₦airaland Forum

as i always say.... FOOTBALL IS NOT MATHEMATICS, and although many raise their play during important matches, its sometimes fails. ultimately, the WC is the only benchmark to dictate who is who in football.

a team can win all its matches during 4 yrs but if they fail to win the WC, they aint shiit in the football world

bigpicture001:
Hello fellas, just like the topic stated....I am in a lot of debt runnibg into millions from various failed business, owing like 4 individuals and also owing two banks ( micro finance and a DMB)

I do a striving biz that generate say 200k monthly, I have been neck deep into debt settlement with all my income and find my self usually in tight corners...now its time to date and marry REPAY YOUR DEBTS FULLY...

Do u guys think its good I bare it all to her about my true fiannacial position..? Remember business is still running and incoming is still coming so not like monies dont come in...but i hear i hear a lot of priest say, don't hide anything from a prospective partner lest it brews disaster and justification for divorce...

What do u guyz think..? Should I tell her

FIXED
you need to focus on whats important in your life right now, and i doubt dating/marriage is. you need to free your life from all these debts before moving on with your life. it would be selfish to try to start a life with a woman knowing how your financial situation is. any extra penny you get must go towards repaying these debts.

if you indeed have a woman, i suggest you let her know about your situation asap!

the above is the definition of a CONFUSED SOUL....
you have your woman, you pretend to be fully happy with her, salesgirl tells you she loves you and you turn her down (while you should have fired her); now salesgirl moves on and looks for better brothas to be with and now you have "bad feelings about it that you may lose her"

bro, you cant lose something that was never yours to begin with!

WizardOfNG:
You keep repeating the same senseless argument that shows you lack useful and/or progressive reasoning ability.

You foolishly try to make this about crime and the need for it to be punished while you obdurately refuse to understand some things, like being from the black race, were never crimes to begin with.

Meaning anyone who criminalised race and colour, with actions such as capturing and selling black folks as slaves or refusing them the right to vote in societies they live in, should be defeated asap so that sanity, commonsense and progressive ideals rule.

As the poster NSNO contributed while you kept shouting about crime and following the law, "the law is barely enforced now sef" and we all know why.

Many believe, since ages ago, that persecuting, arresting and killing LGBTQ is inhuman and does not belong in modern and progressive societies where LGBTQ folks are now plentiful and contributing positively in science, technology, sports, politics etc.

South Africa demonstrates my point by moving to use legislation to back their stance that it is wrong to persecute anyone on account of their sexuality.

They did not sit around insisting on the retentions on laws initiated in days of backwards, intolerant, discriminatory and unexposed thinking.

With you personally, If LGBTQ folks don't hound you and are not beating down your door to sexually assault you, as if they are animals, why can't you mind your business about the private bedroom choices of other grown and consenting adults, as they show no interest in yours, and leave them be?

Have you heard of anyone being stoned to death barbarically in any developed nation in the last 100 years, for "disrespect" to a God, yet Nigeria, where it is still done, is in the company of Nations like Afghanistan, Somalia etal.

Nations where many believe they must force their religious beliefs on others and even kill "unbelievers" and infidel. They will tell you that doing so is their own "law".

So why not be consistent and openly tell us here that you back the punishment of those who stone others to death publicly for disrespecting their Gods? It is their law and after all, all laws must be enforced according to you. Not so? Clown 🤡.

- whether the law is enforced or not (in Nigeria) is irrelevant to the issue at hand...
- whether another country voted against these laws is irrelevant to the issue at hand...
- if/when i go to Saudi Arabia (or any other country that have death penalty or stoning etc), i follow their laws, regardless of how i feel about that country's laws)...
- so because i am telling you the LAW OF NIGERIA/CAMEROON, i am not minding my business...?
- so because i am telling you about the homosexual laws in Nigeria, i am not letting homos and lesbians be...?!

i dont give a flying fukc what homos/lesbos do in Nigeria and they have the right to do what they please....but they also have to understand that as a country, Nigeria has laws and therefore anyone is expected to follow the law OR face consequences if they break any laws of Nigeria (just like rapist or murderers would). how dare you people believe that you can break the law of a country and go unpunished?!

here is a simple FACT: HOMSEXUALITY/RAPE/MURDER etc ARE CRIMES IN NIGERIA AND EVERYONE IN NIGERIA SHOULD FOLLOW THE LAW (or face consequences of their actions when caught)

any yeye ignoramus who think they are above the law (because they dont agree with a certain law) are living in LA LA LAND.... and probably deserve the same medicine/treatment they gave Bobrisky. you can be whatever you want to be in your life, so long as you always FOLLOW THE LAW! i know you people really do believe that you are above the law or that the law doesnt apply to you, but thats just you mentally deranged mindset at play.

