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Islam › Re: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by MrOlai: 7:28am On Aug 19, 2015
ononoplanet:
@everyone still no info about good centres in ikeja for TVS? There is God oh!
You can check Clina Labs in Ikeja. This is their address:

Address
Shop 21, Opic Plaza, Mobolaji Bank Anthony Way, Ikeja, Lagos, Nigeria

Phone
+234-1-7900517

Fax
+234-1-7734810

Website
clinalabs.com
- See more at: http://www.businesslist.com.ng/company/101754/clina-labs#.dpuf
Islam › Re: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by MrOlai: 7:20am On Aug 19, 2015
ononoplanet:
Salam. May Allah reward you for sharing.
@everyone still no info about good centres in ikeja for TVS? There is God oh!
Amin my sister.
Islam › Re: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by MrOlai: 8:34pm On Aug 18, 2015
May Allah(SWT) in His mercy provide blessed children to all TTC.

For the women TTC, there is an App on google playstore called Lady Count Time (LCT) for you. The App would help you to determine precisely the following:

1. Your safe days

2. Your unsafe days

3. Your fertile days

4. Your ovulation day.

With these, you can program your friendly matches with your hubby around your ovulation day. It is important you notify your husband to abstain from sex for at least 3 days before the penultimate day of ovulation. The abstinence would bring about increased accumulation of sperm cells ( i.e high sperm count) during ejaculation, even with men with low sperm count.

Also, during this ovulation period, ask your hubby to go as many rounds as possible. It is should be noted that Doggy Style is one of the best styles for conception. After each ejaculation, it is advisable you shock your butt with pillow to minimize semen leakage due to gravity. With planning and prayers, Insha Allah, you'll all be blessed with blessed kids.

How the App Works

1. Click on the App to open it. After opening, it will show you calendar with the present month.

2. Click on the start day of your period. It will paint that date red. Then, start clicking on the subsequent days and it will show you what each of them stands for.

Wallahu musta 'an.
Islam › Re: Looking For Sincere Future Partner by MrOlai: 3:44pm On Aug 11, 2015
akanji4good:
I appreciate your noble advice, jazkumlla arah
Wa iyyakum.
Politics › Re: One Word For The Guy In The Picture. by MrOlai: 2:25pm On Aug 11, 2015
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Islam › Re: Looking For Sincere Future Partner by MrOlai: 12:39pm On Aug 11, 2015
akanji4good:
Please Steps to take to get sincere virgin female future partner
Are you seaching for a wife or you are looking for a girl to date?

If you are searching for a wife, then, I expected you to be very much ready for that. If this is the case, then, you can take the following steps:

1. Make istikhara.

2. Shine your eyes very well everyday before you leave house. Then, look around everywhere you go to see maybe you can see a girl of your choice. If you see any, even if it is on the road, don't hesitate to "toast" her right there. It can happen that way.

3. You can start attending different Islamic programmes. Perhaps, Allah(SWT) can do it through that.

4. You can inform imams in your locality maybe Allah(SWT) would do it through them.

5. Finally, I want to advise you purify your intention on that aspect of virgin. It might be difficult for you to get a virgin. If at all you get one, she might not be ready for marriage considering her ambition and other factors. Purify your intention. A non-virgin lady may be a better wife than a virgin.

I wish you all the best on this.


However, if you're not yet ready and you're only looking for a girl to date, this is un- Islamic. You better back off. Allah(SWT) says in a verse of Qur'an: "Let them remain chaste, those who are not capable of nikai, UNTIL Allah(SWT) enriches them out of His bounties..."

All the best.
Islam › Re: Looking For Sincere Future Partner by MrOlai: 12:02pm On Aug 11, 2015
akanji4good:
Please Steps to take to get sincere virgin female future pattern
You made a mistake in your spelling of PARTNER...
Islam › Re: Future Partner by MrOlai: 12:00pm On Aug 11, 2015
You made a mistake in your spelling of PARTNER...
Islam › Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by MrOlai: 10:05am On Aug 11, 2015
flakesy01:
I do many of d tinz u suggested. I pray 4 him, try to talk to him abt how i feel or how he mkes me feel; he neva rilly takes me seriously. He imagines he is d best he can b for me. We arent friends, he rather befriends strange women to him its nothing. Now tell if i am not emotionally connected to him how can i eva b ready to always giv him sex.
I am not sayin i dnt giv him. I am not in luv wit him enuf always giv him or dsire him.
Then, call a good Islamic scholar to talk to him. Be patient with him and continue to play your own parts. With prayers, all things are possible.
Islam › Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Husband, Help!!! by MrOlai: 9:24am On Aug 11, 2015
flakesy01:
I am a moda of one nd i hve been married for close to 5yrs now. In recent times i am beginning to hate my hubby. D reason is not far fetched. My hubby doesnt mke me feel hapi. Though he professes his luv to me but his actions show odawise. I guess if u luv some1 u wanna mke dat person hapi.
I used to luv him alot but d hurt nd trusts he has broken in our relationship in d past has made me dislike him. I try to forgive him tho but wen he doz hurtful tinz again, i remember nd gt angry. Emotionally i feel empty, spiritually i am jst striving on my own; no one to look up to. For him its all abt sex,sex nd sex.
I dnt really show my resentment but only Allah knws how bitter i feel wit him. Wat to do?
Don't hate your husband! Your marriage is a mercy from Allah(SWT) and out of His(SWT) bouties, He has blessed you both with a child. More boys, girls and twins are still coming Insha Allah! You can take the following steps:

