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Lopsy:
U can send the piece below to your dear wife.

SHOP LOCK
Shop-locking adds fuel to fire in most cases. Women should never be fooled into believing that by putting up a 'CLOSED' sign on the shop door they are on their way to problem solving. Women, a hungry man will not allow himself to starve to death. Some will stop at nothing in their quest to satisfy their seemingly insatiable hunger. They will accept anything, whether hot and spicy or cold and icy. Some men will eat food not for taste, but for mere survival. They eat to live, to satisfy a need. That, my friends, is the nature of man.
When shop locks, who suffers more? In reality isn't it the shopkeeper more than the shopper? Sisters, please, I implore you, learn from the immigrants who come and set up shop on our soil, and keep shop open. Stop closing shop for every little thing. Open shop in shop seasons. Open shop on holidays. Open shop late at nights. Open shop during storm and hurricane. Open shop when shop should be open.
Even the well-bred man who eats out and scrupulously cleans his hands and mouth will bring home even a morsel from his street meal. Visualise what could happen when shop reopens for business as usual and some of his contaminated crumbs fall onto your plate. Imagine that you would have contributed to this scenario by locking shop.
A word to the wise is sufficient!

kulutempa:
Akinolasam, there is one more thing you should realise.  Women of all ages like to test the men in their lives to see how far they can push them and how much they can get away with.    The more the man gives in the more the woman exercises more control and power over the relationship  and the less respect she has for the man.  Let me ask you this question:  would you prostrate to your wife in return for sex?   As to all those who say you should talk to her, just think about this:  If you have power and position like an army general, would you resign and give it up because someone 'talks' to you and asks you to resign?   Be wise my friend and don't become a doormat instead of a man.

zodig:
Dear Poster, I advice that u need not to discuss with your wife on this issue again. What u do is to start surprising her with gifts, take her out 4 evening stroll, make her happy.

One 9t like this dont even tell her u need to do it, just communicate it 2 her thru romantic talks, romantic touch, romantic play etc. I bet u, things wouldn't be the same.

Dont be hard on your wife, women need 24/7 petting. just handle her with care and 4get those posts that u should cheat on her

kulutempa:
MOBO444 is the only person making sense here. The poster's wife is enjoying exercising power and control over her husband because he has made her believe that she is the one and only and that he doesn't have any other options. The marriage has become like a warder prisoner relationship. This is how people who think they have a monopoly on something behave until they experience competition. The poster will do well to read a previous post on Nairaland titled "How to maintain and control a woman". The link is below

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396243.0.html

What this guy needs to do is to exercise true control like a man and shake his wife out of her complacency. He doesn't necessarily have to chase skirts outside but he should start getting home late and if possible sprinkle some ladies perfume on his shirt while whistling as he walks into the house. He should also ignore her and look the other way even if she is completely unclothed in front of him. The whole point is to make her feel that she is not the centre of his universe anymore and that she is expendable. The reason why most females here are saying he should talk to her is that they are all in on the game and they know the main way a woman can exercise control over a man is through bottom power. Come on poster, be a man and take charge. Let your father be proud of his son.

fubiluv:
I strongly support[b] Tink_sh.[/b]
Running outside will neva solve anything.It will only make you a carward.Find out the problem in your marriage and handle it like a Man,

vivaladiva:
have u tried talking to her first

Omolola1:
THANK GOD!!!!!!!!!!! FINALLY MOBO 444 HAS BEEN KIDNAPPED!!!!!!!!!!!! I PRAY SHE K**** U SEF

@Omolola WHY,are all Nigeria ladies the same