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Family / Re: She Bought Land Without The Knowledge Of The Hubby. by Moana(f): 5:37am On Jan 02, 2016
Yomieluv:
How do you handle a wife who connived with her father to buy a land without the consent or knowledge of the hubby.

That the hubby got to know through her whatsapp chat with her brother.


I do not know why you would call buying something with her father, " conniving with her father" because your marriage to her never invalidated their father-daughter relationship.

If she used money that belongs to their joint estate without her husband's consent then she was wrong but if she used money from her seperate estate then there should not be a problem, because everyone is still entitled to have their own private assets.

In all honesty, if you wife is comfortable in hiding things like acquistion of property from you then there is clearly something questionable about your character as a husband. They may be valid reasons for her keeping the information away from you.

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Family / Re: She Bought Land Without The Knowledge Of The Hubby. by Moana(f): 5:27am On Jan 02, 2016
Acidosis:


If I get this response, it simply means I've married a wrong woman. It means I've become officially single again.
grin now you know why marriage is for mature adults not toddlers stuck in grown men bodies grin
You want to retaliate over every smallest thing. Will you even survive mid-life crisis?
Family / Re: Pics of my Nephew .Proudly Nairalander by Moana(f): 5:17am On Jan 02, 2016
JideJamez:
winks*
The baby no get mama? Where the mama dey?

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Family / Re: I Saw This On My Wife's Phone.....should I Be Worried? by Moana(f): 5:15am On Jan 02, 2016
ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

Maybe there are things you neglect to do in your marriage. Find out what it is thats missing and fix that. All these exes she wont even remember their names after this sef.

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Celebrities / Re: Rita Nzelu Returns To Nigeria After Years In London (photos) by Moana(f): 4:54am On Jan 02, 2016
She forgot to bleach her elbows as well before leaving london haba!
Family / Re: Pampers Vs Napkin by Moana(f): 10:24am On Jan 01, 2016
deph:

it's nt a matter of Nokia 3310 in 2015.....its a matter of usin sometin dt d name won't leave ur mouth cos of d cost.... sometin dt is ordinarily won't hv bn taken too serious... bt ur considering it as greatest marriage headache... buying pampers.... lol.... sorry to say ds bt If u hv bn says ds... does he kno hw much pampers cost.... den ur nt supose to use it.... check d alternatives or rather more affordable ones....
you stopped making sense a long time ago
Family / Re: Live Tortoise Discovered Inside Sealed Bag Of Rice [PICS] by Moana(f): 8:04pm On Dec 31, 2015
The supplier decided to kill you before you don reach 2016 grin end time rice
Travel / Re: Between USA And EUROPE Where Can One Hustle And Make Money by Moana(f): 8:36pm On Dec 30, 2015
Maiduguri

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Romance / Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Moana(f): 12:22pm On Dec 30, 2015
olutunde12:



But the girl refused the test normally. So she is right to infect him. Useless point, the same way a man will be taken to court for killing an armed rubber. But the armed rubber can rape and kill and go freely while the police promise continues.
you clearly have no knowledge of what human rights are and what they are there for. Everyone has a right to human dignity, privacy and a right not to be treated in a inhumane or degrading manner. All these rights were violated by drugging her until she was unconscious and taking a test without her knowledge or consent.

But let me enlighten you, no doctor or medical professional is allowed to do any form of test which includes blood test without the persons knowledge or consent of the person on whom the test is being conducted on. He can be banned from practising if he engages is such conduct. In a normal world with civil people it is regarded as a serious misconduct.

There was always an option that he could break up with her on the grounds that she isnt being open and honest with him. Its as simple as that.

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Romance / Re: Judge Me, My Conscience Is Troubled by Moana(f): 11:55am On Dec 30, 2015
Docmann i really dont understand why you as a professional decided to be unethical. Firstly you drugged a person which is not allowed and conducted a test against her will.

It was simply a matter of asking her to willingly go to the hospital for a full blood tests or break up with her.

Thank God your friend did not end up falling in a trap he was never going to be able to come out of. Next time please try to do things the proper way.

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Travel / Re: I Am Planning To Go To Dubai Anytime Soon, Any Job For Me There Please by Moana(f): 4:52am On Dec 30, 2015
tundejoseph4:
i am planning to go to Dubai anytime soon. is there any one that can help me with any legal job there. i am a graduate of elect/elect engineering, but don't mind any job in Dubai, even if it is security i don't mind. thanks friends
you tried googling for more info?
Family / Re: Pampers Vs Napkin by Moana(f): 4:47am On Dec 30, 2015
deph:
.......... hw dd our old parents wash there's.... lol....
Will you continue to use Nokia 3310 in 2015 simply because your parents used it back then as well or have you adapted to changes in society and started using a smartphone? undecided

I do not even know why you would call diapers something thats trending, they are a neccessity not something fashionable. Unless you are the one who will personally wash the pee and poo off your children's nappies, i highly doubt you should have a say on the matter.