1. Pray always for him on whatever bothers you about him and Insha Allah, you'll see positive change.

2. Pray for your marriage against all forms of problems from shaytan.

3. Discuss with him whatever bothers you about him.

4. On the issue of sex, please, give it to him anytime he demands for it. It is an act of Ibadan. Always remember you'll be rewarded by Allah(SWT) after every sex.This would serve as an impetus for you to be readily available for him. There are thousands of women out there who are sex starved even among the married ones! Some married women have husbands with extremely low libido. Some are even impotent! So, thank Allah(SWT). Your's is actually a blessing in disguise. So, please, give him the sex! Have the positive mindset about it and you would both enjoy it.
Remember it is his right.

It would be well Insha Allah.
Islam › Re: Facts About Solatool Witr. by MrOlai: 7:53pm On Aug 10, 2015
@Toeyean1507. Try to always present your messages in paragraphs. This would make them neat and easily read for your audience. A lot of people would not read what you presented with the way you packed everything together.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 10:03am On Aug 10, 2015
PhunsukhWangdu:
والله فهمتك من قبل. كنت مضحكا أيضا. أدرى ما مزحمعتنى.
والله - I swear by Allaah
فهمتك - I got (as in understand) you
من قبل - before
كنت - I was
مضحكا - being funny
أيضا - also
أدرى - I know
ما مزحمعتنى - you didn't make jest of me
PS: Sincerely speaking, I wasn't particular about your construction at all. You know I'm also a student of knowledge too. The grin I posted and the way I sounded made you presumed so, I know. Honestly I respect you a lot in this thread and I've learnt a lot from you. You know neither have I pointed out a single mistake from anyone here nor make jest of anyone (except that of our renowned corrector smiley ).
I understand quite well that you were being funny with your post in relation to what the sister posted about me. And that was the more reason why I said 'YOUR POST WAS EPIC'
It's alright. Thanks.
Islam › Re: I'm Confused by MrOlai:
neurologist:
Help!!! Any gal I meet with the intention of starting a relationship, they will say I should send my ppl.
So y will I send my ppl if I don't rili know abt dem.
So my question is..it is islamic to send your ppl b4 u start a relationship wit a galhuh
In Islam, if you are serious and ready for Nikai, then, you need to do the following:

1. Make istikhara

2. Do your findings about the girl and the family. If okay, then:

3. Send your people to the girl's parents for her hand in marriage. If you are bold enough, you can go yourself.

4. Before you are legally permitted to have sex with each other, the following four conditions must be fulfilled: (a) Offer and Acceptance i e you and the girl both agree to marry each other. (b) Parents' Consent. (c) You must give her her dowry. You can promise her if you are not buoyant enough to provide whatever she demands for. (d) There must be at least 2 witnesses apart from her parents. This is Nikai.

With all these in place, you are good to go with sex. You may do all these on the day of your wedding(walimatul Nikai) or before the wedding.

Note: Islam does not give room for fornication all in the name of dating/relationship. It is a serious crime in Islam. If you know you are ready, then, hold the bull by its horns.

