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MrBrownJay1:
poor lady died of shock... while many deluded people will now blame this on juju or what other gullible nonsense.

You are here thinking about what other people are thinking... Continue

Hofbrauhaus:
My God.

This coronavirus is everywhere in Nigeria. The funny thing is nobody is afraid anymore. This is time to fear if you ask me, but nobody is afraid.

......there is fire on the mountain and nobody is running.

What is the essence of fear?

Worst of all is most of these people go to church every day, and be praying again bad leadership.

Righteousness89:
So Even the Law themselves can't do a simple stuff without Wayo and Fraud!

Simple things and people wanna cheat...
Executive, legislature, judiciary, every corner is Messed!

The World needs JESUS! Only JESUS can Work on a Man, Refine him and bring out a whole new being..

same wait microwave heat up food, there is some level of frequency to which molecules become excited. Phone produces this frequency that excites the gas molecules and they wanting to escape makes the cylinder to break open and then the open fire �, light it further to become a boom boom.

NewBea:
Connection between phone call and gas explosion is what i still don't understand!

SO?? Cos i am not understanding... a kid is death!!!

obembet:
RAPE CASES AND MURDER suppose get same judgment.


Some idiot here abuse Christian and church of God when this same issue happen in Edo.

ReorxTohGan:
is it English that's worrying u,or cheap weed??

You and the 23 people that liked this are fools.
What colour is Hitler?

ReorxTohGan:
Gory sight...Devils in black

People wan finish school too

FuckHomophobes:
Students sef nor wan resume except for the serious ones.

People are making money online now more than ever

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They weren't even married yet

adekalumichael:
Not true. Have you not heard singles who kill themselves over lovers? Desperation is higher at this single hood than when you are married.

Let's be prayerful that our death would not be sudden. This couple's case is so pathetic and won't encourage many to go into marriage.
However, there are still happy families around us. Their news don't travel farther like the bad ones.

They weren't married

EwuGambia:
It's better to stay single and be the best LovePeddler you can be as a bachelor or spinster, than get married and pretend to be something else....unah no dey hear word, to be married is no longer an achievement.

increase the sound

mrbionic:
Thank you for the Arsenal and Bri link, but why no sound always

not working

pafo:
Its not working abi is it my network?

Did she drop schooling?
Do i know what u do for a living?
How would u know what she is doing or not?

Ishilove:
Lol. She is a chef because her lover came online and raved about her cooking. I can cook well too but does that make me a chef? As for the endorsements, also her lover's influence.

J111333:
His life support machine hasn't been disconnected yet meaning he is not dead.

Does this morafoka not know that Ajimobi's family can sue his black ass for invading their privacy?

Privacy? Man is a public figure. Na so una carry law for head like say un study am.

Bomboiy:
Of course Ronaldo is the most selfish footballer ever. He doesn't contribute to team play, always waiting for tap-in and penalty, let's not forget that he blames his teammates when things go bad.

The only reason he keeps jumping from one club to another is because of his selfish aims,he wants to prove that he can do it all without his teammates which is no true.

Mr know all!

LexngtonSteele:
Sack them and stop justifying the dullard tag.

I know APC and PDP are 1 and the same but I wanted anyone but GEJ in 2015.

This man is fast beating GEJ in cluelessness and incompetence.

We are a little pissed here!!!

Prinsola:
My Shyness won't even let me walk up to a girl talk less of toasting her. I'm 26+ now and I'm still battling with that. My life is even becoming boring day by day.

I'm seriously regretting it but wetin I go do when there's no one to help

We fail to realise something, why date someone you don't know, you can't just jump right in. You become friends with the person and this always makes it easy.

DirtyGold:
Eskis me ma, I'm not saying you're lying oh... but picture of you wearing the hijab and abaya will help settle this matter. Otherwise, it didn't happen


The man is sick... a paedophile and should be judged accordingly.
There are sick men everywhere in all tribes, races and religions... heck, even mad women get pregnant!

My reaction to this particular Twitter story is because we know how people lie for attention.
She should have just said she was molested at a religious gathering rather than come paint it as if hijab was supposed to be some kinda protective armour. Who even knows what her own hijab looks like?

What's tha business?

That was the discussion at hand

Speake for ur self

waliezia:
there's no guy on this planet earth that is not a victim of one or two of these things mentioned above, this goes to show that no man is 100% good, vice versa

24kmagic:
Unfortunately, if as a guy you don't belong to any of this category of men, you're in trouble

Acmepreneur:
This my guy is not serious at all.

I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.

When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all.
My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.

I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.

My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all.
I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc

Our fight now

Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla

Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.

Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.

Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.

My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.

So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.

Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.

He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla

He will not apply for better jobs as well
He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.

So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.

He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.

The problem
1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest

2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky.
His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.

3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends

4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care

5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,

6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship

7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night

Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect

I get the part of not doing msc in ng, it will be useless, with the current trend of technology, his best i to get a better job, u mentioned 90k, that is way to low for a CS person. But he should v been saving up for MSC.

