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kokoye:
^^

We know.  You only fell and landed on his d[i]ic[/i]k.

A dick is a dime a dozen. I can get other dicks trust.

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OP

Your emotions and thoughts are YOUR OWN. Do not let other judge you FOR WHAT they too have walked in your shoe. It may not be infidelity but there are other things that they have THOUGHT OF DOING and they too would be crushed if other condemn them of their thoughts.

If you are having thoughts about it talk to a counselor or someone that is TRAINED to help you talk it out. Sometimes when we get into issues with our family, coworkers, or friends we sometimes internalize it and it becomes merely thoughts that could be actionable or not.

If you do not want to cheat on your husband and are having issues with your husband I can tell you to turn to God but if YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM how can I advise such? Talk to someone who can introduce you to God because HE IS THE BEST COUNSELOR however without knowing the basics of WHOM HE IS you would remain clueless. (Sorry for the preaching)

Just talk to someone whom will NOT JUDGE YOU and WILL HELP YOU TALK THEM OUT. If you are hurt or emotionally unstable the last thing you need to do confide in another man.

Here is a website to get you started. I would recommend an actual place but it is not in your area. Good luck and keep resisting.

http://couplestherapyexposed.com/MarriageCounseling.php?tg=1%7C2%7C4%7C200%7C7%7C&gclid=CNPRyujTg6oCFQ7MKgodeCS5zA

kokoye:
^^^

Whoever said compton 

Subtle is not your strongest suit.     Seriously though Koyoke Jesus was tempted by Satan but because Jesus had the TOOLS he resisted the temptation.  If the MOST PERFECT can be tempted we AS HUMANS do not have a chance without the shield of God.  

Everyone AND I MEAN EVERYONE have thoughts that are impure regardless if it to commit infidelity or other sins but FEW of us will not act on it because of our shield.  Just because you do not have thoughts it doesn't mean you WILL NOT BE TEMPTED.  Not saying you PER SE but I am speaking in general.  

Having thoughts is NOT SIN but trangressing the thought is a sin.

kokoye:
^^^

Oh dear! . . my friend actually referenced the bible!!     

maybe the community college is not that bad after all

I do not live in Compton. My degrees are from reputable UNIVERSITIES. BOOYAH!

kokoye:
am good . . .Friday babyyy 

taking the family to schlitterbahn tomorrow to get them a li'l wet wet 

I want that big turkey leg with mustard and pickles though!    I want peanut butter and ketchup pie with marshmellows.  (looking at Mr. Chima)

What kills me that people are so sugary that it is pathetic. There are thousands of people who states that they will never cheat on their spouse or themselves. When situation presents itself you either are tempted or given assurance that you will not indulge into any longer.

There are husbands who have cheated on their wives who they love dearly but whatever happens they have committed infidelity the same thing with the wives.

Never say never but pray that when situation happens you are given tools to flee from it.

Joseph was tempted by a woman and I am sure Joseph loves Mary so much that he will die for her but he is human and therefore was tempted however because he was given the tools he flee. When I say tools meaning the BORROWED SENSE and COURAGE TO RESIST IT.

We ALL will be tempted but FEW WILL RESIST IT.

Hissssssss

Hey suga, how you be?

pleep:
Lol, we don't know what Mrs Chima looks like.

Some people saw what I looks like and they will attest that I am OH SO DELICIOUS.

Just say that I am extremely blessed that I do not need make up nor plastic surgeries.

Showing emotion and throwing tantrums like a baby are two separate actions.


Women are so much better.

Wait! You have never seen a toilet with a bidet?

Chile, they have the kind where it washes your booty while you poo poo! It is like you taking a bath and using the toilet at the same time.

I agree the hotels aren't that great however it is a much better substitute than staying with someone who has 20 people in their homes!! Yikes!

I did spend some days in a guesthouse which could be cheaper for you than hotels. Next time you go to Nigeria see if you can find a decent and affordable guesthouse in the area you will be staying.

Yeah, We have mosquitos in America but it isn't like the kind I experienced in Africa. They are nassier and meanier! I think one of them mosquito said I have a lot of nyansh I am not sure it could have been Mr. Chima.

I was mandated to take Malaria and Yellow Fever before leaving America. I also made sure I got some insurance as well to get proper medical and travel assistance as well which can be very expensive. Traveling generally requires months of preparation and medication when leaving from home country to another.