I wish you all the best.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 10:58pm On Aug 09, 2015
PhunsukhWangdu:
Yes, like you also did with the sentence in the post I quoted
كنت أحاول أن مضحك. لم أكن جعل المزاحك

Meaning:
كنت : I was
أحاول أن: trying to be
مضحك: funny
لم أكن: I was not
جعل المزاحك: making jest of you
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai:
PhunsukhWangdu:
grin O my great brother ( MrOlai ), I wan write 'this your post is epic'.
Abeg help me chek ur Dico or internet 4 epic. grin
PhunsukhWangdu:
grin O my great brother ( MrOlai ), I wan write 'this your post is epic'.
Abeg help me chek ur Dico or internet 4 epic. grin
grin آمل لا نحرز المزاحني

Meaning:
آمل : I hope
مزاح: jest
لانحرز: you are not making
ني: me
grin
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 9:39pm On Aug 09, 2015
PhunsukhWangdu:
grin O my great brother ( MrOlai ), I wan write 'this your post is epic'.
Abeg help me chek ur Dico or internet 4 epic. grin
epic: الملحمي
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 9:34pm On Aug 09, 2015
qbd2:
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Sorry I just thought to point out somethings.
The ana there is redundant. U can say lastu which means I'm not. Thus covering both ana and not
Also, istimaltu is a past tense verb which means I used. Present tense is astamil.
Lastly, ma'ani al kalaam. Ma'aniy doesn't need al in front. Cos both d noun and adjective can't carry article the.
Thanks so much my teacher. It is well noted. Jazakumullah khaeran. Let me do the correction. Pls, check if I'm right now:
بالتأكيد لست بعالم. استعمل قا مؤس ؤالإنترنت للتحقق معاني الكلام
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslim Females Make Very Beautiful Hairstlyles To Eventually Cover It Up? by MrOlai: 9:11pm On Aug 09, 2015
firstEVA:
A lady came to the saloon, made the most gorgeous Senagalese braids ever, then she tied it up again. What's the point in going through the stress and pain of making your hair when it's to be covered? Why not go on low cut? It doesn't make sense to me undecided
Muslim women are to cover themselves for the following reasons:

1. God's Injuction
It is an injunction from God Almighty.

2. Husband's Exclusive Right
Woman's hair, like other private parts, should be exclusive only to her husband.
Here, only her husband enjoys the sight of that gorgeous hairstyle, like other private parts too. You can imagine the difference between this and when the hairstyle/other private parts being enjoyed by other men in the society.

3. Sin
Leaving her hair uncovered, like every other private parts, is a sin.

4. Adultery/fornication.
Leaving her hair/other private parts open to different men in the society facilitates adultery/fornication.

5. Temptation and Vices
Leaving her hair/other private parts open to different men in the society indirectly creates problems in the society. Men both single and married would be tempted into fornication/adultery and other subsequent vices in the society.

6. Paradise
To earn the ultimate reward and mercy in the hereafter.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:54pm On Aug 09, 2015
SUHAIL88:
.... طابت أوقاتكم
ما معني هزه
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:44pm On Aug 09, 2015
islamics:
Sorry I thought here = huna while there = hunaka. Am actually thinking of learning the language. I have not started really.
My Arabic language is not always active when am in Nairaland: I don't know why.
Thanks a lot. I was actually wrong. You are correct.
هناك: there
هنا: here
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai:
PhunsukhWangdu:
[size=25pt]
قد قلته من قبل، بالتأكيد أنت عالم كبير.
قد - have
قلت - I said
ه - it
من قبل - before
بالتأكيد - surely
أنت - you
عالم - scholar
كبير great
I have said it before, surely you are a great scholar. [/size]
grin بالتأكيد انا لست بعالم. استعملت قا مؤس ؤالإنترنت للتحقق المعاني الكلام

