle their friendship in the nearest future.
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/11/mpn-exclusive-former-bffs-banky-w-and.html
Celebrities / Post Your MOBO Award And Make Noise As You Always Do-wizkid's Fans Troll Davido by misspetite(f): 10:19am On Nov 30, 2017
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Following Davido's Best African Act win at the MOBO Awards last night,many noticed unlike him,he didn't post or mention the award on his official instagram page.Instead,he just posted a photo of his look to the award early this morning.

However, Wizkid fans believe he refused to brag about it as he did when he won the MTV EMAs best Worldwide Act, because Wizkid won the more superior category of Best International Act .

Davido has since nicknamed himself,World's Best .
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http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/11/post-your-mobo-award-and-make-noise-as.html
Celebrities / Dangote Stood Up To Greet Me-foluke Daramola by misspetite(f): 9:10am On Sep 27, 2017
Foluke Daramola has gushed over her encounter with Africa's richest man,Aliko Dangote,saying he stood up to greet her.The meeting happened at the party hosted by Barrister Festus Keyamo to celebrate his newest attainment as a SAN in Nigeria.
She wrote

" I was standing when l was introduced to Dangote by Keyamo, but to my surprise, he stood up to greet me. The wealthiest human being on the continent of Africa stood up to greet me. What a rare humility! What an uncommon virtue from the golden man of Africa ...He was the richest among us, but sat in our midst and interacted with us like the poorest..." - Foluke Daramola Salako on the occasion of the reception party, hosted by Barrister Festus Keyamo to celebrate his newest attainment as a SAN in Nigeria on Sunday, September 24, 2017.

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/09/dangote-stood-up-to-greet-me-foluke.html

Celebrities / I Paved The Way For African Artistes In London - Mr. Eazi by misspetite(f): 10:06am On Sep 23, 2017
In a teaser of an interview on MTV Base,Mr Eazi has credited himself with paving the way for African artists in London.He said
I felt like ever since I came and did quite a lot in London, a lot of African artists have started coming to London.It's like London is the Afrobeat 101.
So I just feel like anyone can come and do a concert and it's shown I'm happy and a lot of artists have been able to come and do concerts but I personally feel like Afrobeats is what it is right now,it's a wave""
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/09/i-paved-way-for-african-artistes-in.html#more

Celebrities / Ini Edo Finally Reveals The Man She's In Love With by misspetite(f): 1:05pm On Aug 18, 2017
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Ini Edo may be tight-lipped about her love life but she just let us in on the identity of her crush .The movie star dropped a comment under Taraji P Henson's photo with Terrence Howard .She dropped the love and eye emojis and of course wrote her crush Terrence's name .

So while her male fans are crushing on her, she is crushing on someone else..Who says her dream can't come true.He is single.

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http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/08/ini-edo-finally-reveals-man-shes-in.html
Romance / Blogger's Diary -trapped With An Emotional Abuser-tonto Dikeh , Churchill Case by misspetite(f): 4:00pm On Jul 04, 2017
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A gathering of whores,karma,bleached queens,slaymamas.That is what women who scream domestic violence are tagged in NIGERIA.
What did you do wrong?You obviously did something to make him react.Do you dress well? Smell nice? Cook different dishes, give him mind blowing sex? Submissive? Didn't lose weight after the baby or babies? Don't fix your hair?Yes..Did you? Did you? Did you?


I have read with dismay how fellow women chastise others who have broken free or tried to break free from the shackles of domestic violence and emotional abuse.Some of these women type their hateful comments with broken fingers ,broken hearts shattered by years of abuse .There is hope for you sis!

Tonto Dikeh,Mercy Aigbe are the poster children for the fight against domestic violence.They have been at the receiving end .GO BACK TO YOUR HUSBAND OH! FIX YOUR HOME! WATCH WARROOM! FAST AND PRAY FOR HIM! These and more are the things they are told .

Their estranged husbands,get off rather easily .

I have nothing against those women and female celebrities who decide to stay quiet despite being beaten black and blue by men they claimed they love.We all handle it differently.


If nursing your broken bones in silence makes you feel better, hell yeah.If screaming out from a rooftop is therapeutic, please do.If you'd rather write a book like Toke Makinwa which was a dope idea,make that money sis!

