As I type this, I'm confused and don't know the advice to offer my co-tenant.
I live in a selfcon, I have a co-tenant who lives in two bedroom besides my own apartment. This co-tenant has four kids. He packed into the house in November last year. But before he packed in, the house was in a delapidated state and almost unhabitable. He renovated the house and packed in.
After two months of packing in, our landlord sold the apartment and asked him to move out. The tenant feels he has been used by the landlord because he took his time to fix that house before moving in. The landlord has agreed to give him a balance of whatever is left from the rent since he's already spent five months in there, but same landlord refused to take responsibility for the payment of any expenses incurred in the renovation of the apartment carried out by the tenant.
There's a serious altercation between the landlord and the tenant now.
What is the advice to the tenant Please?

toujurs:
As tinubu dn fail you. hunger will finish you.

I swear. Abg help ur brother na

Kennitrust:
I don't think that guy is talking about Nigeria bank

I swear

NemoDatQuod:
I hope you have a genuine understanding of what happens when interest rates are raised? It increases the cost of living. The guy who has money to go speculate on forex has no problems with rates increase. In fact, it affords him more opportunities for "rent seeking" i.e making money without being productive. Treasury bills become more attractive to him and even fixed deposit schemes become more alluring to him, while at the same time he is using his funds (most likely stolen from you and I) to continue to "rent seek", on the exchange rate.

But you and me, the common man, who are already out of pocket because we either do not get paid well enough at work or we just do not have jobs, we are the burden bearers. Our purchasing power shrinks further, even though it is almost dead already, to begin with. Food, fees, transport, housing etc all increases for me and you. Hence, that increase in interest rate will not serve any purpose other than making the already rich guy richer and impoverishing you and I even further. That is why our interest rate regime has never achieved its purpose. The real players causing problems are not affected. In fact, interest rate hikes reward them. That's why our rates keep going up until they get to 60% one day.

When was the last time we had interest rates of 2% or 3% , something that is the fare in developed societies?

For anything to work in Nigeria, we have to first kill the monster called corruption. It is the beginning and end of all of our problems. It is the architect of the tribalism that has become individualised and profitable to so many Nigerians today. Yes, in Nigeria, tribalism has become a profitable business. Crime/ banditry, etc are all originated from it. And we can solve the problem. We simply need a few good men. But they are nowhere to be found because the structure of public service in Nigeria is built on the foundation of corruption.

Anyone who does not know that that country is in serious long term crisis, has not yet started. It is not about who is the president. It s about making significant, life altering surgery on the administration of government in Nigeria. Yet, the process of seeking public office is the first son of corruption. The judiciary is it's siamese twin and law enforcement is fighting with the military and other agencies on who should assume the mantle of third son.

So, no Sir. There will be no mopping up of anything. The only thing being mopped up is the very little money that you and I have honestly and diligently earned and which has never been enough for anything. And it will make no impact because it is small change. The forex in the hands of our oppressors will remain in their hands and even become more attractive. It is not market forces that are leading to the gains of the Naira. It is organised speculation by the very same individuals who increased the exchange rate in the first place.

In a decadent society, the worst thing you can do is to hand over control to criminals. You make everyone in that society a victim of the criminals, whereas in the past, they could only steal from a select few. Now they are manipulating everything including our currency and interest rate and are raping us before our very eyes.

It is indeed a terrible time to live in Nigeria. I don't know what I would have done if I was still leaving in that country. It is easy to tell someone who does not have, to be patient or that God will see him through. But the hunger, the humiliation of not taking care of yourself enough, let alone take care of those you love, will still be there. The only question is " at what point will a majority of Nigerians rise up and say "it is better to die on my feet than to live on my knees like a dog"?

Oh! and the next time any Nigerian follows after the crowd and stone or burn to death the poor guy who stole bread because he is hungry, or because his family is hungry, that Nigerian should look at himself/herself and call yourself a useless coward. This is for every Nigerian. You are angry and take the life of someone who was hungry. Yet, you "dobale" and make obeisance to and serve the very persons who have turned your daughters/sisters/wives into runs girls, the very men who have robbed you of your dignity. It is now a long midnight. A very long midnight. And only Nigerians will decide how long that midnight is going to be.

