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Travel › Re: Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 11:05am On Mar 30, 2019
@ mod Move this thread to fp now
Travel › Re: Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 10:53am On Mar 30, 2019
justwise:
Do you think Nigerians have good reputation in Kenya?
Yes
Travel › Re: Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 10:09am On Mar 30, 2019
justwise:
Why don't you associate with Nigerians?
Cos of situations like this.. And it always work out
Travel › Re: Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 9:15am On Mar 30, 2019
Whiteangel1234:
Wow when this one dey happen ? I know that area close to Aqua Garden bar
Yesterday event oo. If I am not exaggerating, they must have arrested close to 50 Nigerians.

The video I am having in one alone, they are almost 10. For them to come to my estate, water don pass garri be that..
Travel › Re: Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 9:06am On Mar 30, 2019
Whiteangel1234:
Which side of Nairobi be this ? Zimmerman abi ?
Yeah.. Mirema spring estate
Travel › Kenyan Police/immigrations Have Started Harrastment On Nigeria by Monogamy(op): 8:39am On Mar 30, 2019
FG seriously needs to do something about this. The Kenyan police have started their illegal arrest on Nigerians. They resumed their shady crack down yesterday. They came to my area and arrested some guys.

Whether you have proper documents or not, they care less. They just want to extort and this is getting out of hand.

Though I am safe cos I never associated with Nigerians but how about others. Guys cant even go out to buy things.

FG should go something about it as soon as possible before things get out of hands.

Pictures and videos of yesterday illegal arrest.

Modified: The videos are not uploading


Mnyd44 , lalasticlacla

Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 4:52pm On Dec 28, 2018
mogbojaiye:
Bro go make money, ,,,this people u are thinking of has nothing to offer u

Every century has a name ascribed to it
Like 20th century is called industrial age
21st century is called computer age

Bro u see those century even females have a name ascribed too

20th century family house wife
21st century is feminist or get money b4 u approach me,, ,,,bro go make money,

I don't know how old u are! ,but I believe u are still young for ur eye to see dat one single mother is admiring u, money way u go born for recharge card gather them invest on your skill learning, pay your dues now so u can reap it few years from now, if u know how woman matter day drain brain, finance, and career and opportunities u will make up from your fantasy

Peace
Shalom
This is purely brotherly advice. God bless you
I am averagely okay but I think I am being distracted. I will work on myself and hopefully I could give a testimony soon.

You are too much. Thanks
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 11:51pm On Dec 26, 2018
Evercurious:
Okay I seem to get your drift now. I ll advise you simply make her your friend.. No strings attached if you can
Ok thanks. I will look into the friendship part
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 11:45pm On Dec 26, 2018
mogbojaiye:
Like a brother to brother talking wat exactly do u want with d lady
I need just a sigle word as ur answer
To stay away from me. I swear if she gets too close, she might mumu in love( if you can hypnotize, then you can also manipulates) which is the last thing I want to engage with now.
Busy creating my own business path which always consumed most of my thoughts.
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 11:03pm On Dec 26, 2018
mogbojaiye:
I have read every one's comment here
And also the reply the OP is giving back
But I just feel that the OP is
1. Very shy
2. Is the lady wearing a mask dat u can't say a hi what's up to?

3. OP if u aren't truthful them there is no help from here dat can help u

4. Just let her b, there are other ladies out there, I don't think you want the wahala of pastering around a single mother, just move on, she is beautiful, and u want to chop her) why,

Area runs day backfire o
Am speaking from experience just take her like a close female friend,

The man dat wants to hunt /kill a chicken with a double barrel should b ready to eat the feather too (that's is a strong yoruba speech)
Take your time and read my last comments to evercurious.

Shy? No, I am naturally gifted in hypnotizing people but i don't use it.

About the adage. Tibile no Ni...
Eni to ba mo isin je, ogbodo mo ipin yo.

But that's not really the case here..
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 10:24pm On Dec 26, 2018
MissRaine69:
So basically all this is because of a hunch?
You are a complicated man.
Complicated? Yea somehow grin grin

That's one of the disadvantage of having an access to too much of informations ( Third eye opening)
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op):
Evercurious:
Oga why wait for her to continue showing greenlight? I wld prefer you walk up to her and ask her what she wants from you.. I believe you understand what I mean by that.Just listen with heart and head and from her response I bet you ll know what next to do.. Why the unnecessary suspense?

Unaa dey trouble una self too much.. I m a female and I prefer direct talks. I don't even mind helping out a shy guy if I notice he is too shy to express himself
Honestly, I have no intention of approaching her cos my feelings have not even reached that level if you understand what I mean. I am not a perfectionist but when it comes to relationship stuffs, I take alot of my time getting to know the person. I am not a shy guy oo( would she kills me if I approached)

Also, I dont want trouble for myself engaging with someone's wife( single or married, though not certain about the lady's status). A foreigner for that matter.( more like trouble sleep yanga go wake am). My prayer is for her feelings for me to die naturally so that everyone can be at peace but that's only one way thinking. What if she summoned the courage to initiate convo?
So with comments from you and others, I think am well prepared should unthinkable happens.

