Exceptional300:
I have reasons to believe that this girl still belongs to the streets. I sent her Valentines day gift it’s been over 6 hours she received it, she hasn’t opened it to give me a feedback.
I called her to check if she got the items and her response was “I will open it later” with a very uninterested vibe . All I see is lack of motivation and zero effort. Meanwhile on her Snapchat she shared valentine memories from up to 6 years ago with her previous Exes.

Sometimes I wonder what y’all ladies want. If y’all see a guy that loves you, you start misbehaving and bringing up dirty attitudes, if a guy doesn’t love you, y’all start complaining about him being a narcissist

Better move on from her. She's obviously cheating and doesn't see u as a priority. It's saddening. I've been there and I can relate. Dump her ass and Never look back brother

Redoil:
"It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them."

I request everyone, please show respect and mercy to others. be kind and generous. spread love and care to everyone.

Good write-up. Pls Sir help me with something to survive on. Thanks

I dey pity you but u no know. Continue..

He is Akume's Boy and very inexperienced in Politics. I wonder how he became the APC chairman in the first place

Ok

This is Political Jerrymandering

macjive01:


No reach wey boys dey spend in a bar , let alone club

Pls help me with 2k let me buy some food

Sleekfingers:




Why?

I need it for survival pls

iCauseTrouble:
I work from home plus I run a small business.
I pay myself and my staff on 25th of each month

Could u pls help me with 2k?

R0LL0N:
Every 22nd of the month

Please sir, help me with 2k

ekelebeXstunner:
26th - 28th when I worked in a corporate setting.

Pls Sir, help me with 2k

Sleekfingers:
Pay my staff 25th

Pls Sir, help me with 2k

ajepako:

26th of every month except it falls on weekend

Sure banker

Pls ma, help me with 2k

ffo:

Most places where i worked before in Nigeria was 25th, some months ealier if 25th falls on weekend or holidays. In Asia it was 23-25. Here in west (government), its 1st of everymonth even if its holiday or weekend, dey no send your papa

Pls help me with 10k to revive my Recharge card business Pls. I was robbed of everything last month. Thanks

Kentuforchrist:
30th or 1st.....

Can u pls help me with 2k?

ogashman:
28th of every month.

Pls help me with 2k

See how they are avoiding my post. Imagine I am doing giveaway, this post would have been filled by now. It is well

E be like say small pikin still dey worry u. Do u know that you still haven't said anything reasonable?
Seems u don't love ur wife that much, else u would have sat her down to iron your issues. Do u know what it means to contemplate divorce in a marriage? U think marriage is child's play? I can swear that you guys never had a solid relationship during your courtship and dating period. You guys are also not emotionally attached to each other right from the Beginning. Op, you're also cheating on that woman. Trust me, u are cheating

It terrible

Happy Sunday to my Nairaland family.
Considering the economic hardship, I decided to sell recharge cards sometimes in December last year to augment my income since I have no steady source of Income. I was getting little money and helping myself and siblings. Last week, when I went to Hussle, some thieves broke into my house and Carted away with recharge cards Worth 8k and #2000 cash. They stole other few properties of mine. I'm really weighed down at this time, I am completely depressed right now. Pls people come to my aid so I can stand again. My heart bleeds.
Pls support with whatever u can to wipe my tears pls.
God bless you as u do so.

placeofallure:


Ma binu but journalists talk from both sides of their mouths.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mi' ti Binu oooo

HubbyofaVirgin:
Hello Nairalanders,
Please am in serious need of help... I got married 3weeks ago to the love of my life and she's a virgin. We've been trying to have sex since we got married buh she keeps complaining of not being able to bear the pain. We've tried missionary style but it makes it harder for us... Doggy style helps a bit but as soon as am about to hit d jackpot, she cries in pain and jumps away.. Now am out of options.. Please anyone with useful information or advice ll be greatly appreciated...

NB.. I make sure there's pre-intimacy and she's wet before insertion and i also bought a lubricant to make it easier.. Lubricant dun wan finish sef and nothing never happen...