Kill corruption and Nigeria will rise. Only the common man in Nigeria can kill corruption. History is replete with examples of the common man killing corruption. It happened in almost all the societies that we run away to today for safe guarding, myself included.

Pls Sir help a brother with something to buy food. God bless

Kennitrust:
are you serious🥹🥹🥹

Same thing I asked

Offpoint1:

All accounts

Then why am I always been told that I'm ineligible

Offpoint1:
If you need (QUICK) loan avoid loan-sharks. If loan is the only hope left to meet your urgent need, use your bank. Most bank has made getting loan easier now, with just 1 click on their app, ussd or internet banking. Their interest is peanut compare to loan shark and you have 12 months to payback. (50k loan from your bank the interest is less than 10k WITH 12MONTHs liquidation period, while loan shark interest is between 30-45k and duration is a month or 3.)

I don't see reasons why people still use loan shark, maybe you think bank still requires Collaterals for quickloans.

I thought its only applicable to current account holders only?

Noniblaq:
Nigeria too hard, nobody is smiling at all. Today I want to put a smile on your face, with only fifteen Kay, I go give you three quality vintage shirts. See my thread for update

Pls help me with something to buy food

Tinububalls:
Please I need help to buy coffin for my mom.
Any amount is appreciated.
The budget is 70k.
Thank you my nairaland family. If you want to assist me just quote me let me drop my account number.

Your family members can do that. It is their exclusive obligation.
Anyway, sorry for the loss of your mum.

MrBrownJay1:


exactly!!! you cant attract a person with free honey and then complain about her wanting to continue have free honey (after marriage).

if you paid for everything before marriage, then continued paying for everything when you proposed to her and then paid for everything when you decided to marry this woman then thats what she will expect you to continue doing... aka PAY FOR EVERYTHING.

any smart person knows that this sort of lifestyle is not only wrong but also very dangerous, but sadly the misplaced ego of these men is clouding their judgment, so they will do anything to continue this charade and pay for everything (so that everyone will view them as a "big man" ).... and when money don finish, thats when these men will start complaining about their wife not contributing.

I think you're the Most Intelligent, mature and Sensible guy on this platform. Thanks so much. Wish we could chat and discuss

CandidAdmin:
Since it's the women speaking, then it's actually...

..."My money is my money but your money is our money"

You're right dear, I have edited the caption.
Thanks

MrBrownJay1:


the problem here is not these women and their failed mindset. the main problem here are MEN who go into these marriages pretending that they are gonna pay for EVERYTHING, (aka wifey has no financial obligation towards the family home etc), and then complain when wifey is not spending her money on the family.

you gladly created a monster and now want to complain about the very same monster YOU created?

if your wife has a JOB, then she should contribute to the family wellbeing FROM THE GET GO. so mortgage/bills/food/kids/outings etc is on her too.

You're spot on Here Bro. The men have given so much chance to the women and now they are flying so high. They saw all these Red flags right from day one, but they ignored them simply because they want to please the woman and assure her that he's extra-capable to handle all the needs

This mindset/mentality from ladies is really messing up a lot of marriages and relationships.

Over 97% of women and ladies hardly spend a dime out of their earnings to support their husbands and Boyfriends. I thought women were meant to be an "Helpmate" ?
Most women believe that they have no financial obligations to meet as far as the Home is concerned. They can't even buy the most petty items for the house until their husbands buy. This act has caused a lot of broken marriages cos not many men would withstand such women. A man, no matter how wealthy he is, needs support from his wife no matter how little.

Bullfallo:
what can 3k food buy. That you have to beg

Pls help

But una say juju nor dey work na?

Well, I understand the point he is trying to make

Wike the Talking Drum. So loudmouthed

Kidnapping is now the Most Lucrative Business in Nigeria. Just One successful operation, the kidnappers make more money than what a University professor would achieve in his 40yrs of service including salaries and pensions/gratuities. It's so sad. I pray for his safe release, and also pray God to touch someone's heart that can help me with 5k to buy foodstuff. Hunger is bad.