I have been a victim of domestic violence ,the wounds were skin deep but my heart wasn't damaged because I wasn't emotionally abused by this man.It was purely physical. So I left that relationship with my sanity.

But the worst form of abusers are those who are emotionally abusive .When combined with physical abuse,it becomes a lethal combination which would drive any woman insane ,I mean medically insane.

EMOTIONAL ABUSERS.Surprisingly, I feel Mercy Aigbe's husband though ,I find his denials of physically abusing her comically outrageous, I think he is the milder type of emotional abuser.

He speaks out,he contradicts himself,he begs,he denies.We know how he feels. He doesn't take time to calculate his words, he acts on impulse..Which leads me to believe he is indeed physically abusive ,but emotionally , I don't think so.

But, regarding Tonto Dikeh's estranged or ex-husband, oh, so sleek.Packaged abuser .An abuser with swag, the perfect image ,calculator .He dissects every word,knows when to strike, responds with utter calm..
Probably reads self-help books like 48 laws of power .He may not be much of a physical abuser, but his actions would drive any sane woman crazy.

I have seen both worlds .I have been with an emotional abuser. And after several attempts to break free, I can authoritatively say I know how their minds work.

That was the only way I could mentally break free and seize back that power .


Emotional abuse is usually meted out by men who are low in IQ,intimidated by dating or getting married to women who are above them.These women are usually beautiful by society's standards.They have everything going for them.

But how do these women get emotionally abused?
It''s simple! They don't see it coming!!!! Emotionally abusive men start off by worshiping the ground you walk on.They are in awe of you, they make it clear they are there to worship you., Being a beautiful woman,with so many men at your beck and call,this one stands out.He is usually not the richest,or the most handsome,heck no. He is that man who makes people say ''what does she see in him"?

But she sees what others don't see.She sees a man madly inlove with her, in a different way.A man finally befitting of her love .She is taken in by his confidence.He is not all that,but he is confident enough to walk up to me and offer me nothing but love.

So,she falls in love but trust me,it is not instant, it takes a while,she lets her guards down.

Because this man is usually not the kind of man people think is befitting of her status,she starts to create an image of him,an image she wants the world to see.

She moulds a new identity for him,he becomes her project, her perfect man who needs a little touch ups.She starts to lie to her friends, the public, give them a perception of this man,her man, the man who loves her.She makes him larger than life, she gives him confidence, she boosts his ego.


It pays off . They start to respect this man who finally got her heart. The world starts to hail him.The man who tamed her .He sees the looks of admiration, the whispers, the stares from other women who now want this man who they think is perfect.


Unknown to her,men already have egos,any attempt to boost it further is the beginning of your nightmare.

Then he wakes up one day and takes a look in the mirror, he is a different being,he is that man who bagged the woman most men desire.He is the MAN. He sees himself differently. At that point, it hits him,if I could get her,I could get anyone else.I'm that cool.


But she is too blind and consumed in her efforts to build this man,she starts to lose herself,her identity and she doesn't realize it.She is so invested in making this man who loves her perfect.She is falling inlove with this man she customized for herself .

He is hers,she builds her world around him.


She doesn't notice, but he has stopped trying .He stopped trying long ago. He now sees her differently, she has been demystified .She probably changed for him,changed her attitude,changed her lifestyle,and everything which attracted him in the first place.

Then its time for the snake to sting, so he gives her her first test. He hurts her .She is shocked by the hurt.She can't believe he would do this to her.He is human afterall,he has flaws. In other cases,she would leave,slam the door and never return.But this man is her project, she has invested time in creating this man for her,so she forgives him.

Oh,she let that go easily? Then he hurts her the second time, usually it's deeper than the first.He begs for forgiveness once again,he is her pet project,she can't let him go now.She probably is pregnant or has a child already.Emotional abusers are so keen on getting their victims pregnant so soon.That way, it is harder for her to walk away .FACT!


She starts to contemplate leaving him,but how does she do that,when she has screamed his name from the rooftops? How does she fail at this? How does she go back and tell the world, that man who I claimed was perfect ,was created by me.How do they know I corrected his English,I changed his style,I upgraded him?


