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prechbills1:
I wonder why she replied again after opting out?..


I don't have anything to say.. [s]you're stupid,ignorant and broke.. by the time you can afford my car, I'm gonna reply your ass[/s]

Opting out? I said you're a lost cause. By that I mean I'll never attempt the absolutely futile exercise of making you see reason. You're not built for it.

And then advise: let's avoid each other. But you don't seem keen on that. You say you have nothing to say, but then you type words and strike them out like a pussy. I won't beat you.

I'll take your challenge. Let me know my target. What's the specification of that car? I'm assuming you have no receipt, so just provide the details you do have. I'll work on affording it, and get back to you in a few years for that reply.

prechbills1:
you're the lost one.. I'm not surprised, you haven't travelled out from Nigeria yet that's why you're living in self delusion, I wonder whether you even pay taxes after all the trash you spewed here.

Lol......awww....girl, don't get upset now.

Let's see....you know I haven't left Nigeria. That's betting a 100% on your ignorance (you, not me). You have the decency (to yourself) to wonder whether I pay taxes, so that leaves you some room to be........not stupid? Whatever.

I blame myself for explaining in the first place, I can clearly remember that I saw you in a feminism or something related to that thread,

You should clearly remember. . Unless you're saying something dementia? That would be more likely than amnesia in your case. Are you saying something about dementia?

you were just spewing shits.. saying men are responsible for the laziness of some women is very ridiculous and dubious. you lack the moral and financial abilities to say meaningful things, I wonder why you jump on threads when all you got to say is trash.. women do this and that and you can't show how they're doing those things... I don't just know how to classify uncivilized primitive beings like you, please don't ever comment on my thread again, this should be the last time because you're sentimental and ignorant.. fvckoff

Hmmm....such big words from such a small person. Well done, you! If you could understand them as well, you'd be a formidable package. But God doesn't give with both hands: that's how we excuse the things bellow average.

Babe, oil and water don't mix. Let's avoid each other from now on.

prechbills1:
Miss write, Godforbid I encounter a lady like you in real life.. you know the truth but you don't want to say it .


@bolded, men are not the cause of that, laziness is the cause.

stop shouting men up and down, some women are the ones planting this ideologies into their daughters.

being educated won't change that mentality because 60% of educated wives in Nigeria today depend solely on their husbands .

Most young girls going to school now are doing it because they want people to know that they're graduates and because other people are also going to school, they don't have intentions to contribute to the Nigerian economy with those degrees.


their priority is"marriage".

The mask is off, babe. I should have known earlier when you jumped on my mentions with your typical misunderstanding. You're lost cause in my book.

prechbills1:
this girl how old are you?

I'm asking because 60% of educated married ladies still depend solely on their husbands.

60%?............Are you sure it's not 62%? What's your margin for error on this? Just table the data let's see how good your math is.

And after that, we can talk about the relevance of that statistic. Once we've got it right.

and @bolded, how did we fail Nigerian women? what kinda shitty statement is that, are men then reasons why some Nigerian women are not contributing to the economy? are we the ones telling them to make marriage their priority in life?
very ridiculous statement"

Men? It's a social issue.

and how's educating ladies our responsibility? how's the dude shying from his responsibilities? which responsibilities if I may ask?
smh

Leave it be, it's beyond your intellectual proficiency.

Like you said: this argument is baseless. There's no meeting of the minds here.

prechbills1:
trash... no need arguing with you, the argument is baseless.

80% of self employed ladies don't pay taxes, the few that are even managing to pay taxes are the ones that reside in Lagos... arguing with you is like trump arguing with buhari.. travel to South Africa or America and see what women are doing, you'll know that most Nigerian women are contributing nothing to the Nigerian economy when you return.

Hmmm.......this aversion to logic is sounding very familiar......