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Access Bank PLC

budaatum:
Her husband is insecure and immature, and she's well rid of him if this is why he wants a divorce.

You're not serious. I guess u must be a lady, cos that's what u people always say. But if it were your husband hugging his female Boss this way, you will be tge first to start crying fowl. Did u see the position of the man's hand on the woman's butt?

Many of your likes don't understand the true meaning of the word "immaturity" as u tend to misuse and abuse it most times. You define it to suit your personal narratives by deviating from it's original meaning. So u think a mature and responsible married woman who regards her marriage would do this?

What would be your reaction to this photo of your Wife hugging Her Boss this tightly?
Do you think it is proper for a married woman to be this close to her Boss in a picture?

You can Also see the position of the man's hand on the woman's Butt..

Well, her husband has already threatened to divorce her.

blackpanthar:


I have it and thats why it changed.

Thanks for showing you obviously don't

we don't live in the same country bro

I wish u could bless me with something to buy some food items please

Bullfallo:
what can 3k food buy. That you have to beg

It will help Sir.
Pls help me

EEIA:

daily pay as a laborer is 3k, wetin do your hands.

John Aondofa Lanem.


go and work so that you can eat… very lazy Tiv youth from Benue State

You're a fool

November24:


Why u add price,beggar has no choice

Ok send anything u can. Thanks

MrBrownJay1:
so that men would call them desperate old cargo and start abusing them?

if a woman reaches 35yrs old and no man has proposed to spend the rest of his life with her, then let it go and just accept that marriage aint for you.

Why would she let go? Nawao to some of una oo. Who told u she can't get married at age 36 and even beyond?

BirtherOfKings:
Quality Control Officer / Supervisor
MINIMUM EXPECTED QUALIFICATIONS[b] SEND CV TO ekaette.obot@worknigeria.com with job title as subject[/b]
Salary -150,000 naira
Education: HND/BSc./PGD. in Biochemistry or Microbiology or Industrial Chemistry or Chemical Engineering or Polymer Science/Technology or Science Laboratory Technology

Experience: Minimum of 3Years working experience as Quality Control Officer in Plastic Manufacturing Industry. Will be helpful if he or she has a knowledge of ISO (but not restricted to )

Skills: Having details understanding of Quality Management System Operations, Must be a Lead/Auditor ISO 9001:2015 Q.M.S

ELECTRICAL TECHNICIAN
Maintain, install, troubleshoot & repair industrial electrical equipment & electronic control systems.
Should be able to read electrical blueprints and schematic drawings, diagnose problems and then repair/replace pneumatic, mechanical & hydraulic components of equipment/machines.
Experience in plastic machinery & their ancillaries (Chiller, compressors, dryers).
Ensure to resolve and rectify problems correctly prior to breakdowns occurrence.
Inspect periodically electrical equipment to assure it is operating correctly.
Organize safe maintenance principles for regulating & scheduling breakdowns.
Troubleshoot and maintain motor control centres, motor start circuits, control loops, generators, high voltage switchgear, protective relaying, and related equipment.

Qualification:
OND/HND with 2 – 5 years’ experience.

Maintenance engineer - ASB , PET, IBM & BLOW
• Knowledge of Mold change over & Mold maintenance
• Good knowledge about Injection stretch blow moulding & Injection blow moulding operating & maintenance
• Basic knowledge of chiller & MTC, Air compressor, cooling tower, dryer.
• Operation and Calibration of Equipment’s.
•Responsible for waste control.
• Installation of the machines and Molds.
• Knowledge of hydraulic, electrical, and pneumatic lines of the machines.
• Disassemble and reassemble the Molds on the machine for conducting Mold trials as per planning.
• Proficient in handling the various measuring instruments required for the bottle inspection process.