Michael547:
Answer yes or no na.....I'm not asking you if citizens should obey or not. Here is my question again....
Are the governments always right even though their laws causes suffering to the people? Yes or no sir?

you do know that the definition of INSANITY is "asking the same question over and over again, expecting a different answer", right?!

again...

you cant expect everyone to agree with a country's law... but these are the laws that were voted by that country therefore you must abide by these laws OR take the necessary steps to change these laws.

the problem with many of you people is that you believe that your personal views and opinion should be above the law, while you are just IGNORANT... wherever you are on earth, you must ALWAYS FOLLOW THE LAW OF THAT COUNTRY (regardless of how you feel about that specific law)!!

thats why:
in Europe, its a crime to drive a motorbike without a helmet, while in the US some states (like California) allow to drive bikes without helmets.
in Europe, its a crime to drive while talking on the phone, but in the US some states (like Florida) allow to talk on phone while driving.

how deluded are some of you people thinking that a country's law shouldnt apply to you (because you dont agree with it)?!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/08/crazy-talk.gif

even these children were looking on like:"see this baby hippo trying to stretch her legs like a gymnast....kai"

pls, show us the pic of the brave driver trying thinking that he could pull such heavy woman in his yeye tiny truck.

BTW check the similarities:

WizardOfNG:
Your just a clown and it is obvious ignorance is your problem. You must be proud Nigeria is in a disgraceful list of only 4 nations in African where executing homosexuals is legal punishment. Look at the nations Nigeria is in the company of below i.e Mauritania, Somalia and South Sudan.
Are they not some of the worst nations with some of the poorest human development index in the world?
People like you, always having a hard-on over irrelevant and petty things that should not concern you, or are the private bedroom matter of two consenting adults, are the problem of Nigeria because you contribute nothing when issues that really matter and transform lives are the subject matter.
In 2006, almost 20 years ago, South Africa legalised same sex marriage and empowered their constitution to outlaw discrimination against anyone because of their sexuality.
Has South Africa become hell on Earth since 2006 and has Nigeria, conversely, become Dubai because she supports execution of gays over the same period?
Same South Africa has overtaken Nigeria as the biggest economy in Africa showing that people like you are just intolerant ignoramuses focused on non-issues.
Leave LGBTQ adult folks alone. They don't harrass you and no scientific evidence exist that they make a nation worse. Whereas factual evidence directly support the reality that over-religious, over-authoritarian and ultra-intolerant nations do harm to themselves and so many of their citizens.
Keep deluding yourself. You and your ilk have nothing to offer a Nigeria that wants to be progressive and responsive to the needs of all her people.

who gives a flying fukc what laws other countries vote for their citizens? again, polygamy is legal in Nigeria/Africa while it is a crime in the west, and any Nigerian in the west should stay away from polygamy... not because polygamy is wrong but simply because IN THE WEST, POLYGAMY IS ILLEGAL! everyone should follow the laws of any country the find themselves in (whether they agree with it or not).

rapists rape, pedos sexually abuse children, kidnappers kidnap, ritualists do ritual killings, murderers murder and online scammers do 419.... and if/when the law catches up to them, they should face the full wrath of the law as the consequences of their actions (just like gays and lesbians). now, you are entitled to believe what you desire about gays/lesbian/criminals and what not in Nigeria/Cameroon or anywhere else in the world, but it certainly does NOT change the fact that everyone should FOLLOW THE LAW!

Gregorystarrrr:
Are you serious that's insane, how did she even get the pin, Chai💔

contactless transaction...

yungzed360:
Good day my friends, I feel terrible right now, is it me? Am I cursed? Why does nothing seems to be working out for me? My dreams no longer look like what would eventually comes to fruition, im frustrated..

This morning, I woke up with just N700 with me, I come from a family where there's nobody to call for help, no any uncle to even lend you anything, my dad left my mum long before now, and I'm the first born of my family.

I learnt computer quiet early in life and so since then I've worked as a computer operator until I opened my own shop.

I've noticed whatever I put my hands fails, I've opened lots of business before now but they most times seems to crumble even before they start, my business centre (the one I have now is going to three years now) but every now and then I'm always struggling, sometimes whenever I give money to my mum, I'll go three days without having a single customer in my shop or doing any tangible work (my mum cannot hurt me) but I wonder why everything always seem to be this way, I've struggled almost all my life and it's very very frustrating, I lost my younger sister about two years ago, it was due to finances and how scattered my family has become over the years. Yesterday, I only sold one neco scratch card and that was the only thing that saved me, I would have slept in hunger, today also, I've not done a single work.