What, you don't agree that Nigerian society (women and men) needs education and enlightenment to understand that a woman has potential to serve beyond the kitchen and the bedroom?

ijobafargo69:
we want change its begins with us. Tell your self the truth. 90% of Nigeria Girls don't know what Ojukwu did and why he is the Ikema of Africa but ask them about Efe of BBN. Women have failed us Nigerian women, just look at kemi adeosun, Stella Odua, Patience Jonathan, Stella Obasanjo

I agree with telling ourselves the truth. But to say that "Nigerian women have failed us", instead of saying that "we have failed Nigerian women" is shying away from responsibility. Again.

One of my favourite quotes from Gladiator: Your fault as a son, is my failure as a father.

You're being disingenuous if you are going to blame your son for turning out the way he did. Where does this mindset come from? To wait around for a husband, give up your job, and depend solely on him? This is why I say education and enlightenment on a woman's place in society is required for women AND men. If Nigerian women need foreign exposure to become useful to themselves and society (you said those women in that earlier list were exposed to other cultures, and this is key) what are they not getting here?

prechbills1:
I surely comprehend your post, don't think otherwise.. .that still doesn't mean they should make marriage their priority after getting their degrees.

parents, tradition/customs and society don't decide your future.

That wasn't the post you quoted first.

prechbills1:
What's the point canceling when you're still going to respond to the quote. Did you just prefer to read across the line? If you don't live in a village (could have fooled me) then your task is simplified: you can take a taxi from junction to junction, as you take your inventory. Unless you see the need to shock me further by stating that you own a car. Then I should preempt that move by saying: drive it then.

92%.......75%...........such inconsistency. Are you edging closer to the truth (if you know it), or just getting confused all over this page. You see, this is what happens when you open you don't respect facts.

I don't know if you think me for a broke guy that can't afford a car, ofrcourse I have my own car. so how is the Nigerian economy getting stronger because some ladies are selling stuffs in markets, neighborhoods, working in restaurants or some shitty jobs? are some self employed ladies paying taxes or what?

Ugh! Smh.

The point isn't that I believe you to be broke. The point is that you keep pointing out these needless details that have no bearing on the task to be carried out: take inventory of female entrepreneurs. It doesn't matter if your locality is above a village; or if you get around in a bus, a cab, or in your car. I thought I could preempt this needless detail by saying "drive it" earlier on; seems like your determined to distract yourself from the point: take inventory of female entrepreneurs, and see that it isn't merely ten out of 180million who are business owners.

Yes, women business owners pay taxes. It's a general requirement.

The point isn't that women dominate. The point is that there are women who have plans beyond six months which don't make marriage the centerpiece.

I didn't generalize my post, I said most women not all.
you justified why most Nigerian ladies make marriage their priority after getting a degree, so why are you going back on your words ?

You try small, you no fit do pass your power. I explained why most girls make marriage a priority. An explanation does not say that I support a view. It says that I understand it. A problem has to be understood before it can be solved. And then I said that: in order to change this mindset, more enlightenment and education is required. And while the person i quoted was advocating that women didn't need education (probably with a view to leave things as they are), I said that more enlightenment was required to have more women unlock their potential.

When making some allegations, leave yourself some room for redemption.

it seems you didn't comprehend that post. if you think many Nigerian ladies are working very hard, travel to South Africa if you see the number of female work force there you gonna be convinced that Nigerian ladies are doing nothing.

Then more education and enlightenment is required here. Not less.

prechbills1:
most men like who my girlfriend is 25years old, I'm 23..so what are you talking about? I don't want any submissive and domestic wife, I can only marry a financially stable wife who's highly educated, not lower than M. Sc. Men like me marry their class, whatthefvck are young girls that are dependent going to add to my personality?

Good for you. Give yourself a round of applause.

you're trying to justify why majority of Nigerian ladies make marriage their top priority, Africa is doomed! like seriously.

Justifying? Did you re-read that post I referred you to? The first one you quoted? You would realize that..............

