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Kobicove:
Times have changed.

These days most ladies wear leg chains or anklets as a fashion accessory... there's no point reading meaning into it

my brother only few ever wear it for fashion reasons trust me

Witnesstony28:
OK. Cos there's this lady I know who just got married last month but she wears leg chains. Does it mean bisexual?

It's a probability. There was this girl I was involved with back in school and all of a sudden she started wearing leg bracelets. I asked her if she was a lesbian and she denied but I knew that even if she wasn't she was bi-curious. One day me and my guy had this girl and another wild chick over and when things got heated up I got my confirmation. She had her first girl on girl right there. So the lady you talked about is either bisexual or wants to be.

OluwasureGig:
wetin come bring this one?

leave this morrafuka

Viserion:
There's no respect in the relationship anymore, things gets hot too quickly.

I want to call it off, but she doesn't want that, I don't want to use and dump later.

How can I just eradicate this feeling I have completely?

Try avoiding her for at least a month or more. Out of sight, out of mind ✌�

Not always sha but mostly

She did not break sh%t

obinna58:
This is not any problem compared to problems people face in this country. If you have urged for opposite sex go for it irrespective of age, stop disturbing people, I have attraction for older I mean who doesn't. I'm sure you were enjoying it too.
I can only be pained when a female is saying this.

another slum-thinker

ModestGal:
I believe you
I feel sad for you, I wish you a good recovery. Always try to think positive as well, watch good movies, I pray you heal soon

thanks a whole lot�

divinecode101:
This guy dey tell stories, fake stories

Don't waste your talent, start writing blue film scripts

I expected immature and senseless comments like yours

So yesterday I saw a thread where the OP asked if guys actually get raped in Nigeria and I saw a lot of foolish and ignorant comments about guys wanting to be raped. It made me realize that few people actually take such matters seriouslly in our society today. So I decided to share my story of how in my early years I was victimized by two different ladies older than me at the time.

It started when I was six years old and my parents had just gotten a new house help who came from the city of Calabar. At first when it started it was just a little too much attention paid to my private areas when she was giving me baths. At that age I didn't know what she was doing was wrong but it gradually progressed to her getting naked with me when it was time to have my bath and getting into the tub with me. My parents were both active in the civil service then and were always off to work sometimes as early as six leaving my welfare to her to take care of. One day when my parents were out of town on business and it was just me,my little sister and her she called me into her room, undressed me and asked me to lie down on her bed. She then proceeded to violate me in the vilest of manners in a way that left me feeling dirty even though I couldn't understand why. She then threatened me not to tell my parents and said that this was going to be our new "play" from then on. It continued for a month or so until one day my mom was weaving my kid sisters hair in the dining room and I was playing on the floor. My mom then called her to run an errand for her. While my mom was talking to her, I slipped under her skirt and started fiddling with her privates as she had taught me to do during our "plays". The funny thing was she just stood still allowing me do so in the presence of my horrified mum who threw a comb at my head and proceeded to call for my father. I don't know how the situation was exactly handled but I know that the next day she left our house and I never saw her again.

Fast forward to 5years later. This newly-wed couple moves into our area. The day they moved in I assisted them in helping unload their belongings and ever since that day they became family friends. Now the husband worked on an oil rig in Delta state while we live in Bayelsa so he was only ever home for two weeks out of four in a month. He was a very friendly guy and a kid at heart who loved cartoons and always invited me over to watch a few. One particular month he left and his wife was over at our house and I told my parents I wanted to watch cartoons at their place which mom allowed. I was there till evening but when it was time to go home I started crying about how I didn't want to go home and Aunty said that since it was the holiday period I could sleep over at their place and she'd send me back home in the morning so my mom agreed. I had a field day watching cartoons uninterrupted and eating and by nine I went into her bed room to sleep. I was woken up in the middle of the night by the feeling of something on my body which I discovered to be her hands. She told me I should be quiet and everything was alright but I noticed that she was naked save for a white underwear. She then took my hands and placed them on her breasts and somewhere further south. She used me through the night until she was sated and cuddled me to sleep. The next day she sent me home to my parents who till this day are ignorant of the whole affair. It happened more often through the next year until they moved out of our area. Till this day she and her husband still visit us from time to time with the set of twins they recently had.