My aunt in Ghana said that she went to Nigeria with her husband for business and she said that it flooded so bad that they couldn't get out for days. They have just arrived home but weren't able to conduct business because of the heavy rain. Yikes!

Sicc em is a nice pet name.

Arab guys are so romantic.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=710391.msg8719896#msg8719896 date=1310690172]Yes, I had to share toilet with 20 other people cause where my bf's sister live, its like a village area although they told me its consider the city but to me honestly, its like a village area. Theres like 5 dorm rooms and one toilet. Thank God the toilet is squating down style otherwise God knows when would I go to pee and sh1t. But even thought its squating down, I will have to do my kung fu action to be using that damn fugly ugly disgusting toilet. Theres even a rat house in there and I was like hey! Are u guys that lazy to even smoked out that thang? Damn Nasty! But in the end of the day I couldnt do anything cause the hotels are too expensive and the good thing is at least I get to appreciate life more. I guess your family must be quite rich to be owning a single house with a compound and heir own individual toilet.



OHHHH YUCKKKK!!!! Is this for real? is there no Nigerian Hotel of Association there? Damnnnnn!!!!!!! What the hell did they do to all of the profits they are getting[/quote]Oh no! The hotels the show did an experiment on weren't in Africa per se. They selected several hotels from different regions to determine hotel sanitation. Now I do not know about the hotels in Nigeria because I never stayed in the hotels. I reserved hotel stays but the family convinced me to stay with them. I told them they need to make sure my accommodations were similar to hotel accommodations or I wasn't budging!

My cousin's husband is a business owner and he opened several businesses in Ghana so that how we were able to stay in one of their compounds. The toilet was a sitting style toilet with a bidet! I wasn't used to that water tickling my punny and arsehole but I guess it helps keeping it nice and cool.

How did you manage the mosquitos? The mosquitos were so fucking bad at night you can hear them buzzzzzzzing all fucking night! I mean we couldn't really enjoy the night out without getting swarmed by a herd of fucking mosquitos!!!!!!!!!

Did you have to take Malaria and Yellow Fever before coming to Nigeria?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=712088.msg8719040#msg8719040 date=1310678572]Mrs Chima. but why cant we jus Nyansh? dont u like moiney? [/quote]Don't you have REAL MONEY? Not the kind you get from the Monopoly game board.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=712088.msg8719012#msg8719012 date=1310678313]HALT THERE MADAM. I HAV A A JOB, you carogoculated Sampasilum!! [/quote]Halt these nuts, you broke arse internet pimpdaddy.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=712088.msg8718891#msg8718891 date=1310677277]Mrs.Chima. so was your numba? Dont worry, I will buy u phone credit! [/quote]You are going to buy phone credit with a stolen credit card number? Who is it this time? Becky from Austria?

[quote author=James-dman link=topic=713590.msg8718978#msg8718978 date=1310677997]Mrs. Chima, or diz[/quote]No thanks. I am going to Chris Ruth's.

pleep:
Yea online. Is so crazy how you can buy raw meat on the internet! lol   I guess a better question would be is it worth the money?

No, no, and no!  Omaha Steaks normally have a partnership in various states that serves their products that why I asked you if there a warehouse near you.  You can purchase meat over the internet.  You buy foods from Walmart and other big stores so internet shopping is no difference.  

Internet shopping allows people to shop without leaving their home it is not like they have the meats stored in cyberspace and then send it to your house.  

Kobe steaks is a grade above Angus steaks so the money is worth it depending on what is important to you.  Quality food or affordable prices.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=712088.msg8718854#msg8718854 date=1310676961]Mrs Chima. but why cant u jus give me puuuny? do u hate black people? [/quote]I thought you said you was a white Nigerian?

pleep:
eww sparkling water is gross!

btw have you tried kobe beef? is it as good as they say?

Why would I requested something I HAVEN'T EATEN!    

Excuse you, Sparkling water with lemon slices are delicious.  Yes, Kobe beef is good.   Do you have access to Omaha Steaks warehouse in your area?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=712088.msg8718811#msg8718811 date=1310676572]Mrs Chima should win the PEOPLE CHOICE AWARD. she is 71 yrs old [/quote]The answer is still no, Mr. Cork. Keep trying though.

That wasn't toward you suga. That was for that other thang.

pleep:
boogie.  

I will have big-mack and some koolaid plz. . .  

Gheddo.  

Waiter, I would like two slice of lemon with a bottle of sparkling water preferably Perrier.