₦airaland Forum

Keneking:
Amazing

Jonathan tried to remove it but couldn't...the cabal promised him support for 2nd term victory. But Jonathan Azikwe failed

Meanwhile Sai Buhari for this decision

May God deliver u.

E be like say celebrities dey use this children as collateral o. Why the rush?

Skateboard:
She has endorsements bringing in money!

Endorsements don't last a life time, especially when one party isn't benefiting. I pray God sends her a financial advicer from her family in order to save for the future. And hope she doesnt get carried away.

sisisioge:
Baby, u and said guy took a leap of unnecessary faith when your first meeting was with the family in present. What were you thinking? Guy needed to have seen you first to work out what he could or couldn't deal with before bringing the families in. Whew, leave him alone...let's see if he would miss you too , otherwise, on to the next.

My dear, this scenerio of family involvement is something I have so avoided from the onset. His cousin is like his best female friend. And she involved my mum in this issue twice. He was aware. So him behaving like there is nohing wrong, is like a tornment to me. We ended it like two weeks ago, and he hasnt called since then. I'm just still trying to figure where the problem evolved from, and use your advice constructively to move on with my life. I really appreciate.

Myosotis:
Okay Sis . That is Your personal preference ... Just don't put it like she was doing something awfully wrong

Thanks ladies. Actually this is not the first time I'm being matched made. We see this every time especially when people feel u are ripe for marriage. The only problem is i never saw a sign, he was into the relationship than I was. And this was the first time he actually complained of sad moods or anger issues. And he easily gave up.

PresVA:
It's well dear.. just move on.. it's obvious he's no longer into you, his attitude began even before the incidence that made you sad.. He's just making up excuses. .

However, you know yourself better. .check and know whether you really hv anger issues, if not just move on and never accept what he has tagged you...

Then, I don't think you should go begging him, if he misses you he'll come bk and you can make your decision. ..you've asked for clarifications from him and I think it's ok for now. ..

All the best.. remember there are many fishes in the river. ..

Lol, Thank you

Thanks guys, I really appreciate your responses.

kallmemrB:
some Silly Nairalanders will tell you to dump him but the honest truth is no sensible man can deal with a moody wife....

Are you bipolar? if not leran to smile alot and enjoy the best in life....thru ur write up i can easily guess he may be right cos your write-up has this sad feel to it

work on urself ,study ur moods you will know if hes right...ask friends and family what ur mood is like

Thanks dear. I've tried family and friends, and they are all surprised to hear this, though I feel they might be a bit biased. That's why I'm here.

Myosotis:
Long Distance relationship

Yes it is. We communicate through the phone, we talked like every hour, he even freaks out sometimes when he can't reach me. So when he started changing I didn't need anyone to tell me something was wrong.

Him calling me sad or easily angered is like an irony. I even feel humiliated. Bt i like him very much, i want to know if I shld plead with him that I will change "Being easily angered or sad" or I should just let him be.

johnwizey:
Aunty why are u sad

Honestly, I'm as confused as you are. I don't know if he thinks my reaction to a situation as being sad or angry.

I have been in this relationship for the past 7months, Please i need advice. This guy came with the mindset of getting married, we were actually matched maked by his older cousin.We had an energising 4 months of talking through the phone. During Xmas he invited me over to his family house, there was no official introduction, I also returned the gesture, definitely my family knew who he was. After Xmas he reduced the calls, he claimed he had family issues he needs to settle. Before then, he had invited me to his place, i was busy, so we agreed to work another time out. I tried keeping in touch, though my spirit told me something was wrong. It continued, i started feeling hurt. I made him knw this times without number.

The coldness lingered, so I stopped calling, though I check up on him once a week. My sister had issues with sch, the way she kept crying on the phone got to me. So I dropped my ego and decided to call him to proffer solution cuz he works in the institution. The first time I called I was sad/ angry. Though he told me what to do, and finally the storm passed for my sis.

Finally I summoned courage and pleaded with him to tell me where I stand. I have always respected him that was why I choose this part. After a long wait. He sends a long chat i summary, he can't deal with my sad mood. I tried to talk abt it, BT I guess his mind was already made up. Though he claimed he still cares.

I really like this guy, what should I do?

I'm in similar situation and pls I need advice. This guy came with the mindset of getting married cuz we were actually matched maked. We had an energising 3 months of talking through the phone. During Xmas he invited me over to his family house, there was no official introduction, I also returned the gesture, definitely my family knew who he was. After Xmas he reduced the calls, he claimed he had family issues he needs to settle. Before then, he had invited me to his place, i was busy, so we agreed to work another time out. I tried keeping in touch, though my spirit told me something was wrong. It continued, i started feeling hurt. I made him knw this times without number.

