₦airaland Forum

Gasout:
My friend dare not!

this is the reason why you don't have a car! is he married to you or his wife? Does he have an obligation to share his property with you or his wife?

When others are busy getting married and buying their own cars, you are busy competing with other people's wives! Infact how old are you sef? You no get shame at your age?

Gasout:
Even if that person is ur best friend?

Does your bestfriend sex you?
Does your bestfriend cook your meals?
Does your bestfriend guarantee peace in your house?

If you know your wife's friend likes sitting next to her husband, respect her and let her sit next to him. Besides the car belongs to the both of them (unless its a company car) Get your own wife that will occupy backseat in your own car, stop forming english dog in other people's car please

Blanc8:
Buy her a car then Slap her again... Nothing dey happen

and you wonder why divorce rates increase in Nigeria, if these are the kind of excuses of human beings you keep creating

Wow Glory to God

Glory to God

He has not been president for 1year and he is already being charges with war crimes lmao

naija8080:
Don't be quick to jump to conclusion. I'm sure the man has been sharing his salary the time that he worked with her but she as most women do when they start working especially when the man is temporarily jobless...they start acting up and seeing him as less of a man.

may all your sisters and daughters be beaten mercilessly while they are heavily pregnant, lets see if you will come and preach the same sermon!

timunstopable:
So it is now cool 2 ve diff babymamas nd flaunt it

Nd some pple ll call these artistes role model

no wonder teenagers r becoming mothers everyday nowadays

lots of females with chidren with diff fathers

what a world we r in

end times

are we not living in a world with fathers with different child on every block they pass?

Antoinne:
Programmed to find white beautiful, it's no strange thing to see most comments here screaming "cute, cute, cute".

and wizkid's new born is being mocked left right and centre because he is black

Qualer:
i think they need to rub coconut oil on the father's brain!! quick fix!!

It looks the same na i can't deal....

fhaty1986:
I was invited to an interview which was held yesterday in their headquarter office. I thank God all went well not untill I was asked how much I think the company can pay me? But my response was 50k but am afraid if I have bleeped up for saying that or is it appropriate or not. I want my dear nairalanders in the house to please advice me on the implication of this pay level to ur success in getting ur desired job

will you be working a 15hr week or what? Why did you say that?

poshestmina:
Two options
If he is poor,straight DIVORCE
If he is as rich as Dangote or as generous as DASUKI, will stay with him for like a year


Amass enoooough money

And still Divorce him

God is watching you

freshvine:
Are you for real or you've gotten a sex swap?

Please it's undeserving to compel a sister to accept compromising demeanor. Where's lie the equality?

Can you believe my husband instructs me never to be in the lounge whenever a male visitor came calling. All of a sudden listening to conversation and contributing to with his male friends has turn to disrespecting him.

my dear the truth is rarely pure and never simple. You do not know how to talk maybe thats why your husband doesn't want you contributing to their conversations. I will not be shocked if your contributions to these conversations has led to unnecessary arguments before.

Was he not playing the role of a driver by opening and closing the door for you? Did you complain then? Was he not playing the role of a cook and a maid by making breakfast in bed for you? Did you complain about dehumanizing him as a male then?

If he starts having extra marital affairs please do not come and make noise for us online. You want to preach about equality when you wont even do half the things he has done for you. Where is the equality in that?

chocolateme:
They have done their introdutions and other things and fixed the wedding/traditional marriage to 3 (three) months time.
Yesterday my colleague at the office came Complaining bitterly to me that her parents especially her dad has insisted that that wedding will never take place unless the husband to be and his family converts to Catholics and that the condition for the marriage to go ahead including that the wedding must be at the catholic church. The guy attends Redeemed with his entire family.
I asked her if people of same religion can be talking about conversion and she said no. I asked her the difference between the two mentioned churches, she said nothing then I told her that her father is more interested in the chaplet and his status at the church.
Her fiancé's parents would not hear of it. Wonder if her dad didn't ask all these before receiving the bride price. Well she is in dilemma now.

we all know that a woman has to leave her church to follow her husband ( so long its not one of those end time churches ) her father should mind his own business

freshvine:
You mean I should held the washing water like a senior househelp waiting for him to finish gobbling his meals.

