kunleweb:
It begins with identifying what you want

Monogamy:


Like i said she has the look and the features( somehow my type) but I am not really sure about my feelings. Left to me, I can never initiate the conversations ( I trust myself)

Monogamy:
I need an advise on an event which has not happened but certainly it will.

There is this girl in my hood. My type somehow ( look and features) but she has a little daughter of 1 years plus. For 2 weeks, we have been running into each other even at some places I never expected. Even though I may stay in the house for 2 days without stepping outside but when I do, I always run unto her.

Last week, I was coming from somewhere then I noticed when I got infront of a house a lady came out . Holla, she is the one. I never knew she stays there. I can bet it, that one wasn't coincidence. She must have probably saw me from afar.

I ran into her again today and she wasn't even shy to look into my eyes. Probably she was expecting me to say hi, cos we were on the same route. I just waka pass.

I am so sure one of these days, she will be bold enough to initiate conversation. That's exactly where I need you guys advise cos I wouldn't want to embarrass her or myself.

Firstly, i dont do area dating
Secondly, somebody must be responsible for her and daughter upkeep . Woman can be funny when they are inlove and could do something silly. I put myself in the shoe of supposed man ( Not sure if she is married or not cos baby mama is a normal thing here.

Not that i cant handle the situation myself but I don't want to do over sabi in handling the situation .

Advise needed

emmanuelpopson:
funny you.. do you wanna perch and go or stay for real??
you should let her be or just be friends and no attachment.. because she has learn her lessons and so won't wanna stick to unserious guys who may have ulterior. motives...

MissRaine69:

What do you want exactly? And how do you expect is to know what you don’t know? Straight up ask her what her situation is. How else do you expect to find out? My village people charge extra for out of area. When you know
Then let us know.

Monogamy:


I have no ulterior motives at the moment. That's why I said I can never initiates the conversation. But you know when a lady really likes you, she could do funny things.

Monogamy:


I have no ulterior motives at the moment. That's why I said I can never initiates the conversation. But you know when a lady really likes you, she could do funny things.

kunleweb:



Do you want her? May be, May be not. Undecided at the moment. Working on some stuffs and need no distractions.

Do you think it's possible having her without the kid? That's not possible

Do you want her and the kid? Undecided


What exactly do you want? Nothing at the moment


It all begins with knowing what you want and being resolute in your desire.


If you want her,i assure you thirty minutes is enough bro

emmanuelpopson:


let her be... she may be lonely as single mother but that doesn't mean she wanna befriend a guy...just see that she has initiate the conversation and see where it goes

MissRaine69:

Funny things like what exactly? She did not get that child by being mute so I don’t get your reasoning.

kunleweb:



If you dont want her and the kid, ccan you please leave her be? Don't you think she's had eniugh already!?

If she's all you want in a qoman and if she meets up the jigh expectations,will you accept the kid? If yes, initiate a process of getting to know her. If you're in lagos i can help,all i need is point me the lady and give me 5-30minutes


Make no mistake her availability means she wants contact with you,while you're suffering,she's also yearning for the exact same thing.

Monogamy:
I need an advise on an event which has not happened but certainly it will.

There is this girl in my hood. My type somehow ( look and features) but she has a little daughter of 1 years plus. For 2 weeks, we have been running into each other even at some places I never expected. Even though I may stay in the house for 2 days without stepping outside but when I do, I always run unto her.

Last week, I was coming from somewhere then I noticed when I got infront of a house a lady came out . Holla, she is the one. I never knew she stays there. I can bet it, that one wasn't coincidence. She must have probably saw me from afar.

I ran into her again today and she wasn't even shy to look into my eyes. Probably she was expecting me to say hi, cos we were on the same route. I just waka pass.

I am so sure one of these days, she will be bold enough to initiate conversation. That's exactly where I need you guys advise cos I wouldn't want to embarrass her or myself.

Firstly, i dont do area dating
Secondly, somebody must be responsible for her and daughter upkeep . Woman can be funny when they are inlove and could do something silly. I put myself in the shoe of supposed man ( Not sure if she is married or not cos baby mama is a normal thing here.

Not that i cant handle the situation myself but I don't want to do over sabi in handling the situation .

Advise needed

Monogamy:


Bro you are not getting me. I do not have feelings for her at the moment even if i do, I know how to contain my feelings and emotion.

As per approaching ladies, I am even running away from lot of them.

highpriestess:

Take your shiity pride to somewhere else.
Inconsequential carcass.

Why being proud like this? Who are You? Nonsense.

Na your type I deh like to give my best attitude to.
Don't even reply, I hate proud and arrogant people.

highpriestess:

Take your shiity pride to somewhere else.
Inconsequential carcass.

Why being proud like this? Who are You? Nonsense.

Na your type I deh like to give my best attitude to.
Don't even reply, I hate proud and arrogant people.

kunleweb:



Are you the chick

Monogamy:


May be am proud but let me ask you, it is all the guys that approached you always give green light?

kunleweb:



Smh. This dude is confused. What do you really want!

highpriestess:


God forbid.


I never know my neighbours finish na to recognise a street urchin like that proud op.
Mtchew

highpriestess:

You are just seeking for attention Mr.
Did she approach You? Why being too narcissistic? Jesus, people deh.

Monogamy:


Nothing. She will definitely approach. I am only preparing myself not to embarrass her or myself.

Left to me, I can overlook 100% sure.

Babysnow1:
these are the signs of love and interest.

kunleweb:


Wow. Your outburst though seems almost personal. Means ifa guy.ignores or turns.down a lady,y'all feel.this way?

Monogamy:


Why you con carry the matter for head like this?

Na wah for you oo

kunleweb:



Don't ruin her life. Yur confusion is extremeextreme. Let her be. Go sort yourself before your harm others wiyh your.cluelessness. you need redemption not an innocent soul yo destroy with your instability

Monogamy:


I am used to this kind of situation and I know how a lady behaves when they are into you but this is a bit complicated