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All i can say is Excellent.
A lot of us needs to grow up and stop this tribal war. Whenever something good comes from us, Can we all have the courtesy of applauding and praising what good instead of your negative e-war.
Excellent again. May God bless their homes. I wish the! well in their endeavors.

We humans always try to exploit people who are honest ad term them weak. Just move on. Do not call her again, I repeat do not call her again,preferably, delete her number. You just need to stop acting weak and give yourself time to heal. Its just a phase one of us needs to experience and go through. Wish you well in your endeavor.

For those interested in teaching. Saw a vacancy in a school and this is the number to call . The school is at power house along Lagos/Ibadan expressway, adjacent to mfm. 08035244236. Please I am in no way related to the person . Though I called to verify the vacant position and was told by the teacher that the vacancy position is for maths and English . Good luck .

A lot has been said already, but here is what I think.
Stay away from dating for a while and every form of relationship, thus allowing and giving yourself time to heal. According to what you wrote earlier, he wasted 18months of your life. Good thing you've had the experience at a tender age. Do not hate men, see it as one of those things that happens in life (shits), I know it hurts ,but you just have to pick yourself and move on. Good luck in your endeavors.
Concentrate on your academics. You still have a long way to go.

A lot has bee said already, but here is what I think.
Stay away from dating for awhile and every form of relationship, thus allowing ad giving your time to heal. According to what you wrote earlier, he wasted 18months of your life. Good thing you've had the experience at a tender age. Do not hate men, see it as one of those things that happens in life (shits), I know it hurts ,but you just have to pick yourself and move on. Good luck in your endeavors.

Omen, These live update na im sure pass. Keep it coming.

The deed has-been done. Stop crying for spilt milk. He took a good decision by quitting the relationship. You need time to heal. Pick yourself up and move on. Hopefully, someday you will realise that he took a better decision for both of you. Good luck in your endeavors.

I do gate automation, CCTV installation and access control system. Looking forward to having a contract.
Never knew a place like this existed. Thanks .

These are the latest gadgets available

The laptops have been SOLD. thanks. Its phone that is available for now

Olaryeankarh:
Hey mahn. Got an HP Envy m6 with i5, 8GB RAM for sale. Would you be interested?

I had gotten it already. Thanks .

Spec of the Samsung? Will update as soon as something tangible comes up.

Saw a teaching vacancy at power house. I would have gotten a concise information but I was inside a vehicle . Kindly check for those who live around there or still before 8pm today, I will drop a concise information.

vicben27:
2 of my ex'es were far older dan i was back den(durin my scool days/ nysc) older ladies are more emotionally mature! dos times wer some of my mst memorable moments! dis younger girls ar full of wahala

You've just said the truth. I can relate to that.

I once dated a lady 5 years older than me and I can say that I enjoyed every bit of the relationship . She was understanding, respectful and lovely.
Most of these smallies take most guys for granted and they like misbehaving, always acting immature . Truth be told, Matured ladies rock.

INTROVERT:
We must not take lightly the lessons behind this thread. I envisage alot of scandals occurring to the current generation (18-29) in the next 15-20 years. All the slay Queens and princesses that keep sending out nudes to sense less boys in the name of love I feel sorry for you. Reason being that when you eventually marry your 'future husband', your ambitions and your husband ands will be tarnished with such disgusting pictures. Talk more of your children seeing nudes you sent 20 years ago...... Remember the Internet never sleeps, it never forgets. Be warned and be careful. Same goes to the fly guys, the smooth guys, you young now taking pics with the guys drinking, smoking and doing party straffing videos and posting online, continue o,
continue..... One day you will regret. One day that phone will lose, that laptop will be stolen and you go Che chom chin .........

Well spoken. It couldn't have been said better. I hope the slay Queens will heed to the advise as well as the fresh guys.

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Well, you need to get your emotions and anger issues in check. Sincerely, my only advice at the moment is to read a book by Tim Lahaye "Why you act the way you do". I think it will handle your issue if you put what you read to practice. In addition, get someone to call trust and always talk to about your insecurities. Someone honest should be able to build your confidence back. Ensure you read the book. GOODLUCK.