But have u asked him what he wants?

My parent wants me to do MSC, I told them the same thing that it is not that relevant if do it in ng, cos we don't v the tools/resources.
I haven't even done my nysc because i had a Job that gave me mouth(the pay) i still fight with them, so if u bf still earns 90-150k now, he needs to wake up.

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

I even dey vex with u because of this... dey still him carry knife stab u

HIbreed:
Christianity has done what Islam will never ever do when it comes to terrorism and killings .it just got reformed over time because the Europeans that invented got tired of it and it's nonsense.

The transatlantic slave trade was founded on Christianity. That's just one example of the evils of the religion and how it hurt and killed millions of people here in Africa.

Christianity did more worse in the 18th century and down.

I guess you do not know much about Christianity and its spread throughout the World.

In a bid to spread and convert people Christians killed millions of people.

Religion itself unleashes terror where ever it goes.

Seriously? U need to read more.

SeverusSnape:
MUMUric...

Maybe the Vatican should have also claimed the population of Christians/Catholics is being decimated in Italy and Spain.

please who made that their idiotic 'Director' a professor?. very rubbish human being

I am not understanding the differences?

Ok, u did that bf hand. cool

Frankcallys:
My doctor confirmed the baby sex. So, you don't know there is test for that?

You would v played along, don't u want to find out what he wanted you two to talk about sharing his contact. smh!

Shibaraba:
She's not the one. This one studied in Oxford. Since graduated

How u take know say na son?

Frankcallys:
She was living a double life. Everything about her was a lie, her name, tribe, the family she introduced me to, her sisters, her residence and occupation... all lies. Based on her level on those lies, Lai Mohammed still dey learn work! But I loved her so much.

How I found out about the whole lies... One day, her so called sisters had a problem with some people and she called me to come and rescue them cos they can't even get into her ride and leave. I drove down to Alexandra, like 30 minutes from Johannesburg South, I wanted to drop my car for her in the underground parking, pick up her own in front of the building so that they gonna use mine that got tinted glasses.

At the entrance of the building I met a lawyer friend of mine and after telling him what happened, we went inside to check on my woman/wife to be, but when I called her by her name, my lawyer friend was flabbergasted. He never said anything to me in front of them, but after we left he told me that the name I called my woman is not her real name that I should ask her if am in doubt.

That was when I decided to do a background check on her. I ran her car registration plate on the system and got a total different name, address, status and other personal stuff.

When I confronted her with my findings, she started crying. I left her at home and buy the time I came back home she disappeared. Changed her number, deactivated every account I knew her with and every link I have with her.

I later found out that the sisters, family and place of residence were all fake. Everything was fake except my then unborn child and the way she feels while she's with me. She disappeared with my 4 months old pregnancy and that was in 2014. Till now I've never seen her again or heard anything about her.

Now how about that? The worst thing someone I loved so much did to me and I can never forget because of my son I don't know his whereabout.

Chai!!! this one strong, what them do you strong. pele

Abasman007:
Well I got real bad stories about my ex's.... Broke up with me then told me she was pregnant days larer...we haven't seen the baby till today... ...
Stuff is that girls are wicked and they know it, allow them manipulate you and you are doomed.... Don't let anyone tell you, that you will find the right one, one day.... There is no right one, if you really want one go to the thrash can and pick your beautiful trouble home..

If you really feel you are lucky, because she loves (pretends) you, you are either her retirement or settlement from her rough youthful fuckahorlic life...or you are going to find out 15 years later your kids are not yours



Things I see in school makes me ask myself, will I ever get married?
Even if I matry, what I Know and see what married women do scares the hell outta my Head.. she'll be yelling at you for getting too close to your secretary but you will never know she sleeps with your brother...
ie: women never like people doing what they to to people to be done to them, Don't be decieved by those tears..it's a weapon !!!

If you ever think you are wiser than a woman...then you are mad.. the best is don't try to find out what she's doing or has done...try to counter it before it happens....some still think they met thier virgins, but thats what she made you believe and that's why the blood stains fooled you..

Lol...She's gonna have you beg for what another guy gets at will..

N/B....those pictures of couples smiling on their wedding has no way of telling you who a wicked wife or mother inlaw will be

Yahoo Boi

Sewa90:
Lol thought he was sorry for real,he invited me over to a restaurant, so as to apologize, he was checking my phone for recent pictures,baba codedly stood up to receive a call,went with my phone and never looked back lol,he called almost all my contacts asking them for money.....The guy na bastard

He even said hot sex! probably for him

bigcee:
Are you a 1 minute man?

ok sir

SirMichael1:
Get off my mention!

betonnaira:
i actually i really dont see two girls having sex i mean two holes screwing each other nahhh thats laughable but a guy sticking his dick in another mans asss puke

You better accept all or none! lol