SmellySperm:
Na dem. Leech don drop motivational quote

You don't gerrit.

eminiman:


Kindly check your mailbox

Thanks

Responded.

Double0h7:
You're aboard must be Togo if you think her having $359 in her account is a lot of money. She's broke and she has an aboard boyfriend so allow her or let her go so she can find a better man

His issues is not that she has 150k in her account but that she has been having evem much more when he was struggling and sacrificing all his finance for her.

At the point he was footing her bills she had more cash than him , decieved him of been broke even when she was doing better.

If you don't see any thing wrong with this , that means you have same mindset.

qekng40:
Some people are like this, their account statements can't be less than a specific amount of money. They prefer to starve than touch it!

I think she is this type of girl. Thanks

Nofapsucks:
Where person one see better girlfriend for this our kontry sef?
I tire for naija girls

besides this, she is a good girl and doesnt cheat

idahme:


His issues is not that she has 150k in her account but that she has been having evem much more when he was struggling and sacrificing all his finance for her.

At the point he was footing her bills she had more cash than him , decieved him of been broke even when she was doing better.

If you don't see any thing wrong with this , that means you have same mindset.

You are right. That's why i'm so angry

elpochas:
OP I Dumped my Ex cos of these Reason.Babe will buy sometin of 100 Naira and still wait for me to come back from work and pay it.Was holding her Phone one day when i saw an alert displaying her Account balance,i cud nt endure it again,had to question her.The Dumb lie she put to me was that its for her Dads Medicals.
After that day my mind spoilt towards her,jst had to lt her go.I cnt date a stingy lady and will neva advice any Man to date a stingy lady no mata hw Rich you are.Ladies Were made to support their Man and nt to be Parasites.

Thanks bro. I appreciate your response

Cc
Lalasticlala, Mydn44 please push this to front page. I need more mature advice

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

What should you do? That's simple, you have access to her bank application, get her account statement or history, calculate every penny you sent her and withdraw it. Not a penny more, not a penny less.

Moony45:
I think she is this type of girl. Thanks

most welcome!

Server88:

What should you do? That's simple, you have access to her bank application, get her account statement or history, calculate every penny you sent her and withdraw it. Not a penny more, not a penny less.

Dont you think that would be stealing or amount to something else?

Moony45:


Dont you think that would be stealing or amount to something else?

Depends on exactly how you go about it. Sit her down and tell her exactly what you want to do. Chances are she won't agree so you can try to compromise for a lesser amount 50%, 80%, 40% repayment or whatever percentage you deem fit. I know this would be seen as being petty and it's the only advice I can give you if you decide to be petty.
At the end of the day the money's gone, only question is how much you can salvage. If you choose not to be petty, stop contemplating and break up with her then move on with your life.
The good thing is that despite how the whole experience turned out, you walked away with something priceless: A big lesson on women and a free 1mg dose of Redpill.

Server88:

Depends on exactly how you go about it. Sit her down and tell her exactly what you want to do. Chances are she won't agree so you can try to compromise for a lesser amount 50%, 80%, 40% repayment or whatever percentage you deem fit. I know this would be seen as being petty and it's the only advice I can give you if you decide to be petty.
At the end of the day the money's gone, only question is how much you can salvage. If you choose not to be petty, stop contemplating and break up with her then move on with your life.
The good thing is that despite how the whole experience turned out, you walked away with something priceless: A big lesson on women and a free 1mg dose of Redpill.

Women are so betraying yet they complain about not getting good husbands or man

If you don't have a strong heart, I advice you to avoid dating

lereinter:


I wonder O

How person wey get 150k not say she's broke

I dont even have up 10k in my local bank account sometimes and i still send it to her

See,
Come up with a pathetic story, borrow N120k from her. Dont break up with her, just let the relationship freeze by stopping communication.if she calls, answer, but dont call again. if she wants to make trouble on the money, stress her and agree to be paying 5k every month.......

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

Mods, a little help for somebody's son here

Moony45:

Women are so betraying yet they complain about not getting good husbands or man

Bruv...it's the vicious cycle of life. Although, a bad woman can totally ruin a good man, the world is and will continue to remain a clusterf*ck because of both men and women.

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

Mods, a little help for somebody's son here

U don’t know most gals are wicked, selfish and pretentious??

2ndly Any gal u sacrifice for that’s ur business not hers. Na u dey sacrifice bt she’s not sacrificing anything for u so it’s u that’s inlove not her. U are just a mumu sacrificing for nothing.

3, u better act like ur broke and ask her to borrow u money that u want to use it for an investment and u will give her back. She won’t borrow bt tell her u will give her 2ce the money and she will look for the money from her uncle (her account) and borrow u. They are very greedy like that.

So tell her to borrow u 100k and u will give her 200k. Once u get the money spill the beans about what u discovered then end the relationship.

Or tell her u will deduct the money uve spent on her and return the balance. Lol

Abroad man sends dollars

Fairmedia:
Abroad man sends dollars

forget the narrative, abroad isn't as easy as pple think too and racism makes it worse

Pickup360:
Don't break up with her... She won't loose.

You can still date her and stop giving her money all together, always remind her that you don't have money even when you have.

Keep enjoying her when you feel like, shift most of your attention to another woman but don't break up with her. Infact, promise her marriage with sweet words that when money comes, you will take her to the moon.

You can also arrange to share her money too. Just get a bank account from someone she doesn't know and make a transfer to the person or even make use of her atm card, let see if she will come telling you the tale on how she lost money to her bank.


Don't break up, laslas na u go loose if you break up.

Hmmm

MadamVanessa:



You should not even contemplate of breaking up with her, you should do that immediately. She's a Parasitic animal. She's a type that even if you get married to her, she won't change ,she won't contribute anything in the marriage...and you'll die before your time.

Fake parasitic girls everywhere, disgracing us everywhere.

✔️

Moony45:
forget the narrative, abroad isn't as easy as pple think too and racism makes it worse

We need more to go, to send more foreign payments in, to boost our foreign exchange. Some love it abroad, we both gain

lereinter:


I wonder O

How person wey get 150k not say she's broke

Bros brokness get level na..

2ndchildhood:
Bros brokness get level na..

150k is not broke to me o

lereinter:


I wonder O

How person wey get 150k not say she's broke

cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

She has 150k yet collects urgent 3k

Must relationship be financial?

This is why I date feminists.Any penny I spend on them,they spend more of it on me in another way.

In my little journey on earth, I've realised rhis.
Even a lady that has her own money wants your money.

The only diff between her & a broke lady is that she'll make you feel like she doesn't want your money by spending her own money, so you don't shame her.

But the pain they both feel for not eating your money is the same."Women make your own money to avoid see finish" is just a defensive mechanism they all apply.

Notice that they also say "if a man gives them, it's a plus?".

What does that tell you? It's either your money or your money. Never theirs.

Broke ladies just lack bragging rights.
Additional point : Women don’t take risk with their money, they rather test the water with Men’s money.
Know this and know peace.