I cried somuch this morning, it's not easy cus at my age I should be providing already for my younger brother who is somewhere in Niger Republic working, I should also be providing for my mum eventhough she is working but my effort just at every turn seems to be a mess... I've had a lot of setbacks, my life is just a mess, I'm so frustrated that even ordinary relatio ship I cannot maintain, I get angry easily, shout and use abusive words at will, I don't like this character and for the longest of time, I've tried but my efforts just proves meaningless at every point, there's absolutely nothing I have and it's unfortunate for me, I just don't know what to do any more.

sometimes you have to be realistic about life and stop pretending to be who you are not... if you cant comfortably take care of your own self/business, why would you bother about other people? fix yourself FIRST before thinking of helping others. your younger brothers and mum can wait.
GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT!

good luck...

WizardOfNG:
I have thrown you a challenge. Go to any bar or club in Lagos and go and enforce the law against those you claim are breaking the law. Better still start with Doyin Okupe's and Peter Obi's son's when they are in Nigeria.

It was once legal to keep and sell black people as slaves same as Blacks folks voting used to be proscribed in the USA.

The postive changes that have happened since then shows that it is those who accept reality and are liberal who deliver progress for society. Not intolerant relics and waste of space individuals like you.

i understand that you believe that you are so important and that your opinion is more important than the laws of Nigeria, and therefore you (and all criminals/gays/lesbians in Nigeria) foolishly believe that you are above the law and shouldnt follow the law of the country you reside in... but sadly, i dont care whether people/criminals/gays and lesbians in Nigeria are breaking the law or not... the law in Nigeria/Cameroon is very specific on that subject and therefore we must all FOLLOW THE LAW! or face consequences of your actions.

....and if you have a big mouth like Bobrisky flaunting your "illegal" lifestyle all over social media (as if you are above the law and untouchable because some oga at the top is mounting you), then they will simply use you as an example and send you to jail for 6months on trumped-up charges... BWAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

another story of a BASTARD PIKIN spotted...

BTW LA click LA Bendel state

if you buy yeye food from any yeye stores, you will probably find the above on anything (candy/flour/tomato paste etc)

WizardOfNG:
You're probably an old and archaic relic of a clown, totally out of touch with reality anyway, so you can continues living in your fools Paradise.

Na so una be till reality deals with your ignorant 'Ostrich' idiocy. Has Okupe who previously attributed his son's gay sexuality to "spiritual challenge" not accepted reality and moved on today?

Will he kill his own son or accept his stoning to death or learn to become more tolerant and accept the young man for what he is that he cannot forcefully beat out of him or get a pastor to exorcise?

Why is Obi, usually talkative over every topic, not at the forefront of jailing gays for life for their "crime"? Joker.

again, in Nigeria (or anywhere else on earth), FOLLOW THE LAW!

WizardOfNG:
You're just writing rubbish as an angry homophobe heavily into self-delusion. You're talking nonsense about "folllow the damn law" in angry uppercase red font, as if that makes your tirade more potent, when no one does and no one gets punished for not following any law because the reality is that society does not really care about laws they know is archaic, ignorant of reality and totally impotent.

If sure for you and self-deluded hypocrites like you, why don't you compel Nigerian authority to follow the law and let us see what prison will accept the millions of adults thay will be arrested in one day alone.

Whatever floats your boat mate. Those who know the reality of most African nation today will know your talk and arogant indignation, especially the bolded, shows you're the typical African who does not accept or deal with reality and therefore cannot be progressive and proactive.

Your a clown bro. Go to any bar or club anywhere in Lagos, where most folks now just live and let live, and shout all the ignorant crap you're chatting here about the "crime" of homosexuality or lesbianism. See if you won't be thrown out

all you uneducated ignoramus writing rubbish online should give it a rest....

if i write a certain word in capital letter with an exclamation mark, it is to "emphasize" on what i wrote (you mumu) and it certainly has nothing to do with anger/shouting.

btw...
- many indulge in criminal activities all around Nigeria, should we now allow crimes because some do it (even though its AGAINST THE LAW)?
- many men rape women left right and center in Nigeria, should we now allow rape in Nigeria because some do it (even though its AGAINST THE LAW)?

all you gays and lesbians should...

abeg OP, did you miss taking your meds today?

elhakiimed:
Today I had the time for a retrospect. I find it hard to shake off the disappointment I feel about my reaction to a recent development in the ongoing international wars.

