₦airaland Forum

Meddler:
at the bolded part I agree with you. But can you truly love someone and still want to see them get hurt? regardless of how you define love it is still a universal emotion. No one ever wants to see a loved one get hurt.

I guess my main problem is with the way Nigerians throw around that word "love" like water. Using it and feeling it are two different things.

Referring to Nigerians throwing the word love around. Not only Nigerian men uses the world freely but Black Americans men uses it too.

Aren't you too old for Babe?

Love feels great when you are with the right person. Trust me.

But I am not a Witness though. I am into cults.

Some people are afraid to fall in love because they are afraid:

To be used
To mistreated
To be dumped
To be abused

Past negative experience normally discourage people from trying out new relationships and going forward with their lives. It is important that people get proper counseling so they can learn to properly let go and start anew and not bring baggage in the new relationship.

Once they get pass all of that and learn to trust their new partner health wise they will fall in love hopefully with the right person and forever.

OP

Then why ARE YOU ACCEPTING the romantic messages? You are just as guilty as she is by accepting and participating in it. She is not going to send the message just for the hell of it. You are encourage it regardless if you are not trying to but you lack of TELLING HER TO Bleep OFF is the problem.

There is nothing wrong with marrying a Witness if you are prepared to be secluded in the religion. Witness does not believe in faith intermingle AND they are strict when it comes to reverend their customs.

So if you are willing and interested in becoming a Witness go for it. I am sure they will try to pull you if you are not a Witness yet.

Love and respect usually go hand in hand with each other. However some people have different definition of love and respect so it varies overall respect is similar to reverend or yield to the person's feelings, well-beings, emotions, and environment.

You can dislike someone but still respects them. So again, it varies from person to person.

They should have bit his WHOLE HAND OFF!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=718300.msg8764421#msg8764421 date=1311289914]ladies use me all the time [/quote]Were they deaf, dumb, and blind?

OOh lawd!  Let me walk off this thread before I have some premature births. 

You know what! Bleep it. No body on this GOTDAMN thread said anything about that she had any rights to kill her gotdamn self. We are talking about the IGNORANCE AMONGST PEOPLE WHO CLAIMED TO HAVE SOME DAMN SENSE and saying that she is worthless because she couldn't have children due to her health problems.

Some of the MOFO MEN ON THIS GOTDAMN thread said some of the most IGNORANCE SHIT I have ever heard of. So what she killed her mofo self does that justify the bullshit you mofos were saying about those in her gotdamn shoe? No!

Bottom line, she got caught up with a mofo that didn't love her and left because he couldn't handle the pressure from MOFOS LIKE YOU. If they were married and he left her would YOU BE SAYING THE SAME GOTDAMN THING SOME OF YOU MOFOS ARE SPEWING?

I THINK FUCKING NOT!

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=710391.msg8743635#msg8743635 date=1311042571]Chima, that was a long time ago my dear. Alot of people that time kept bashing me up. So sorry naa. I actually forggoten to reply you and I thought I already did

Oh Gosh Chima, Ive been busy. Today is the day Im going on project site and I dont know when will I be back And I heard over there theres no telephone lin es, No electricity and no internet But I will see. Lets not just assume bad things. I gotta stay positive.

So Chima, are u a Nigerian? Im kinda confuse sha[/quote]No, I am not Nigerian. I have family members that married other Nigerians and thus produced my cousins and thangs. My aunt married her husband Iwu and they have been married for 17 years with some bad arse kids. Another one is married for 10 years and cousin married for 6 years.

One of my friend just married her African boyfriend of 5 years (they met in college) and finally tied the knot with their old asses.

Just too many people to mentioned but you get the gist.

Some of the MEN's conversations ARE THE reason the girl committed suicide. She prolly gotten all types of bullshit from DUMB ARSE people and said Bleep IT.

Women, who are not able to bear children for ANY MEDICAL reasons COME FROM EVERY WALK OF LIFE AND REGION. What the Bleep being Nigerian or non- Nigerian has to do with GOD'S PLAN? If you are not destined to have children REGARDLESS if you are blue, black, and green YOU WILL NOT HAVE ANY FUCKING CHILDREN.

For those who CAN HAVE CHILDREN and HAVE CHILDREN you better thank GOD that you are blessed to have children or else YOU WOULD have hung your arse by the neck.

Stop forcing your CHILDREN, FRIENDS, and FAMILY members to have children because YOU THINK THEY SHOULD. If you are not willing to take care of THEIR CHILDREN AND YOURS then SHUT THE Bleep UP.

Okay, I said my piece.

Aww Koyoke is so Southern American. He said granny.


I believe children should have the option of choosing tribal marks or not. They are the one have to live with it. Not the parents.

kokoye:
The society will call you all kinds of names . .and this can be tough to handle.

Even your female friends will indirectly flash their kids in front of you, and still tell you to 'stay strong'

This is why you see poeple living in church or going to dine with herbalists or occultists

Some churches also do not help . . .they tell you you have the problem because 'you are not sering God enough'

Sad but true.

But not only Nigerians. I have witnessed some westerners go thru this situations before. . .

God help us.

I don't know about that but North Americans are less likely to ostracize someone for not having children or unable to have children for the government is trying to encourage birth control to child bearing women. As you should know that there is almost Planned Parenthood in every area in America.

If a woman doesn't have children in American it is usually considered a blessing and admired.

I have heard immigrants spoke about their customs and traditions of why children are important in their culture but didn't realize the MAGNITUDE of the ridicules women faced not having children which is sad.

The man who left her didn't love her. That's not love.

Answer me this Koyoke.

Are you telling me that if a Nigerian man or woman doesn't have children they are considered WORTHLESS?

OP

Are you turning yourself in? I know you was crooked than a mofo.

Nothing.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=41862.msg8754293#msg8754293 date=1311175889]well I nyansh my manager early last year.  Guess what? 

Am now the new deputy asssistance Clerical officer!! [/quote]You are an office ho living in a "mansion" in COUNCIL FLATS? Hmm.

No.