She can't let go,just yet and the abuse gets deeper,he starts acting up,probably cheating with those poor girls who think he is all that, they say,if he could get her to love him,he is worth it.I am privileged to be sleeping with the same man she is sleeping with . This emotional abuser starts to brag.He can't believe this lady who was larger than life has been reduced to a crying puddle.She loves him,he cheats,she stays, he walks out on her,she stays.He hits her, breaks her dowm with his words ,she starts to believe she is really worthless .She believes him.His oversized ego is beyond control.

She doesn't realize it's time to let go.Drag the rug off his feet.No,she continues to sink deep. Frustrated, a mess.She must have done something wrong.He used to be worship the ground she walked on.Maybe she didn't love him enough,maybe he is intimidated by her success . She goes back to her project, consumed with fixing it ,what went wrong,I just have used the wrong screw some where.

As she keeps herself busy with trying to make him perfect again, he is on to the next, the thrill is gone.He stopped putting in effort but she didn't notice .

He has her on lock down. She has alienated herself from friends and family,her dreams on hold .She tries to leave, yes she tries, but he never lets her go.He wants her there,not because he loves her, but she is a trophy. A reminder of his conquest, a testament to his achievement ,his ego .

He begs and pleads like he is obsessed, he tells you he can't live without you .Then you go back and its back to the same circle .
He keeps hurting her and keeps driving her to the edge,she is crazy.She is trapped,irrational.She is genuinely going insane.

But like all strong women,someday,some how,she breaks free, even Karrueche tagged weak broke free from Chis Brown's emotional abuse...

So you do it too .She can't do it in silence,she needs to rant .If she doesn't ,people would say, oh he did this for you and you left? You are a LovePeddler,you can''t keep a man, you are not submissive. How do they know she made him so perfect .No one would believe her if she says she lied .The more she talks,the crazier she sounds .He is in perfect control.He knows her.He is a master controller. She has created this image for him,he can't taint it.He keeps silent,enjoying the show.


He has another victim in line, some poor girl who didn't know him when he was broke,probably without style,she didn't know his wife lied about his networth, used her connections to give him respect,she didn't know,he was a churchrat ,so she falls hard for this image and fantasy created by another woman.She treats him like a king he has been transformed into ..

It is not her fault,someday she would learn just like you did ..Never give a crown to a man who wasn't born a king!!!


Dedicated to all the strong women out (mistaken for whores) there trying to leave or have left abusive relationships.

XOXO
Emeh Achanga


http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/07/bloggers-diary-trapped-with-emotional.html

Romance / Blogger's Diary -trapped With An Emotional Abuser-tonto Dikeh , Churchill Case by misspetite(f): 3:37pm On Jul 04, 2017
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A gathering of whores,karma,bleached queens,slaymamas.That is what women who scream domestic violence are tagged in NIGERIA.
What did you do wrong?You obviously did something to make him react.Do you dress well? Smell nice? Cook different dishes, give him mind blowing sex? Submissive? Didn't lose weight after the baby or babies? Don't fix your hair?Yes..Did you? Did you? Did you?


I have read with dismay how fellow women chastise others who have broken free or tried to break free from the shackles of domestic violence and emotional abuse.Some of these women type their hateful comments with broken fingers ,broken hearts shattered by years of abuse .There is hope for you sis!

Tonto Dikeh,Mercy Aigbe are the poster children for the fight against domestic violence.They have been at the receiving end .GO BACK TO YOUR HUSBAND OH! FIX YOUR HOME! WATCH WARROOM! FAST AND PRAY FOR HIM! These and more are the things they are told .

Their estranged husbands,get off rather easily .

I have nothing against those women and female celebrities who decide to stay quiet despite being beaten black and blue by men they claimed they love.We all handle it differently.


If nursing your broken bones in silence makes you feel better, hell yeah.If screaming out from a rooftop is therapeutic, please do.If you'd rather write a book like Toke Makinwa which was a dope idea,make that money sis!

I have been a victim of domestic violence ,the wounds were skin deep but my heart wasn't damaged because I wasn't emotionally abused by this man.It was purely physical. So I left that relationship with my sanity.

But the worst form of abusers are those who are emotionally abusive .When combined with physical abuse,it becomes a lethal combination which would drive any woman insane ,I mean medically insane.

EMOTIONAL ABUSERS.Surprisingly, I feel Mercy Aigbe's husband though ,I find his denials of physically abusing her comically outrageous, I think he is the milder type of emotional abuser.