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Romance / Re: What Will You Do If You Asked Your Babe To Boil Water And You Saw This? (photo) by Moana(f): 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2015
faith551:
You should probably pay you electricity bills, if there was light she wouldn't use the gas to boil water in an electric jug cheesy
you will not kill me with laughter
Romance / Re: Why You Should Marry Now by Moana(f): 7:54pm On Dec 29, 2015
KingTom:



Mumus grin I'm a married man undecided
tell them we are married so they leave you alone grin
Family / Re: Pampers Vs Napkin by Moana(f): 7:42pm On Dec 29, 2015
jhydebaba:
Very true bro


I just imagine how people dat cant afford what's trending go out of their way to get these things when you have substitute.


The same thing with public and private schools.





Nb: it is nappy not napkin

i hope you will be as enthusiatic about washing the nappies as you are about buying them

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Travel / Re: Going To Mexico by Moana(f): 7:21pm On Dec 29, 2015
Michael008:
please people in d house, i have a mexico tourist visa that will expire march next yr and i plan of travelling January, i hear someone can move legally to yankee through asylum after getting to mexico, i need information about getting to mexico, the airline and route to follow and d process of moving to yankee, i want information about this before embarking on d journey bcus is going to cost Me about 700k including the BTA. your contribution will be appreciated. thanks
you are better off learning spanish and just staying in Mexico.

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Romance / Re: That Awkward Moment When A man of GOD Tells You That He Is Not The One. by Moana(f): 5:35pm On Dec 29, 2015
Toks2008:


Lol!

That is the beauty of being a E-commerce yahoo yahoo consultant. I do my business 90% on the internet and whenever im free i just do my thing.
Tell me you are not enjoying my writings.
Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 11:23am On Dec 29, 2015
agabaI23:
I can understand that.

Then the hostel with many single mothers makes more sense
Nigeria has female students that leave their children at home so they can attend university and stay on campus undecided

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Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 11:01am On Dec 29, 2015
agabaI23:
Buhari is the minister of Petroleum. Are you not in Nigeria sweerie?
no im not
Travel / Re: What Will You Do if you find your international passport like this? (photo) by Moana(f): 3:39am On Dec 28, 2015
worry359:
Child must learn a lesson once and for all.
If beating is not possible I would take the child to the market and sell or exchange them for bag of rice.
so you would sell your child because of a few pieces of paper that can be replaced? Nawa o
Celebrities / Re: Toyin Aimakhu Comes For Fan After Comparison With Linda Ikeji [PICS] by Moana(f): 3:32am On Dec 28, 2015
Linda loves her gate die grin linda's dress looks fancy the other woman's dress is okay
Romance / Re: Ladies Come In Here And Pick Your Dream Man. by Moana(f): 2:39am On Dec 28, 2015
Toks2008:
Many ladies have always loved the idea of getting married to that man that suites her desire and for every lady you ask to state the type of man she wants,you can be sure to have varying choices[b] so i present to you these options and you must pick one of them having in mind that you are not allowed to remain single,their qualities are unchangeable and these are all the types of men in the world.[/b]


1.Mr A
-Extremely good looking
-Tall
-Rich
-Romantic
-chronic philanderer

2.Mr B
-Ugly
-Short and fat
-Rich
-Extremely romantic
-Super faithful

3.Mr C
-Drop dead gorgeous
-very rich
-faithful
-romantic
-Ritualist

4.Mr D
-Very cute
-rich
-caring
-faithful
-Hopelessly addicted to alcohol


5.Mr E
-Very cute
-faithful
-Rich
-Very abusive and a wife beater.


6.Mr F
-Very cute
-Rich
-Very romantic
-Extremely caring
-Wants you as a second wife
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The bottom line is that no man on earth is perfect and no matter how many times you change a man,you will always realize sooner that there is always a wow side and a bad side of every man so just settle down with one who cherishes you and hope for the best.

As a lady,you must learn to celebrate the good sides of that guy and ignore or tolerate the bad side as long as it does not threaten your life.

Your dream man can easily be found in one place...[size=13pt] INSIDE YOUR DREAM[/size].
They have refused to date/marry you abi? grin instead of threatening them maybe you need to learn how to be a handsome, rich, romantic and faithful so you find your happiness. You will continue attending your age mates weddings and baby dedications if you keep behaving like this grin cheesy

Keep looking for a beautiful, loyal woman who doesn't like money when you are not a handsome, rich guy who is loyal. Lmao
Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 2:29am On Dec 28, 2015
agabaI23:
Careful? Fuel is selling for 140 and it is not even available

When he came in 1984, there was scarcity of everything including forex. There was hard times
This time again it is repeating. Buhari is bad omen. he has to prove me wrong and I am praying he does but so far, that's the reality.
but there was scarcity of fuel even before Buhari was inaugurated abi? Is it not the Minister of Petroluem's duty to deal with the issue anyway?