You don't get it. Serving me break fast on bed is quite romantic for a wife but dehumanizing me with archaic fantasy of his is another kettle of fish entirely.

if you don't want to do these "dehumanizing" things as a wife let his girlfriend/ future wife do them for him please. Problem solved. You want royal treatment that you are not willing to give him in return abi

scantee:
how?

all red flags have been raised but it seems like you want someone to convince you to keep the relationship going

scantee:
(LONG STORY PLS READ THROUGH)

Hello house,

Please i need mature advice from you guys..most of you guys that follows my oil workers thread on nairaland can recall when i mentioned that i will be getting married by next year that everybody should be geting ready to attend my TM/WW, well thus goes my story.

After i ended my previous distance relationship which lasted for years before we mutually ended it base on family diffrences. I met this my new date when i came to Lagos in 2011 for a project, we exchanged contacts after which i traveled to Netherland for a training i did not called her for over a year plus because then i was still with my previous date, when i returned from my trip early Jan 2013, i called her so we got talking, along the line i traveled to her school to see her in (S Eastern Uni)

"FASTFORWARD" i told her my intention of getting marry to her then, so i brought her to lagos to meet my parents and other family members, after all said and done she pleaded that i gave her time to finish her studies before any marriage proper, we all agreed early 2016 since she is in early 20 and i was in mid 20 then we are not in a rush.

We have been together since 2013 to date, we have shared a good time and fund memories, i truely love her and she does too, i have tried my best to make her comfortable and take care of her and make her envy of all her female friends, i have NEVER cheated on her or have the thought of doing so despite we only see during end of every semester, and i traveled a lot and always busy with work though i make sure i do speak with her at least 3x a day with minimum of 30mins per a call just to make sure she don't feel lonely.

NOW HER CRIME AND MY SUSPICIONS

Last month i called her early morning to know whatsup with her i noticed she was not comfortable speaking to me on phone i was like are you ok? I then heard a background male voice she hurriedly ended the call, when i called back i insisted she told me whose voice i heard in her house, that was when she opened up to me that the guy is her old time gf brother who came from one state in the South South to write post ume in her school i was mad @ her, after a while i insited to know her package with the guy, to my suprise the guy is to stay in her room for 2weeks plus, they share the same bed, jst living like a husband and wife though she still assured me to trust her that noting would happen between them, i was angry because she never inform me of such arrangement before saying yes to them.

I SWEAR THOSE PERIOD I COULD NOT SLEEP, EVERY NIGHT I WILL BE JUST IMAGINING THINGS. that happend and gone we continue normal life, yesterday we agreed that she will be coming to lagos on saturday since she is done with her exam because we have not seen for 5 months now, she told me she needed some cash to pay up somethings and settle some debts before coming

FASTFORWARD. This night i called her to know her latest plans and verify the account she want me to transfer money to her, while we were talking i noticed she is using terms on me instead of real names, she was talking like someone that is hiding for somebody not to figure out her discussion, so i asked her are you with somebody there she said no she was alone, a min later i started hearing a phone booting sound @ background for several times, i asked her again she deinied it.

As an IT guy i am, i figured out that the sound is MS Windows phone that uses such sound, & i know she does not have such phone, i threatened her, she then opened up that she with her lodge mate a guy @ that hour, i got upset why she lied to me, she started faking the call as if network is disturbing her claiming that she can't hear me well, telling me to end the call and call her tomorrow so we can talk well, i told her no to stop faking network, she ended the call, i called her back 22 times she did not pick my calls, i sent her diffrent text messages she did not reply, i told her i will never call her again if she did not pick after my calling her 2wise again yet she damm the call.

After an hour she text me thus: PLS AM SORRY WE WILL TALK 2MORO I DON'T MEAN TO GOT U UPSET, DO YOU THINK IF I AM WITH A MAN I WIL PICK UR CALL IN D FIRST PLC? GUD NIT SWT DREMS. She is now claiming is a prank but hell no i don't believe her. House how do i handle this now? I really love her but i can't stand a cheat because i have NEVER cheated to any of my date before.