These two incidences have shaped my life in ways you can't even begin to think. I became more sexually active over the years as I grew up and I got to enjoy sex but till this day those experiences haunt me. I also found out as I grew up that I have this perverted lust for women at least twenty years older than me and it has led to dalliances with peoples wives and even some of my friends moms who came on to me. I have tried as much as I can to stop but it keeps getting worse. I'm about to attempt therapy for it to see if it helps.

My purpose of sharing this is to let people know that such things do happen and it is important to create awareness about it because it does irrepressible damage to the minds of young children. II don't know if maybe I had spoken up earlier my life would have been different and everytime I see that lady who repeatedly molested me I can't even be able to explain how I feel. My advice to parents out there is to be extremely vigilant over your kids male or female and don't just put trust in people you barely know. I will stop here but feel free to share your experiences below................

Sameazy15:
I do nt think so , i sometimes heard abt it before,i pray one pretty lady also rape me

If you were serially raped as a young boy you wouldn't say such cause you definitely don't know what that does to your psyche

MhizElla:
What car can I buy with 350k?
I will like a honda baby boy. Any for sale?

unless you want to buy CARpet eh better hold on and up your funds first cause the auto market ain't what it used to be

gideonite98:
Only a Fool will raise hand to hit someone first
But if a lady raised her hand on me first I will definitely return the favour but will never hit someone first either a man or a woman
I'm a gentle man but not a slowpoke.

Back to the OP matter
What the man did is wrong
Call a spade a spade
What he did is totally wrong
I'm glad I don't have sisters because I would have probably cause trouble because of them
U no fit beat my sister even if you're the husband as long as she's not the first person to hit you.
No try it
Settle it amicably

I like how you think sir ✌�

Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

not saying I'm in support but let's be honest if it were a guy beat up would you clamor? And I hope you're not here to give an excuse for being a lesbian?

Mandela27:
Na ijaw na,dem dey drag dat one with dem?

nembe girls boss

stieyven:
Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36
You'll do well to receive Jesus into your life. Tomorrow may be too late. John 3 :16

ogbeni relax with your religious sentimentality jor stick to the religion section of the forum if content from other sections affect you

Escabado:
You can never see shit in it . Don't you watch anal porn ? . Is usually very tyt that u may even pity the girl unless she ask for more

With this comment you have obviously never had anal sex before

thebosstrevor1:
there is nothing like white supremacists

you are one hell of a dumb fvck

You are a big fool. Na you place the curse? Or you dey there when them place the curse? Abi you just hear say them place curse? Fool

Stanl3y:
Yes I've been doing it every night as well until recently i started noticing the fraudulent activities mtn has been carrying out on my line.

If its good for you, then carry on please.

But I used it last night to download movies sha I think you should call their customer care service

She's 26
Take it or leave it
And if something like this makes front page I'm quitting Nairaland

Bros na only you know o!
Something I do every night

Durentt:
that's a myth that has been proven to be wrong.

if I have anal sex with my boyfriend once or twice a month with gentle care, the anus wouldn't get affected in any way


the key is gentleness and giving a long break.

mo'fucka no one asked for your disgusting sex schedule. You unnatural being

K254725:
Your Moniker sounds like your suicidal

On the gay issue:
I think it's a spiritual thing.
Some spirits are gay so whoever they posses may end up the same way...

But it's better not to hide it while practicing because more people may end up entangled in fake marriages etc

morrafuka does everything have to be spiritual? You religious type disgust me

Where im Ferrari?

Xisnin:
Why is the police arresting innocent victims?
We should be careful of "false" allegations and starts killing false accusers.

Those responsible boys must have been tempted by an attention-seeking evil "feminist"
who is hellbent on bringing them down because of their success.

Real men must defend these boys.

What is this pile of schist saying? Waste of sperm defending waste of sperm

Condominium

President Buhari

Arobagger:
blood on the high sea singing the songs of hoja never to hang leg even at the face of death. If u are a german May the one eye god open the gate of vahalla were there is no wahala for u

aro na our bagger o!