I caught myself feeling a little less than a 100 percent dejected about the recent bombing of the alleged Children’s Hospitals in Ukraine. I fear I might have become desensitized to such horror, which should have been unthinkable.

For everyone of you who likes to talk smart and rationalize the death of Gazan kids, I hope you find your portion in life.
It is monsters like you who is help driving us all down this rabbit hole of Dehumanization.
You will have kids someday or perhaps you already do, can you imagine a lunatic rationalizing harm towards them? No you can't.

You share responsibility for their death in Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Ukraine, etc. If you don't draw the line at their endangerment.

sadly, many dont care about the lives of Congolese or Palestine innocent people, and only value the lives of Ukrainian etc.

thus why, you hear everyday about the atrocities in Ukraine but just yesterday the Israelis bombed a Gaza school (30 dead) and all these same media are silent about that atrocity.

majority of skills on earth are free to learn... the catch is that not everyone are able to learn it.

WizardOfNG:
You don't get my point. I am a realist and a pragmatist. That is why I get the maximum out of life.I don't concern myself with what is not my business or interest and I don't really give a sh1t about this whole LGBTQ furore. If a gay dude hits on me, I will tell him politely "not interested". That's it.
I won't join anyone to march and carry banners hypocritically saying "gays must die" and similar.

clap for yourself and come collect medal too... now when you are finishing with writing yeye irrelevant nonsense online, address the issue at hand or stop quoting me writing arrant rubbish.

My point therefore is that the public indignation against LGBTQ is pompous, misguided and deceptive in a continent where it is now rampart, increasing like wildfire and here to stay.

what you mean to say is that "you are against THE HOMOSEXUAL LAWs in these countries".... and you are entitled to your opinion, but until these laws are changed, homosexuality will remain a crime in many of these countries and anyone living there should ABIDE BY THE LAW!
who the fukc do you think you are to question these countries laws?! do you go to the US and question their polygamy laws? abeg, if anyone has any `problem with a country's laws, you can either A) get the hell out of that country or B) abide by this country's laws or face the proper prosecution.

This is why the serenity prayer, more or less about live and let live, is one of my favourite with prayers I live by.

here is a better prayer: FOLLOW THE DAMN LAW!
any gay or lesbian has the right to live the life they desire for themselves, unless it goes against THE LAW!

WizardOfNG:
May not change anything with public political and religious leaders who like to bury their head in the sand, to be talking at odds with reality, but Cameroonian women, especially those under 40, will be backing her passionately.
All savvy and exposed African know Cameroonians are Kings and Queen of porn in Africa with virtually all their female stars casually bisexual.
It's the same with Nigeria and you'd have to be 70 and virtually never socialises not to know all this.
Nothing sadder than a human being living in denial of reality instead of accepting and then dealing with such.

listen, as much as your above speech sounds WANDAFUL, the reality is that, as much as there are millions of lesbians in Nigeria, the vast majority rather hide to live their lesbian lives (and even get married to a Man) than openly state their lesbian orientation. thus why this LGBT agenda will never be accepted in Nigeria or Cameroon.

NOTHING SADDER THAN A LESBIAN LIVING IN A COUNTY WHERE AN UNMARRIED WOMAN IS VIEWED AS WORTHLESS!

he wasnt hired to look good for the fans... so long as he WINS GAMES, his looks are irrelevant.

sadly, many lost brothas agree to the above nonsense (from these broke deluded sistas)

wont change a thing in Cameroon... that child been living the good life in Europe for decades, what does her European lesbianism got to do with Cameroon? is that not her own father who told her to delete that yeye post?

is it just me or does the above sound very UNNATURAL and somehow borderline inbreeding?

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2012/06/tumblr_m182lq7Izv1rrx588o1_250.gif

she is a bit late.... there is already a very big supermarket chain all over Scandinavia (for decades) called REMA1000

foolish people who believe that social media should only exist if/when it favors them.... as the saying goes"if you cant take the heat, stay out of the kitchen"

simple solution to your problem:" GET THE FUKC OUT OF SOCIAL MEDIA!

Inspirer1:
But his Wikipedia page says otherwise

nevertheless HURT JUST AS MUCH...

Michael547:
Are the governments always right even though their laws causes suffering to the people? Yes or no sir?

again...

you cant expect everyone to agree with a country's law... but these are the laws that were voted by that country therefore you must abide by these laws OR take the necessary steps to change these laws.

Michael547:
So if people in governments makes laws that causes suffering to the people, they are always right? Yes or no?

again...

MrBrownJay1:
you cant expect everyone to agree with a country's law... but these are the laws that were voted by that country therefore you must abide by these laws OR take the necessary steps to change these laws.