Matured advice and replies only.. Our future depends on it please.. Thanks in anticipation

So, because ur wife is a virgin, u now created a moniker called Hubbyofavirgin? U are not serious yet. Keep playing

Lilrichie419:
I really Need your advice on this
What durable business can i start with 10-15m

I’m not looking for quick money and stuff,i need something durable that will set me up for life


Life really hard i no wan go back trenches

Pls help me with 5k to start my recharge card business so I can feed my family and aged mother pls. I lost my small job three months ago.
Please Sir

Go use it to sow seed and your life will change drastically

I advise u go out and get a clean new gas cylinder and jettison any thoughts of getting a fairly used one. It's risky pls. Don't go and kill yourself cos of small money. If u were in Abuja, I would have given u one for free. I have a 6kg cylinder here. These cylinders have expiry dates but many Nigerians are either oblivious or negligent of this. Getting a fairly used gas cooker is almost akin and tantamount to committing Suicide

placeofallure:


What amount of research has gone into this your biased write-up? You obviously are soooo naive and myopic. You would do better in the future if you do a thorough analysis before jumping to conclusions on any issues for that matter.

I don't hate my husband's family, I will not jump the moon for them either. I try to be civil with them. That's the level we are now.

It hasn't always been like that. We were cool, really cool or maybe I was the one thinking we were cool until they showed their true colour. You'd think it could be as a result of what I did or said but it's none of the above. That was why it hit so badly I felt betrayed. I was heartbroken and just went into my shell. I withdrew from everything and everybody.

My husband is a good man. He knows me, I am an introvert so I don't even talk much. He tried to shield me from any more hurt and he was cool with how I decided to handle it. It's like you dancing in a city where you are not loved, you will soon be shamed! I don't want to be shamed so I ran away.

I don't go visiting them, I don't attend family functions, (Event melo ni Jero mi nlọ tẹlẹ) I don't call. If they visit, I am civil. I offer them what I have and disappear to the rooms. My husband bonds well with them, he's their son. Of course they have disagreements here and there but that's normal.

My family has a good relationship with my husband, especially my mum. They've been exceptionally great together even before I was married. My dad takes my husband out to go drink, just the two of them and my siblings, (they're much younger) answer seven times if he calls them once. My side of the divide go all out to love my husband.

God is the overall being who watches over the affairs of men. He will judge us all accordingly. I know I didn't wrong them in any way. Of course they're trying to make up now but I'm like WTF did I do!

Thanks for your insults

Realme111:
please everyone i need your advice, I'm facing this right now.
There was a time my mom was complaining about feeding and how dad family are maltreating her in our home town,and I discussed with my wife,we both have 4kids together,so she agreed that My mom should come over,we're living in room and parlour then,and i brought mom home,this happened in 2020.
All of a sudden my woman started issue with mom,to the extent that mom I'll report her to me that she's not greeting her,as in early morning greeting from a well trained woman, but I will beg mom, because sometimes i also notice such character from my wife.
This issue continue like that,until one day.
Mom don't eat Eba,Cuz my mom is from Ekiti,so either pounded yam,semolina or Fufu,and by God grace I manage to get some at home,just to satisfy mom,One very evening like that,i went to watch Chelsea match, immediately i returned home,i see mom outside, and I asked her if she have eaten,but she replied No,and i asked why, she said that My wife make EBA for her and she can't eat it .
Immediately I went to the kitchen and asked my woman,why did you prepare Eba for Mama, Instead of her regular food,my wife replied that,she didn't make EBA for mom,but Semo.
And I asked her to show me the semo,to my surprise,My wife is showing me Eba,and she's claiming that its Semo,I was very angry,cuz as I was asking her,that what's the meaning of this,she keep telling me that is Semo,i get mad at her and slapped her,I never knew that she intentionally planned it, she knows that I'll be mad at her ,she wanted everything to scatter,cuz she knows that I don't joke with my mom,mom started begging me that night,and her brother have to show up and settle it for us,and i later I went ahead to get Fufu for mom.
Two days later,.mom told me she's going ,though she didn't said is because of my woman,but i understand,to my surprise,mom is going back with her load and with what i get for her, almost, 4 bags, altogether,i carried 2, while mom also carried 2,my wife just looking at us as we re going, nothing like her to see mama off,or even said Bye Mama .fast forward to 2021,mom died and we went for the burial.
After some years,maybe 2 years ago,her own mom came to Lagos,after leaving her brother's place,she stayed In our house for 4 to 5 months,which I take good care of her very well,even she keep telling other siblings that I'm the best.
This is the main point now,This same my mother inlaw now had stroke,she's down with stroke, Though we had a meeting together, that her mom I'll stayed in their elders brothers place for a month,and come to live in my house,(mini flat with 4 kids)for a month also, and will from their go to another siblings house, after a month.i once asked my wife that which mattress her mom going to use when she get here,and she said,our own mattress,this hurt me,cuz i can't immagine, sleeping on the same bed, maybe after she leave.
Please who can tell me what to do,as for me,I'm not happy about this,cuz anytime I remembered how she treated my mom,this saddened me,and i also don't want my kids to be affected thru this sickness........ please I need everyone's advice .

