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]Another term would be disaster if the first is this tyrannical.

They gave the order to DSS to disallow media interference, not Buhari or DSS authority. That was why he said ' ...they cannot give a counter directive without letting us know'

Please read well and again if need be.

rawpadgin:
Here are top movies of 2017 in no particular order

The hitman's bodyguard
The mountain between us
Blade runner
Kinsman- golden circle
Justice league
Get out (got to be my favourite)
Kong - skull island
Logan
Gifted
Dunkirk
John wick
Downsizing

Will Smith just did a new one titled 'bright'
I just downloaded it but i haven't had the chance to see it

Where do you download movies please?

Daboomb:
This is real and very serious matter o!

- How was your courtship years like?
- Did you sound each other out at all?
- Did she cook for you before marriage and did you cook for her then?
- Do both of you do thing together and do oyu have "common interests" back then?
- Were you in-love with her before marriage (as in real passionate love that you cant do without seeing her for a day) and was she passionately inlove with you as well?
- What made the two of you to really decide you want to get married to each other? What was the conviction?
Finally
- Do you have children in the marriage right now?

I asked this question because l can "sense hatred" in this relationship and that is never a good sign because it does not get better!
Please dont get violent.
If things dont work out pretty soon and you dont have children between the two of you, l see that the hatred is sort of "mutual" (if she does not pick calls, does not cook for you, e.t.c ...l am not even sure two of you stii have sex with each other!). better to seek early divorce so that each of you can find happiness.
Life is too short to live in such poisnous atmosphere.

I really wish I can answer all these questions. I admit that I brought all this on my self (her too). I had been careful all my life til I met her. I was only taught about commitment in marriage. Love/passion/ affection/friendliness were secondary until few weeks I signed the dotted lines. We have two kids. Their age difference is quite much, almost four years and it's simply because I don't wanna father another child in this hapless harmony. Courtship was a disaster. I felt my real self was mummified. Despite all these, I wanted to make it work but there was no oil in the mill. I feel terribly bad cos I broke up with ladies amicably when I observed things I couldn't cope with. This caught me pants down. I take responsibility even though there were pastoral influences. Persons i respect in the church but I can't start to blame them.

Like the other guy said, I don't get any erection on sighting her. I wouldn't go violent. I will rather drive to sambisa. I was considering divorce but for the kids and my old mother. My mum raised five of us alone till adulthood. I was 5 when dad passed on. Divorce will shatter her even though my wife has little or no regard for her. My mum will call her and she will never pick or acknowledge or return the call. I keep in touch with her parents and siblings yet mine are abhorrent to her.

I don't know why I am still here really. Death seems sweeter though I can't initiate myself. I really wanna be free

I read this story and I thought it was my wife. I am married too but at the moment I can't stand the sight of my wife. I wonder and regret how I dragged her into a marital mess. I discovered this a week after our wedding that I am not meant for this kind of relationship but that was too late. However, I vowed to be committed to her based on my religious background. She made things really worse for me. I happen to work in another city; four hours drive from base. At no time has she ever prepared meal for me when I am traveling. She has no regard for my parents or siblings. There are atimes I get home on Saturday and there is nothing for me to eat. Before I was transferred, I do the shopping. All she does is to make a list. She sprained her ankle and was on POP for practically 2 months. I was going home each weekend for support and do all the shipping. She hardly picks my call or call back yet blames me for communication gap. It got to a peak and I actually wished life could just end somehow and give both of us peace. Suicide was a remote option. I wanted to just disappear. Now, I careless who cares or not. I guess marriage is not for everyone. I am filled with many regrets beyond count. I wish I could punch Ctrl Z on my life's keyboard. I have bent beyond backwards but it seems it's not gonna work. It all sucks.

I am too and I'm doing so well.

reuben79:
i can tell u dat buhari will find it difficut to survive primary election................

Abi! Can he survive the campaign stress? They should know better

So so so unfortunate! So only pmb can clean and correct the 16years mess PDP meted on Nigeria. I don't know APC can be as daft as this falling headlong into same error PDP made with Jonathan. I wish them well if it ever got well.

I can just wait for this ' constituted authority' to leave the scene. He performance is suboptimal compared to his exposure and level of education.

This could be stock counted not necessarily one by one. That doesn't validate the claim anyway.

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