blacknp: When Landlord shoot you or person for your family over house rent, then you will know how ignorance has played overtime in your wishful thinking.
The Landlord will be charged to court and get the death sentence. Dont you know there are laws against murder?
You complain about Leaders, time to vote? You vote the wrong one.
You complain about insecurity, time to defend yourself, you complain about your defending will lead to high crime rate.
You complain about power supply, time to pay bill, you bribe PHCN officers to continue your illegal activity
You complain about the spread of STI, time to go do test, you complain say money nor dey even though prostitution and prostitute house na your second job& home
You complain about lack of jobs, when job finally arrive, you will come late almost every day and complain about your "your boss hate you & how to sue for damages"
Finally time to protest bad Leader? Tribalism go destroy everything, the lazy ones go go church to pray for "God intervention"
ch214: Are those evil globalists trying to release zombie virus on Africa continent. If they try it, there would great consequences and they better rethink and return their zombie virus back to their Europe continent; the African people are yet to forget the slavery epidemic cause by them and they want to introduce new epidemic on Africa.
Nonsense
Na blackie sabi complain especially black men. Instead of racing to find a cure, we dey worry about nonsense conspiracy. we dey hope for white men to bring cure. We don fail our women now we are in process of failing our children.
vikkogg: I'm not saying the elder brother is under any obligation/compulsion to feed the younger bro. But common sense should have told him to have a heart-to-heart conversation with his younger brother on the situation of things and why he acts the way he does. I mean...you can't just act like you don't know that your younger brother is starving nah. Haba! If you can't feed him, let him know why.
I don't know if you get my point.
My brother i get your point 100%. I just feel the younger brother should be open to his elder brother. For example, he ask the elder bro for money and was given 500 the next day and was also told not to expect anything. I feel he has to be a man now.
AsaBlackheart: Apparently none of em read the part about the elder brother still living on noodles.
The thing surprise me. These people dont care about the elder brother's age. They are expecting too much from a 28 year old. He is too young to start feeding a grown man.
vikkogg: I took my time to read all your comments and there's one thing common to them all...."complete lack of sense".
How could an elder brother be comfortable with his younger bro sleeping hungry? If he could do that to his own blood brother, imagine how he'd treat a step brother. Now imagine how he'd treat a total stranger.
And you as a person, MS247, support madness. I pity your family.
I pity your parents, your siblings, your children and your wife. You're just as useless as NOTHING.
I honestly do not think it is right to tell someone how to leave their life, especially if it is not against the Law.
The fact that you can sacrifice your meal for your siblings does not mean everyone must do the same. The young man is 21, the elder brother is just 28 and also struggling.
What do you expected a 28 year old to own in this life stage? He is way too you young to feed a 21 year old. They can both work together
purples25: It depends on your belief. I am not foisting my belief on anybody. I believe in being there for one's sibling. I practice that. For anyone else, it's up to what they choose to believe.
I agree with you. Just wanted to understand your thoughts.
purples25: I don't think anything I stated has to do with being a substitute parent. Being there for each other is not necessarily about being a substitute parent.
Understood, my question is this;
Is it a must for siblings to be there for each other?
For me i believe it is a good thing to do but its not a must.
fobiflex: Bro, what’s this illustration with death, why would he think his an elder bro he came to stay with as death. If he was dead as you want him to think, he won’t come over to stay with him in the 1st place
Fobiflex, maybe that is too extreme. Lets say his elder brother decided to travel abroad tomorrow, how then will he survive or will the elder brother be mandated to leave him upkeep before travelling?
See, if the young man was a teenager lets say under 18, i will understand. But if he is 18 and above, then he should be a man and plan his Life around himself and the elder brother can help only if he want to.
I personally do not expect my elder brother and sister to feed me. I will go out and look for daily pay job to do and will buy foodstuffs for the house because that is the least i could do.
Next if the elder bro get girlfriend na, then it will be more problems.
What if the elder brother is killed, can he not survive? Now if he can survive without the elder brother, what is stopping him from taking that step now?
Opeyemi4real: You are the one who is wrong here. In fact, you are a wicked human being. I am first out six siblings and i have never done this rubbish you are preaching to any of my younger ones. Sharing with a starving blood brother is not a crime. I have accommodated friends and fed them in the past.
Honestly you are the one who is wrong sir, if you have the means to do it then no problem. If a grown man is eating noodles you think he is well to do?. The elder brother wakes up early to go to work, why isnt he asking if there is a space there for him to do part time?. Their parent Failed them both by not having a future savings for them. They are the wicked ones.
purples25: Though no one should feel entitled, I believe that the elder brother should help, out of kindness.
If I have more than one child, I will do my utmost best to kill sibling rivalry and encourage kindness between them. They must know that all they really have in this world is each other. They must have a very very strong bond forever. Never to embarrass, never to make fun of each other, to always stand by each other and smile while seeing each other succeed...
Your sibling should see you as their precious one in this world, they should care about your feelings and welfare. Even the foreigners we support help their siblings without question, some of them though, not all.
If you financially save for both of them till they become adult, there will be no rivary. The problem with Africans is that the parent do not save for their children and expect the eldest to play parent. Listen, if you want to play parent, that is okay but if someone else dont, that is also okay. We all must not think the same.
DJInfluence: I respectfully disagree with you. Basically his own blood brother should be treated as God? That's too much. A senior brother should know that even if it's not a must, he should at least cater for his younger one pending when he can fend for himself. It's either a failure of their parent for not instilling the spirit of togetherness in his children or the elder brother is not practicing it if it was. Even if the elder doesn't have enough food or money to go round, he should know there's another human living with him. He should Ask the younger one how he's coping, explain to him that he doesn't have much but they should manage what he has. Not eating and washing plate like nothing happened.
What if the elder brother is killed by a drunk driver, will the younger brother not suceed by himself? I think he should assumed his brother is dead, then his problem will be solved
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