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peepydelano:
Do you prefer your husbands to cheat on you or simply marry a second wife?

Answer this too, do you also prefer your wife to cheat on you or you train a bastard child as yours?

Davash222:
A girl used and dumped you, got married and still communicating with you and you're happy. Don't you feel used

Louder plssssssssssssss, there are still more people to hear this.

nifeseun:
Thanks soo much for this, God bless u, may God grant all ur heart desires ma.

What are we sisters for?

Between Amen to your prayer.

KaptainAfrika:
Oh mehn! after all that publicity.

Yeah, the beauty of it is that Davido is aware because he defended her then by admitting that we all have an ugly past.

KaptainAfrika:
But wait o. That woman Kemi actually said this about Chioma last year. Mbok what is love-vendor, just say prostitute.

NOT ONLY HER, EVEN HER COLLEAGUE ACCUSED HER OF BEING ONE THEN.

Amanee:
Always stay true to yourself no matter how hard it is. That your husband is an unrepentant cheat and liar and he's not going to change because you caught him. He's only going to add more finesse to his dealings so you won't catch him red handed again. Kindly ask yourself these questions and answer to obtain clarity:


Can you live with this?

20 years down the line would you be happy with your decision to stay?

If your answers are yes;

Kneel down and pray for him
Learn to dress more sexily for him
Give him sex more often
Don't nag him
Focus on your child/children, all men are probably dogs anyway
Learn to forgive and forget his indiscretion
Buy him condoms and advise him to use them so you don't end up with STI/Ds
Watch War Room

If your answers are No;

Please divorce him because that lying and cheating scumbag doesn't deserve you

Don't scared me please

ogawisdom:
Lol don't give yourself high BP for nothing

Almost every man flirts n watches indecency codely including your Bishop n pastor (nobody holy pass). Social media has not helped matters with so many random girls available for hook ups n all manner of things

But how come cousins are now lovers incest

Though it's very wrong but u should be more concerned about his love for u and how caring he is in your present condition n thereafter.

Stop checking a man's phone, laptop or tablets if u want to stay married.

This is more like an anthem, do you mean nothing can be done except this?

If it happens to be positive keep the baby and don't say anything to your family yet until your uncle help you with the job after all you're not the person carrying the pregnancy so that won't stop you from working. Don't forget to contact Nifeseun for beautiful baby items

iamballo:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I'm a regular here even a lot of u guys kws my story here long b4 I got married in 2017. The issue now is that my marriage is on d line bcus of my wife cunning act lately, there is dis man I hv been suspecting that my wife is having affair with but b4 now I don't hv any tangible evidence abt dem dating or whatever & anytime I raised d issue she always talk her way out of it which I always believe.
Two days ago I borrowed my wife phone to send some msgs to my clients & few msgs was sent back to me thru her phone so as I was going Tru d inbox to check d msgs d tin I saw almost makes me fainted. A conversation between her & d man. I hv attached a screenshot of their conversation below.
please what's d best way for me to handle this situation because I'm down & devastated at d moment.
please I will really appreciate if this can get to the front page for wider views.

Hmm, I believe no housewife can be this stupid. I'm sorry op I don't believe you but if this happens to be true, please don't think twice just quit the marriage that's if you desire peace of mind and happiness. Trust me I know how it feels to have a cheating partner.

Rest on great fighters

Officialgarri:
Before this thread would be closed, let me mention that Seun's decision on the religious section could actually be the best.

How do I mean? You seen, Christians are unarguably the most liberal and accommodating religion, hence, Christians care less about criticism.
Christians do not react by VIOLENCE

Now ask yourself, can same be said of Islam?

Seconded, this is obviously this reason for that. Those people hates truth and nairalanders are too blunt

patani:
That is to say DabestDoc should gbenue soun.. Ova sabi somebody

No sir. @startright I'm still waiting.

DBestDoc:
You shouldn't do what you're about to do If you love your friend so much like you claimed.

This is a very bad idea. You know absolutely nothing about the poster, he barely gave any meaningful information about himself and carefully refused to provide answers to all reasonable questions.

He loves clubbing and hanging out. He has been to all clubs in town and has been able to mingle and meet a lot of people yet, he couldn't find a wife?

If you feel so concerned and you want to match make your friend with someone, please choose amongst your unmarried colleagues at work, brothers in Church, family friends, relatives or better still cut her some slack.

When the Op is responsible enough to become a husband, he'll find a wife. For now, he still has a very long way to go and a child to take care of.

. We've done a lot in regards to this can't just talk about something here.

Ovo04:
I’m married with a son and they both answer my native name not my surname. My wife is married to me not my forefathers.
I also did research and most people now use their own name not their ancient fathers name.

This is how it's done in the north, I know this when I was working at National Population Commission in Yola. I also prefer hubby's name to his surname but because he is the only son so I decided to bear his father name not his forefather's name.

Octopusssy:
He won't answer because he is getting very familiar with MoonandStar offline

Bae, those questions are still inevitable for him of course. @startright250 I'm yet to receive a message from you. I need to be cuddling my husband by now but still waiting for you.

Octopusssy:
I'm pretty sure she is gathering all the star dusts to shower you with.

I'm gathering more than enough for him ni

startright250:
MoonandStar is not taking me to the moon yet. I am still waiting for the star she has for me

, unserious you, the network is poor.

I no believe

startright250:
Maybe...how do we go about this?

I've sent you a mail

startright250:
Maybe she is the one
Or maybe I am the one

Maybe you're both met for each other. I love her so much that's reason I'm doing this.

startright250:
Is she in her thirties??

Yes

startright250:
I hope she's not your friend with benefits...lol

I'm a female sir, I don't do female

startright250:
I am tired of sitting at the bus stop or attending events looking for a woman of my choice. I have decided to go the online way this year.

FYI, I am a single father.
I need a slim (with some flesh) fair complexioned woman. Fair could be yellow or any colour that is not too black because I am a dark guy. Between 33 to 40year is fine. A Yoruba specifically from Osun, Oyo or Kwara and must be working or doing business (please not a make up artist o).


Edited... A prayerful woman. With prayers we can achieve a lot

My contact is startright250@yahoo.com

I've a friend that march your kind of lady except with the fact that she is rounding up her NYSC by March.

I want one for Fireboy, the guy has been giving me goosebumps lately especially that is track titled You. I love the song like data.

Bozzyironlady:
I don't mind any price for it, it's a double wooden cot one is a swing and the other a cot

Drop your number and the pic

jidamsel43:
Yoruba ladies over to you. Can you accept this kind of wedding?

If your wife to be is understandable , it is possible to achieve this but ladies nowadays do not want to settle for SURULERE ( struggling) again, they prefer OLORUNSOGO (high class).


To convince a lady to accept this in Lagos , you have to be on 75 days marathon fasting .

I think is her desperation to get married and the love he has for the guy that make her to accept the low budget wedding because deep down she wanted it and she's clamouring for it now which is obviously her real self still wanting to showcase her flamboyant lifestyle.

Happy birthday to you angel, may you celebrate more years in prosperity and happiness.

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Reelmii:

Seen pls kindly delete this

nifeseun:
Regularly ma, we re never out of stock. 08061527265, u can reach me tru whatsapp.

I've saved your number already, I'll surely have reason to contact you soon by God grace.

DavidEsq:
Most big and old churches are certified by the ministry of interior to conduct marriages. Such marriages are very valid, 101%.

When someone is not their member nko, one can't just walked in there na for marriage na.