Cheating.

Of course she does. We are 100% transparent with money

Thank you everyone for your kind words and good wishes 🙏

I am so happy to say I will be finally marrying my soulmate please pray for us 🙏

eventainment:

When you meet miss right . You go know wat it is to secure her till marriage

God bless you 🙏

JasonScoolari:
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So, if she calls off the wedding, does it mean you're totally useless in life or your life is completely gone?

You sound as if she's doing you a favor to marry you and that's one of the many attributes of an irredeemable SIMP.

Tell the lady you're afraid of loosing what transpired between you and your bitter bestie and save yourself the unnecessary stress.

I will tell her after the wedding

I have had posted few days ago about my friend with benefit cursing and blocking me.
I have been searching for her to make peace so we can separated in a peaceful way to no avail.
I just found out she had used a fake Facebook account to messaged my fiancee on the 26th of January telling her about the sex we had together and she requested for her number if she wanna know more .
Fortunately the message went on spam and my fiancee have not seen it and I did blocked the account and disabled my fiancee account to make it seems like it was hacked phew.
Last time we read an article about a lady who called off her wedding and my fiancee supported her decision she said she would do the same thing if I ever cheated on her before we ties the knot.
I thank God for not allowing her to see the message else she would have call off the wedding and I am not ready to loose her.
I swear to God I will never cheat again not even in my dreams

all4zionlover:
In the absence of her, what else?

Fwb 😆

Being with a sane, honest woman who loves me just as I love her makes me so happy.

main24:
@op
Hope you know you will still have sex with this same girl after your wedding or cheat on your partner again?

You might swear and say all sort of ish now but the chances of it happening is 95%.

Every action creates a unique path. To alter a path is very painful, difficult and dubious.

I wish you all the best.

I will never sleep with her again

ImmanuelMyron:
Why not tell ya wife-to-be rn about ya wack shit and see her reaction than telling her after ya wedding.

Just let us imagine she's the one with this dirty lame past and she kept it to herself till after ya new home, how would you feel?

You know her than i, why not open up to her and be free.

Betcha, she'll forgive your madnass and let it slide than after ya wedding.

I don't have the courage to tell her she will be devastated , I rather remain quiet until after the wedding

Ishilove:

Of course, which is why you have received plenty curses for it. Sex is beyond the physical. It is also spiritual and as long as you have had intercourse with this lady, there is an open door for the curses to work, so I suggest you shamelessly look for her and shamelessly beg her to revoke the curses

Her curses cannot touched me because I wasn't her boyfriend nor did I promised her marriage ,even if I don't look for her nothing will happen in my marriage , I know that my marriage will be a success my wife will conceives and gives birth peacefully. the reason why I am looking for her is because I am a peaceful person and I want both of us to separate in peaceful ways.

Ishilove:

You are quite shameless and this is the result of that shamelessness. It is people like you that will come and call Nigerian women 'useless' if they were the ones cheating in their relationships.

Thank you I am shameless and proud to be

Meandmycrew:
Something tell me that lady loves you more than your wife to be, you could have,settled for her. Guy let me advise you and to my fellow guys out there who re still single marry a woman that loves you more he get why!

My wife to be love me more than anything and I love her too, she is the one I will marry and spend the rest of my life with.

Sharonstone7719:
There is nothing that anyone can advise you except to tell your partner what you did.Let this be a lesson in putting your dick in someone else that ain't your partner.

Ok I will tell her after the wedding

jesmond3945:
did you kiss? If you did thats where the feelings came from.

Yes we did ,it was her choice though

jclassiq:
Is her name eberechi?

No

Flora2Sweet:
You cheated

Yes I did cheat which I am not proud of it

dayleke:


How old is she now bro?

33 in September

Foodqueen:
Be happy she didn't get pregnant in the course of your FWB

You for hear ween!!

To picking her calls, and if she sent message to reply. She will get tire and stop.

We were using protections , she blocked me

Righteousness2:
Go and make peace with JESUS Christ.
There is nothing like friend with benefit.
You have been frolicking in Fornication and sexual immorality
Sin/inquity come with their consequences.

Sex is much more than just papapapapa.
Go and sincerely Make peace with JESUS Christ.
That is the way to escape the consequences of your Entanglement

I did on the 31st of december I had vowed to not repeating the same thing again in my life

jaeyking:
Next time try to paragraph or space your story.
No stress our eyes.

First read wetin Righteousness write
Then
Now back to the issue
Only you friends with benefits (it never ends well, this is not Europe or America).
Marriage on Election day.

Anal sex (like what that Bleep who does that? You could as well Bleep a guy).

Cheating on your babe that you want to marry.

And your FWB left you with curses.

