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@ longlife01 en andromida, thanks guys for the advices,,,@macdaddy my dear i dont need u to believe if am beautiful, independent etc, en i dont remember anywhere i stated that am an angel en he is a devil!!!!!!if my story annoyes u, why did u read at first place en why did u waste ur precious time replying on it??!!I may not be perfect as no one in this world is, but i admite i may have been silly letting him use me like a dirty rug.but thats because am pecient en have been praying all this while for a change,  i kept talking to him en telling him how it really hurts when he goes to f***k his baby mama for weeks en then comes back to me with the left over!!!have been really pecient en hoped for the best as he kept on promising me, but at this point en wid the help of ur advices have realize that am the loose, Thanks dears for ur help en advices they really helped me see because i was blinded,

wow i love the story, thanks The congo for posting it,

Thanks dears am very grateful wid ur advices en am ready to take the next step,

Thanks dears for ur advices they are really helping, having a thought en a sleep over have realize that this guy really don`t appreciate me wid all i do for him as a woman eg respect him, cook for him any type of food he disires, wash en iron his clothers etc, but still he's ungrateful, is OK i wont complain anymore,he can go ahead wid his ugly baby mama en for me i will be just fine wid my unborn child, i can't fight him or do anything to harm him but God is my biggest weapon,

@ MzGreat thanks dear i will do dat,

Pls seedord247 and redsun if u have no mature advice just stop it,,,redsun how many married men back home still beat their wives? en if ur father beats ur mother does it mean she`s not a grown up,,,,so pls guys just be nice for once,, is not right to beat or to treat someone in such a way that's why am really fed up en looking for advice from u guys,

@ redsun, my dear how old r ui don`t want to be rude to u but i would like to ask u is there any age limit of loving en who said turning 30 is almost gramma age en for ur info: if i knew wat i want i couldn't ask u guys for ur advices,
Thanks all ya for the advice, some are really helpful,

Mr cork, am a proud African woman,( en yes am a light skin), thank u mygoldie,

Am in a relationship for over a year, but through this one year have been just hell, problems wid him beating me, he even broke my leg,almost over run me wid his car!!!en many others that's just a quote.i love him so much en bcoz am beautiful en most men in the city am leaving wants me he acts strange to me.He even changed my phone number that no one should contact me except my family!!I never ask anything from him except love, i drive my own car, i pay for my roof, i pay for my all needs, i have my own principle as it is said all fingers are not the same size en bcoz am beautiful it doesn`t mean am a bitch or a easy goer!!!I am turning to 30`s en i have never cheated on a man or double deal someone. Am now 3months pregnant for him en am into much stress right now caused by him, last year i was also pregnant but i lost the baby bcoz of him, He also have a baby wid another woman, 3days ago, he wanted to have sex en he knew i was not well so i explained to him that am not feeling well en that we should do it the next day,i thought he would understand my situation ,but instead he was pissed, mad en stop talking to me, the next day he left to his baby mama, since then have not heard from him he doesn't answer my calls nor my msg.It really hurts en pain when you know the person u love en want to spend ur life wid is in bed wid someone else.everytime we have a little misunderstanding he goes to his baby mama, does he really love me?, pls guys i will take serious any of ur advices bcoz i really need them. Thank you.