Mold Maintenance - TOOLROOM

Clean and maintain molds and equipment, perform inspections on mold components,
and repair any damages the mold or machinery,

Should be able to operate Lathe machine, milling machine, Grinding and drilling machines

Should be able to change hot runner parts easily like,
Nozzle heater, manifold heater, nozzle tip and thermocouple
5 -- 10 Years experience

Maintenance - INJECTION
* Minimum desired diploma in mechanical or electrical
* ⁠Minimum 3 to 5years experience in injection moulding maintenance.
* ⁠Efficiently perform mould change within specified time frames
* ⁠Set up, operate, and troubleshoot injection moulding machines.
* ⁠Good knowledge in process optimisation and rejection control.
* ⁠Monitor production processes for quality and consistency, making necessary adjustments.
* ⁠Maintain cleanliness and readiness of machines and moulds for production run.
* ⁠Conduct regular preventive maintenance on machines and diagnose/repair malfunctions to minimise downtime
* ⁠Keep detailed maintenance records
* ⁠Minimum Knowledge on raw materials used for injection moulding.
* ⁠Good electrical and mechanical troubleshooting skills
• Minimum knowledge about chiller, Air compressor, cooling tower, hopper loader and dryer.
• Knowledge of hydraulic, electrical, and pneumatic lines of the machines.
• ⁠Follow safety and pharma / food safety protocols

Area Sales Manager

 Recruitment of distributors, ideally from beverages industry, like Bottled Water/CSD/Juice etc.
 Driving Primary Order collection.
 Planning for the secondary sales with the distributors
 Monthly & Quarterly sales volume projection.
 Retain & service the distributors/wholesalers to enhance our brand goodwill.
 Daily reporting to RSM & Sales Head as per the assigned format.
 Help the logistics team for a smooth delivery of goods and services to the distributors.
Remuneration:
Fixed Salary: Naira 250,000 monthly
Subsistence Allowance: Naira 182,000 monthly
Incentive: Based on Volume Target monthly

Companies the candidates may have worked in
-La casera (nirvana)
-Cway
-Mr. V (viju and the likes)

Microbiologist for water treatment plant
Experience: 3 years experience minimum
Daily report
*Raw water Testing .
*Chlorine testing in water
*After multimedia testing
*After Activated carbon .
*Ph report of raw water and final water .
*Tds reports of raw water and final water .
*Mineral mixture usage report and monitoring .
*Ozone checking record
*Testing of filling valves with ATP technology
Weekly report
*All Filling valve sample collection and micro testing .
*Keeping the final water sample to check the shelf life .
*Audit preparation
*HACCP control point checking .
Monthly .
*Score generation of the ozone for full month.
*PH average record of monthly basis .
*Borehole Chlorine testing
*RO membrane sample collection and report

salary 150-200k

Location of work is near shagamu on ibadan expressway

a skilled upholsterer
Duties/Responsibilities:
• Interpret design orders and create upholstery templates.
• Study work orders to determine the amount and type of materials required to cover work pieces
• Assist the team in selecting appropriate upholstery materials, such as fabric, leather, vinyl, or other coverings, considering factors such as durability, aesthetics, and functionality
• Follow sketches, patterns or blueprints to indicate cutting lines on fabrics using chalks, pencils or paint
• Ensure that fabric or other materials are cut and sewn accurately to match the design and dimensions of the furniture.
• Pay attention to pattern alignment and fabric direction to achieve a cohesive and polished look.
• Install foam and batting to the furniture framework when required
• Sew seams, attach piping or trim, and ensure that the finished upholstery has clean and precise stitching.
• Cut and shape foam to fit furniture contours and ensure optimal cushioning.
• provide recommendations and estimates for upholstery work and communicate with the team on the progress of projects
• Restore old or damaged furniture pieces by replacing worn-out upholstery materials, repairing structural components, and refinishing surfaces.
• Smoothing out imperfections and conducting quality checks on all completed orders.


Required Skills/Abilities:
• Previous experience with upholstery or furniture manufacturing
• Excellent design skills and Ability to draw and interpret design templates.
• Detail-oriented with excellent problem-solving and organizational skills.
• Strong visual design skills including proportion and aesthetics
• Ability to apply a sense of style to create aesthetically pleasing interiors.
• Knowledge of upholstery tools including hot knives, nail guns, and sewing equipment.
• Excellent communication skills, especially in regard to communicating an artistic vision.
• Excellent verbal and written communication skills.