Meaning:
بالتأكيد: Surely
انا: I
لست: am not
عالم: scholar

استعملت: I use
قا مؤس: dictionary

ؤ: and
الإنترنت: internet

للتحقق: to check

المعاني: meanings

الكلام: words
grin grin grin
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:03pm On Aug 09, 2015
Goodboy2012:
Bro. Pls give me ur BB pin sir. Thanks
I'm not on BB dear. I'm sorry for that. Notwithstanding, we can still learn together here. Thanks.
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Breaks Silence, Wants “baby Factories” Allowed by MrOlai: 1:33pm On Aug 09, 2015
Franchise21:
A former Special Assistant to ex-President Goodluck Jonathan on New Media, Reno Omokri, has expressed displeasure over crackdown on “baby factories” in the country, saying the practice should be allowed by government.
Mr. Omokri, the founder of the Mind of Christ Christian Centre in California, said calling the practice baby factory is stigmatization as it should be called surrogate motherhood.
“Every civilized nation accepts and promotes this practice as a humane option for childless couples,” he said an opinion article sent to PREMIUM TIMES Sunday.
Mr. Omokri, a pastor, wondered why Nigeria did not legalize a practice that brings succour to childless couple.
“I have been appalled reading about the raids on so called ‘Baby Factories’ in the media lately. These raids are a throwback to the Salem Witch Trials and I cannot believe that in Nigeria of the 21st Century we are stigmatizing what is an acceptable world wide culture that has brought hope to childless couples all over the world,’ he said in the article.
The former presidential aide continued, “For the avoidance of doubt, these women are surrogate mothers who have children for childless couples. Every civilized nation accepts and promotes this practice as a humane option for childless couples.
“The main reason many childless couples prefer a surrogate mother is because they want to know about the family history and genetics of the mother of their unborn child.
“In many cases, when you adopt a child without knowing who the parents are and there arises a need in future for a blood transfusion or an organ donor, many adoptive parents get stuck. Other medical issues like cancer, or behavioral issues like autism and ADD/ADHD are better diagnosed and treated if you have family history, which is not possible with anonymous adoptions. So, the idea of surrogate motherhood fills this gap.
“In Europe and the Americas as well as in Asia, surrogate mothers are well sought after and advertisements are placed in bus stations, newspapers, on the underground as well as on the Internet seeking out such women. I have included one such advert in this piece.
“Tens of thousands of surrogate children are born each year in the Americas and even more in Europe. Anyone who has ever experienced childlessness either directly or indirectly through a relative, extended family or friend is likely to appreciate the role surrogate mothers play in bringing succor to such families. To ostracize them and tag them ‘Baby Factories’ is most unfortunate indeed.”
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/188066-reno-omokri-breaks-silence-wants-baby-factories-allowed.html
It's so unfortunate this is coming from an elder stateman. Surrogacy is completely different from what is being practised in the "baby factories". In surrogacy, the couples are the biological parents of the child. It involves artificial insemination of the fertilized ovum into the womb of the carrier. It is backed by the law in some countries.

However, in "baby factories", it is a complete fraud!
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 10:05am On Aug 09, 2015
Goodboy2012:
حذكم لله كيرن
It should be:
جزاكم الله كيرا
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:36am On Aug 09, 2015
Empiree:
بالتأكيد، إن شاء الله . بلدي عطلة نهاية الأسبوع قد انتهت. أنا قد لا يكون لديك ما يكفي من الوقت للمساهمة في هذا الموضوع لعدة أيام باستثناء ، ربما قليلا
ليس هناك أى مشكلة. انه بخير
جزاك الله كيرا
Meaning:
ليس: There isn't
هناك: here
أى: any
مشكلة: problem

انه بخير: It's okay
جزا: Reward

ك: you
الله: Allah
كيرا: good
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:20am On Aug 09, 2015
PhunsukhWangdu:
There should be a particular key (shift key) having an arrow pointed upward. The key serves as the second function to display the remaining letters on the respective keys in the keypad. As soon as you press that key, some other letters would be highlighted. The shift key is designated at the low left corner for S^msung keypads
Thanks. It's unfortunate five letters "Jim", "Dal", Zal", "To" and "Zo" are not available on the keypad. Notwithstanding, I'll always improvise or copy and paste Insha Allah. Thanks once again.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 7:06am On Aug 09, 2015
PhunsukhWangdu:
Henceforth let's endeavour to translate our conversations to English, let's start from there
cc: OP MuhdG, MrOlai, Kazlaw2000
Noted.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 1:07am On Aug 09, 2015
Goodboy2012:
Can we av a thread for new beginners. So that an expert can be teaching us Arabic dere?
[quote author=Goodboy2012 post=36758010]You can actually learn bit by bit as in above.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 1:04am On Aug 09, 2015
MrOlai:
[quote author=Goodboy2012 post=36757379]Al was ha fiih mokan ... Meaning?
Goodboy2012:
[/quote]اهلا ؤسهلا في هزا المكان
Meaning:
اهلا ؤسهلا : Welcome
في : in

هزا : this
المكان: location or place


You can actually learn like this bit by bit.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 12:28am On Aug 09, 2015
Goodboy2012:
Al was ha fiih mokan ... Meaning?
It means "Welcome". It is actually written thus:
اهلا ؤسهلا
I am a leaner too.
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai: 12:23am On Aug 09, 2015
SUHAIL88:
.. طابت أوقاتكم
ما معنى هزه
Islam › Re: NL Arabic Learning Thread :) by MrOlai:
SUHAIL88:
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
صباح الخير جميعآ .... طابت أوقاتكم بكل بخير
ؤعليك السلام ؤرحمة الله ؤبركاته
اهلا ؤسهلا في هزا المكان
صباح الخير يا اختي
أظن انت مسلمة

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