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oneeast:
Good job. Russia will be encircled soon by the US led Nato

Medianna:
Its always good to know your stand in someone's live. So you don't over do.
She invite you?

Unruly7:
You're the man
You ought to set standard for your relationship

Unruly7:
Don't let her find out you know her balance, then try act broke and in need of financial help and see if she can help you with money if she do
Then she's a good wife material who knows how to save for rainy days



Ask most married people they don't know their wives balance oh
And their wives always claim broke

When there's real issues they step in to help

You don't expect her to tell you how much she have


Just beg her for money and see if she can help
NOTE: at first she might say No, continue to beg and see
But if she no agree just end am

Adsexpert:
Op be ready for the worse , even to break up .

But op follow this sharply I support this before taking any decisions at all . I know how you feel . Pls take this advice

But this advice does not guarantee shes a good woman though . But if it were me I will do this twice to 3 times at least to see if she would give me . Asking like 20k 15k a d lastly 20k is cool..

PrimadonnaO:
Why is nobody asking this man how he accessed another person's account, and all its history?

Acidosis:
Absolutely. "Independent woman" is just one of those slogans they say to feel good among peers. No woman truly wants to be financially independent

The last point is also very true.

excell0001:
do this

L1TTLE:
I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.

Olumighty123:
OP follow this advice and update us. Our wifes doesn't admit they had money, even when you know they have it. It's just a woman's nature to act broke in the presence of their men

MRAKBEE:
The US is a silent killer... Always trying to cause problems everywhere..I pray china deals with them in a harsh way.
Now they are trying hard to force homosexuality down our throats.
Boko haram seems to be their handwork.

The Russia-Ukraine crisis has presented alot of people great opportunities to better understand the roles western states like the US, UK and France have played in disrupting peace and development in various parts of the world.

2ndchildhood:
Bros brokness get level na..

Pickup360:
Don't break up with her... She won't loose.

You can still date her and stop giving her money all together, always remind her that you don't have money even when you have.

Keep enjoying her when you feel like, shift most of your attention to another woman but don't break up with her. Infact, promise her marriage with sweet words that when money comes, you will take her to the moon.

You can also arrange to share her money too. Just get a bank account from someone she doesn't know and make a transfer to the person or even make use of her atm card, let see if she will come telling you the tale on how she lost money to her bank.


Don't break up, laslas na u go loose if you break up.

Fairmedia:
Abroad man sends dollars

lereinter:
I wonder O

How person wey get 150k not say she's broke

Server88:
Depends on exactly how you go about it. Sit her down and tell her exactly what you want to do. Chances are she won't agree so you can try to compromise for a lesser amount 50%, 80%, 40% repayment or whatever percentage you deem fit. I know this would be seen as being petty and it's the only advice I can give you if you decide to be petty.
At the end of the day the money's gone, only question is how much you can salvage. If you choose not to be petty, stop contemplating and break up with her then move on with your life.
The good thing is that despite how the whole experience turned out, you walked away with something priceless: A big lesson on women and a free 1mg dose of Redpill.

Server88:
What should you do? That's simple, you have access to her bank application, get her account statement or history, calculate every penny you sent her and withdraw it. Not a penny more, not a penny less.

elpochas:
OP I Dumped my Ex cos of these Reason.Babe will buy sometin of 100 Naira and still wait for me to come back from work and pay it.Was holding her Phone one day when i saw an alert displaying her Account balance,i cud nt endure it again,had to question her.The Dumb lie she put to me was that its for her Dads Medicals.
After that day my mind spoilt towards her,jst had to lt her go.I cnt date a stingy lady and will neva advice any Man to date a stingy lady no mata hw Rich you are.Ladies Were made to support their Man and nt to be Parasites.

idahme:
His issues is not that she has 150k in her account but that she has been having evem much more when he was struggling and sacrificing all his finance for her.

At the point he was footing her bills she had more cash than him , decieved him of been broke even when she was doing better.

If you don't see any thing wrong with this , that means you have same mindset.