I'll tell you after you've failed to comprehend thrice.

hope you won't tell me you didn't see it this time

Thanks for the re-cap. This was a must-see.

prechbills1:
sorry I don't live in a village.
despite your excuses, it's a fact that men dominate 75% of the Nigerian wokforce.

What's the point canceling when you're still going to respond to the quote. Did you just prefer to read across the line? If you don't live in a village (could have fooled me) then your task is simplified: you can take a taxi from junction to junction, as you take your inventory. Unless you see the need to shock me further by stating that you own a car. Then I should preempt that move by saying: drive it then.

92%.......75%...........such inconsistency. Are you edging closer to the truth (if you know it), or just getting confused all over this page. You see, this is what happens when you open you don't respect facts.

Even in the military,
even the self employed entrepreneurs you're talking about, men dominate those areas.

The point isn't that women dominate. The point is that there are women who have plans beyond six months which don't make marriage the centerpiece.

I kinda see this argument useless because it's pure you're aren't too exposed to the world, you haven't travelled out from Nigeria before.

Travel to South Africa, when you see the number of female workforce there and the kind of jobs they do
then you can come back and say Nigerian ladies are doing this and that..

When making some allegations, leave yourself some room for redemption.

prechbills1:
wait.. are you not seeing** my other posts?

No. I'm reading you off my mentions. So if you're replying to me, attach a reference link.

prechbills1:
and why do you say that I don't know that women can contribute to the Nigerian economy and welfare?

Because you said in your earlier post: in a country of 180 million people, only ten contribute to the economy.


Clearly you are in dire need of educations on the issue. And you may choose to begin with the simple exercise of identifying female entrepreneurs and business owners in your family, and then your village...........then your local government area.......and if all you can find is parasitic elements then use google.

and the last statement I bolded, how can an uneducated person have degrees?

If you're asking this question, then I don't even know what to say to you. You aren't aware that there's a difference between getting a degree and getting educated in the Nigerian context? You don't know that there are countless "graduates" out of school who cannot defend their certificates because they didn't put the work in? And this, in a system where the only education you're ready to accept is the one on the menu: the one you pay for.

Smh, I don't know why a human being will try to justify why Nigerian ladies make marriage their top priority in life.

do you think me for some broke uneducated, uncivilized guy that wants an uneducated,young and broke wife?

wettles

I'll advise you to read the first post you quoted again. Then come and summarize what you understood. You have three tries. If you don't get it, I'll give you the answer.

prechbills1:
men own 92% of businesses in Nigeria

I'm assuming you're learned enough to know that you're going to have to support this claim with the research.

AlPeter:
*smiles... Nah, it will be a mutual fool thing, you be mine and I will be yours. Too much pretense everywhere, a lot of folks have forgotten what joy it is to have someone they can always be free around. Someone that cherish them just for who they are. Happy New Month

You're right.


Happy New Month. Happy Easter. Happy April Fool's day. Stay blessed and Enjoy the festivities.

prechbills1:
in a country of 180million people, only 10ladies contribute to the economy.. you weren't even ashamed while trying to compose this post, SMH

How many should I have mentioned? Out of 180 million, how many male business owners would you dare mention? Take the challenge and let's vet the percentage. That link was for your benefit, in case you weren't satisfied with 10. And the point of mentioning female entrepreneurs was to show you ways that women contribute.

AlPeter:
this another amazing reply. Have been following you for some time now, and everytime I read you posts and replies, I feel the fluttering of tiny wings in my chest. Now any time i see or hear the words WRITE, MISS or BOTH TOGETHER the butterflies take flight. I can't stop dreaming of you even when am awake.

Thank you.



............lol

Help me missy. Please be my April Fool.

Hmmm.......this is new. You want a fool for April, or someone to fool you? Lol.........I don't know why I'm even asking.

