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SportsRe: Senegal Vs Egypt: AFCON Semi-Finals (1 - 0) - Live by mrsqueen: 11:06pm On Jan 14
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SportsRe: Re: The Story Of Etim Esin; 5 Reasons To Counter The Narrative Around Etim Esin by mrsqueen(op): 11:30pm On Dec 20, 2025
bigdawg7:
This etim guy wasn't even that good to be talked about after so many years
That's Correct 💯
SportsRe: Re: The Story Of Etim Esin; 5 Reasons To Counter The Narrative Around Etim Esin by mrsqueen(op): 7:21pm On Dec 16, 2025
nairalanda1:
Here is Etim Esin in his own words about the rape case



Sauce of above :
https://www.thecable.ng/interview-etim-esin-inclusion-destabilised-chile-87-squad/

That's where the problem started, the girl was a minor.

Now, forget that her obviously very slimy father decided she should report the case...the fact is, he slept with a girl that was a minor. Forget also that the girl gave consent, ....she was a minor and could not give legal consent (Note that the law says you cannot have a girlfriend boyfriend relationship, but no sleeping with each other.) The law there is very very tough regarding minors and consent, even if the girl said yes, so long as she is a minor, and you are a legal adult, wahala dey for una. They won't even listen to 'she lied about her age'. And before you shout racisim, know that a lot of white people are in jail and on the sex offender list there for similar reasons...they will even come after you years after the case self.

Sorry, but even if Nigeria intervened, they cannot do nada (remember the indonesia case where there were several drug dealers executed, including some nigerians. Some other countries presidents begged indonesia on their knees not to execute their citizens. E no move the indonesia president at all)

The reason why they are so strict is because of the laws there. Passed as a result of campaigning and even celebrated cases of child abuse.

That;s why you suppose familarize yourself with the laws before going to any foreign country. Even in nigeria, in some states, sleeping with a minor can put you in peppersoup live.
These are all unnecessary stories
SportsRe: Re: The Story Of Etim Esin; 5 Reasons To Counter The Narrative Around Etim Esin by mrsqueen(op): 3:24pm On Dec 16, 2025
GanagiBitrus:
I also felt that post was unfair to Etim Esin.
Unfortunately, most people are appealed by such Sensational Journalism devoid of Objectivity.
I wonder the essence of the article
SportsRe: The Story Of Etim Esin; 5 Reasons To Counter The Narrative Around Etim Esin by mrsqueen(op): 9:16am On Dec 16, 2025
Opinion:

By PastorKay

RE: THE STORY OF ETIM ESIN; 5 Reasons to Counter the Narrative That Etim Esin Destroyed Himself.

I have seen the article and the unfortunate narrative about Etim “African Maradona” Esin going viral, and I feel compelled to react. Not because the story is new, but because the conclusion being pushed—once again—is dangerously shallow and profoundly unfair. The claim that indiscipline destroyed Etim Esin may be convenient, but it is not the truth. It is a recycled narrative that absolves a broken system of responsibility and places the full weight of failure on one man.

First, talent does not self-destruct; systems destroy talent. Football history is filled with flawed geniuses. If indiscipline alone ended careers, the game would have no legends. From Maradona to Ronaldinho, from Gascoigne to George Best, greatness has always come wrapped in human weakness. What separates legends from forgotten names is not moral perfection, but management, protection, and structure. Etim Esin possessed rare talent, but Nigeria celebrated his brilliance without building a safety net around him. When trouble came, the system that enjoyed his magic disappeared.

Second, the gunshot injury was a failure of protection, not a moral judgment. The curfew-breaking incident is often framed as the start of his downfall, but that framing is dishonest. A national team camp that allowed young players to move freely in Lagos at night without adequate security failed in its duty of care. The robbery and shooting were not punishment for indiscipline; they were the result of institutional negligence. Worse still, Etim Esin was rushed to a World Cup half-fit. In serious football nations, injured assets are protected. Nigeria exposed one of its most valuable talents, and that decision shortened his prime years.

Third, his European career ended because of a false allegation, not character failure. In the 1990s, Black African players in Europe were especially vulnerable—limited legal protection, hostile media, and racial bias meant accusations alone could end careers. Stephen Keshi’s warning to Etim Esin about the dangers young Black players faced abroad reflected a real and documented reality. The rape allegation that destroyed his Belgian career was proven false decades later. Justice delayed for twenty-five years is not justice; it is career execution. Running away was not guilt—it was survival in a system stacked against him.

Fourth, Nigeria abandoned him instead of standing by him. There was no legal backing, no public defense, no institutional support. Etim Esin was quietly erased. This abandonment—not indiscipline—ended his international career. The argument that his fall “created space” for Austin JJ Okocha is both false and unfair. Football is not destiny by subtraction. There was room for both men to shine. One was guided, protected, and allowed to mature; the other was left exposed. That difference, not discipline, changed history.