Chai... This story is pathetic. I'm sorry for the loss of your Mum. Your wife is wicked and evil. Pls don't ever let her mum come and live with you. Her mum isn't more important than your own late mum whom she maltreated when she was alive. If not that she already has four kids, I would have suggested u send her out.
Don't let her in. Period!

Teema4720:

MisterBanny pls keep quiet if you don't know what to type.

You're just showing how mannerless and uncultured you are. So, of all the things I wrote up there, this is the only part u were able to read and respond to? Pls be civil and decorous next time. I believe you're among such women that's why u only had to react to that part.

Dancebreaker:

By African culture, you are married into a new family.

In SW and SS, a traditional wife will call all her in-laws, boys, girls, old and you "my husband".

We first need to define how we want it. To be African or Westerners. We must decide.

@ MisterBanny

The truth is, a woman only loves her kids. The hubby is the vehicle to achieve her plans and tick the married box.
Remember that a woman marries the guy who seeks her out (at least the guy likes her enough to pick her), not the guy she would have liked. Yes, she can refuse but genuine and serious options are limited.

Hubby's family are by and large background noise and nuisance to most women. To avoid if possible.

A wise lady knows that a guy loves his parents, so he treats her in-laws right to please him. That's it.

You've spoken well

DaddyRochie1642:



He is the type that does not want to offend his girlfriend, if I see any idiot that I call my friend that his woman controls and dictates to him, I will cut the baggar off because such men are very dangerous, all it takes is an order from their cursed wife/girlfriend to do something to you and he will do it inorder not to offend his woman.

See the way the bloody idiot ran to nairaland to ask us stupid questions when the red flags are very obvious to his foolish eyes.

I can bet you that his idiotic girlfriend probably has yansh/breast and he doesn't want to loose it

I am waiting to see that woman that will come into my life to control and dictate to me how I should live, them no born that woman well.

Thanks so much for this. I wish the OP would take this comment and counsel from you but trust me, he may not be a sensible and wise guy, so may not heed to this.

DaddyRochie1642:
You be ashamed of yourself,.... It is very obvious that idiot of a girlfriend has no respect and regards for you,

You are seeing it very clearly with your eyes and that your coconut head but you're here asking us stupid questions.

If you marry that girl, you will regret marrying that girl, your marriage go dey very miserable.

If she is not SUBMISSIVE and WILLING, kick her out... But I know you are afraid of her and scared of her.

This is the comment I have been waiting for. You nailed it Bro. you just told him the Truth and God knows you have. That girl doesn't love her, no regards/respect whatsoever. It's saddening. How dare u say ur man asks childish questions? How dare you?
I won't allow any girl try such with me. I don't even know where they get these kind of girls from

Where una dey see all these kind girls from sef?
Chai... Nawao.. that girl doesn't sound like someone who loves and respects you. I'm not even sure she is interested in marrying you in the first place. Just whiling time with you. Just be careful.
If she can't completely change her surname, she could add your own name to her Names. This shouldn't be a problem. She insulted u by saying you asked childish questions