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Araboy:
I know you are not Nigerian but you might have met some who don't say Thanks !

That's right you do know I am not Nigerian, You refers me as BOOTYLICIOUS AKATA

The Nigerian girls I know are polite.

You will win hands down!

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8664537#msg8664537 date=1309976753]U can't ask anyone u don't see - I just thought you were friends - NO BIGGIE - if you see her - tell her I said hello - again we do miss her - she's probably buried with school and work activities. Her responses to threads were intelligent and interesting - I enjoyed the reads as well as others. She is dearly missed.

Crying or Whining? Ahahahahaha - About what? This is time for celebration. You must be referring to the wrong thread.[/quote]Just create a thread dedicated to her and I am sure she will respond.

The tears and whining is on THIS THREAD among a few others.

Ms. Potato

Let me know what you won.

I don't know why Nigerian girls don't say thank you. I am not Nigerian.

kokoye:
Cool points.

smh @ some responses

I dislikes Koyoke.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8664463#msg8664463 date=1309975988]Chima:

Where is Mz Darkskin - we miss her[/quote]You need to ask her.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8664456#msg8664456 date=1309975950]ok - all good - calm yourself - it's not THAT DEEP.[/quote]Good to know that it is all good and not that deep. Now maybe the tears and whines will stop.

Yeye77:
@ Mrs Chima, Hi ya, how are you doing today. I have no problem with anyone not wanting to marry or date a single parent, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and it's really not that big a deal.

I do however feel its ignorant to judge people based on their tribe. Da Doctor said "I sure guess you are from ****** tribe."What does my being yoruba have to do with it?

Da Doctor's statements seemed judgmental to me and i directed my response to his last post.

As a mother i also feel strongly about people calling any child a bastard. Insult the parents all you like, but i feel it's unfair to call children derogatory names.

This isn't about changing peoples preferences, it about saying what i feel and reading what others feel.

Whether someone wants to marry or not marry/date a single parent makes no difference to my life. i respect their right to their opinions. To each his/her own. Nothing spoil.

I am doing good and glad that nothing is spoiled.  I was wondering for a minute.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8664370#msg8664370 date=1309975117]We women - whether single with children or single without children

Could CARE LESS - if the guy wants to date us or not - that is their choice.

Other writers started putting single parents down, making caustic ignorant comments and going into tutorials about how they see it as some sort of "plague"

then Da Doctor jumps up with his mumbo jumbo crapola as well - lololololol - ahahahahaha

ABSOLUTELY AMAZING

The most recent writer just spoke on how 'proud she is' and then Mr. Witch Doctor jumps up and down beating his drum on the attack as though she was attacking him and all she did was speak her thought.

I came and actually commended her and here you come in a "puff" as though I am attacking you personally. I was commenting on the ignorance of the "thought process".

Sounds like you are quite passionate yourself as well.[/quote]I will puff however I see fit. I never said YOU ATTACKED ME and YOU TOOK WHAT I SAID PERSONAL that WHY YOU puffed. Get it right.

It is all good it won't change a damn thang.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=695105.msg8664332#msg8664332 date=1309974787]Chima

Actually - there is much more going on than just "preference" as you can see.  There is judgment and name calling.  That is the ignorance of which I speak.

People aren't just stating who they will or won't date.  You yourself used the term "plague" to describe single parents.  You're smart you know exactly what I mean.

OBVIOUSLY everyone has a choice to date who they want to date and it is obvious that no one is telling anyone who to date.  People are offended and reacting to how they are being "described" [b]IGNORANTLY [/b]by other writers.

It's that simple.  What is it that you don't understand?[/quote]What is it that I don't understand?  WTF?  I used "plague" to described single parents?

You AND ANYONE ELSE can say however you may but would that CHANGE SOMEONE'S PREFERENCE OF NOT DATING SINGLE PARENTS regardless if they offends you are not?  

What are you going to do whoop them?

Yeye77:
@ shy1 thanks for your comments.
@ Da Doctor, even though you have chosen to disrespect me without cause, i have chosen to answer your questions as sincerely and respectfully as i can.

1) i am quite happy with my life, as with all of us there are things i wish would move faster or go better, but my daughter is never a source of unhappiness to me, she is my joy and my pride.

2)Choosing to have her and not abort was never a mistake, she may not have been planned but she will never be a mistake.

3)Having my daughter opened up my eyes to some extremely profitable business ventures.

4)If i could go back in time, i would do the same thing.

5)Yes the stigma still abounds, and everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I have been blessed to meet some amazing friends who take me as i am and respect me for who i am.

6& 7) My daughter has a wonderful relationship with her father. i would not love her less even if that was not the case.

I am not perfect, no one is. i strive to be the best mother i can be. Whatever questions she has when she grows up, i will answer honestly. She can then decide what works for her. She will know that she is not a mistake, that i love her always and will strive to do the best for her.

9) i live my life for no one, anyone who has a problem with me is free to move on. In laws or not, its not by force to marry ooo!

My daughter will live the life that works for her,makes her happy and harms no one. She will grow to accomplish great things.

i'm not preaching to anyone. i believe that everyone has a right to their own opinions and i respect your right to your opinion on singke moms, though i reject your attempts to belittle me or the choice i made.

I require no exoneration from anyone.

And yep! i'm YORUBA and proud. I however feel it's ignorant to judge people based on tribe. My daughter's father is from the north, my best friends are from the east.

and yep we get the message loud and clear, you have no intention of marrying a single parent, it's all good.

I am not trying to be mean but NO ONE JUDGED YOU FOR BEING A SINGLE PARENT specifically and if they did judged you. They shouldn't have. It still not going to change people's preferences of whom they will date or marry.

To the person that said single parents are getting married left and right in droves and there are people with children getting divorced left and right in droves. It doesn't change anything.

Why does it have to be ignorance because someone has a preference? I see threads where people talks about not dating or marrying this or that but WHEN IT PERTAINS TO YOU then you get passionate. That's fake to me.

If you are going to be passionate about one be passionate about all.


Why does the fact someone doesn't wants to marry or date single parents pains you so? Were you rejected because you are a single parent? The question for those who are taking it personal and passionate about this thread.

Please tell me what is the prize?  Never mind.  

Tosinville:
Mrs.Chima is hilarious sometimes lol, u mean those women in the US like u loves to suck magic stick alot?rofl

Don't worry we wouldn't even touch YOURS with acid.   

LMAO@funny sometimes Spoken like a true broke hater.

Ladies, it is real simple! 

Just flash your faux or real American passport or UK passport! 

Viola!  Your work is done!  Easy sha? 

^{Just kidding! Maybe.}

2buff:
Why she holding her dyck like she about to take a piss on the shop floor?

You saw that too! I thought I was the only one!

Well, if that what he likes more power to him. I don't discriminate against homosexual people.