I do not think its wise for any woman to use anything else apart from water to cleanse herself. If you get an odour its best you consult a doctor and get the right medication. Eating healthy also helps in balancing hormones too

This is quite common in pregnant women

raumdeuter:


How many fake things do men wear?

If you aren't fake can you remember the number of times you lied about yout financial status or occupation or the number of powerful people you knew just to get a pretty girl? How many times have you lied about being 3sizes bigger than you really are?

He looks Asian

dearestaramide:
MY uncle and I love to have conversations on life, relationships, politics etc. Any way, we got into discussion on the high rate of divorce in Nigeria and he went on to express what he felt were cause of it. He emphasized on patience and forgiveness and went on to tell me of an experience that cured him of his player life style

Years ago, my uncle was like the average Nigerian man, that is of course womanizer but like the average man, he was smart not to flaunt it, though as women, we always can tell. His wife had always known and was always told by her over sabi friends but since she never caught him red handed, she couldn't do anything about it.

The constant late night calls, meetings, sudden travels increased her belief of what she already knew. what could she do? yes, as any average wife, she was in pains but still showed him love and made sure she was there for him any time he needed a friend to talk to. She never complained or cried to her family or friends but kept in all inside her. He respected her for this even though as he said, he was too addicted to women to stop, though he tried.

My uncle was called off for a conference which was to last for one week and as usual with out delay, he jetted off. A cousin of my aunt whom she had not seen for over two years then came to visit and but was staying in a hotel which was by all means high standard and very expensive. My aunt decided to visit her on a Saturday so as to stay longer and catch up on old times. My aunt as you suspected caught sight of her husband really romancing a woman in the pool area and as you know, the man was supposed to be in Port Harcourt and had presumably jetted off three days before. She calmly finished what took her to the hotel and went back home.


My aunt never showed her husband any difference and still treated him normal as usual but one day whilst he was in a very good mood and they were watching an interesting movie in their room, she calmly told him what she had seen THREE MONTHS EARLIER and asked him not to do it again as he had hurt her deeply.

That night, shame, shock, fear all kinds of thoughts but best of all respect clouded my uncle's thought. He did eventually stop but not immediately oooo. He said it was gradual but he eventually stopped.

MY aunt fell ill and died years later and my uncle was sooo heart broken. He is still single by the way.

WHAT I LEARNT

all men are the same only thing that differentiates them is fear of God and self control.
Women need to be wiser and more matured than men.
Never act immediately this enables you time to think and strategise
shouting doesn't change men but pushes them away

okay where is the part 2 for this fairytale

lastpage:


Relate this to the current "Gender Bill' and you will see that we just like to Copy everything the White Man does...... believing it is SUPREME!.Our Women even liek to look like White women, buying their type of Hair and using it to cover their own hair!

But then, l guess you wont agree with me, Women like to "pick and chose".....as it soothes them.



Lastpage!

Im sorry how many Nigerian guys form fake oyinbo accent as soon as they set foot on their first international flight? How many Nigerian guys marry anything just to get a passport so that he won't have to worry about being deported from oyinbo land? Its all motivated by the love they have for who they are and where they came from right?

rexzqcom:


Regardless of the poster's color. What he said is true.
To an average Nigeria girl, anyone as yellow as the poster is white. Even half casts. The fact is average Nigerian, especially those with little or no education have inferiority complex.

so you can safely say that black men that marry white women (whether its to get a greencard or children that do not look have their features) have little or no education and have inferiority complex right?

jadelyn007:
sometimes I come on nairaland and wonder if these same lions I see here are the spineless cowards I meet everyday in real life .
Why don't I meet these men in real life?

there are busy hiding themselves in their shared apartments because they are too scared to get deported because they do not have papers.

Harold20:
This is soooo TRUE... Back whilst in the UK, we black dudes always complain about how our choicest black ladies only choose to go out with any white dude whatsoever.... Whilst most black dudes only had access to the ugliest bunch of fat white ladies...

why would a decent looking lady with a stable life want to associate herself with a self-hating man whose sole purpose (apart from getting a greencard) is demeaning females who have the same features as his mother?

You can't blame them, they are just trying to get away from all the unnecessary drama you come with. Maybe if you change your attitude and stop being so hateful towards your own kind they might start dating you again.

