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Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by amuokuko: 8:26pm On May 27, 2017 |
Love is truly blind nd stvpid... He is AS nd u re AS nd u continued U must be a medical student from a "college of Education"... Thank God for relieving you of future agony... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by elhafeez(m): 8:26pm On May 27, 2017 |
After I saw the pain and suffering my Neighbor went through I broke up with the love of my life. I told her we can't be selfish and bring a child or children to the world to suffer. we wahala start aswear the love go clear for una eye. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Afam4eva(m): 8:27pm On May 27, 2017 |
meiyol: As a medical student that you are, You should be ashamed of yourself by not only knowing the implication of having two partners with AS genotype and still want to marry and have children. He did the right thing, though i'm wondering why he didn't do it sooner. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tomdon(m): 8:28pm On May 27, 2017 |
meiyol: You feel used and heartbroken abi. Who used you?? ?? You just went on fukking the guy, giving him all styles including doggy even when you knew the dicey situation that is involved, and you're a med student abi. Instead of you to stand by your choice in life you're talking about being used, taking the very easy way out but the wrong way by claiming victim My dear nobody used you, you used yourself so wake up and smell the coffee 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Iseddy: 8:28pm On May 27, 2017 |
Thank your fiance later, your future wahala saved & prevented |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tosyne2much(m): 8:28pm On May 27, 2017 |
egbaguy2:My brother, I also can't take such a risk.. Even if it's on religious ground, I still won't take the risk |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Abali1(m): 8:29pm On May 27, 2017 |
3rdeye1:Thank God for your sister and hubby. I know of a couple who have like 5 and 4 out of the 5 are all SS. And one is already dead, leaving 4. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by fpeter(f): 8:29pm On May 27, 2017 |
Mistake number one; is making a man your everything... no man should take God's place in your life. Secondly, going into a relationship knowing the risks involved is a mistake. My dear, relax..you ain't seen nothing yet. There's someone far better than the dude and very soon he'll come along. Please and please NEVER even start any relationship with another carrier in the future. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by futurewise11(m): 8:29pm On May 27, 2017 |
delugadou: Lol...prayer warrior...please this is 21st century grow up. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Waspy(m): 8:30pm On May 27, 2017 |
My sympathy goes out to you Op You other options are Prenatal Genotype diagnosis....Your doctor fiance shld know abt this, except if he's not cool with the moral burden or he's just bent on leaving you 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by mixter(m): 8:30pm On May 27, 2017 |
The deed has-been done. Stop crying for spilt milk. He took a good decision by quitting the relationship. You need time to heal. Pick yourself up and move on. Hopefully, someday you will realise that he took a better decision for both of you. Good luck in your endeavors. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Xmen149(m): 8:31pm On May 27, 2017 |
If this were to be the future where am your child and an reading this meaning you both are 100% aware and made me to go through the pains of SS I will simply kill both of you. I once dated one,it was never a good sight for once 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Jodasy: 8:31pm On May 27, 2017 |
Go and give thanksgiving offering in the church 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tosyne2much(m): 8:32pm On May 27, 2017 |
Pavore9:May wisdom never elude you brother 1 Like
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Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Lexo22(m): 8:32pm On May 27, 2017 |
GOD indeed isn't an author of confusion, and as such, I doubt if He Will destine two As' to be together knowing fully well the pending implications. The break-up as a matter of fact is in your best interest @sisterly. God bless and perfect all that concerns you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tobaseye: 8:33pm On May 27, 2017 |
I think he took a very wise decision to quit before both of you get yourself into problem and also put innocent child(ren) into avoidable pains. Please pack yourself together and move on. We over hype this thing called love many times. Knowing fully well the consequences of being together as AS & AS and you still want to go ahead with it. I know a couple that got separated when their first child was SS. Maybe they were counting on hope just as you are doing now. But when the reality struck their locked brain opened I guess. 10 years down the line the guy has moved on with children while the lady is still single. Maybe she would have be better off not having a child and wait patiently for someone with AA. Please thanks the guy for taking the bold step. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Odunharry(m): 8:33pm On May 27, 2017 |