DeadRat:
from What You Said. Its Like The Blood Flows Seriously... After All The Flow How Do You Clean The Blood inside Your Tunnel

The same way you clean your urethra (of all that urine) after peeing.

prechbills1:
@bolded, what are some( I don't generalize) ladies contributing to the economy ?

Okay. Let me name ten women business owners and employers of labour....

1. Tara Fela-Durotoye (House of Tara)
2. Mo Abudu (EbonyLife tv)
3. Deola Sagoe (Deola, haute couture)
4. Olajumoke Adenowo (AD Consulting, Architectural firm)
5. Adenike Ogunlesi (Ruff n Tumble)
6. Chinwe Ohajurukwa (Comprehensive Design Services, Architectural firm)
7. Uche Pedro (BellaNaija.com)
8. Nkemdilim Begho (Future Software Resources Ltd, IT solutions)
9. Ugochi Ugbomeh (Tranzit Nigeria)
10. Nnenna Kalu Makanjuola (Radiant Health Magazine)

http://www.lionessesofafrica.com/blog/2016/8/10/meet-41-nigerian-women-entrepreneurs-putting-the-country-on-the-global-business-map

and the boys also statement, you mean it is when boys are educated that most Nigerian ladies are going to know their worth in the society? I've seen where a mom was telling her daughter who who's in 100lv, that she must not exceed age 22before getting married, what nonsense. Women need to be educated first because they're the ones who plant this useless ideologies into their daughters to make them take marriage as their priority in life.

Yes. Boys need to be enlightened as well. Look at you, for instance, you don't know that women have the ability to contribute positively to a nation's economy.

As for those mothers..........they are pandering to a need. They don't want their daughters to become.......what word do you guys use? Old meat?..........so they try to love-vendor their daughters out in good time. It's not necessarily because they don't trust their girls to become good doctors or lawyers or engineers; they just don't want those girls to get all of that success before finding a husband. Because a woman's success scares most Nigerian men away. And our culture is obsessed with marriage (especially for women). And most men, like yourself, want young women, who are not educated but have degrees, to be submissive and domestic. And that's what most women are trying to be for you.

So, yes: education is required. For girls and boys.

DeadRat:
does The Blood Flow For 24hours Or What...

Lmao!..........seriously?

Gofwane:
Please i have a kweshion to ask ladies.

Why do you deny us sex when you are menstruating?

Is it that once you remove that pad blood will just be rushing any how?

Or is it that when the cassava enter your pvssy it will go and open the valve that is controlling the blood?

Oya, answer me.

It's not very hygienic. During her period, a woman's cervix opens up to expel the blood, and leaves her especially susceptible to infections. It's also gross, (but that's a personal opinion) especially if the flow is heavy. It's not very comfortable because it agrevates the flow. But some people have a different opinion: sex can help relieve cramps.

And if you're a Christian, then sleeping with a woman on her period is a sin, Leviticus 18: 19

Ladyhippolyta88:
Can you imagine.The guy wants to trend.I am sure he sees it so he knows that girls are pretending.This is a combination of stupidity and ignorance.

Lol ......that's clearly what this is about. He wants to trend, even if it is for having half a brain. Smh, some people have no shame.

This type of ignorance isn't life-threatening. He could have been allowed to be ignorant in his quiet little corner. There was no need to grant him celebrity status in his chosen stock in trade. Now he's a world-class stupid person.

rafindo:
As a huge fan of Flora nwapa, I saw myself as an emblem of defending the woman as an equal partner in the project called humanity. I engrossed more of my reading the novel jagua Nana and the joy of motherhood , how the women then represent the definition of struggle to achieve success in the mist of men dominated sphere. I became an advocate of women right and a feminist my fellow men mocked me about defending nigeria woman.
I changed my position after 5years of studying a Nigerian woman and these are theory of that study.

No need training a Nigerian girl to a university level reason been that they have no plan beyond six months all they do during the university days is dating aristos or looking for who will take care of her and her needs.