No woman who knows her self-worth would want to be stuck to a man who will pull her down. Behave like a decent guy and they will change their attitude towards you.

Twar:
guys never mind prostitutes are always easy to get be you white man or black man what the gals are after is the cash,because a descent black gal can not descend so low to the so called white men losing her dignity as a lady,the white guys mate the black prostitutes .

a typical black man would kill to marry Kim K even though she got famous for shoving dick down her throat,that goes on to show you what about an average black man?

doskie:

respect yourself, im a playground legend in the field of putting checking people back in line. I have not directed any statement at your parents. but if you don't respect them and you want me to start, then im game. for starters; my mum is from the golden era when women were still women. growing up as a man and interacting with people of different background, race, and tribe, I have discovered the advantage they gave me through thorough home training. I accord them with the greatest regard and esteem. I rose within 3 years above people I met and with the same qualification in my company not because I am better than anyone, but constantly, my superiors have always been impressed with my morals. I have made great friends, and even used my integrity as a collateral to assess many facilities. I go home every time to thank them. God sent them to me. I was not born with a silver spoon. if you have reasons why your parents should be less esteemed than all the heroes you have known from birth, then direct one more statement at my parents, I promise you, you will feel the wrath of my menance. do you know the difference between pornn and getting into a relationship strictly for material benefit?

im not coming at your parents, you are the one who said black women never achieve anything and i only pointed out the fact that your mother is black. why are you getting mad? I wasn't the one who made you text before thinking was i? Unlike you i grew up with a mother who was capable of giving her family a comfortable life with her income alone, but she got married to a responsible man who made sure she didn't have to do it alone. so you see, although you may not have been surrounded by black women who have avhieved something growing up, there are many black women who have achieved a lot that you have not come across and i'm grateful my mother is one of them

So you are a legend in the playground when other men your age are legends in the corporate world? Oya continue Mr playground man if "putting people back in line" could be a career you would be richer than Bill Gates right?

prince3009:


Martin Luther King was a Black American Baptist minister, activist, humanitarian, and leader in the African-American Civil Rights Movement who brought an end to racial segregation to an extent in America

Malcom X was an Black American Muslim minister and human rights activist known globally during his time.

Jesse Louis Jackson, Sr is a Black American civil rights activist, Baptist minister, and politician.

Ben Carson is a retired American neurosurgeon and politician who was known for carrying out a record breaking surgery which saw the separating the first ever know conjoined twins.

I could go on and on!

Mention 4 Black American women (apart from authors and entertainers) "because i know you will mention Oprah Winfrey and Whoopie Goldberg" who did something very notable and noble in the history of America.

THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE RUBBISH!

http://www.rantchic.com/2015/02/10/15-most-influential-black-women-of-all-time/

You mentioned the influential black men that everyone knows but we shouldn't include the most influential black women everyone knows because they acted at some point in their lives?

doskie:
and you are high on errmmmm.... lemme guess....


I would have said white man's sperm but I doubt there is any white dude in the village you are typing from.

black men turn away from black girls because of attitude problems the black women have. a black woman is unnecessarily proud even when she has achieved nothing. they climb high horses and build castles and in the air. I have come across many black single ladies who cannot even offer a good morning to people who live around them, and when you actually try to observe them; you realise they are just tatting up a bucket of pig shiit with their exteriors. They have empty heads. they neither exercise, play games or follow the news. so a sane person really finds no common ground with them. I have met a lot of white girls and I must say im impressed with their social prowess, humility and civility. especially the fact that they are not love peddlers

yet your father found common ground with your black mother who has achieved nothing white women aren't love peddlers although they dominant the porn industry, please give me a definition of humility and civility again?

This is so sweet lol @ i can't go to the shops without you

Toluwarni:
Man sparks outrage with his opinion about black women...
Ladies, how true is this?

lol this came from a self-hating black man that adopted a spanish name who was also charged with battery a few times and who also got arrested for not paying child support for the children he claims to love so dearly.

Wow

yall:
Black women. Im tired of them

i hope your mother is not black otherwise she will not be too thrilled by this

halfricanadian:


Excuse me im an advocate of allowing people to create their ideas and expectations

If u are calm enough u will understand we talkin bou d black women doing nasty things for money nd fame

Criosly so messing up ones body for money is a right path even before God?

