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Zonefree:
I still don't understand how breakfast and love should be your main focus at early twenty.

Honestly,it wasn't..it just came like that

Wow,so the post was duplicated

Yesterday night,I couldn't sleep ,I kept turning over in my bed,I couldn't read either,my mind kept going blank, when I tasted food and I felt like throwing up,and damn was I hungry.
I've jokingly joined people to chant the popular breakfast slang recently, never imagining I would be served one soon..
How do you handle this,will the pain ever fade?Cos I need my focus as soon as possible..I feel so messed up emotionally right now and I just have to let it out someway,I don't even mind the insults I might probably receive here,this is my safe place somehow .
I never imagined loving anyone for such a long period of time.... foolishly, pathetically,hung up on him,this guy led me on,and for so long we were in a state of undefined relationship..friends we called ourselves but the attachment was something else, everyone saw this but I lived in a state of constant denial..scared of ruining things..I was enjoying the friendship..of course,all this was mutual..until he announced to me that he was In a relationship with someone..skipping all the annoying details..he wants us to remain friends as he could not bear to lose what we have, my mind spinning, vision blurry,lol .I couldn't believe it, a part of me tho was expecting it but not when we were still together..he said a lot of things I can hardly remember, begging me not to leave him,well I told him it wouldn't be fair to the girl...and he should just focus on her.. it seemed the right thing to say, but I was fuming inside..I had no right to but I was anyway..he is been trying to appease me since but what's the point..I told him to give me spaaccce.
Right now,I just feel embarrassed,I never knew you could be break up with someone you didn't date,lol I feel angry at myself, I've turned down a lot of ppl cos of him..I couldn't even see others, but then I've learnt a lot from this,.. we're both in our very early twenties,he's only a few months older and the girl according to him isn't twenty yet .. never again will I fall recklessly in love like that, never will I be in an undefined relationship again.Never will I let my heart control my head again...I also feel it was God that orchestrated this whole thing,I was already making an idol in my heart out of him,He really is a jealous God , anyways this is my first and hopefully my last experience of this kind again. Phew I never knew I could type this much on NL

Yesterday night,I couldn't sleep ,I kept turning over in my bed,I couldn't read either,my mind kept going blank, when I tasted food and I felt like throwing up,and damn was I hungry.
I've jokingly joined people to chant the popular breakfast slang recently, never imagining I would be served one soon..
How do you handle this,will the pain ever fade?Cos I need my focus as soon as possible..I feel so messed up emotionally right now and I just have to let it out someway,I don't even mind the insults I might probably receive here,this is my safe place somehow .
I never imagined loving anyone for such a long period of time.... foolishly, pathetically,hung up on him,this guy led me on,and for so long we were in a state of undefined relationship..friends we called ourselves but the attachment was something else, everyone saw this but I lived in a state of constant denial..scared of ruining things..I was enjoying the friendship..of course,all this was mutual..until he announced to me that he was In a relationship with someone..skipping all the annoying details..he wants us to remain friends as he could not bear to lose what we have, my mind spinning, vision blurry,lol .I couldn't believe it, a part of me tho was expecting it but not when we were still together..he said a lot of things I can hardly remember, begging me not to leave him,well I told him it wouldn't be fair to the girl...and he should just focus on her.. it seemed the right thing to say, but I was fuming inside..I had no right to but I was anyway..he is been trying to appease me since but what's the point..I told him to give me spaaccce.
Right now,I just feel embarrassed,I never knew you could be break up with someone you didn't date,lol I feel angry at myself, I've turned down a lot of ppl cos of him..I couldn't even see others, but then I've learnt a lot from this,.. we're both in our very early twenties,he's only a few months older and the girl according to him isn't twenty yet .. never again will I fall recklessly in love like that, never will I be in an undefined relationship again.Never will I let my heart control my head again..This is my first and hopefully my last experience of this kind again. Phew I never knew I could type this much on NL

ukaface:
Is this not NL again?
Where nurses get bashed? How come most of you want nurses?
Abi nurses no be ashawo and wicked people again?

I'm surprised.

Jovialjune1:
You are exceptionally dumb.

Exceptionally is an understatement sef

Rickmann:
Yeah..i just sent you a mail request , if you don't mind.

Ok

SultanOfPuna:
Yarinya means you're a Slut in hausa

Really!? His sister is the
yarinya then..

Stop creating confusion ok?,I just checked google myself.

Wizywiz:
hausa meaning woman.... didn't see the F on ur monika... hope you are good

I'm good, thanks
There was no f actually

Rickmann:
True but I mean meeting you in person..

Oh,I see.

Wizywiz:
oh you be yarinya....no vex....anty mizzhathaway

Took u long enough,lol
What language is yarinya?

Rickmann:
Ooh I see where the sentiment is from.
Would love to meet you mizzhathaway

You have met mizzhathaway already sir

Wizywiz:

I only meant I was a not a dude Lol.

Wizywiz:
u are my bro so long u are a Nigerian...u no happy say I call u bro.... ...ok Mr

What's he saying
Anyways, doesn't matter.

Rickmann:
Very True..but all of them still need reorientation honestly cos the bad eggs are more and it could rub off the good ones.

I have had more than 5 experiences with different nurses, different time and location and all turned out really bad...thats not a good stat if u ask me.