He speaks out,he contradicts himself,he begs,he denies.We know how he feels. He doesn't take time to calculate his words, he acts on impulse..Which leads me to believe he is indeed physically abusive ,but emotionally , I don't think so.

But, regarding Tonto Dikeh's estranged or ex-husband, oh, so sleek.Packaged abuser .An abuser with swag, the perfect image ,calculator .He dissects every word,knows when to strike, responds with utter calm..
Probably reads self-help books like 48 laws of power .He may not be much of a physical abuser, but his actions would drive any sane woman crazy.

I have seen both worlds .I have been with an emotional abuser. And after several attempts to break free, I can authoritatively say I know how their minds work.

That was the only way I could mentally break free and seize back that power .


Emotional abuse is usually meted out by men who are low in IQ,intimidated by dating or getting married to women who are above them.These women are usually beautiful by society's standards.They have everything going for them.

But how do these women get emotionally abused?
It''s simple! They don't see it coming!!!! Emotionally abusive men start off by worshiping the ground you walk on.They are in awe of you, they make it clear they are there to worship you., Being a beautiful woman,with so many men at your beck and call,this one stands out.He is usually not the richest,or the most handsome,heck no. He is that man who makes people say ''what does she see in him"?

But she sees what others don't see.She sees a man madly inlove with her, in a different way.A man finally befitting of her love .She is taken in by his confidence.He is not all that,but he is confident enough to walk up to me and offer me nothing but love.

So,she falls in love but trust me,it is not instant, it takes a while,she lets her guards down.

Because this man is usually not the kind of man people think is befitting of her status,she starts to create an image of him,an image she wants the world to see.

She moulds a new identity for him,he becomes her project, her perfect man who needs a little touch ups.She starts to lie to her friends, the public, give them a perception of this man,her man, the man who loves her.She makes him larger than life, she gives him confidence, she boosts his ego.


It pays off . They start to respect this man who finally got her heart. The world starts to hail him.The man who tamed her .He sees the looks of admiration, the whispers, the stares from other women who now want this man who they think is perfect.


Unknown to her,men already have egos,any attempt to boost it further is the beginning of your nightmare.

Then he wakes up one day and takes a look in the mirror, he is a different being,he is that man who bagged the woman most men desire.He is the MAN. He sees himself differently. At that point, it hits him,if I could get her,I could get anyone else.I'm that cool.


But she is too blind and consumed in her efforts to build this man,she starts to lose herself,her identity and she doesn't realize it.She is so invested in making this man who loves her perfect.She is falling inlove with this man she customized for herself .

He is hers,she builds her world around him.


She doesn't notice, but he has stopped trying .He stopped trying long ago. He now sees her differently, she has been demystified .She probably changed for him,changed her attitude,changed her lifestyle,and everything which attracted him in the first place.

Then its time for the snake to sting, so he gives her her first test. He hurts her .She is shocked by the hurt.She can't believe he would do this to her.He is human afterall,he has flaws. In other cases,she would leave,slam the door and never return.But this man is her project, she has invested time in creating this man for her,so she forgives him.

Oh,she let that go easily? Then he hurts her the second time, usually it's deeper than the first.He begs for forgiveness once again,he is her pet project,she can't let him go now.She probably is pregnant or has a child already.Emotional abusers are so keen on getting their victims pregnant so soon.That way, it is harder for her to walk away .FACT!


She starts to contemplate leaving him,but how does she do that,when she has screamed his name from the rooftops? How does she fail at this? How does she go back and tell the world, that man who I claimed was perfect ,was created by me.How do they know I corrected his English,I changed his style,I upgraded him?


She can't let go,just yet and the abuse gets deeper,he starts acting up,probably cheating with those poor girls who think he is all that, they say,if he could get her to love him,he is worth it.I am privileged to be sleeping with the same man she is sleeping with . This emotional abuser starts to brag.He can't believe this lady who was larger than life has been reduced to a crying puddle.She loves him,he cheats,she stays, he walks out on her,she stays.He hits her, breaks her dowm with his words ,she starts to believe she is really worthless .She believes him.His oversized ego is beyond control.

She doesn't realize it's time to let go.Drag the rug off his feet.No,she continues to sink deep. Frustrated, a mess.She must have done something wrong.He used to be worship the ground she walked on.Maybe she didn't love him enough,maybe he is intimidated by her success . She goes back to her project, consumed with fixing it ,what went wrong,I just have used the wrong screw some where.