Thanks for taking your time.. I really appreciate
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:44pm On Dec 26, 2018
MissRaine69:
You are making this a lot more complicated than it really is. All you have to do is ask her. How exactly are you embrassing her?
Are you prepared to date a single mum? That should be the first question you need to ask yourself. Secondly yo mentioned not dating someone local and she sounds local so what exactly are you wanting out of this?
Honestly I cant really say I am into her at the moment but she is @ least I am 60% sure.
Am I prepared to date a single mum( not even sure if she is married or single) but I dont think that's a problem only if she is matured enough.
She is not local I am only referring to not like dating anyone from my hood.
What do I want out of this? Probably nothing at the moment. I just want to be prepared whenever she makes the move. Sometimes over sabi kills
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:32pm On Dec 26, 2018
kunleweb:
Don't ruin her life. Yur confusion is extremeextreme. Let her be. Go sort yourself before your harm others wiyh your.cluelessness. you need redemption not an innocent soul yo destroy with your instability
Na advise I asked, Na abuse you dey abuse. Anyways, I have heard you. Thanks for your contributions.
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:31pm On Dec 26, 2018
Babysnow1:
these are the signs of love and interest.
May be, may be not
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:30pm On Dec 26, 2018
highpriestess:
You are just seeking for attention Mr.
Did she approach You? Why being too narcissistic? Jesus, people deh. undecided
Why you con carry the matter for head like this?

Na wah for you oo
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:29pm On Dec 26, 2018
kunleweb:
Smh. This dude is confused. What do you really want!
Nothing. She will definitely approach. I am only preparing myself not to embarrass her or myself.

Left to me, I can overlook 100% sure.
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:27pm On Dec 26, 2018
highpriestess:
Take your shiity pride to somewhere else.
Inconsequential carcass. sad sad

Why being proud like this? Who are You? Nonsense.

Na your type I deh like to give my best attitude to.
Don't even reply, I hate proud and arrogant people.
May be am proud but let me ask you, it is all the guys that approached you always give green light?
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:24pm On Dec 26, 2018
kunleweb:
If you dont want her and the kid, ccan you please leave her be? Don't you think she's had eniugh already!?

If she's all you want in a qoman and if she meets up the jigh expectations,will you accept the kid? If yes, initiate a process of getting to know her. If you're in lagos i can help,all i need is point me the lady and give me 5-30minutes


Make no mistake her availability means she wants contact with you,while you're suffering,she's also yearning for the exact same thing.
Bro you are not getting me. I do not have feelings for her at the moment even if i do, I know how to contain my feelings and emotion.

As per approaching ladies, I am even running away from lot of them. In the house of dead, skulls are nothing..lol
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:20pm On Dec 26, 2018
MissRaine69:
Funny things like what exactly? She did not get that child by being mute so I don’t get your reasoning.
I am used to this kind of situation and I know how a lady behaves when they are into you but this is a bit complicated
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:16pm On Dec 26, 2018
emmanuelpopson:
let her be... she may be lonely as single mother but that doesn't mean she wanna befriend a guy...just see that she has initiate the conversation and see where it goes
Thanks. I am just trying to prepare myself before the event occurs. I cant say I am into her at the moment that's the honest truth
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:14pm On Dec 26, 2018
kunleweb:
Do you want her? May be, May be not. Undecided at the moment. Working on some stuffs and need no distractions.

Do you think it's possible having her without the kid? That's not possible

Do you want her and the kid? Undecided


What exactly do you want? Nothing at the moment


It all begins with knowing what you want and being resolute in your desire.


If you want her,i assure you thirty minutes is enough bro
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 7:02pm On Dec 26, 2018
emmanuelpopson:
funny you.. do you wanna perch and go or stay for real??
you should let her be or just be friends and no attachment.. because she has learn her lessons and so won't wanna stick to unserious guys who may have ulterior. motives...
I have no ulterior motives at the moment. That's why I said I can never initiates the conversation. But you know when a lady really likes you, she could do funny things.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brighton & Hove Albion Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 26th December 2018 by Monogamy: 6:27pm On Dec 26, 2018
We are leading

Their fada
Romance › Re: I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2018
kunleweb:
It begins with identifying what you want
Like i said she has the look and the features( somehow my type) but I am not really sure about my feelings. Left to me, I can never initiate the conversations ( I trust myself)
Romance › I May Not Want To Embarass Her( Advice Needed) by Monogamy(op): 6:18pm On Dec 26, 2018
I need an advise on an event which has not happened but certainly it will.

There is this girl in my hood. My type somehow ( look and features) but she has a little daughter of 1 years plus. For 2 weeks, we have been running into each other even at some places I never expected. Even though I may stay in the house for 2 days without stepping outside but when I do, I always run unto her.

Last week, I was coming from somewhere then I noticed when I got infront of a house a lady came out . Holla, she is the one. I never knew she stays there. I can bet it, that one wasn't coincidence. She must have probably saw me from afar.

I ran into her again today and she wasn't even shy to look into my eyes. Probably she was expecting me to say hi, cos we were on the same route. I just waka pass.

I am so sure one of these days, she will be bold enough to initiate conversation. That's exactly where I need you guys advise cos I wouldn't want to embarrass her or myself.

Firstly, i dont do area dating
Secondly, somebody must be responsible for her and daughter upkeep . Woman can be funny when they are inlove and could do something silly. I put myself in the shoe of supposed man ( Not sure if she is married or not cos baby mama is a normal thing here.

Not that i cant handle the situation myself but I don't want to do over sabi in handling the situation .

Advise needed
Politics › Betternigeria.ng ( Something Curious) by Monogamy(op): 9:15am On Dec 21, 2018
I dont know if it is normal or abnormal

Be the judge

Politics › Re: Ekiti Election: Helicopter With Money Lands In Government House -The Nation by Monogamy: 3:34pm On Jul 13, 2018
propaganda

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