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Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:59pm On Dec 27, 2015
agabaI23:
You are getting it wrong. Buhari time is a synonym for hard times. That is not making someone a scapegoat..come on
be careful what you say will be what you will get

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Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:43pm On Dec 27, 2015
agabaI23:
Buhari time=hard time wink
there is always someone else to make the scapegoat for our problems

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Family / Re: When There Is No Love And Affection In Marriage by Moana(f): 8:40pm On Dec 27, 2015
You need to give reasons why you fell out of love and how long you have been married for

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Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:28pm On Dec 27, 2015
agabaI23:
No, I am not. i just told you those you see in the courts in a mixture of a few deliberate and many who are having Buhari time
what did Buhari do again?

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Family / Re: Upside Down Marriage by Moana(f): 8:17pm On Dec 27, 2015
Samocholi you should never judge a person based on what you have heard about them, you need firsthand experience. Your marriage is made by the 2 of you and no one else.

Marriage is something that shouldn't be taken lightly before you enter into such a commitment you need to get to know the person well. Get to know about important things that may have happened in the past that may affect the future.


In your case this doesn't sound like a wife but rather an evil spirit. I would advice you leave the house or send her back to her parents house so you guys can think things clearly to see what your really want out of life. Its best you guys stay away from each other for sometime because being in the same place is becoming toxic. If you decide to divorce for the sake of your wellbeing so be it.
Family / Re: Why Do Men Drift From Responsibility To Their Children After Divorce? by Moana(f): 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2015
agabaI23:
What excuses?

Are you trying to tell me that you never had days when he could not provide when you were living with him? What if he lost his job or his business collapsed?
stop shifting the goal post. We are talking about people who do it delibarately

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Family / Re: Advice Needed: His Wife Will Not Allow Him Rest. by Moana(f): 8:01pm On Dec 27, 2015
bebene:
She is a graduate and before they got married, he made her promise she will not go for Bank job, But later after the marriage,she got an offer from one of those banks and acaccepted it. seeing the level of her excitement, he allowed her to go for the job. She now doesnt have time to prepare breakfast for the family and mostly come back late. He now hired a19year maid, but the wife said she doesnt want young girl as a maid, she wants elderly woman. And he said he doesnt want elderly woman in his house and gave his wife the option of quitting the job or that young maid continues.....

She now doesnt listen to him, come back around 11pm, if he talk, she will say 'i thought you have a second wife'.

pls what should he do,?
he should get an elderly woman if he wants peace in his house, then work on her getting a less demading job that will still bring in good money for her. If he meets her half way he will be shocked at how much she will be willing to compromise with him.

Jobs arent easy to find if she quits and something happens to him, its the family that will suffer the consequences. Its always good to be logical.
Family / Re: Whats Wrong With This Photo Of A Semi Unclad Mother Breast-feeding Her Baby by Moana(f): 7:56pm On Dec 27, 2015
If she was exposing her bweast on xnxx.com you would go get your vaseline ready but because she is breastfeeding you make noise
Family / Re: The Reason why wives feel reluctant to host their inlaws by Moana(f): 7:52pm On Dec 27, 2015
babeabike:
Here is my story ;

I got married early this year and I'm heavily pregnant (38weeks).Since we got married its been only my family and friends visiting that had to spend the night.Aside my MIL who comes like every other week to help and look out for me,none of my husband's fam Av had to spend the night.

Then last week my hubby informed me that his paternal cousin will be spending Xmas season with us.I first got pissed when he said he will be going to pick her from their place.I said maka why a girl of 18.but told him if he insisted, he can go ahead to do d pick up even though I found it unreasonable.

Since the girl arrived on Thurs,she seats like a queen in my living room while I sweat out in my kitchen(note I'm heavily pregnant).And when food is ready,my husband calls out for her to pick her food.Then yesternight, I said I'm not hungry and of cos tired and since the house is full of food,she should go and cook whatever she likes because of that she went to bed without eating.

Since that yesterday she started locking herself in the room.imagine? This morning she woke up forming stomach pain,so my MIL who came around did all the chores including cooking.

To cut the long story short.if this girl was my family,I would Av called her to order. But I've decided to be quite because definitely this is her first and last opportunity to visit.

My mum has been here severely since I took in and when she comes,she helps with all d chores inclusive cooking(note,she is a senior lecturer,no b say she jobless oooh).Even when my elder sister passed a night sometimes ago,she helped out inclusive folding all my husband's cloths(note she is married and also gainfully employed).That's just to mention a few of my ppl,others are my sis in law,cousins and even my friends.They never sit and watch me sweat out,talkless of a small girl.

I'm already thinking making up my mind that aside my Parents in-law,I may not entertain all those young cousins and relatives from my husband's side because I cannot take such shits.because if it wasn't holiday,would she wait for me everyday from work(after driving in Lagos traffic) to come cook for her without giving a helping hand.

Maybe its just my take but for me this is one of those obvious reasons wives bar husband's fam from coming around

I do not think you should punish everyone else because of one person. You sit down and explain to her nicely to help out because you are pregnant and you will not be able to do everything by yourself. If she doesnt listen you tell you husband and if your husband's intervention doesn't help you request he sends her back to her house.

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