As she keeps herself busy with trying to make him perfect again, he is on to the next, the thrill is gone.He stopped putting in effort but she didn't notice .

He has her on lock down. She has alienated herself from friends and family,her dreams on hold .She tries to leave, yes she tries, but he never lets her go.He wants her there,not because he loves her, but she is a trophy. A reminder of his conquest, a testament to his achievement ,his ego .

He begs and pleads like he is obsessed, he tells you he can't live without you .Then you go back and its back to the same circle .
He keeps hurting her and keeps driving her to the edge,she is crazy.She is trapped,irrational.She is genuinely going insane.

But like all strong women,someday,some how,she breaks free, even Karrueche tagged weak broke free from Chis Brown's emotional abuse...

So you do it too .She can't do it in silence,she needs to rant .If she doesn't ,people would say, oh he did this for you and you left? You are a LovePeddler,you can''t keep a man, you are not submissive. How do they know she made him so perfect .No one would believe her if she says she lied .The more she talks,the crazier she sounds .He is in perfect control.He knows her.He is a master controller. She has created this image for him,he can't taint it.He keeps silent,enjoying the show.


He has another victim in line, some poor girl who didn't know him when he was broke,probably without style,she didn't know his wife lied about his networth, used her connections to give him respect,she didn't know,he was a churchrat ,so she falls hard for this image and fantasy created by another woman.She treats him like a king he has been transformed into ..

It is not her fault,someday she would learn just like you did ..Never give a crown to a man who wasn't born a king!!!


Dedicated to all the strong women out (mistaken for whores) there trying to leave or have left abusive relationships.

XOXO
Emeh Achanga


http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2017/07/bloggers-diary-trapped-with-emotional.html

Celebrities / Miss Petite Nigeria Exclusive-oap Freeze Fired From Cool Fm by misspetite(f): 9:46am On Aug 27, 2016
Popular on air personality with Freeze has been fired by Cool Fm.A source told Miss petite Nigeria , this was a result of his last controversial post where he shared a photo cuddling ace comedian Basketmouth's wife..
According to the reliable source, Basketmouth was instrumental to his sack and at the moment, Freeze is begging his employers..
He has since deleted the post about Basketmouth's wife but apparently, the damage had been done..
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/08/miss-petite-nigeria-exclusive-oap.html

Politics / Seven Months After 7 DSS Officers Went Missing In Lagos-heartbroken Brother by misspetite(f): 8:40pm On Apr 14, 2016
Seven months of pains, tears and sorrows, as the Federal Government and DSS are still mute on the where about of seven Department of State Security (DSS) officers that went missing 7 months ago at the Ikorodu area of Lagos.
The families have petitioned President Muhammadu Buhari to open a thorough investigation and unfold the mystery behind their disappearance. But it is sad, that up till now nothing has been done or said by the Federal government or DSS on their where about.
Let Nigerians ask why the DSS should keep silent on the sudden disappearance of their gallant officers who were on national assignment and refuse to even ask how their families have been faring! The Government or the DSS have not for one day, asked after their wives and kids or how they are coping. What a great country that one will put his or her life down for?.
Also petitioned in the letter titled: “A plea for thorough investigation into the case of seven missing DSS operatives with Lagos Command,” were the Senate, the Inspector General of the Police (IGP) ,Solomon Arase and the Attorney -General of the Federation (AGF), Abubakar Malami.

Note:
My brother is the fair guy (right) in the photo attached. He was the one that lead the mission to rescue the kidnapped wife of Deputy MD Sun Newspaper on the 15th of September 2015. Since then till now, no word or any form of contact from the 7 of them till today, while the woman was released two days later by the kidnappers. His name is Uzoh Nwafor, he is my blood brother, with a young wife and two little kids. Thanks

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/04/seven-months-after-7-dss-officers-went.html#more

Celebrities / (photos)clarion Chukwurah Steps Out With Hubby As She's Honoured In New York by misspetite(f): 9:34pm On Mar 29, 2016
Yesterday, newly married veteran Nollywood actress,Clarion Chukwurah won the Danny Glover "Power of Dream ' Humanitarian Award .The award took place in the Rotunda, African Union Building in New York.She was accompanied by her hubby.
Clarion is the mother of famous Nigerian video director, Clarence Peters whose dad is the legendary Sir, Shina Peters.
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/clarion-chukwurah-steps-out-with-new.html