jeytee:
It's really sad the way some girls miss out on their opportunities....this reminds me of an experience I had,I met a girl after church service on a Sunday about 6 months ago,I collected her number and I felt she was an okay person,fast forward to a few hours later when I called ,she told me that she doesn't take calls at night from guys,I was bamboozled but I swallowed it,I waited and then called her two days later ,she picked up and was really cold to me,I then asked the simple question "do you want me to quit calling you?" And her response was no,a week after this whole shenanigans i managed to convince her to have lunch with me but instead she invited me to church and said we could hang out after the midweek service was over this by the way was on a Wednesday ......I promptly attended and after the service ended and I met her up ,we started talking and she said she had some bags to carry home,but she needed to drop them off before we could go out,indirectly she just asked if I had a car,I was plain and I said the best I could do was get a cab for her to carry her stuff and that I didn't have a car but to my surprise she declined and said we would have to fix the date for some other time because she felt stressed ,I smelt the rescheduled date was due to me not having a car,I went home and called her the next day ,it was at that point I got a clear message from her over the phone "please don't call me again,I'd really appreciate that".
I'm quite a simple fellow and I instantly stopped calling and deleted her number......fast forward to exactly two months after that.I was blessed by God and I've bought two SUV cars and she's still single as fvck....my friend runs into her occasionally and he says she looks frustrated but I don't think I care at all,sometimes it's not that these girls play hard to get it's the fact that some of them are just plain stupid and miss out on their partners because of trivial matters

Nailed it.

Different mindset. different perspective . Playing hard to get is a big NO to me. Honestly, I don't fancy it. If he is gonna cherish you, I don't think playing hard will improve your chances. But ladies who do that to me, in less than 2 tries, I don zoom off. You won't see my break light.

MissCuppy:
I just dunno what is wrong with him, he needs to leave me alone and go marry, I rather not marry than marry him.

Epic plus savagery .

After successfully reading from PG 1-18, These are my deductions so far.
Kenya is beautiful, as well as Nigeria, No doubt, With the little resources Kenya has got, it has a better development as compared to Nigeria. With the resources Nigeria has got, we ought to have moved past this stage that we are.
Development is all about basic amenities, such as stable electricity , good road, infrastructure,,water etc. which many parts of Nigeria seem to be lacking at the moment.
Imagine Bedlam experience of having to tip the security guys at the airport so as to avoid delay and other questions. This is very common in most of airports in my country ad this has to stop because it keeps painting a bad image about Nigeria.
Thanks for the picture and insight, at least I now have a few countries to visit.
For everyone reading , commenting,observing , I hail o and as for the internet muscle flexing individuals, stop the hatred, Learn something new by minimizing your ignorance.
Peace out.

It nice been here. Never knew this section is fun filled. Great minds and thoughts .Hope to contribute my own quota to the development of this section.

Interesting comments. Hailings to all the matured men and women in the house. I don learn new one. Keep the comments flowing.

Have a nice day.[/quote]Duly noted. You too.

kimbra:
If you do my fiancé will dismiss it.
Have a nice day.

Duly noted. You too.

kimbra:
If you do my fiancé will dismiss it.
Have a nice day.

You too .

kimbra:
This is the more reason why some men will keep treating some ladies as trash 'cause they don't know how much of values they could be, only if they put time to work things out than this dependent mentality.

Thanks for the compliment.

I refuse to let go . You've caught my attention. I need to get to know you . These are the kind of female friends one should have. Last time I checked, iron sharpens iron. Even though, you are married, at least we can still be friends.
Hopefully, you don't mind if I send you a PM.

kimbra:
Lol, funny thread. Women are not made to be dependent on men. The world has evolved and I expect some minds to do same. We're not in the era where women were not allowed to sort for their livelihood but in an era where you command respect by life achievement irrespective of your gender. I don't support women waiting on men for every need no matter what the op calls it. If they give you make you take but if them no give you no make am a big deal. The only person that should take full responsibility of your welfare is either your father when you're single or husband when you're married but don't be a burden to the people around you.

I don't know why I find asking a big deal. Even to my mum, I rather sort things my way.

Ah. I don't know you, but I just love you especially your comments. Your independent mentality will take you places. please for the real ladies going through the thread. Keep the fire burning . No one wants a liability . The moment you become an asset, it will be difficult for people to do away with you .

Bumbae1:
Trust me I am as Irritated as you right now So sad reading this thread and some actually agree with her Just hope it changes one day ..
Anyway thank God for divorce sha .. incase he make mistake he can rectify

Interesting comments . I'm glad that some ladies seem not to agree with her.

JhimmySpark:
... Myopic post. Even to recharge your phone your boyfriend must do that for you?.. Buying you gifts all the time?.. When he fails to buy you those gifts all the time wah happens to the relationship?.. Don't you want to be rich and buy your own car?. Be your own boss?.. Don't you want to have money so bad that you don't have to depend on anyone forit?. It's called a relationship not a job opportunity. I agree that finance makes relationship blossom but this your own is 'milk him dry'. Guess relationship to you is a question of highest bidder. God will help your hustle.

You nailed it. Amen to the prayers.

Got some phones I wanna sell at the moment. Kindly check it out. They are all brand new, I've used it for just a month .
https://www.nairaland.com/3576122/sale-gadgets-strictly-gadgets. Thanks