₦airaland Forum

donstan18:
A Nigerian wannabe feminist should be slammed and bashed because 97% of them wants the equal benefit of men but don't want the equal responsibilities.

A Nigerian wannabe feminist should be slammed and bashed because most of the single frustrated and heartbroken women now hide under the shield of feminist to bash and get back at men without have a proper and sound knowledge of what feminist is all about.

A Nigerian wannabe feminist should be slammed and bashed because they are obviously empty and scared of the truth, they are social media feminist, they don't practice what they advocate on net, 95% of them depend on men, they obligate their responsibilities to men but will advocate and agitate for gender equity.

Gender equity doesn't exist in their societal expenditures.

I may not leave here if I keep justifying the reasons why these dump and broke wannabe feminists should be killed

I hate and detest Nigerian wannabe feminists, especially on Nland.




Tell me.... Are you a feminist?

donstan18:
I'm faring well, you?

Yea, Nland feminists, verily can't identify them because most of them do well these days not to comment and reveal themselves to avoid being slammed and bashed my fellows herein.......Thou, I personally do not think you are.

But all the same, i'll like get an answer from you....Are you?

donstan18:
Hy, are you one of them?

FVCKWOMEN:
Thanks for this. You are one of the few learned ones

FVCKWOMEN:
There’s a difference between “feminists” and “misandrists.” What we have in Nigeria and nairaland are the latter.

FVCKWOMEN:
In Nigeria today we have too many fake wannabee feminists that don't know the meaning of feminism. That's why we hate these so called feminists with a passion

FVCKWOMEN:
Feminism yes is for women's rights and equality, but they yell and scream that they want respect but they need to realize that they need to stop dressing as vaginas and start giving people something to respect.

Opentokwowledge:
Well, everyday is Mother's / Mothering day to me... But to the few minds I've met albeit virtually on this forum who are Mothers or potential Mothers... I wish you good luck and I wish you happiness. You've all through your contributions, arguments, confrontations and bloodshed made life as I know it better understood. Most importantly, it has been fun. Just using this opportunity to let you know I appreciate.

Xhosa.Nostra

Mrs.Phyno

Miss.Write

Monalisa.185

Esthar.fabian

Lioness.za

Aurora?B.... I can't remember everybody lol. All the same, it has been nice!

Amarabae:
I blame the woman the more.
Because sometimes men reason with their di*k.
How can you cause your fellow woman to be in pain,
Whats romantic in sleeping with a married man with kids?
The lady has no conscience.

QueenUtum:
I'd say I'm pretty comfortable around black people having grown up with a white mum and black father. I went to a black Caribbean church and there are much more black members of my family than white. The UK can be pretty racist at times and sometimes I've had a hard time from the white people here. In fact I'm generally used to black people being friendlier to me than white ones. I might make a post about racism in the UK but if your not fully white some people here can be very unpleasant and I've been called racist names since childhood.

I have plenty of black Caribbean female friends at home and genuinely have no prejudice against Nigerian women or women from anywhere. As for a sense of entitlement and being condescending....I don't feel like I'm better than other women and don't look down on others. The culture in the UK is to be extra polite which may seem fake or patronising but surely is preferably to being rude?

I have seen some white women in the Nigerian media who have moved to Nigeria, adopted the culture and been accepted. I was only visiting for a month and did not have enough time to learn as much about the culture as these women did. With time I guess I'd learn to fit in and become less offensive.

The women who were nice to me were generally my mums age. Seemed to be the younger women that were more difficult to please.

bignoisemaker:
i'm good miss. I see your handwork in other sections. More grease to your elbow

bignoisemaker:
I'm sure you must have noticed some traits in some romancelanders which endears you to them or distances you. So, let's play a game. Who would you marry (hubby/wife material), kiss (flirt with) and kill (due to averse qualities). You could state reasons as well. I'll start....


Marry - miss.write


Kiss - lalas.247


Kill - iam. J


For the fun of it, drop yours guys

MhizzAJ:
I pity the lady that will fall into you people's trap
Is it you that will decide whether the wedding should be elaborate or not

Mynd44:
Lmaoooo. True though

DrinkLimca:
Writing long epistle like the book of psalms in the bible still can't hide your insecurity..

You wrote about white barbie dolls.
This is just the mentality of every low self-esteem ugly black lady..

they refer to beautiful white ladies as barbie dolls..

See we know that in truth some black ladies are beautiful but please can you all black ladies stop being jealous of the white ladies..
.because i don't understand how you will call a white lady a barbie doll if not for your jealousy and insecurity...

Safiaaa:
I love you

greiboy:
ok no p

Happy weekend

greiboy:
lol

I don't always disagree. I have actually made my points and on the topic clear since yesterday, which seems to go against your views in this case.

1) Men demand for sex because women hoard it not because they value it more than women. Women create artificial scarcity to use sex as bargaining chip to gain unfair advantages, particularly those women who have nothing else to offer. who might be in the majority in Africa and Nigeria society in particular based on observations of antibroke men sentiment among Nigerian women

2) You made reference to the fact that women try to gain financial independence because they want to free themselves from a mygonist society. They want to have greater control of their destiny and I asked if you sincerely believed that to be the only reason why women seek independence in Nigeria, because other available information about the rise of young ladies turning sugar mummy
and demanding for sex might go against your assertions

3) I thought you said men "most men value sex and much else" to make it seem like women don't actually value sex as much as men. which is why I asked if you believe men like sex more than women?
.

greiboy:
Nope, men don't necessarily only offer sex They demand for sex

it is a bidding process where the most capable of men get the best or most shares in Africa

How many ladies seriously aspire for independence for the reason you highlighted in your post?

Why do you think men value sex more than women? Aren't most people (men and women alike) who are sexually active always looking for ways to satisfy their sexual orgies?

donstan18:
Lol, you never seems to amaze me you don't disappoint.

Yes, you a very good point, a versatile and broad point touching different and various areas in a relationship.

I was logically thinking loudly about this very cliche "Most women offer sex" and I was like.... Sex should be a two gender thing, why then do men say women do offer it, could it be a countering cliche?, maybe yes, if YES, can women aswell say "Most men do nothing than to demand for sex in a relationship"..Can they.

Well, you said any gender can offer sex, which I MIGHT or MAY NOT agree with you, because I personally think no gender offers sex, because it takes to gender mingling to have sex.

donstan18:
Lol, I never expected two lines, so much believed you not to disappoint

Busy, seems obvious because you rarely comment these days, all the same, it's cool.

I'm good, you?, how you?

donstan18:
Why are you late? MissWrite