dominique: Nice reply. God bless you for this.. Atimes people are so blinded by love or think they are in love, miracle will happen. I know someone who died due to thr fact Shes SS. Mhen days before her death anyone who saw her then felt like crying.. I don't pray for such to happen to anyone.. Those people go thru alot of pains and just few win. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by baby124: 8:34pm On May 27, 2017 |
How can you make another human being your everything. E be like say medical school no hard or challenging for you. Just read your comment, are you not being selfish? It's you, you, you. Probably why the guy was afraid of telling you the truth all this while. Not everyone wishes to go through IVF just to get their wife pregnant. Person no fit even get mistake bele or Gbensh their wife or husband anyhow as e dey hot because of genotype. You will be fine o jare. Find your AA man go front. Your guy has moved on. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Ayibaba1: 8:35pm On May 27, 2017 |
Your story is touching but not new, I don't know the level of your faith and your conviction,but I have seen parents who are both AS and yet have no single SS child. Pray to God to guide you and succor you, if it is not meant to be, it will not be and it will be to your advantage in the long run. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by naijafresh: 8:35pm On May 27, 2017 |
dominique: Regarding genotype selection you're mistaken. You can select the genotype of your embryo during IVF. It's through a process called PGD or prenatal genetic diagnosis. It's expensive and I'm not sure if it's available in Nigeria just yet. The process involves checking the genotype of the embryo prior to implantation. So there is hope for AS or SS couples who wish to avoid the possibility of an SS child. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by eponoloyin: 8:36pm On May 27, 2017 |
Did you guys fvck? something is making you not to think straight |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by vicdall(f): 8:36pm On May 27, 2017 |
Sorry sister the truth is no matter how you want to deny it, you're better off without him. I know how you feel, my relationship of 4yrs+ ended early this year and like you he was my bestfriend and first love and funny enough he claims he wants to still be friends. Anyway my point is it's very difficult but just try to move on, focus on yourself and since you're a Christian ask God to give you the heart to let go because in the end you'll realise it wasn't worth it. Everything happens for a reason 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tosyne2much(m): 8:36pm On May 27, 2017 |
MMMscam:Are you kidding me? BTW, what's the big deal if an AA marries an AS? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by daben1(m): 8:37pm On May 27, 2017 |
MMMscam:hahahahaha... It's not bad na, at all |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Malawian(m): 8:38pm On May 27, 2017 |
I thank God for my genotype. i am surprised by the litany of woes supposed SS people go through. My bros is one but we did not go through all these stuff some are posting. i guess we found a way to manage his stuff so early in his life. in fact, the guy is even fatter and more muscular than me sef, and if you are not told he is SS, you will never know. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by oote: 8:39pm On May 27, 2017 |
Tell Dem ooooooo..... AS vs AS not a perfect combo at all. amuokuko: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by abels(m): 8:39pm On May 27, 2017 |
NwaObinkita:.. Lol |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by daben1(m): 8:39pm On May 27, 2017 |
3rdeye1:they should stop giving birth o |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tosyne2much(m): 8:39pm On May 27, 2017 |
3rdeye1:So, you advise her to take the risk just because your sister narrowly escaped having an SS as a child ? |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Akwaudene87(m): 8:39pm On May 27, 2017 |
dominique:if only your not the said ex , then your really making a whole lot of sense. Now to the op , is through is your first love, that's why your so entangled with him, you will definitely get over it .. is best for you , you still have a better chance to hook up with best blood and better person.. God bless you |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by abels(m): 8:40pm On May 27, 2017 |
egbaguy2:.. Must u abuse her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by ijomaSN(f): 8:41pm On May 27, 2017 |
Na wah |
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