Education and Experience:
• At least 4-6 years of related experience working in furniture production or in an interior firm
• Must be able to distinguish between colors and fabrics
SALARY 120,000 GROSS

n Regional Sales Manager for Lagos


 Recruitment of distributors, ideally from the beverage industry, like Bottled Water/CSD/Juice etc.
 Recruit, manage and train the ASM/Sales Executives.
 Driving Primary Order collection.
 Planning for the secondary sales with the ASM & distributors.
 Monthly & Quarterly sales volume projection.
 Retain & service the distributors/wholesalers to enhance our brand goodwill.
 Daily & weekly reporting to the Sales Head & management as per the assigned format.
 Help the logistics team with a smooth delivery of goods and services to the distributors.
 Manage the assigned territory in terms of Volume & Value target, market intelligence report & maintain the business relationship with all the stakeholders.
Remuneration:
Fixed Salary: Naira 450,000 monthly
Subsistence Allowance: Naira 260,000 monthly
Incentive: very attractive Based on Volume Target monthly

Vacancy for the Role of Company Lawyer
salary – 180-200,000

Job Summary

As a Legal Officer (Corporate Attorney) at Trading Partner Limited, you'll serve as an in-house counsel and handle all complex legal matters and projects. You will ensure the legality of commercial transactions and advise our company on legal rights and duties.

The ideal candidate will be responsible for providing legal support and advice to our organization on a wide range of legal issues, including contract negotiations, corporate governance, intellectual property (trademark), and compliance with relevant laws and regulations.

Responsibilities
• Review, draft, and negotiate a variety of contracts, including but not limited to commercial agreements, employment contracts, and license agreements.
• Provide guidance on corporate governance and compliance issues, including company policies and procedures.
• Advise on intellectual property matters, including trademark and copyright registration and protection.
• Manage litigation and dispute resolution processes.
• Stay current on changes in laws and regulations affecting the organization.
• Research, anticipate, and guard the company against legal risks.
• Collaborate with departmental heads to provide strategic and tactical legal support.

Qualifications
• First degree in Law (LL.B) and admission to the Nigerian bar.
• Minimum 5 years of cognate experience in corporate law, intellectual property law, or related field.
• Proven experience in research, analysis, and legal advisory on fundamental business matters
• Experience in contract drafting and negotiation as well as dispute resolution,
• Strong analytical and interpersonal skills, with the ability to effectively communicate complex legal issues to non-lawyers.
• Proven ability to work effectively in a fast-paced, deadline-driven environment.
• Ability to maintain confidentiality and handle sensitive legal matters with discretion.
• You have solid experience in Business Establishment, Contract Management, Corporate Governance & Compliance, Data Protection, Litigation, Restructuring & Insolvency, and Tax
• Age 40 years and Above
•preferably Male

Employment type : Full time



Job Vacancy for Accounting Clerk
salary – 150,000- 200,000

Job Scope
• Record transactions which includes income and outgoings, and posting them to various accounts.
• Conduct daily banking activities.
• Maintaining an accurate record of financial transactions.
• Updating and maintaining the general ledger.
•Maintain Financial Records
•Record and update financial transactions in the accounting system.
• Process invoices, and expense reports for payment.
• Ensure timely and accurate payment processing to vendors and suppliers.
• Monitor and follow up on outstanding accounts receivable.

Qualifications
• At least BSC qualification in Accounting or Business Administration from a reputable institution.
• BSc in Accounting preferred.
• 2years minimum Qualification proven work Experience.
•Age 28 years and above
•Preferably Female

Requirements:
• Excellent interpersonal and people skills
• Proficiency in using collaboration and productivity tools

Job Summary
• As the Company Secretary and Office Assistant, you will play a pivotal role in ensuring the efficient operation of our office.
• You will not only provide critical administrative support but also actively engage in client communication by responding to requests for quotes and inquiries.
• Your attention to detail, excellent communication skills, and ability to multitask will be key in your success in this role.