Fifth, the story is now being misused to teach the wrong lessons. Etim Esin’s name is repeatedly weaponized as a warning to young players: “Behave, or you’ll end like him.” That lesson is wrong. The real lesson is that talent without protection is fragile, young players need legal, psychological, and institutional support, and African football often blames individuals for systemic failures. Until this changes, Etim Esin will not be the last gifted career Nigeria buries.

Today, the focus should no longer be on attacking Etim Esin, but on correcting history and restoring dignity. Sports media must openly acknowledge that the allegation that ended his European career was false. Nigerian football authorities owe him acknowledgment, if not an apology, for abandoning him at his lowest moment. His experience should be used in youth development and mentorship so young players learn the real lessons about discipline, protection, and survival. He deserves dignity, not pity; respect, not silence.

Etim Esin did not destroy himself. He was failed, exposed, abandoned, and misjudged. Repeating this narrative does nothing but soothe institutional guilt. A society is not judged by how it celebrates its winners, but by how it treats those it once failed. Nigeria failed Etim Esin. It is time to stop attacking him and start doing right by him.

PastorKay is a Preacher, Activist and a Social Commentator

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PoliticsRe: Why Peter Obi Will Not Get PDP, ADC, LP Presidential Ticket – Daniel Bwala by mrsqueen: 4:03pm On Aug 14, 2025
This is the only statement I know about Bwala. It will be very difficult to erase this from the minds of Nigerians..!

EducationRe: Jamb’s Harsh Underage Policy: Correction or Frustration..? by mrsqueen(op): 3:24pm On Aug 14, 2025
Emzedz:
Nigeria will happen to you all.one way or the other.. u can't run away from it.
You are correct..! Experiencing Nigeria in a very wrong way at a very tender age. No wonder Kemi Banedock says she has nothing to do with Nigeria. Tomorrow when those kids who are direct victims of these useless policies struggle to succeed and decide to say certain things about their experiences... The useless leaders that time will start calling them names.
EducationRe: 2025 UTME: JAMB To Screen Over 500 Under 16Yr Old Tertiary Admission Candidates by mrsqueen: 3:16pm On Aug 14, 2025
JAMB not always serious. Everything about them always calls for questioning.
EducationRe: Jamb’s Harsh Underage Policy: Correction or Frustration..? by mrsqueen(op): 11:57pm On Aug 13, 2025
Lawalemi:
My daughter passed her SSCE beautifully but she couldn't write JAMB because of one month difference to the cut off age. Now she need to be at home doing nothing just because of an overnight policy.
How can human beings appointed to serve turn around to frustrate young people.
EducationJamb’s Harsh Underage Policy: Correction or Frustration..? by mrsqueen(op): 9:26pm On Aug 13, 2025
JAMB’s Harsh Underage Policy: Correction or Frustration

The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) shocked many Nigerians by not allowing thousands of candidates they termed “underaged” to print out their results from the JAMB portal. This move, as appears less like an act of reform and more like a declaration of war on brilliance, ambition, and youthful excellence.

Why is JAMB frustrating thousands of young Nigerians under the guise of enforcing age restrictions? Is this truly correction, or a convenient cover-up for deeper failures within the board?

Let us not forget: this same JAMB caused national uproar earlier this year when it ordered hundreds of innocent candidates to RESIT their UTME exams — not because they cheated, but because JAMB itself failed. Technical glitches, biometric verification errors, and poor infrastructure led to system failures during exams, leaving candidates stranded and confused.

What was the board’s solution? Punish the students again by forcing them to rewrite, while denying any blame on their part, except some crocodile tears from the Registrar.

Just last year, a brilliant young girl ended her own life because JAMB gave her a false result—not what she wrote, not what she deserved. She cried out, but no one listened. By the time JAMB admitted their mistake and offered an apology, she was already in the grave. Dead. A dream buried by a system that plays with destinies like toys. And that’s just the one we heard about—how many more have died in silence? How many futures have been destroyed without headlines? Now with this new underage ambush, how long before another child breaks down and ends it all? are we not setting the stage for even more heartbreaking suicides among poor, innocent children whose only “crime” was daring to dream too early?

JAMB is not just mishandling exams—it’s playing with blood.

That alone should have triggered deep introspection at JAMB. But instead of fixing its crumbling infrastructure and accountability systems, the board has chosen to shift the spotlight again — this time by targeting young brilliant Kids they term, "underaged" candidates who did absolutely nothing wrong.

Withholding Results? For What Crime?
Let’s return to the core question: What crime did these underaged candidates commit?

They followed due process. They registered legally. They paid full fees. They sat for the exams. They submitted their answers.

Now, they are being punished not for malpractice, but because JAMB suddenly remembered that age matters?

This is not policy — this is punishment.

Education Is Not a Crime
In a country where excellence is rare and the education system is in shambles, we should be celebrating gifted students, not sidelining them.

Some of these children are 15. Some even younger. Yet they passed through school, passed their UTME, and had the courage to dream big. Should that be a problem?

JAMB's stance seems to say, "Slow down your brilliance. We are not ready for you."