I want to call of the marriage, i have lost the trust i have for her. I need your mature advice. Thanks all.

the devil is playing foosball with your life

The first pic looks like a music video shoot when is Buhari going to stop going for all these holidays and start performing his duties as the Nigerian President?

surbrown:
MY GIRL FRIEND SAID I LOOKS LIKE WIZKID! HOPE SHE NO DEY TEASE ME,

your girl will succeed with yahoo yahoo

kallmemrB:
do u like me??

don't be delusional

People like kallmemrB will be like her thighs were so provocative in that diaper, i just had to get a taste of that

J

OGGS2000:
my wife of fifteen years left me in Lagos to work for her ex boy friend in the east. It all started one evening she got a call that she should come to take a job at the state capital. She asked me if she can go I said if you want. She did not tell me the relationship she has with the caller she said its from someone she gave her CV. She asked me to book flight for her because she will go in the morning and I did. Two days later she called that I should book flight for her to come back and I did. A day later she called that they called that she should come and resume the next day, I made another flight booking for her. When I travelled for Christmas holiday I saw she was very happy but was surprised to hear that she was paid only forty thousand naira as her salary for the month. Last year when I moved to Lagos from where we were she left a job that pays her two hundred thousand naira plus car and driver on the reason that the family should stay tougher. This got me thinking that there must be other reason for the relocation. I got a call yesterday and I was asked why I left my wife to and work for her Politian ex boyfriend if am tired of the marriage. I called her to know the relationship she has with the man that gave her work she confirmed he is her ex boyfriend. I told her she can not marry two men at a time. she has chosen to be mistress to a politician she should pack out of my house.
She is begging that I should forgive her. my problem now is if she can do this when I can pay my bills comfortably, what will she do if situation changes tomorrow.

Pray for her so God can change her ways. Maybe work for her is more about doing what she loves rather than what she earns.

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Omoluabi16:
okay, thanks for ur opinion.Wrong choice of words there..decorum in this context meant unashamedly
..like doing it proudly with thousands of tourists there.meant no disrespect to our beautiful African culture.

Its their culture which you have no knowledge of but you still want to rumble on about. So because you learnt a new word yesterday you assume everyone else doesn't know the meaning decorum?

Omoluabi16:
now you are trying to draw a correlation between rape and indecent dressing.Obviously, indecent dressing encourages rape.But how exactly do you define indecent dressing? back in the day, @10 we were still bathing outside.is unclothedness to you just breasts and bum? we heard of people who defile toddlers.what do you say about such people..are they just rapists or in the category of 'were tempted to rape' ..In places like Swaziland or s.a the women still go bare breasted for their festivals without decorum. To cut the story short..rapists are bad people who still rape people in hijab. we should preach self-control, not subtle justification of these abominable behaviour.

i was agreeing with you until i saw this. And the bolded part is absolute rubbish. So its lacking decorum simply because their culture is diffrent from yours? Im sorry but you are showing your ignorance by this comment.

You can gladly keep half naked white model pics in your phone but for whatever weird reason when a black woman goes unclad as part of her culture is lack of decorum.

Did your ancestors not walk around in animal skin before white people introduced the clothes your wear today?

kallmemrB:
am sure my kids wont be raped with right upbringing.....fight for ur kids not mine

with people with your rotten mentality it explains why Nigeria is where it is. It can only take a rotten mind to sexually fantasize over a child, act over it and think there is absolutely nothing wrong with that

kallmemrB:
yes I would if I allow my daughter to dress like LovePeddler and live a wayward life....

Its simple what u cant eat, don't bother tasting it

i hope she will also make the list of those that get rapped! Bastard!

kallmemrB:
I don't really blame the guy,hes just voicing the tot of most guys.... The level of indecent dressing between young adolescent are on the rise.....sometimes you try to imagine how there parents grant them freedom to leave the house looking like whores.....

The guy dicck statement might be out of line but the truth is rape is really on the high...

It may sound unfortunate but its like the ladies from age 10 above are the ones encouraging it with indecent clothing's..

Gone are the days when a lady in Long skirt or gown looks gorgeous

i pray you will clap for the man who says that about your 11year old daughter