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The hostility and hate is too much, why should he show up?

Fahvvy:
Awesome question here...
If she can take care of herself before the relationship, then she should be able to take care of herself DURING the relationship too! And not turn someone's son into an ATM ...

And let's be real here...
The major reason why most women go into a relationship is MONEY and the major reason why most men go into a relationship is S.EX...

So if the woman is getting what she wants (a man to spend on her), why can't the man also get what he wants too?

Seeing that a relationship is supposed to be "mutual" and not parasitic, will it be fair if only one party is benefiting from the relationship and the other isn't? ...

Virginprincess is there saying "money is very important in a relationship" and by money, she means a man's money...

Because in well over 95% of relationships, it's the man who is doing the spending and not the woman...

And what's worse is that, the man isn't getting ANY VALUE that is commensurate with what he's spending...

And by value here, I mean, Respect, support, acceptance, great advice, loyalty etc..

But rather, what he gets is headaches, billing, unnecessary drama and childish behavior ...

So in summary...
If you expect a man to spend on you (and he has been doing so), then you should also be willing to grace his bed just as often...

And let's do a quick reversal here...
If you grace a man's bed as frequently as he wants...

If you respect him and you're loyal to him...

If you're giving him what he wants and you're meeting his needs...

And he doesn't take care of you...

He doesn't spend on you or meet your own needs, will you still be in that relationship?

I guess not ...

So why then will you expect a man to just be in a se.xless relationship with a woman who doesn't meet his own needs when he meets hers!!!!

So if the woman is not a virgin...
If the woman makes incessant demands...
If the woman doesn't reciprocate value...

NO MAN SHOULD BE IN A SE.XLESS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER ...

Interesting take

yyba:
Base on assumption it will survival but, in reality capital NO it won't. Don't fool yourself oo

Then we can say the concept of a relationship is give and take

virginprincess:
NO,a relationship can never survive without money.

So can we say money is the only lifeline of a relationship? What about other aspects? Our forefathers survive without these MONIES

Hi Nairalanders,

I have been hoping to ask this question in response to different posts about men or women not willing to commit in a relationship without sex.

https://www.nairaland.com/7387136/relationship-survive-without-sex

I then asked men around if they would be willing to commit to NO SEX in a relationship either during normal relationship or the ones on the condition that it will only happen after marriage but quite a number of them asked the rhetoric question of whether a woman too can commit to a relationship without much financial commitment from the man or perhaps a split bill.

What's your take on this?

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Read the full text pls

Pdp without rivers is a Gonner!

Robb4b:
Hello guys!!
Yesterday my ex came to visit me. She was looking somehow sober. Though, initially she didn't want to tell me the reason why she wasn't in a cheerful mood.

After many talks and persuasion. She finally opened up that her boyfriend stopped talking to her because he found condom in her bag. She said the condom was for protection against pregnancy, and it's for incase her guy doesn't have cd, so she can give him.

I asked her why didn't she tell the guy from the start that she always walk around with cd in her bag, she said she forgot to tell him.

So guys, if you were in the boyfriend shoes, will you break up with her or you just react and forgive her??

PS: She also came with cd yesterday to visit me.

In the end, you sha knack your own

Vanity crew

Chai

If it was tinubu now, everyone will be shouting

thesicilian:
Let the two of them, Obi and Kwakwanso debate on pressing issues and whoever wins the debate gets to be the president while the other will be his vice.

The wellbeing of the country and Nigerians should be of paramount importance over sentiment towards any particular person or region

Its still a joke to you, right?

Look at this loud mouth!

Nigeria don chop am. Shithole country

Real estate don scam these ones

The guy is good

He is the CHIEF VOTE BUYER

PDP are done now

This guy is a joke! 3 years ago you dont know you will do that

Thats what most losers will say

Why arm a war they cannot win when you can simply start negotiations and sue for peace! None of these western nations want peace with russia

Mods, kindly out this in a wider reach pls

These people cant separate emotions from fact... the only faction the courst recognises is the other faction and not the one obi belongs... we know the weight court order carry

inyangd4:
I can show you a 100% safe investment you can get 4% every month. Let me know if that is not too little for you.

Post the details here pls

E don finish

Hello nairalanders,

I have been saving up and i can boast of 1 million naira at the moment but i am confused as to what lucrative business someone can start in Nigeria with steady income (although i know buinesses have ups and downs).

Mature and serious responses is needed please. Help a brother!

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People from this region are terrible when it comes to playing politics. Thats why they are backward in Nigerian politics

Peter Obi don spoil vote for PDP in this coming election

The southerners are known for beteaying their kind

NB: I'm a southerner

Which kain headline be this