What JAMB Should Have Done Instead
If age eligibility must be enforced, then enforce it intelligently:

Announce the policy years in advance, with a clear roadmap.
Set a 3–5 year phase-out plan, so that parents and schools can realign.
Stop accepting registrations from underage candidates instead of waiting until after they write the exam.
Engage stakeholders — private schools, education ministries, PTA groups, and legal experts — to build a policy that balances structure with empathy.
Anything else is simply bureaucratic arrogance masquerading as reform.

From Lapses to Lapses: A Pattern of Institutional Failure
In one year, JAMB has:

Mismanaged exam processes and forced resits on innocent students.
Withheld UTME results due to age after collecting fees and processing registrations.
Released policies without consultation, clarity, or compassion.
This is no longer an isolated event — this is a pattern of systemic failure.

How can students trust a board that keeps moving the goalpost — and punishing them each time?

A Slippery Slope
If JAMB is allowed to get away with this, what next?

Will WAEC refuse to issue results to 14-year-old SS3 students?
Will NYSC deny mobilization to those who graduate before 20?
Will the Nigerian system continue to choke brilliance to feed its own incompetence?
This is not just a JAMB issue anymore — it is a national concern.

Final Thought: Do the Right Thing
Policies are meant to guide, not to grind young dreams into powder. JAMB has every right to set standards, but it must do so with justice, strategy, and compassion.

A board that fails to manage its own systems has no moral standing to frustrate students for technicalities. If JAMB truly wants to correct the system, let it start by correcting itself.

Release all withheld results. Apologize for the resit scandal. Stop using policies as weapons. And start acting like a board that cares about the future of Nigeria’s children.

Let brilliance breathe. Let excellence rise. Let this madness stop.

With bold concern for Nigeria’s future,

An Affected Student, with 277 UTME Score and a parallel 8 A1s and 1 B2 in the just released 2025 WAEC

PoliticsRe: 5 Reasons Former President Jonathan Should Return To Aso Rock - PastorKay by mrsqueen(op): 12:26am On Aug 09, 2025
Jonathan has no other choice... But to accept this opportunity to Deliver Nigeria from this turmoil.
PoliticsRe: 10 Convincing Things Peter Obi Can Do To Transform Nigeria In 4 Years by mrsqueen: 1:53pm On Aug 06, 2025
If anyone enters Aso Rock with the Sincere mindset of sacrifice and genuine leadership and with zero plan for re-election... And also Zero plan to install a successor. Such a person will transform Nigeria even in two Years..!
PoliticsRe: 10 Convincing Things Peter Obi Can Do To Transform Nigeria In 4 Years by mrsqueen: 2:31am On Aug 06, 2025
It's very easy to perform in 4 years if service is the focus and not politics of 2nd term.
PoliticsRe: And The Crowd Disappears: An Honest Tribute To Late President Buhari (pictures) by mrsqueen(op): 12:34pm On Jul 16, 2025
yarimo:
After everyone left, OBI will soon rush to visit with almost thousand camera men as if he his going for rally
I wonder what concerns Obi here...
PoliticsRe: And The Crowd Disappears: An Honest Tribute To Late President Buhari (pictures) by mrsqueen(op): 9:41am On Jul 16, 2025
Can you imagine..?
Dogalmighty17:
The sad thing is Nigerians actually liked Buhari a whole lot from the beginning. Nigerians actually believed in him. He lost control of his government and brought disgrace and shame to his name.
PoliticsAnd The Crowd Disappears: An Honest Tribute To Late President Buhari (pictures) by mrsqueen(op): 6:22am On Jul 16, 2025
And the Crowd Disappears – A Sobering Reflection on the Life and Legacy of Muhammadu Buhari

When the dust settles… when the ovations fade… when the guns fall silent and the convoy no longer roars… a man must face the silence of his legacy. Muhammadu Buhari, former President of Nigeria, military ruler, and one-time messiah in the eyes of millions, has finally entered the place where titles mean nothing, and every man must give account—not to the crowd, not to the press, but to his Creator.

And the Crowd Disappears.

There was a time the crowd surged for him. The chants of “Sai Baba!” echoed in streets, marketplaces, and town halls. The old General was seen as a righteous man, a no-nonsense disciplinarian sent from above to purge a nation drowning in corruption, insecurity, and deceit. For many, Buhari represented hope. He was the broom that would sweep Nigeria clean.

But now… the crowd is gone.

In the grave, there is no Aso Rock. There is no FEC meeting, no DSS briefings, no handlers to shield your errors, no teleprompter to guide your words. There’s no propaganda machine to polish your image. There, it’s just you—and your deeds.

What did you do with the trust placed upon you, General?

You were handed the keys to the most powerful office in Africa’s most vibrant and desperate nation. For eight years, you sat at the helm. Yet what monuments of mercy did you leave behind?

Not even one world-class hospital.

Eight solid years—enough to transform Nigeria’s broken healthcare system, enough to erect centers of medical excellence that could have saved countless lives. But you chose foreign hospitals for your checkups and treatments. While the masses died in ill-equipped clinics, you boarded jets to Europe. While Nigerian doctors fled in droves due to poor funding, you entrusted your health to strangers in foreign lands.