Celebrities / Dencia Dazzles As She Celebrates Birthday In Paris by misspetite(f): 9:51pm On Mar 27, 2016
The pop singer and Whitenicious boss turned a year older yesterday ,March 26th ..She celebrated in Paris...Beautiful lady!
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/dencia-dazzles-as-she-celebrates.html#more

Celebrities / Who Did This To Banky W...... by misspetite(f): 9:17pm On Mar 27, 2016
This is so not fair ...A dating site is using the Nigerian RnB star's photo to promote their ads..Just saw it on my timeline now...Meanwhile , Banky turned 35 today ...
Why evils!

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/who-did-this-to-banky-w.html

Celebrities / Who Rocked It Better? Timaya Vs Swanky Jerry by misspetite(f): 9:14pm On Mar 25, 2016
Star musician,Timaya rocked the same outfit worn and designed by stylist Jeremiah Ogbodo aka Swanky Jerry...Who rocked it better?
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/who-rocked-it-better-timaya-vs-swanky.html

Celebrities / Singer Durella Drinks Garri In Style(photos) by misspetite(f): 5:43am On Mar 16, 2016
Remember Durella,King of the Zanga! He's back..The singer who many likened to Dbanj who went underground for a while is obviously doing well. The City Recordz Front Man known as Mr jugunu went on air recently with the quote, saying "never forget those things you feed on during the time of hustle, cause they are real food meant for the body."
I see he is putting it to practice...Looking "'frosh'"...

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/singer-durella-drinks-garri-in.html

Celebrities / Wizkid Buys House In Los Angeles?(photos) by misspetite(f): 5:55am On Mar 14, 2016
It appears Wizkid has bought a massive home in LA...He has been over there for a while now and shared some new photos this morning .However, DJ Maphorisa of popular group,Uhuru who is with himin LA, shared some photos..If that's Wizkid's home,then it's a big one..
Congrats to him..
More pics http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/03/wizkid-buys-massive-home-in-laphotos.html

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Celebrities / Dabota Lawson And Bianca Ojukwu Pictured At The Sun Awards(photos) by misspetite(f): 7:27am On Feb 21, 2016
When two ex-beauty queens meet!They attended the Sun Awards last night . Bianca Ojukwu won Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria back in 1988 while Dabota Lawson was Miss Nigeria UK 2009..
Bianca hasn't aged at all.She's 48.
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/02/dabota-lawson-and-bianca-ojukwu.html

Celebrities / They Say Toyin Aimakhu's New Man Seun Is Holding Her Hostage,seized Her Phones by misspetite(f): 10:48pm On Feb 18, 2016
This is confusing but,I'm trying to understand it..After Toyin Aimaku shared tearful videos this noon, pleading with IG comedian who threatened to commit suicide (Here)....I was kind of shocked to see her post two photos of her new man Seun Egbebe .I thought it was kind of odd.There was no caption to the photos so, I didn't screenshot them..
Fast forward to now, some in the know claim her phones have been seized by her new man and she is no where to be found .They say her instagram account is being handled by him and he was the one who shared those photos, after they got into an argument and she said she was leaving him.

It is even more alarming because the comedian she cried over has been found and is said to be ok now.She hasn't updated .The pictures of her man Seun (allegedly posted by him)have been deleted .
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/02/they-say-toyin-aimakhus-new-man-seun-is.html

Travel / (graphic Pics)Four Rev.sisters Die In Ghastly Motor Accident Along Ikom-ogoja Rd by misspetite(f): 8:29pm On Feb 09, 2016
Earlier today, four reverend sisters lost their lives in a ghastly accident along the Ikom-Ogoja road in Cross River state.The car they were in ran into a truck carrying soft drinks..May their gentle souls rest in peace..
http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/02/graphicpics4-reverend-sisters-sie-in.html#more

Crime / Pregnant Woman Who Went Missing In Abuja Released(photos) by misspetite(f): 12:07pm On Feb 05, 2016
Good news! Missing pregnant Habiba Shaba Ibrahim has been released and reunited with her family this morning, she returned in a safe condition!
Remember last week, she was reported to have gone missing after her car developed a fault and she decided to board a taxi to get her home.She was not heard of for days.

