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francizy:
Gwa ba ha biko!

Even the ones that wait to be called on phone and checked on while they never care to know how the guy is doing. Some won't even pick calls self... Hehehehe

If you are my man..I will check on you to make sure you are okay. I will not wait until you call to see about your well being..that's crazy!

ronald4lif:
I go make her speak in tongues. She dey dare my anaconda.

HA! Igbo men always compare their worm to snakes!

I taya oo

Darkrebel666:
R.I.P Mrschima

Shut up fool.

francizy:
Jealous kwa?

Mba kwa oh!!

Aru m!

ronald4lif:
I have told you for the umpteenth time that my phallus would destroy whatever is left of your female genitals. Don't dare me Mrs.

LMAO!

What's my Toto a toothpaste tube? You couldn't even reach my clit!

francizy:
LoL, oya Ronald4lif come and submit your CV, Chima wants to peruse it...

He won't do it! He is a coward!

Ploutos:
No need Ronald. The dumb feminist is incorrigible.

Yet your dumb ass keep reading and responding to my "incoherent" posts!

Dumb gay bish!

ronald4lif:
Again, let me enlighten you and address the point you are missing. The issue is not about brokeness but more about an idea and believe Nigerian girls seem to have adopted. Once in a relationship they think it is a man's duty to be romantic and initiate surprises. To them they are the ones who deserve to be wowed and not the man. The man's responsibility is to please them always while they don't care on how to please him, unless of course in the bedroom lol.

Even a lot of the supposedly rich and well-to-do ladies have also adopted this mentality. The ones abroad who earns as much as their man or sometimes more aren't left out in this galling behaviour. So stop twisting this discourse in the 'dating of broke girls' angle, would you?.

Ronald...we are saying the same things with a different flavor!

At the end of the day...you can't change a mindset or a person but you can choose someone of like mind! Simple. You guys waste time on petty sh1t.

francizy:
I no ho surprise if una two bashing lead to relationship and eventually to the alter!

Jealous Franny?

francizy:


Have you seen it before or you just assuming?

Post it and shut me up!

francizy:
If you were crippled, then I'd do more than opening the door na.. Would even carry you to the car, open the door for u, carry you hand bag, bath you, cook when I can, etc. But once yah hands and legs are complete, then no need forming "perfect gentleman" when am already a gentleman. Or is gentleman not enough for our 9ja babes?

I am just checking! I will accept those actions sweety!

Psst... Ronald is looking abi?

Ploutos:
And she wasn't bold enough to quote me.

Ewu!

I just quoted you gay bish. Now what?

francizy:
And you think Ronald4lif isn't doesn't have what you seek?

Ronald don't have that endowed dick.

francizy:
Hehehehehe, the ones I won't do is carry handbag or open car door...




But OP I have all these ones na...

tho not built, would rather say am slim

Why wouldn't you hold my bag or open door? What if I was crippled?

ronald4lif:

Yeah! I am not going to waste my time with someone that isn't what I want or desire!

If I want a person to give me what I give into them I will seek that person and not bish about what he isn't doing for me!

This ignorant gay bish said my posts are incoherwnt but He wrote a brochure of his disagreements! I guess to this dumb bish..if he disagree to a post
, it is incoherent! Use words that you know!

Not one time I said romance is a guy thing!
Romance is not about material gifts!
It's not my fault that you dumb ass niggas keep choosing selfish and broke girls!
Choose better girls so you won't be on NL crying and bishing like little girls!
Before getting into a relationship know what you want and STICK to what you want!


Don't expect water from a desert dumb ass!

ronald4lif:
This issue is not about us or our individualistic experience from our current relationships. Perhaps past ones.

We're just raising some anomalies and nettlesome trait a lot of Nigerian girls seem to have adopt as a tradition. I expect you to know that the characters and personality of the guys raising concerns on this issue won't condone women with similar behaviours neither would they entertain it even for a split sec.

You guys are the main enablers of these "traditions" and yet you guys are bishing about it?

kinglekan:

Nailed it!!!

There is your helper!

Ploutos:
You are obviously the ignoramus here. I now understand why you are so confused.

Of a truth, half education is a disease.

i will be whatever you think that I am and you are still an ignorant gay bish who couldn't retort intellectually.

Keep calling me a dumb Feminist while you wait for someone to help you!

Keep reading my "incoherent" posts dumb bish!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]No No No I disagree with you.

Being romantic is something you do out of love for that person. It is part of loving someone.

Please stop giving excuses for the wupon theirselves that it's solely a man's job to be romantic.

It's wrong![/color]

Nigga....what's the fvck are you on? You need to write down who said what because not one time I said it was a man's job to be romantic! If you actually read my post I said that if you pick a selfish and broke woman. You should expect her to do for you! You should choose a woman that will do for you! It is your fault for choosing these type of girl!

I also said romance is about doing things or saying things of love and kindness..so why are disagreeing with something you just repeated what I said

Ploutos:
And still, she couldn't type coherently. So much for been a dumb ass feminist.