In the end, the same system you failed to build rejected you.

The same hospitals you abandoned could not shelter you in your dying hour. You died in a foreign land—not as a man of dignity, but as a cautionary tale. Your final journey home was not in glory, but in a casket, transported like diplomatic cargo. Not even the luxury of walking out of life with your feet on the same soil that crowned you President.

What a shame. What a lesson.

You came in as a man of integrity—but under your rule, corruption evolved. The anti-corruption fight became a cloak—ruthless against enemies, blind to allies. Your government lost trillions to fraud, padded budgets, and ghost projects, yet you looked away.

You promised security, yet Nigeria bled daily. Terrorists, bandits, and unknown gunmen roamed freely. Kidnappers turned highways to hunting grounds. Entire communities vanished while you made statements of “shock” and ordered routine investigations that led nowhere.

You spoke of change—but change betrayed you. Or was it that you betrayed change?

Now, the crowd has disappeared.

The chant of “Sai Baba” has gone silent. Those who once cheered have found new idols. Your name is no longer a hope—it is now a debate. A legacy contested by truth and propaganda, weighed by those who felt your absence more than your leadership.

But beyond the judgment of men comes the greater one—the judgment of God. There, no presidential seal can cover the pages of your record. You will answer for every opportunity wasted. Every soul that perished under preventable conditions. Every mother that wept for a child lost to a broken system you could have repaired.

And so the lesson stands for every man who rises to power:

Build what you will need when power ends.

Leave behind what will outlive the applause.

Because the crowd always disappears.

And when it does, you will stand alone… before the One who gave you the chance to make a difference.

What will He say to you?

And what will you say to Him?

Let the living consider this. Let those in office tremble. Because Buhari has gone the way of all flesh. Not with parades. Not with glory. But with the silence of a wasted opportunity echoing through the corridors of time.

And the crowd disappears.

PoliticsRe: 20 Unique Things The Late Former President Buhari Will Be Remembered For. by mrsqueen(op): 8:56am On Jul 14, 2025
Larryhoover:
You omitted the last significant one which was the Cashless policy and printing of new naira notes that impacted Nigerians drastically.
Exactly
Politics20 Unique Things The Late Former President Buhari Will Be Remembered For. by mrsqueen(op): 1:20am On Jul 14, 2025
By PastorKay

Take it or leave it; These are 20 Unique Things the Late Former President Muhammadu Buhari Will Be Remembered For;


From Military Coups to Civilian Leadership

The late Muhammadu Buhari, Nigeria’s former military Head of State and two-term civilian President, left an indelible mark on the nation’s history. From his days as a young military officer to his years in Aso Rock, Buhari was a central figure in Nigeria's political landscape. His legacy is complex — marked by discipline, controversy, reform, and resilience. Below are 20 defining aspects of Buhari’s legacy that Nigerians and the world will remember:

1. Role in the 1966 Counter-Coup
Buhari first gained national attention as a young officer when he participated in the July 1966 counter-coup that overthrew General Johnson Aguiyi-Ironsi. This event set the tone for decades of military involvement in Nigerian politics.

2. Involvement in the Nigerian Civil War
Buhari served as a frontline commander during the Biafra War (1967–1970), leading troops on the Nsukka and Abagana fronts. His military service during the war built his reputation for discipline and loyalty.

3. Appointment as Petroleum Minister (1976–1978)
Under General Olusegun Obasanjo’s military government, Buhari was appointed as Federal Commissioner (Minister) of Petroleum and Natural Resources. He helped establish the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), a key institution in Nigeria’s oil economy.

4. Chairman of NNPC
Buhari became the first chairman of the newly formed NNPC in 1977, giving him considerable influence over the nation’s oil wealth and setting the stage for his reputation as a steward of public resources.

5. 1983 Military Coup
On December 31, 1983, Major General Buhari led a bloodless coup that ousted the civilian government of President Shehu Shagari. He cited corruption, economic collapse, and insecurity as reasons for the intervention.

6. War Against Indiscipline (WAI)
During his military regime (1983–1985), Buhari launched the "War Against Indiscipline," promoting order, public morality, and national ethics. While the campaign was praised for instilling discipline, it was also criticized for being too harsh.

7. Detention of Politicians and Journalists
His regime jailed hundreds of politicians and journalists without trial, invoking decrees that suspended fundamental human rights. This era remains controversial and is often referenced in debates about authoritarianism in Nigeria.

8. Rejection of IMF Conditionalities
Buhari’s military government rejected International Monetary Fund (IMF) loan terms, refusing to devalue the naira. This act endeared him to nationalists but strained relations with Western institutions.

9. Overthrown in 1985
In a dramatic twist, Buhari was ousted in a palace coup led by General Ibrahim Babangida. He was subsequently detained for over three years, further solidifying his “strong but principled” image in the eyes of many Nigerians.