Key Responsibilities

Administrative Duties:
• Maintain and organize company records, documents, and files.
• Schedule and coordinate meetings, appointments, and travel arrangements for management.
• Manage office supplies and ensure the office is well-stocked.
• Perform general clerical tasks, such as photocopying, scanning, and filing.
• Handle incoming and outgoing mail and correspondence.
• Assist in preparing reports, presentations, and other documents.

Client Communication
• Respond promptly and professionally to client requests for quotes.
• Handle inquiries from clients regarding our products/services, pricing, and delivery.
• Maintain a high level of customer service in all client interactions.
• Keep detailed records of client communication for reference and analysis.

Office Organization
• Ensure the office environment is organized, tidy, and presentable.
• Manage office equipment and arrange for maintenance when necessary.
• Coordinate with vendors and service providers as needed.
• Support colleagues in various administrative tasks when required
• Prepare and maintain documentation related to company secretarial duties.

Qualifications
• OND / HND / B.Sc / B.A in Business Administration, Secretarial Studies, or a related field preferred.
• Minimum of 3 years proven work experience in administrative or secretarial roles.
• Excellent verbal and written communication skills.
• Proficient in Microsoft Office Suite (Word, Excel, PowerPoint).
• Strong organizational skills and attention to detail.
• Ability to multitask and prioritize tasks effectively.
• Customer-focused with a professional and friendly demeanor.
• Knowledge of basic office equipment and software applications.
•Age 30 and Above
•Preferably female

Preferred Qualifications (Optional)
• Familiarity with oil and gas operations.
• Previous experience in a similar role within oil and gas.


URGENTLY HIRING!

Job Title: Front Desk/Admin Officer

Salary: 120,000

Qualifications:
- HND/B.Sc. in Business Administration, or related fields.
-previous experience in oil and gas is added advantage

Skills/Requirements:
- 2 years’ experience in a Front Desk/Admin Officer role.
- Proficient in the use of Microsoft Excel and Word.
- Sound interpersonal skills.
- Strong customer focus.
- Excellent communication skills (both verbal and written).
- Excellent time management and problem-solving skills.
- A self-starter, well organized, and a prolific multi-tasker.

Responsibilities:
- Welcome guests/visitors as soon as they arrive at the office.
- Answer, screen, and forward incoming phone calls.
- Receive, sort, report and distribute daily mail/deliveries.
- Maintain office security by following safety procedures and controlling access via the reception desk (monitor logbook).
- Ensure office supplies are monitored, managed, and restocked as at when due.
- Inspect projects upon completion to track vendor’s compliance with initial agreement.
- Ensure cleanliness of Office premise by effective supervision of the cleaning staff.
- Routine inspection of infrastructure, general office equipment (furniture, lightings, fittings) and office premise to ensure they are clean and in good working order.
- Perform other ad hoc tasks assigned by the line manager.

Saloon Manager lekki phase 1
Business development manager - saloon/spa specialty lagos lekki phase 1

You're a great man

blackpanthar:


I can't argue with you,
when you make serious money like I have, YOU WILL SEE THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY and be qualified to reason this matter with me.



I am yet to see any POLITICIAN, WORLD LEADER, suffer heartbreak.

MONEY is next to GOD, even JESUS ADMITTED IT.

So its well

I'm not arguing. I may be wrong though, because I haven't made it yet. Still struggling. I think this will make an interesting debate. Only poor people actually suffer heartbreaks. It is well Sir.
If u don't mind, may I request that u help me with something to buy some food. There's intense hunger. I mean acute Hunger

Franzinni:
I get your point but that is why I said if she is for the streets she will show you red flags by her actions

Exactly.
There's just no way a sensible, intelligent and smart guy will be dating a cheating girlfriend and he wouldn't realize it on Time. The signs are always there to see, except they are Been blinded by fake love and emotions

Franzinni:
but the guy in the story deliberately checked... And sorry how do you accidentally check because I have not been able to imagine how that can be possible... Do you accidentally go to here what app or Instagram? Or how...