Second the Nigeria girls are economically parasitic to the economy all the mindset they possess are consumption driven not productive, so training them is not an economical cost for the government.

Why train people who are only interested in watching Philippines, Mexico, zeeworld and the useless bbnaija program. Naturally Nigerian girls are shallow thinkers. Show me any nigeria girl with a solid plan beyond 6months that does not have marriage as a theme and I will never comment again in nairaland.

Lastly all Nigerian girl from the age of 16-40 are all prostitutes. Did I say that yes and I stand by it. Prostitution is defined as an arrangement where a woman seeks favours either in kind or in cash for rendering service such as sex, girlfriend, kissing, romancing or any act capable of given her an undue advantage over a man.
Your girlfriend is a prostitute if you have to spend any money on her during the dating. Simply put you are paying for her service.

I pray that government train more guys since all the girls are interested in his who will take care of her responsibility.
On behalf of former hardcore feminist I rest my case

If you're a fan of Flora Nwapa, and you once saw yourself as "an emblem of defending the woman as an equal partner in the project called humanity" why abandon ship just because the journey seems harder than you first thought it was? If most girls cannot or do not want to apply their education, then their education is incomplete. A truly educated person gives expression to their learning. That's the essence of it. And if you've recognized the potential of a woman in the "human project"............well, the woman is human. Not educating her (so that she articulates and contributes all of her potential) would undermine the potential of the human race...........if you've recognized all of this, then you must see that more enlightenment is required to achieve the objective. Not less education.


There are Nigerian girls who've had plans beyond six months which didn't make marriage the centerpiece. The proof of that is in the long careers (way over six months) of women who are still contributing intellectually and creatively to the economy (not just locally, but internationally as well). Need I mention names? Some of them who don't make marriage the centerpiece are even criticized for it and cajoled into re-evaluating their priorities. And some of them who do have husbands are asked, in derogatory fashion, to return to their kitchens and bedrooms. Which gives younger women the idea that only one thing really matters in a woman's life, so they don't see the need to apply themselves fully. But since men don't want to marry non-graduates these days, they still go to Uni to get whatever B.A or B.Sc that becomes the prerequisite to the ultimate MRS degree.

In order to break this mindset, a lot more has to be done towards educating girls (and boys as well) on the place of the woman in society. It's in the interest of the "human project" as you say.

Show her this thread that you've opened on her matter; she'll leave you alone in a heartbeat. Yes, it might hurt her that you don't reciprocate her feelings. But when she sees that you're the type of person who would trash-talk her (and all older women for her sake) on NL rather than tell her directly and precisely how you feel about her, she might realize this is a win for her too.

donstan18:
Lol, yea. Came to laugh at comments.

Have been good. Morning, how went your night?

donstan18:
MissWrite viewing,

How you?

Lol, you're here too?

I'm okay, thanks. How've you been?

Daeylar:
Happy happy birthday dear
Have a wonderful lovely day today

Thanks, sweetie
You've been scarce.......I hope you're good.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Happy birthday misswrite may all the good things of life locate you.All the best as you add another year to your life.

Awww......thanks, beautiful

luminouz:
I didn't read all that up dia...

Happy bufday oo

Lol! .......

Thank you very much, sweetie....

predmine20:
MissWrite,Your suggestion is okay but how are we so sure that the appropriate body you suggest we not gang up against her because they won't believe her since their ain't any evidence to nail the beast.

I didn't mean to imply that evidence is not needed. Emphasis on "you" in that sentence. It seems this child is still out in the cold in this situation, and that's why she's asking for ways to go about this on social media. I find it suspicious that a father would still let her be in this situation without taking charge. The matter should be reported and handled appropriately. And these bodies can give you directions. There'll be clarity, and no room to entertain the speculations on social media.

How can your dad ask you to get evidence? Sweetie, report this to the appropriate body and be directed on what to do.