Thank God she's safe.
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http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/02/pregnant-woman-who-went-missingin-abuja.html

Celebrities / Checkout Toke Makinwa's Stunning Younger Sister (photos) by misspetite(f): 8:49pm On Jan 04, 2016
Celebrities / Donjazzy And Olamide Reconcile:post Joint Statement And Photo by misspetite(f): 9:31pm On Jan 03, 2016
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Awww! They have made up..Donjazzy and Olamide have settled their differences..They posted a joint statement together ...In other news, I pity those celebrities who took sides....

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2016/01/beef-over-donjazzy-and-olamide.html
Celebrities / The Real Story! How Basketmouth And Freeze's Beef Started At OLIC 2 by misspetite(f): 3:20pm On Dec 28, 2015
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It all started like this..Last night at Olamide's OLIC 2 concert,Basketmouth who was hosting threw jabs at Freeze Cool Fm..Basketmouth came on stage and said something like(Not accurate quotes but I recall because itwas epic)

"Where is Freeze? Freeze,where you dey?(searching the crowd) Oh you dey here? I heard your wife beat you today is that true ?"That Freeze sef, make I make you popular small as no body know you.I hear say you talk about me outside "..He said alot more I can't recall..

As if that wasn't enough,comedian Buchi who is also a very close friend of Basketmouth came on stage after Basketmouth also threw jibes at Freeze ...He said something like

"Why Basketmouth dey yab Freeze? Freeze na very good guy ..Najust say he stingy..Kai,he stingy ohh.If he drink beer,he no dey gree piss..Infact, he dey price gala..Infact,why Basketmouthgodey yab Freeze,people no even know who he be sef..

Well, most people in the crowd felt there was more to the jokes..It appeared Basketmouth and Buchi heard something about Freeze they weren't pleased with..The jokes was obviously got to Freeze..who took to instagram to slam Basketmouth,Basket also replied

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http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2015/12/beef-alert-freeze-slams-basketmouth.html
Politics / Faces Of Nigerian Senators During Fashola's Ministerial Screening by misspetite(f): 8:58pm On Oct 15, 2015
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They say a picture is worth a thousand words..These photos say it all.. While Nigerians were impressed by former Lagos governor,Babatunde Raji Fashola's ministerial screening,the senators looked spellbound during his over one hour session..

Fashola who has been confirmed minister became the number one trending topic in Nigeria,was trending in the UK and USA as well.
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http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2015/10/epic-photos-faces-of-nigerian-senators.html

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Politics / Epic Photos-faces Of Nigerian Senators During Fashola's Ministerial Screening by misspetite(f): 8:53pm On Oct 15, 2015
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They say a picture is worth a thousand words..These photos say it all.. While Nigerians were impressed by former Lagos governor,Babatunde Raji Fashola's ministerial screening,the senators looked spellbound during his over one hour session..

Fashola who has been confirmed minister became the number one trending topic in Nigeria,was trending in the UK and USA as well.
See some photos below

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2015/10/epic-photos-faces-of-nigerian-senators.html
Celebrities / Sad News! Habiba Abubaka Loses Mum In Fatal Car Crash by misspetite(f): 12:10am On Jul 18, 2015
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Abuja celebrity businesswoman and billionaire, Hajiya Habiba Abubakar lost her mother this morning in a fatal car crash which also claimed the lives of her driver and her maid. Her mother was returning from Sokoto to Abuja after attending the traditional marriage arrangements of Habiba's little step Sister

Habiba who is presently on Holidays in London ordered her brothers to fly her mother to London where her hospital is but,she gave up on transit.

According to a statement by her PA,Ifeanyi Daniel Obierike,her mum's body has been flown back this morning to Kano and has since been buried according to Islamic rights.

May she rest in peace.. http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2015/07/sad-news-halima-abubakar-loses-mum-in.html
Celebrities / Femi Kuti Reacts After 2 Band Members Flee During His US Tour by misspetite(f): 8:12pm On Jun 26, 2015
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Afro-beats maestro, Femi Kuti, finally opens up on the circumstances surrounding the disappearance of two of his band members in the middle of his recently concluded 2015 USA tour.