Accidental in this regard means that , one of the partner may decide to get the other's phone maybe to get some videos, music or do some internet stuffs at a particular time. In the process, a message could pop up from another guy or babe they are cheating with. At the point, curiosity sets in.
Another instance is, ur girlfriend visits u and decided to put her phoyon silence every time she comes around, then u begin to get suspicious.
Again, while she is with you, she may decide against picking a call from a particular number. She does it all the time when she's with you.
Ask her to give u her password when she's in the restroom and u needed to do something urgently with her phone, she wouldn't. She would rather ask her guy to wait until she's done from the restroom.

All these and more are some of the reasons that people check their partners phones. Nobody just sits down and tell the partner to bring their phones to be checked.
I believe there would be no need to panic if there's nothing to hide.
Imagine some police officers came to your house with search warrant and told u to allow them in, to search for a Gun hidden there. If your so sure that u don't have a gun in there, u would gladly allow them in. But if there's a gun in there, u first start by resisting the officers and getting unnecessarily defensive. That's it

blackpanthar:


WHEN YOUR WHOLE MIND IS INVESTED IN MAKING MONEY AND BEING A BETTER PERSON............ you will have no HEART BREAK with ladies because YOU WILL NEVER TAKE THEM SUPER SERIOUS...

HEART BREAK is most painful when SHE IS ALL YOU GOT........... MONEY GIVES OPTIONS....

You will LOOSE MONEY chasing women, but never REALLY loose women if you FOCUS ON MAKING MONEY FIRST

Oga, forget it. No matter how rich you are, there's one lady out of many that u have that you will always Love and be Emotionally attached to. So what if it is such lady that breaks your heart?
Remember, money can never take the place of woman in your life.

Franzinni:
You had NO business checking her phone.... A man should never do that.

If you don't feel you can trust her... Just leave her for the streets.

Women are always hypergamous... They will always look for someone better, that is why they say a woman never marries what she wants, she instead marries what she can. But if what she wants comes along.... Sope otilo

Stop this trash pls. I hate it when people say u have no right to check your partner's phone. Do u know what it means to be in a serious relationship that is about leading to Marriage? Or u think marriage is child's play? If you can Bleep her and have seen her unclothedness several times, then why can't u check her phone if u want? If there's nothing incriminating in her phone, then why should she not want it checked? A man or woman that wants to get married always carry out a background check on their partner, even the parents of the duo help in carrying out these checks particularly when they are from same place, as it helps to know exactly who you're getting married to. A lot is hidden in relationships, it is after marriage that their true character begins to manifest.

Some Ladies can't even leave their phones with their boyfriends for a minute. It's a redflag. Note, it's not like u deliberately collect her phone and say u want to check. No. Most times it is accidental

blackpanthar:
so sorry for this kind of experience but we need to change your SIMPlistic view on the matter... NOT ALL LADIES ARE LIKE HER, yes you need a break from relationships, go and LEARN the right way about relationships through books and counsellors who have a proven track record on such issues.

it may just have been the wake up call you need.

ONCE A MAN SLEEPS WITH A LADY, HE HAS CONQUERED HER WHILE SHE HAS BEEN CONQUERED.
YOU need to expose him to other colleagues before leaving that office. He is a shameless animal.


IN LIFE, NEVER MAKE YOUR WOMAN COME TO YOUR LEVEL OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOSE HER.

WHEN WOMEN HAVE MONEY, THEY BELIEVE THEY DO NOT NEED MEN, BUT WHEN MEN HAVE MONEY, THEY GO IN SEARCH OF WOMEN OR FAMILY.

WHEN A SNAKE BITES YOU, NEVER CHASE IT FOR EXPLANATION OR REVENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE FIRST TREATED YOURSELF FROM THE VENOM PROPERLY

THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS(meaning get richer, own your own business, find a better loyal lady who is 1000% better than your ex and marry her)

FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET

CONVERT THE PAIN TO DETERMINATION TO BE A GREAT SUCCESS..... CHANGE ENVIRONMENT.... EVEN IF YOU NEED TO FIND A BETTER JOB.

Is it about getting Richer after a breakup? Even if you're Dangote, these girls will still cheat on you.