Stay on topic.

I am on topic dumb bish. It was coherently enough for your dumb ass to respond and comment!


LMAO@dumb Feminist because this gay bish couldn't retort.

Ploutos:
Feminism would have been something laudable if these dullards hadn't misconstrued the tenets of the movement.

Mtcheew! !

Your opinion of feminism is your own...you can't teach ignorance.

ronald4lif:
I'm not oblivious of the fact that joining words in issues like this is no different from the stimulation Chima gives you when home after a long day at work. But hold your breath a bit.

What we all are saying is that women should give what they want or expect from a man in a relationship. No one is championing the superiority of the male gender here like you're alluding. Give what you want in a relationship. The sex bait doesn't cut it for guys anymore. We need more than spreading of legs if you expect all those caring and worship twaddle crap you people normally rant about.

Then why are you and company choosing girls who think that sex is all they can give? Blaming girls for boys choosing those types won't change anything.

Choose better!

Ploutos:
What kind of hogwash is this you just typed??

Opining that a lady should return romantic gestures her man gives her means we're complaining about their dependency??

Someone needs to go back to school.

Why are mad Did I strike a nerve?

And if i went back to school..will that you less of a dumb ass bish?

kinglekan:
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Finally!!

Exactly what I have been expecting. Too bad a lotta ladies wouldn't agree with that. Truth is they are the ones always complaining of not finding a romantic man when they are not even close to being romantic.

For example; its her birthday, she expects her man to give her a treat, go shopping, do all sorts, spend the money he doesn't have just to put a smile on her face. Hell yeah!! Some ladies would say, he should do all that. Which is fine by me.

Then his birthday comes, she gets him a 500naira BYC singlet or probably a wristwatch and of course she still expects him to take her out and do all sorts, spend money he doesn't have else he gets tagged as being stingy.

Utter Rubbish!!

What would it cost her to give her man a simple dinner treat? It doesn't have to be something expensive. Now that's being romantic.

Well like you rightly put it, all women are not the same and do not have the same desires in a relationship. Finding that one who shares similar views always proves to be an herculean task.

Its good we have been able to find a common ground, which is that a lady shouldn't demand what she can't give in a relationship, so also the man.
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What you said has nothing to do with the core definition of romance. Romance is about doing something for your mate without expecting something in return. Each couple have their own opinions of what they think romance is but it still doesn't change the definition of romance. It is simply means doing something or saying something of love or kindness.

If you are dating a jobless or broke woman...you can't expect her to lavish you with gifts and if you are giving with hopes of getting something back then you are not romantic. Simple.

No one should not give a gift and then say because Boniface you a gift where is mine? No one is forcing you to give a gift or so things for other people. You don't get a reward for doing nice things out of your free will. You should get a thank you but that is it!

Men need to stop throwing things at broke or selfish womwn and then get mad if she doesn't do the same thing!

You are at fault! Learn and do better!

Enegod:
this old woman... u never retire for the day?
Go and cook!!!

Fvck you and your old dick trick!

I have said it before and will say it again. Womwn do not need men to take care of them and they can do whatever a man can do expect ejaculate sperm or pee standing up!

Hustle for what you want and use your brain and talent to be successful and do not rely on a man for shit. I know Nigeria isn't for women empowerment but male superiority.

Fortunately, there are men that doesn't think with their assholes and truly God fearing that if you must have a man. You should be able to support yourself if your man passed and not jumping to the next man!

These same niggas will cry about feminism but bishing about womwn not contributing and depending on them too much!

What is the fvck is you motherfuckers really want? You can't have it both ways. You can't have a independent woman that depend on you!

Selfish motherfuckers!

ronald4lif:
I have read through the comments waiting to see who answers the emboldened last remark but still no one. These girls think life it's all about them.

And boys don't think life is about them? Too many threads on NL is about what women should do and should learn...bullshit!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And it's not like many of them actually do bring the so called care and support o!

They hide under the canopy of those who do.

They are the ones who are quick to tag men as unromantic [/color]

You need to select better women and stop chasing and dealing with little girls!

kinglekan:

Madam Chimo!! So what exactly is your point? What exactly is unrealistic biko?

Why do we get the same hogwash each time we ask the simple question;

What do ladies bring into a relationship?
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My point is ladies should bring in the same things men bring into the relationship. If you don't put 100% effort then don't expect your woman to do the same. If you do what tou are supposed to do and what you should do in your relationship and your woman isn't doing the same..leave her!

All women do not think alike nor have same desires in a relationship and you find that woman who shares your views and compatible with you!

It is not that difficult and make sure you make realistic demands and requests that you will do in return if your woman asked the same of you!

JeffreyJamez:
You should hear my voice

You sound like Mariah?

2dice:
u mean ... Equality don't ve to do with the male folks ?? ... I don't get u @ all...

Why are you concerned with something you don't believe in or support? Why are you making noise ofb you claims you don't support?

When people object to frequently of something they do not support they are struggling with doubts and confusion.