Well, whatever you believe sha
The same way u met bad ones, I've met great ones..and I'll be a great one too

Wizywiz:
not made up bro...some are good some are promiscuous

Some,the same way it is in all professions..I don't know why the emphasis on nurses..and I'm not your bro.

Thank you for this comment,I wonder how some people reason at times..u can't just generalize like that.

ukaface:
I don't believe this though, why would they be laughing and not do anything seeing an unconscious person. You exaggerated.

And please, y'all should know the difference between a Registered nurse that went through proper nursing education and a quack trained by doctors, not all nurses putting on white or scrub uniform went through the four corners of a nursing school or university to understand the work ethics of nursing.

And, nurses ain't trained to sleep around, y'all should get your facts. Before been nurses they are human, and human just like animals have sexual urges, so relate their promiscuity to the individual and not the profession, cos there was never a course titled ' promiscuity 101' for nurses while in school.

And bros, while the nurses were laughing, what was the doctor doing? Just asking o. Cos the scene you painted seemed more like the ' nurses' just sat laughing as a lady was rushed in unconscious, really?

Wizywiz:
Some good Sha.....but many of Dem na werey...once dated and banged one for hospital

All these made up stories.

Rickmann:
You not far from the truth..nurses in this country need reorientation. Very mean and heartless things.

Not all nurses are like that,do u know how many nurses are in the country? And they are all heartless?

jeromestarks:
Insulted you? No no. Hey, I am only giving an advice.

Gotten.

jeromestarks:
We are actually goods. Women most of all.
Why I am still replying you is because you wish to marry as a virgin. The day you open your legs for A plate of indomie and two eggs, that's the day you die!

You just insulted me..this forum is faceless,, don't jump into conclusions ok? If this is what you think about ladies then I wonder what category of ladies you have been meeting..
I know what I want,and nothing can and will change my mind once it's made up.Goodnight

Good evening everyone

jeromestarks:
On virgin issue:
Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”
I'm not a religious person but this bible verse makes logical sense; women expires too quickly.
Do you know why the bible says this?

Yh all fornicators and adulterers...no gender was singled out.
And I was even talking about the age tag u were putting on women as if we are gala or something. Women in their forties still give birth sef...it's not about the age but the virtue she carries..I know people who at 18 had slept with several people already and I also know people(my sis to be precise, )who married at 27 as virgins and she's happily married... and yh she's my role model,I'll wait for God's time. so pls drop the expiry date thing we are humans not goods.

jeromestarks:
I understand you my dear. But I have to be truthful to you. Please try and get married while you're still between 21 -23. Education is good though, but it not your main objective in life; your objective is to raise your children which you need your youthful strength to do.
If you're still a virgin, there is a bright future ahead of you. But if you're not then you're useless. Very useless. Your glory is gone, long gone!

Lol..God has a plan for everyone. putting unnecessary pressure on oneself is not necessary. If that's what you believe,that every lady has to be married already at 23 well stick to it.. you shouldn't impose it in others..
And it's not you that will tell me what my objective in life is..and it's really harsh to say people that are non virgins have lost their glory..it's an hypocritical statement.
In as much as I'd love to marry early I wouldn't put pressure on myself but let God plans for me unfold...

jeromestarks:
Marry a young virgin woman (17 -23) anything above this age will only produce poor quality children.
No matter how Healthy you eat, exercise and or visit the hospital, you can never be happy dating a woman above 23.
Once a woman is 30, avoid her! (You can keep her for sex though)
Once a woman is not a virgin, avoid her( you can also date her just for sex).
If you marry any woman above 23, you will experience sadness and you will age faster and die before you are 70.
Believe me or not, it's the truth.

What's this one saying,so we won't go to school again..me that got admission at 17 and still praying to end 200 Level at 20 nko? Be calming down you this guy and be realistic.

Femi8586:
You're a woman I guess.

From a neutral angle, OP has a point. But he might be brutal saying it. Emotional people will fail to get the real message but quick to pick offence from the venomous truth he's saying.

Ok o..Everyone is free to make their decisions sha..I'm just saying he generalizing is so wrong...what fraction of female has he even met? Why should someone always meet the wrong people? Doesn't it speak something about that individual too .look, everyone should just work on themselves.. that's it I feel it's a personal thing not a gender thing .

Guys listen to this guy at ur own peril.. there are good women out there..I can vouch for many even myself..y'all should stop believing all these propaganda on nairaland.
Nigeria is a hard country,there are good and bad people everywhere both male and female..it only depends on the kind of people you roll with..it breaks my heart each time I see topics like this honestly..I just hope it's all cruise..and you guys are not like this in real life.. some people are just so enbittered damaged beyond repair.. don't let it rub off on you.. stop carrying hate for a particular gender like a handbag... Joy love and peace are good medicines for the heart.
Thanks.

TheGidRedpiller:
The commenter above this comment is a female, IGNORE!

Of course I am
I stated that clearly there..

Lol someone must have done strong thing to this op..
You guys sure have a lot of time to create threads about women for people who claim to be redpillers abi issit yellowpillers...
Women thread here and there,the vehemence and passion used to bash women here is not necessary you could just ignore us altogether..

This one has smoked something.

PumpumPrince:
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