Speaking exclusively with Nigeria's biggest entertainment and lifestyle magazine; RELOADED, the Africa music legend revealed his disappointment over the misconceptions peddled by his friend, Lekan Babalola justifying the shameful actions of his band members. He said,
"When Lekan Babalola insinuates I am not paying anybody in my band well, or the person is disgruntled for whatever reason and the person abandons me in the middle of a tour, there's no justification for it. That is pure Nigerian evil mentality. We always want to find a reason to do bad things. You want to leave my band, why must you use my visa money?". 
Speaking on how long these band members have been with him, Femi furthermore stated,  
"Two of them have been with me for nearly 10 years and have been touring with me all over the world from Australia, Europe, France etc. Before you went on tour, you knew how much your money was, why didn't you confront me and dignify your conscience as a man that your money wasn't enough".
In his response to Lekan Babalola, he continued, ..
"First of all, you are my friend. You know me. I have kept my band and been in the business for 3 decades. One thing I say to my musicians is that, if you are singing a political song and you are corrupt, the Europeans will quickly find you. If I was stealing the money I was making in Europe or America and not paying my boys, the white people will quickly find me out. You cannot be where I am
and be corrupt"

http://www.misspetitenaijablog.com/2015/06/femi-kuti-reacts-after-two-of-his-band.html?m=1

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Literature / Happy Father's Day-an Ode To The Man I Love (atemkeng Achanga) by misspetite(f): 11:06am On Jun 21, 2015
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Dear Atemkeng Achanga
‎The man after God's own heart
It's been four years since I last heard your voice. ‎
These days,I make do with the gust of the wind
The rustling of the trees‎
The thoughts ‎of what would have been
‎And your whole life ahead not to be seen

Do you know I miss you?
Do you know no one comes close to you?
Do you know you are irreplaceable?
And when I speak of you,they say it's a fable

The 3rd of June was the 4th year anniversary of your death ‎
And oh! How I wept
Because I realised it's like you never left.
Living with this burden of your death
fastened to me like a seat belt
Rummaging through my heart with each breath ..

Do you know you have your first grandchild now?
Yes your 3rd daughter is a mother wow!
Leli found love in a distant land
Married to a Cameroonian man

Do you know we are doing fine?
Oh yes! Your friends and family left us behind
But you told us they would didn't you ?
But don't worry about that,we cool

Anyi is a big makeup artist now
Her art leaves her clients wowed
Mafua is studying English now
I know you'll be proud of how her life turned out ‎
Atem is also in school now ‎
Your only son is a big boy now
He works so hard sometimes I cry
But always calls to make me smile‎

Do you smile in heaven?
Or is your heart sorrow-laden?
Do you see my triumphs?
Walk with me on my lonely sojourn?‎

Do you still get angry when I slather my face in make up?‎
Or now realize it's ok for ladies to cake up
Do you still wish you and my momma made up?
Or you ok with the break up?‎
Are you restless over dreams unfulfilled? ‎
Or at peace ‎in a land that's honey filled

Are you proud of how far I've come?‎
Do my accomplishments sound up in heaven like a Gong?
Do you hate the fact I'm a blogger now ?‎
Or wondering how my life turned out
Do you know I'm independent now?
And got haters wondering how!‎

Do you know there's sorrow in the land
Boko haram's killing now
Sometimes I wish I could call you up
And talk about about how thing's messed up.‎

It's been long I saw you in my dreams
yes like a decade it seems
Sometimes all I need is a beam
A sign to show you still with me

I know I complained about your frequent visits
I went to church on nightly vigils
Begging for you to let me go
I didn't want you to see my sorrow

Today is father's day
Can you tell me about your day?
Tell me you sitting on the throne
In a land ‎where there's honey and gold

So visit me in my dreams tonight
Oh Please don't put up a fight
I want to know your still with me
Daddy please don't let me be! ‎

Happy Father's Day
Your Daughter Emeh Achanga ‎
PS:This is my first poem ever dad..Hope it meets your standards prof (wink)
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Celebrities / Long Time! Styl-plus Pictured With Faze by misspetite(f): 8:22pm On Jun 13, 2015
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http://www.misspetitenigeriablog.com/2015/06/long-time-styl-plus-pictured-with-faze.html
Faze caught up with Zeal Onyecheme and Shifi Emoefe two members of the now defunct award winning group Styl-Plus ..

Whatever happened to them....Such amazing artists..

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