Cos to u its like im talking to all black women bt i av directed my point talkin bou women who do nasty things for money even if oda women from different races do such atleast black women shd stand out bt we do more nasty things dan most race.

Thanks to d black women who sold d black race dignity in d name of survival

I guess its d next generation dat will reap d pains nd trauma of wat our generation has caused imagine from a coloured baboon

im sorry what exactly did you say you are advocating for?

halfricanadian:


Thats the problem instead of we blacks learn nd improve we point fingers no wonder they look down on us a white woman wen warned or taught a lesson dont point fingerd bt learn nd improve

improve on what? What makes dating a non-black guy so demeaning? What is a black woman supposed to learn from this? Date a black men even if you are naturally attracted to men of another race? What is a black woman learning? To subject herself to the society's ideologies instead of going for what makes her happy? Its a good thing you pointed out that you are of those people who expect people to live according to your ideas and expectations instead of creating their own and living up to that...so much of "improving yourself"

halfricanadian:


Ma he wasnt referring to black women seeking a reasonable relationship no matter the guys race

But d black women in relationships for nasty reasons

Ok ma'am

and where is it written on that girl's forehead that she is only dating that guy just to have biracial kids?

Kim Kardashian got famous off sucking a black diiick yet she is a beauty icon for billions 13years later , when a black woman dates a non-black guy (even if its not for fame) she becomes a sell out and she is cheap...why if i may ask?

How many white females (including underage ones) make a living off porn videos with multiple black men at the same time? Have you ever heard them being called names for it? Instead they even get porn movie awards for their acts! And there you have black people giving themselves a headache of who another black woman chooses to date how does that pay your rent?

Flexherbal:
I don't agree with him. There are some black women who don,t like white guys. I once met a lady who told me that white guys irritate him.

For all you know the person behind that account is another frustrated black men who has been rejected a fair share of black women and he has resorted to attacking them. Smh! Why should a woman be forced to date or marry someone of her own race just to please society? If she likes men of her own race let her be, if she wants to be with someone of another race thats her choice too

halfricanadian:
Thanks to d black women who sold d black race dignity in d name of survival

I guess its d next generation dat will reap d pains nd trauma of wat our generation has caused imagine from a coloured baboon

if a black woman falls in love with a non-black guy, its her choice. How does it reduce the value of your life? If you want to stick to black men its your choice, stop trying to shove it down every other black woman's throat!

cruzita:
I don't blame him tho,I blame our cheap girls that can do any thing to be with a white man and in the process degrading us.

wait im sorry whats so cheap about being with someone you love even if he happens to be of another race? it amazes me how shallow-minded some people are

Toluwarni:
Man sparks outrage with his opinion about black women...
Ladies, how true is this?

seal got heidi klum so whats so outrageous about this? Kim K is with Kanye....?
Its funny how its so easy for seun and his clique to put threads that belittle black women, but almost impossible to have anything that uplifts black women on front page. It really make you wonder if they are aware that the same image reflects on the black females in their own family or not

MrSarcasm:
IMO, very very very very TRUE ... Ugly white men with tiny p.ricks been taking hot black women since 12BC

so you are saying a person should choose a partner based on race or the size of dick instead of the what they actually love about the person

Cutehector:
Mchew.. any lady wey dey wait for man to cook for am is a lazy ass dummy...



What I have written, I have written

any woman who marries a man who is not rich would have married a lazy ass dummy

mineANDurs:


Their house is on fire and they r busy chasing Rats.
Can u Imagine?

you will not kill me with laughter

I will tell her that i just got my nails done




































Jokes! I hardly ever get my nails done

mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.

why are you looking for trouble?

Dyt:
So I am not abnormal afterall

have you fought a guy before?

Vyolet:
So after fighting the side chick slightly, she pounced on her man fiercely, funny illustration. .
When your man cheats, you have no business with the side chick, you should hold your man responsible.

no you got it wrong slap the side chick then beat the guy up

henrydadon:
hahahaha..Interesting...wait until Donald trump becomes president..he will dump trump all of them outside..

what is Donald Trump's business in the UK when he is running for president in the USA?