10. Persistent Political Aspirations
Despite setbacks, Buhari transitioned into democratic politics. He ran for President under the All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP) in 2003 and 2007, and later under the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC) in 2011, losing all three attempts.

11. Election Victory in 2015
In 2015, Buhari made history by becoming the first opposition candidate to defeat an incumbent President (Goodluck Jonathan) in Nigeria’s history. This was seen as a turning point for Nigerian democracy.

12. Anti-Corruption Campaign (2015–2023)
As President, Buhari renewed his anti-corruption war. High-profile cases were pursued, including investigations into former ministers, governors, and even judges. However, critics said the fight lacked depth and was selective.

13. TSA and IPPIS Implementation
Buhari’s administration aggressively implemented the Treasury Single Account (TSA) and expanded the Integrated Personnel and Payroll Information System (IPPIS) to reduce financial leakages and ghost workers.

14. Border Closure Policy
In 2019, Buhari ordered the closure of Nigeria’s land borders to curb smuggling and boost local production. While it encouraged local agriculture, it also led to inflation and economic hardship.

15. Agricultural Revolution
Through the Anchor Borrowers’ Programme and other initiatives, Buhari aimed to revolutionize agriculture. Rice production surged, and local farming received a boost, though sustainability and impact remain debated.

16. The Second Niger Bridge

After decades of promises by previous governments, Buhari completed the long-awaited Second Niger Bridge — a major infrastructural milestone that symbolized regional integration and development.

17. Management of the Boko Haram Insurgency
Though Buhari promised to defeat Boko Haram within months of assuming office, the insurgency persisted throughout his tenure. However, territorial control by terrorists reduced, and some successes were recorded in the Northeast.

18. Controversial Economic Policies

Buhari's economic tenure saw multiple recessions, a crashing naira, and strict forex policies. His commitment to a closed, self-reliant economy generated both praise and criticism for its impact on inflation and growth.

19. #EndSARS and Youth Protests
The #EndSARS protests of 2020, which sought to end police brutality, became a major youth movement under Buhari’s watch. His administration's response, including the Lekki Toll Gate shooting, drew local and international condemnation.

20. Quiet Exit and Legacy Debate
Buhari handed over power peacefully in 2023 to President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. His quiet demeanor and low-profile exit reflected his stoic nature. To some, he was a patriot who meant well; to others, a rigid leader disconnected from the modern economy and youth aspirations.

Final Thoughts:

President Muhammadu Buhari’s legacy is one of paradox — a military man turned democrat, an anti-corruption crusader criticized for favoritism, and a nationalist who struggled with modern economic realities. He will be remembered as one of Nigeria’s most influential — and polarizing — leaders.

May his soul rest in peace.

Pastorkay is a Political Analyst and Social Commentator Based in Port Harcourt, Nigeria.[i][/i]

PoliticsRe: Rape And Sexual Assault Referral And Crisis Centers Across Nigeria by mrsqueen(op): 3:26pm On Jul 08, 2025
Don't keep quiet... Speak up and help get rid of all rapists and sexual molestation culprits in Nigeria. Put up that call now.

PoliticsRape And Sexual Assault Referral And Crisis Centers Across Nigeria by mrsqueen(op): 3:19pm On Jul 08, 2025
SEXUAL ASSAULT REFERRAL CENTERS & RAPE CRISIS CENTERS IN NIGERIA

Rape and sexual assault are painful violations that no one should ever have to endure. If you or someone you know has experienced such trauma, you are not alone, and it is not your fault. Speaking up may feel difficult, but it is a powerful first step toward healing and justice. Across Nigeria, there are safe places and trusted professionals ready to listen, support, and help you rebuild.

Sexual Assault Referral Centers (SARCs) and Rape Crisis Centers exist for you—to provide free, confidential, and compassionate care, including medical attention, legal advice, and emotional support. Don’t suffer in silence. Your voice matters. Your healing matters. Your justice matters.

If you or someone close to you has been a victim of rape or sexual assault, please reach out to any of the following centers or emergency helplines listed below. Help is available, and healing is possible.

You are not alone. Speak up. Reach out. Let’s walk this journey together.



Agape Sexual Assault Referral Centre
Immanuel General Hospital,
Eket, Akwa Ibom State
08023009220

FCT – Sexual and Gender Based Violence
Response Team (FCT-SGBVRT) Walk in CLINIC
Social Development Secretariat (SDS) 2nd Floor
Cyprian Ekwensi House, Arts & Culture Complex
Area 10, Garki
Abuja, Federal Capital Territory
08077111126

Jigawa Sexual Assault Referral Center
Dutse General Hospital
Jigawa State
08033035588

JNissi Mission Help Initiative
Laderin Workers Estate
Laderin, Abeokuta
Ogun State
07052459648

Ogun State Min of Health
Department of Public Health
Okemosan, Abeokuta,
Ogun state
0802 8766211

Kano Sexual Assault Referral Center
Murtala Mohammed Hospital, Kano
Kano State
08065340578