You want peace
Confess to your wife to be.
If she forgives you
Move on with your life and leave your FWB (which I doubt you would cause free Puna dey your eyes)

Ok I will confess to her after the wedding

Stawner16:
What exactly are you scared of ? Her curses? Bruh, who God has blessed, no man can curse. Your conscience is free since you never made any promises to her. However, you bleeped up allowing her back into your life since you were already in a serious relationship. Some closed doors are not worth re-opening...

I am not scared of her curses I just want us to settle things amicably she should understand we weren't in any form of relationships. I wasn't her boyfriend everything we did together was for fun nothing was serious and everything has an end. I had moved on and she should also do the same, she can't continue to dwell in the past.

Zonefree:

Unserious couple!

So, na election day una wan wed

Typing error is on the 28th

Iwas living outside of nigeria and I returned back in 2015. I rented a 1 bedroom apartment, in the same compound there was this beautiful girl not my type of woman but she is beautiful tought.
She came to introduced herself and from there we started talking , she uses to come to my place to watch movies. I have dstv, she sometime help me in the kitchen. I noticed that she was coming to me more than I needed her anytime I am home she would come , like I said since she was not my type I took her as a sister.
It happens that one time out of the blue, we had sex, I felt so bad and I apologised to her after. She said it was fine she didn't feel bad about the the sex , she did enjoyed it and she is ready to give me more sex anytime I am ready for it.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said she was happily single and I have told her I will think about that, honestly in the country where I was living before friend on benefits is not unusual and I was into it but I had never imagine that we have ladies in Nigeria who are also into it , her telling me she was ready to give me sex anytime without being in a relationship with her came up as a big shocked to me.
I told her no problem and I had made it clear that I am not her boyfriend and she is not my girlfriend we will be friend on benefits only and no emotional attachment , we will stop the day one of us will find true love which she had agreed.
From 2015 to 2019 we were sleeping together no relationship and I stopped sleeping with her when I met my wife to be, I told her I am in a relationship with someone I love and we have to put an end to it.
I wished her good luck and she wished me the same that was how I put a stop to it. I didn't see her much again until I moved out few months later , I still had her number she also had mine . I could see her on whatsapp changing pictures and status, but I had never chatted her and she didn't chat with me too.
In 2021 my babe traveled out of town, she is studying nursing and out of the blue she (friend on benefit )messaged me on whatsapp asking me how I was doing and we started chatting from there , she told me she was now a youtuber she was having some issue with her laptop if I could let her use mine, I didn't want her to know my new adress but I had to help her because youtube was her source of income , the next morning I sent her my adress around 9am I was off work and expected her to come soon but she came around 7pm with the excuse that she was babysitting her friend child she picked her up late , I said no problem I welcomed her inside.
I gave her my laptop she was in the parlour editing her videos while I was in my room, when I came out the parlour she told me she had seen a photo of me and my babe on my laptop wallpaper she said she was beautiful , I thanked her and went back to the room. I was waiting for her to finshed editing so she can leave because it was getting late but he was still at my house at midnight .
I asked her if she hasn't finished she said no she had few more to go. To cut the long story short we had sex that same night and she has even alow me to have anal sex with her , the sex was wonderful but I still had to remind her I love my babe so much that me and her are only friend on benefit which she agreed.
She said she doesn't mind helping me out while my babe is away and I have agreed t we continued doing it from 2021. Her birthday was last year september I bought her a nice phone for her youtube chanjel even december a laptop for christmas so my own laptop and phone can rest.
My babe and I are getting married on february 25th and I have told the girl on 29th of december that I want to stop having sex with her because my wedding is coming up , and I want to be serious and focus on my wedding and wife to be. She started crying saying that I have wasted her life for 7 years, she had rejected so many men that has come to ask for her hands in marriage because of me . she said she had vowed to do anal sex with the man she loves and she did it with me because she loved me and she expected me to marry her instead of marrying someone else .
I reminded her about the agreement we had we were not into a relationship, I had never promised her marriage she was free to accept those men who came to seek her hands in marriage rejecting them was her own faults it has nothing to do with me , she said no she loved me and were expecting me to love her too. She was so angry at me she cursed me over and over again she said I will never known peace, my marriage will fail and will not hear the cry of a baby in my house which I have rebuked her sent it back to her in 100 folds . But I am still shocked because we were never in a relationship and I had never promised her marriage and I don't know why she cursed me. I know her curses will not work because I didn't make any fake promises to her and I am not the cause of her rejecting men that came to seek for her hand in marriage but I feel bad because this is not the way I expected our friendship to end. I have tried to contact her so we can settle this issue amicably but her number is unreachable and she is not longer staying at her old place and I don't know where she is right now. I don't know what to do and what do you think I should do , advice me please and sorry for the long story