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A40:
The average Nigerian does not care as far as the Dugbe Dugbe never reach him doormot

We don't understand that what is bad can always get worse if we don't do the needful

Sudan, Libya, Mali all countries that should point us to where we are headed if we don't course correct but Nigerians don't really care till they are directly impacted

Thank you, that’s the painful truth. Many people only react when d problem finally reach their doorstep, forgetting that ignoring warning signs is how nations gradually slide into deeper crisis, if everybody dey keep acting kò kàn mí, it is like we dey give the perpetrators morale to keep doing more. May God help us.

BlueRayDick:
I mentioned it here in the past that I've not travelled beyond Berger towards Lagos-Ibadan expressway since sometimes around 2017-2018 while Buhari was still there because of the activities of these terrorists kidnapping people on expressway. I fear for my life and that of my loved ones and decided to not tempt the devil since our government has chosen to be useless.

Haba, you be ojo o 😂😂😂

Godx:
Congratulations to Arsenal, Not well deserved, lucky and helped by referees but congratulations all the same.

wetin be the meaning of "not well deserved" i no understand English, abeg explain am to me in a layman's language. 😂

Sportsweb:
Totteham vs Everton
West Ham vs Leeds.

Why is my mind telling me Totteham will still get relegated?

Anything can still happen, westham can beat Leeds but can Tottenham beat Everton?
But I want them to escape relegation

User09:
Congratulations Arsenal.

All I can say is next season's title is up for grabs by any top team who takes it seriously.

This city team has been average all season and since they are also going to be managed by the mediocre Maresca, I dont see them getting anywhere.

Corner kick fc isnt going to get as lucky next season. Then you have a Liverpool who's also going through their own rebuild & woes. Who knows, maybe Xabi Alonso actually can compete for the title. Noticed the boys doing some form of audition tonight

LMAO @ audition

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Chelsea just lost to Man city for nothing
Now they are officially out of Champions League for next season 😂

So, we fit beat dem before?

WhoDeyHause:
We dey 8.

Yeah, we just need to win our last game, Brighton has been the better side when they meet man u, but this time, man u will beat them or at worst play draw, and if that happens, na yerupa straight 😂

WhoDeyHause:
Be like na conference league things one more time.
Here we go again.

na yuropa

fredoooooo:
Retire ke ... mukina2 na evergreen

but I no dey see her again nao, i dey gbadun her vibes gidigan ni ooo

fredoooooo:
Congrats mukina2 ..my mukulu mkulu mukenke

That one don retired nao

Congratulations to all Arsenal fans.
After 22 long years of waiting, heartbreaks, near misses, and endless “next season” jokes, ;Dthe wait is finally over. Your patience, loyalty, and belief have finally paid off. Enjoy this moment, you truly earned it. Congrats, Gunners!



cc BlueRayDick Roland17

KingAzubuike:
Man city muhmuh. They should have won this to at least give us last day drama.

Anything can still happen

nateevs:
80mins. Arsenal don win league.

tonight go loud gan o

Enzo hits the bar

Enzo which soap u dey use?

nateevs:
Delap never has intent to apply finesse. Na gidigbo all the time.

Brock Lesna brother

izzou:
APC got 8,000 votes in Abia in 2023

Today Orji Uzor Kalu got 60,000 votes an emerged as winner in his Senatorial district.

Only one Senatorial Zone produce 60k votes.

Wonderful!

Ẹ ò tí rí ñkankan, màrìwò lẹrí, egúngún ṣìí mbọ̀ 😂😂😂

raumdeuter:
Soon that Senate will become a meeting of ex governors.

That nonsense has to stop

Theflint1:
That you don't like something or it has been abused doesn't mean the original reasoning behind it wasn't legit.

In the US, whose form of democracy is similar to ours, their legislators are allowed to do multiple terms too and the country looks better for it.

My brother, they only copy the parts of american democracy that will only benefit them. But they refuse to copy the things that would benefit ordinary citizens, like stable electricity, a standard healthcare system for all, good roads, functional public transport, good roads, quality education, and working institutions, like the ones America they copy from actually enjoys.

If they can successfully copy the democratic system from America, then copying the policies and structures that improve the quality of life for citizens shouldn’t be difficult to copy nao. Those are the kinds of things ordinary Nigerians truly need. We don’t need Methuselah politicians who are too old to have fresh ideas.

izzou:

Seriously, there should be constitutional reforms to limit the number of terms lawmakers can spend in the HoA and NA.
If governors can be restricted to 2 terms, why should there be no clear limit for legislators?
Also, there should be a law restricting former governors moving directly into the Senate immediately after leaving office. In Ogun State for example, almost every former governor seems to see the Senate as the next political destination. Ibikunle Amosun is already a senator, Gbenga Daniel is also in the Senate, and Daru Dapo is fighting tooth and nail to become senator after he completed his 2 terms in 2027.

Allowing former governors to move straight to the National Assembly is gradually becoming a political soft landing for dem, and many people see it as a way for them to avoid serious scrutiny from agencies like the EFCC while still keeping political protection and immunity after leaving office.

There should be reforms to stop this automatic movement from Government House to the Senate. If you choose to become governor, you should already know that after your tenure, Senate should not automatically be the next bus stop.

A small group of politicians controlling both executive and legislative positions for many years only reduces chances for fresh leaders, new ideas, and real political competition. Democracy grows better when new voices and new faces also have the opportunity to lead, since 1999 we just dey recycle the same set of people.
Nonsense

izzou:
E never reach time wey there should be a law for the number of tenures you can spend as a legislator?

E be like say Abaribe na Desmond mentor

Who go make the law? Which people go pass am? No be the same legislators wey don turn the National Assembly to their permanent office? You really think say dem go sit down willingly reduce their own tenure and power?
Dey play

BlueRayDick:
The points you listed in the bolded are actually more loaded than they seem.