Mirabel Sexual Assault Referral Center
Lagos State University Teaching Hospital
Ikeja, Lagos State
08155770000,
08115554877,
08187243648
08176275732,
07013491769

Nigerian Institute of Medical Research (NIMR)
Edmund Crescent, Yaba,
Lagos State
08033065683

Rayuwa Sexual Assault Referral Center
Police Clinic, Minna
Niger State
08188107782

Salama Sexual Assault Referral Center
Gawna Awan Specialist,
Kakari, Kaduna State
08033837025

Specialist Hospital
Yola, Adamawa State
08033162823

Tamar Sexual Assault Referral Center (SARC)
FSP Medical Center, opposite former Institute
of Management and Technology (IMT),
Enugu, Enugu State
09091333000, 09092777000

Umaru Shehu Ultra Modern Hospital
Maiduguri, Borno State
08023585805

Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF)
6 Turton Streeet off, Thorburn Avenue, off ozone Cinema,
Yaba, Lagos State
08092100009

Yobe Sexual Assault Referral Center
Damaturu, Yobe State
07030103847

https://www.herstoryourstory.ng/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/new-SARCs-directory-Nov2020.pdf

CrimeRe: My Cousin Was Just Raped And I Don't Know What To Do. by mrsqueen: 2:47pm On Jul 08, 2025
If you're a survivor of rape or sexual assault, please reach out to our 24-hour confidential toll-free helpline.

FamilyRe: Judge This Case If You Will Forgive This Your Wicked Father by mrsqueen: 4:16pm On Jun 24, 2025
Dear OP,
What you need is proper counselling to remove certain things from off your head... Before you can have a future better than that of your innocent father.

Your write-up reveals more about your own brokenness than your father’s failures. And before you throw another stone at a man who lived through a different era, let’s put the mirror in front of you.

Here are 10 hard truths you need to face;

1. You are shamelessly dishonoring your own father:
Whatever your grievances, dragging your father's name through public mud makes you look worse. No matter his shortcomings, he's still your father. And your disgraceful words don’t just shame him—they shame you.

2. You judge a man’s life based solely on material things:
No house? No car? No wedding picture? You sound like a shallow soul obsessed with vanity. Some men live quiet lives and give their all with little to show. That doesn’t make them useless—it makes them human.

3. You’re bitter, not bold:
A strong man rises above his pain. A weak man hides behind blame. You’ve made a hobby out of blaming your father instead of breaking the cycle. That’s cowardice, not courage.

4. You expose your family’s private pain to the world:
Even if your dad failed you, airing it on Nairaland helps no one. It's not healing—it's public slander. That’s immaturity dressed up as venting.

5. You haven’t asked what he went through:
You never stopped to ask: Did he face setbacks? Was he misled? Did he fight battles you know nothing about? You're loud with judgment but silent on empathy.

6. You’re trying to justify your own failures by exaggerating his:
Stop using your father as your excuse. What have you achieved that sets you apart? Or are you just another man lost in his father's shadow?

7. You sound entitled:
You act like your father owed you luxury. He owed you love, guidance, and effort—not wealth. If you didn’t get that, use it as fuel, not poison.

8. You insult your own mother in the process:
Calling her "an illiterate girl" deceived into marriage is a low blow. Your rage is blinding you to the fact that you’re spitting on the woman who gave you life.

9. You call this witchcraft? No sir, this is your pride speaking:
You speak of witchcraft, but the real darkness is in your ungrateful heart. Witchcraft didn’t make you bitter—your refusal to forgive did.

10. You have become what you despise:
You say your father failed his family. But with this write-up, you have failed his legacy, your mother’s dignity, and your own name. Fix up before you pass that curse to your children.

Final Word:
You think you're exposing your dad. But you've exposed your own emptiness. Take responsibility. Break the cycle. Grow up. Heal. Forgive. And make sure your own child never writes such filth about you one day.

i wish I can counsel you beyond here.
PoliticsReactions As Akwa Ibom Commissioner Donates Motorcycle To APC Ward Chairman by mrsqueen(op): 12:50am On Jun 20, 2025
Reactions follow as, Akwa Ibom State Commissioner for Works, Prof. Eno Ibanga defects from PDP to APC. And Donates brand new motorcycle to his ward’s APC Chairman.

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16iHmmHaHq/

Christianity EtcRe: An Open Warning To Verydarkman (vdm): Stay Out Of Spiritual Matters. by mrsqueen(op): 8:21am On Jun 08, 2025
A word is enough for the wise
Christianity EtcAn Open Warning To Verydarkman (vdm): Stay Out Of Spiritual Matters. by mrsqueen(op):
By PastorKay:

AN OPEN WARNING TO VERYDARKMAN (VDM): STAY OUT OF SPIRITUAL MATTERS BEFORE YOU INVITE CURSES UPON YOURSELF

Dear VeryDarkMan (VDM),

“Touch not My anointed, and do My prophets no harm.” — Psalm 105:15

You’ve built a strong voice in Nigeria’s digital space. You’ve fought scammers, exposed fake influencers, and stood boldly for social justice. We respect your grit. But now, you’re crossing a dangerous line — a line of no return if you don’t pull back.