The coldness lingered, so I stopped calling as well. My sister had issues with sch, the way she kept crying on the phone got to me. So I dropped my ego and decided to call him to proffer cuz he works in the institution. The first time I called I was sad/ angry. Though he told me what to do, and finally the storm passed for my sis.

Finally I summoned courage and bugged him to tell me where I stand of course I did it in a calm manner was always pleading.I have always respected him that was why I choose this part. After a long wait. He sends a long chat, saying he can't deal with my sad mood. I tried to talk abt it, BT I guess his mind was already made up. Though he claimed he still cares.

I really like this guy, what should I do?

Truth be told, the woman has issues. 6months is too early. My parents are over 30 yrs in marriage, my mum always complains but has never taken drastic actions like ur wife has for peace sake. Just be rational, help ur brother as long as he doesn't demand for unnecessary things. Right nw ur wife is nt yet family and has invested nothing. Remind her of that if she doesn't want to calm down.

nairaman66:
Everyone keeps holding PMB to one thing or the other! Wondered where were this same people during the PDP.. Just saying

U dey dis country

tpiar:
dumbest response so far.

Are you the owner of the fingers?

Really? Guy don't ever quote me again! U can accost the woman or hang yourself!!And get out of this page and go make money for your future wife and kid, bitter soul!

Guys have been lashing women's effort of trying to be happy since the days of my great grand father. Cmon give her a break now, look at the objects in the nails and nt the nails now. Ur future wife might do worse o lol

Aregbe wants to destroy osun state to the extend that no opposition can redeem. He is evil! Its unheard of that students will attention classes for 13wks, only not to right exam as instructed by the governor.! Shame on APC led administration!

Good for them. Mine I even spoke to an agent on Monday, and she confirmed my registration is complete. She gave me a code to check my status, and they replied my reg was complete, jst to wake up to a deactivated sim, after the previous stress. Me I can break their desktops if I had my way.
Their database is corrupt, they shld work on it and stop stressing Nigerians!

Valwezzy:
Isn't this the same court akpororo and one other dude did their wedding too?? ??

Why always this court

My dear the court don see people, rich,poor,old,young,black,white. As far as Lagos court wedding is concern.

Nyceguy92:
Our women are really catching up with Western culture.

Who would have thought of seeing a lady in this degree of UnCloth years back.

Times are really changing.

That's the beauty of her body type, she can walk naked and my grandma won't be offended

madenigga:
how did this girl win miss world?

Yes she won with DAT body, and in fact till silverbird gets her type again, no more miss world title for Nigeria again!

How do people even fall in love with someone with a bad character? Bad character is a no go area for me, no love at all!

Nigeria is not a one party country! These greedy ruling party don't mean well for this nation o!

PassingShot:
PDP is very predictable with its victim mentality! A useless party that brought sixteen years of pains, sorrows and sufferings on Nigerians.

How has Dokpesi been pronounced guilty by being arrested by EFCC?

Even, kids know that arresting suspects comes before prosecution. And so far, not a single one of those arrested has been held beyond the time limit stipulated by the nation's law. So, where is the lawlessness or persecution you cry of?

PDP and its sympathizers should understand that crying wolves and releasing statements calling on international community will not help them a bit. Not when available evidences do not prove anything against the government.

To be sincere, some of us are even angry that the nation's laws are preventing PMB/DSS/EFCC/ICPC from packing all the Dasukis, Yugudas, Bafarawas, Dokpesis, Oritsejafors, Diezanis and locking them up in jail for as long as necessary. They all trampled upon our constitution in sabotaging the economy and security of the country, yet they expect the same law to protect them from being brought to justice!

I wish Buhari was a military head of state as we speak.

Ur beloved party are the architects of the word SABOTAGE!

PRYCE:
Vulnerable to what exactly?

APC meant those touts/agberos that helped them snatch ballot boxes. They hav given Lagos agberos a federal allowance. Rubbish!

Especially governors like Aregbeshola, when u hear him talk about allocation you will tink its his birth right.

What's will be the difference between unemployed graduates and Lagos agbero?? Can they even pull this off with moderate accountability? Or jst another move to enrich some greedy few!

Miami11:
So you blame the victim and not the rapist

If the guy is guilty of rape he will definitely regret his actions. He will never go unpunished emotionally or legally. I dont blame the victim, I blame her parents, especially her mother!

dgalon:
Seriously! Is that all you cud come up with?i must confess I av NVR came across a person with shallow reasoning like you. no offence. The truth most be told

That statement of yours, explains the words SHALLOW, REASONING! Good day

dgalon:
That's the beauty and burden of democracy. Every jack and Jill Can spew trash...

I repeat! Cover your face in shame, because your type is the reason why we are where we are today!

So pls do me a favour! Instead of making such comments, pls keep quite!

[Finish's author=dgalon post=40496438]That's the beauty and burden of democracy. Every jack and Jill Can spew trash...[/quote]. You should be ashamed of yourself!