For example, let's look at failure to fulfil responsibilities : It can be financial in nature, sexual and even psychological in nature.

A man may suddenly go broke and becomes unable to fulfil his financial responsibilities to his family. He may try his best but things end up not working out. There is no amount of communication he may apply, once the bills are not getting paid the woman may start looking for way out of the marriage.

All those talks about patience, mutual respect, forgiveness etc will fly out of the window.

Methinks all those "infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities" you listed as valid grounds for divorce are intertwined with "understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect." which you expected partners should exhibit to have a long lasting union. They are not independent of each other.

I don't know if I make sense sha.

I understand your point, and I actually agree that these issues are interconnected. My point, is that many marriages today collapse too quickly over problems that could still be managed with maturity, patience, understanding, and genuine commitment from both sides.

Using your example of financial hardship, if a man genuinely falls on hard times but remains responsible, transparent, hardworking, and still makes efforts to provide for his family, then understanding and patience should naturally come into play. Marriage vows exist “for better or for worse,” not only for the comfortable seasons.

Almost all our mothers have stories of how they struggled with their husbands during difficult periods before things eventually got better. They endured hardship together and built from nothing. But with this Gen z generation , it is becoming increasingly rare to find people willing to stay committed during seasons of struggle.
Many now want the finished product while they themselves are still raw, so raw + raw is equal to collapse. it's like sands mix with water without cement and you want use it to build mansion, marriage is for matured minds not for kids, Marriage is the only institution where you receive a certificate before you begin the course, (meaning there is no more graduation.) The course you keep learning throughout the union is “for better, for worse.” So when divorce sets in, it is like you defraud the institution that gave you the certificate, because the motto of the institution that issues the certificate is “till death do us part.” 😂😂😂

That said, I am not referring to situations where a partner completely abandons his or her responsibilities, refuses accountability, becomes abusive, reckless, chronically unfaithful, or engages in criminal behavior. Those are serious issues that can destroy the very foundation of a marriage and are far different from temporary setbacks or normal human imperfections.
So if none of these extreme issues are present in a marriage, and the couple is blessed with children, I personally see no reason why two mature individuals should be quick to seek divorce instead of working through their differences with patience, understanding, and commitment.
My opinion though...

semid4lyfe:
How consistently do you think he gets those event hosting gigs?

There's a lot of competition in the industry with seasoned professionals and young cats in the game.

Also, many actors, comedians, TV anchors/Radio OAPs don crossover and dey do this event hosting and MC thing now. Off hand, there's

Ebuka Obi-Uchendu.
Ik Osakioduwa
Gbenga Adeyinka
Bovi
Basket Mouth
Nancy Isime
Kie Kie
Ali Baba
Gordons
AY
Dotun
Roby Ekpo
Seyi Law.
Koffi
Rufai Oseni
Ruben Abati.
Toke Makinwa

etc

I have no doubt he'll be getting gigs here and there but I dont think it'd be enough to meet domestic/family responsibilities and maintain his lifestyle.

He should go back to radio and TV so he can draw a monthly income while doing the event hosting thing on the side.

I don't get dis.
Rufai Oseni and Ruben Abati dey do what? 😂

izzou:
These people think they discovered APC, so they will just stroll in, and get the ticket. You know many people dey line for the past 12 years dey wait?

Dem give baba 11am, do primaries by 8am
Sope O ti lor

Betrayal.
But abeg who is the real betrayal here, is it this man that betrayed LP or Apc party that betrayedthis man?

GloriousGbola:
chike don become naija chris brown

google chris brown meet

mr steal you trophy wife

Lubbish
These ladies are something else

pocohantas:
If he put this much effort into his first marriage, maybe he would have been celebrating 15-20yrs anniversary. I no know the juju this iyawos dey use hold una, but make them share update for iyales. The thing that will send iyale back to her father's house, iyawo would do x20 and the man go dey quiet.

Gbamsolutely, Oil dey your head

These are the undoing of many men and women today. There is no perfect man or perfect woman out there. Aside from infidelity, abuse, failure to fulfil responsibilities, or maybe one party is involvement in criminal activities, I see no reason why a marriage should fall apart. Many marriages would last if couples learned understanding, communication, forgiveness, patience, and mutual respect.

You may divorce one person because of a bad habit, only to discover that the next one you maeried has worse flaws. A happy home is built by two imperfect people willing to grow together, not by looking a perfect partner which doesn't exist anywhere.

Even you and I reading this were not perfect when you first got married. We learned, adjusted, and grew with time.

patrickmuf:
No be to carry billions dey sign youngsters, you don keep the money for referee?

unserious people, signing secondary students as if they are going for quiz competition.

fredoooooo:
West ham ile lo lọ tarara

Never say never. Tottenham only need one point from their remaining two matches to escape relegation , but they could still lose both, while West Ham must beat Leeds City in their final game. So it’s a tricky situation and it will go to the final day.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
I hope he win nothing. The make he go concentrate for Portugal World Cup

Must he play until he clocks 50? He was the worst player on the pitch today. As the saying goes, if you don’t leave football at the right time, football will leave you. At this rate, he might end up rubbishing his own legacy.
Glory hunter

BlueMann:
If I'm not mistaken, that's like seven straight final losses at Wembley

That is horrific.

So they say, Seven is d lucky numbers. 🤷

patrickmuf:
I hope you guys get relegated next season.

will dat make blueco to leave my club?

NinjaMetahuman:
Absolutely horrendous season.


Things took a dark turn immediately ifs sponsored the shirt.

IFS International Failures Sponsor 😂