This is not a hate speech. This is not defense of any man. This is a prophetic warning to you: Leave men of God alone, or you will fight the God who sent them.

You call out fraudsters? That’s fine. You tackle bad governance? That’s noble. But the moment you begin to challenge, mock, or “expose” men of God according to you — you’re no longer doing activism — you’re committing spiritual suicide. And this is very dangerous for you.

Let me show you the 10 deadly dangers you're walking into by trying to “clean up” the church when God didn’t send you.

1. You Are Touching the Untouchable

“Touch not my anointed, and do my prophets no harm.” — Psalm 105:15

This is not your territory, VDM. The moment you criticize or mock a man of God — true or false — you step into holy ground barefoot. God Himself handles His servants. Not bloggers. Not influencers. Not activists. So Beware..!

2. You Risk Divine Judgment Like Miriam

“And behold, Miriam became leprous...” — Numbers 12:10

Miriam only talked against Moses, and heaven struck her. It wasn’t public shaming. It was just words. What you’re doing is worse — you’re publicly mocking altars and ministries. Judgment will come if you don’t stop. Beware..!

3. You Are Fighting God, Not Men

“If it is of God, you cannot overthrow it... you’ll be found fighting against God.” — Acts 5:39

Do you think you're dragging a pastor? Think again. If God sent that man, you're dragging God’s integrity. No influencer survives a war with the Most High. Beware..!

4. You Will Block Your Own Destiny

“Believe His prophets, and you shall prosper.” — 2 Chronicles 20:20

Mocking the prophetic is mocking your own prosperity. You can’t insult oil and expect divine favor to flow. Some doors will lock. Some destinies will stall. Not because of demons — but because of dishonor. Beware..!

5. You’re Becoming a Tool of Satan

“Get behind me, Satan!” — Matthew 16:23

Jesus said that to Peter when Peter spoke emotionally trying to show solidarity and empathy. Satan is using you to challenge what you don’t understand. You are not helping God — you are being used by the enemy to divide the body of Christ. You need to Beware..!

6. You Will Attract Dangerous Spiritual Counterattacks

“Korah and his company died when the earth swallowed them.” — Numbers 16:32

Korah questioned Moses’ spiritual authority, and God killed him without warning. You may think this is a joke — but spiritual rebellion attracts spiritual disaster. Keep your lane, or the ground may open figuratively or literally. Beware..!

7. You Will Kill Your Own Spiritual Sensitivity

“Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise prophecy.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:19-20

You’re becoming numb to the fear of God. Your conscience is dying. Your words are becoming bolder, but your soul is becoming darker. There is a point of no return if you don’t repent. You will perish. Beware..!

8. You’ll Expose Yourself to Wicked Forces

“He that breaks the hedge, the serpent will bite him.” — Ecclesiastes 10:8


Spiritual hedge is real. But the moment you slander and dishonor spiritual authority, you tear your own covering, and wickedness will locate you. Many critics suffer mysterious attacks — not because of haters, but because of divine judgment.

9. You May Suffer Public Embarrassment or Sudden Fall

“Those who honor Me, I will honor; those who despise Me shall be lightly esteemed.” — 1 Samuel 2:30

God lifts who honors Him, and brings down those who mock His order. If you keep walking this path, one day you will wake up to shame, fall, and regret that no fan base can rescue you from. Beware..!

10. You Will Transfer Curses to Your Family and Generation

“The curse of the Lord is in the house of the wicked.” — Proverbs 3:33

This is not just about you, VDM. Your descendants will suffer if you continue sowing seeds of rebellion against the altar. Don’t invite generational judgment for online relevance.

VDM, THIS IS YOUR FINAL WARNING:

You are gifted. You are bold. You are a voice. But if you don’t respect boundaries, your gift will turn to grief. Stay with social activism. Fight for justice. Expose frauds. But leave spiritual matters alone if God didn’t send you. And I know for a fact that God has not sent you.

"No man takes this honor upon himself except he that is called, as Aaron was." — Hebrews 5:4

You weren’t called to be a prophet. You weren’t anointed to judge the church. Stop this dangerous crusade against pastors before you self-destruct.

Let God deal with His own. If a man of God is fake, God knows how to remove him. But if that man is real, and you fight him — your fall is guaranteed.

FINAL WORD: FEAR GOD OR FACE HIM

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” — Proverbs 9:10

Social media fame will fade. God’s wrath won’t. Let wisdom speak louder than your pride.

Pastorkay is a Social Commentator and Activist Based in Port Harcourt.
He is also an Ardent Follower of Pastor David Ibeyiome.

PoliticsRe: 10 Reasons Why Rotimi Amaechi Should Be Ashamed For Traveling Abroad For Medical by mrsqueen(op): 7:22am On Jun 04, 2025
9jatriot:
Most politicians go abroad for healthcare mostly for privacy reasons not neccessarily because of compentence of the doctors or facilities. Many of them will have their pictures splased on the internet when they are most venerable so they opt for the more expensive option of going abroad.
Meaning that Emmanuel Macron should come to Nigeria for his next healthcare need due to privacy reasons too. At least to avoid the french media paparazzi.

Imagine an excuse..!
Politics10 Reasons Why Rotimi Amaechi Should Be Ashamed For Traveling Abroad For Medical by mrsqueen(op): 9:03am On Jun 03, 2025
Opinion;

By PastorKay


10 Reasons Why Rotimi Amaechi Should Be Ashamed for Traveling Abroad for Medicals — And Never Have the Audacity to Say It in Public

Rotimi Amaechi’s public lament that his passport was seized in Germany en route to Vienna for a medical checkup isn’t a tale of injustice — it’s a bold, shameless admission of failure. A man who held 24 years of uninterrupted political power — Speaker, Governor, Minister — yet couldn’t trust any Nigerian hospital with his own health? That’s disgrace, not drama. Here are 10 brutal reasons why Amaechi should hide his face in shame.

1. 24 Years in Power, Zero Impact on Healthcare

Amaechi was in public office for 24 years — 8 as Speaker, 8 as Governor of oil-rich Rivers State, and 8 as a Federal Minister. If after all those years he still runs to Europe for a medical checkup, then something is deeply wrong — not with the country, but with him.

2. Rivers State Could Have Had “Rotimi Amaechi Specialist Hospital”

Rivers State, one of Nigeria’s wealthiest, received massive federal allocations and IGR during Amaechi’s time. With just a fraction of that, he could have built a world-class hospital in Port Harcourt — maybe even named after him. A facility Nigerians and foreigners alike would travel to. But he preferred to fly out instead of building within.


3. The N33 Billion Monorail Scam Could Have Built Africa’s Best Hospital

Under Amaechi’s watch as governor, ₦33 billion was wasted on a fake monorail project — a glorified white elephant that never functioned. That same amount could have delivered the largest, most advanced hospital in Africa — a legacy project that could serve millions. But instead, the money vanished into history — and possibly pockets.

4. As Speaker, He Could Have Championed a State Hospital Bill

Amaechi was no ordinary Speaker — he was powerful, influential, and connected. He could have pushed a healthcare revolution through legislation in Rivers State. He could have ensured medical equity for his people. But the man who had the mic chose silence.


5. As Governor, He Controlled Budgets — And Misused Them

A governor doesn’t beg for funds — he decides where they go. Amaechi could have built three teaching hospitals, upgraded primary healthcare, and turned Rivers into a medical tourism hub. Instead, healthcare remained weak, while he built flyovers, staged projects, and flew abroad.

6. As Transport Minister, He Should Have Built a Maritime Hospital

With billions passing through the maritime sector under his watch, Amaechi had the leverage to build and equip a Maritime Medical Centre under the Nigerian Ports Authority. If we have military hospitals serving the public, then nothing stopped Amaechi from building one for port workers, seafarers, and ordinary Nigerians. It would have served the nation — and himself. But no vision, no action.

7. He Watched the Healthcare System Rot Under His Nose

During his eight years in the federal cabinet, the nation’s hospitals remained underfunded, ill-equipped, and understaffed. Amaechi never led a federal initiative for healthcare reform. He never lifted a finger to challenge the status quo — only to book flights out.


8. Every Flight Abroad is a Confession of Failure


When a former governor and minister leaves Nigeria just to check his blood pressure or take pills, what he’s really saying is, “I failed to build anything good enough to treat me.” That’s not just his problem — it’s the problem he helped create and maintain.

9. The Green Passport Isn’t the Shame — The Leadership Is

Amaechi complained bitterly about being delayed in Germany because of his green Nigerian passport. But it’s not the passport that caused the embarrassment. It’s leaders like him, who drained the country dry and then flee from its dysfunction, that give Nigeria a bad name.

10. Amaechi Should Hide His Face in Shame — Not Make It a Headline

Rotimi Amaechi shouldn't have said a word about his medical trip. He should be hiding his face, not holding a mic. His decades in power left Nigeria’s healthcare system barren. And now, he’s paying for it — not in cash, but in disgrace.

Conclusion:

Rotimi Amaechi had the time, the power, the money, and the opportunity to transform Nigeria’s healthcare system — especially in Rivers State. Instead, he squandered N33 billion on a ghost monorail and now cries about being delayed in Germany.

He could have left behind hospitals, he chose to leave behind scandals.

You cannot run abroad to escape the judgment of the nation you failed. That judgment will meet you at the airport — in your passport, in your legacy, and in your shame.

Pastorkay is a Political Analyst and Social Activist Based in Port Harcourt.

PoliticsRe: Why Umo Eno Must Flee Akpabio’s Political Trap. by mrsqueen(op): 11:27am On May 23, 2025
wiseone28:
Brown envelope analyst
What do you mean..?
PhonesRe: Iphone 13(128) Sent Directly From The USA. Almost Brand New -never Used In Naija by mrsqueen(op): 11:39pm On May 22, 2025
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