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 Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 10:26am On Mar 02, 2019 |
luminouz:Lol,I've refused to examine some of my actions this year, I just want to live..if I cry fine,if I don't cry fine. Yes ooo payday dries tears  ..I never used to like money but since the end of last year,I realised how wonderful it can be and I've resolved to find it and spend it.Life is too short abeg.. Once it's clean legit cash,I will swim in it if I have a chance.Mr Z ..he's not worse than the ones before him. i'm making excuses for him because I genuinely think he's a great guy and I also feel this is a phase that will pass. He will get tired,all I need to do is stay neutral and wait it out. If I manage this,I'll have a friend who will always have my back at work.This is more valuable to me than a romp which may or may not even be worth my precious time. Have a good day today. |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 1:41pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
luminouz:Lol,cheers! I hope you have a good week ahead. |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 1:29am On Feb 22, 2019 |
luminouz:Yes,legit all the way.  Happy belated valentine to you and yours. |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 10:34pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
luminouz:Hello Luminouz, Lol,let's see how that goes.Im pretty sure I'll be back ranting soon. For the gazillion dollars,I wish I know the answer to that one. If I did ehhhh,M would stop working immediately. He deserves a life of luxury and being pampered  |
| Family › Re: My Divorce Journal by mrsthang: 10:13pm On Feb 04, 2019*. Modified: 10:31pm On Feb 04, 2019 |
@risingphoenix12 It must be some relief that it's over and done with. You both will deal with very strange feelings..grief even at the years lost. I sometimes work with children & adults who's parents have divorced during the formative years,7 ish , it could cause lasting damage and trauma for them if not handled properly. They describe pain and confusion,having to go to different houses,being used as pawns, sometimes even blaming themselves etc Even when speaking to the adults,some regard it as a major incident in their lives. I hope you both agree for this time to be as seamless as possible ,perhaps remain friendly for their sakes especially as it's not their fault. For their mental health it is important that you both set aside your differences and parent together to the best of your ability. They'll need lots of love, and reassurance and for you both to be on the same page so they feel emotionally secure. Happier healthier parents in a happy environment is beneficial for children rather than a toxic environment so you both have taken the right steps hopefully to a more beautiful future . It's not easy at all. I wish you both all the best. 4 Likes |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 2:34am On Feb 04, 2019 |
luminouz: Very funny. |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 3:45am On Feb 02, 2019 |
luminouz:Lol,stop looking for trouble abeg. I will hunt my meat when and if i choose to  |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 1:31am On Jan 28, 2019 |
luminouz:When a woman is on control,doesn't mean she's barking orders like a dog. I'm sure there are nice alpha males and there are lots of females who would appreciate them and find them interesting. To be honest,I think life is in phases and the journey to self discovery could lead us to things we haven't imagined. Humans are too complex... In all,being happy is the goal or at least some form of contentment. |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 1:28am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Finelinks:I think it was a typo,lol |
| Family › Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by mrsthang: 6:37am On Jan 11, 2019 |
You could learn to please yourself..at least temporarily 4 months is a very long time. Pele |
| Family › Re: My Feelings Have Changed For My Husband by mrsthang: 6:30am On Jan 11, 2019 |
@bestshimmer Sorry you are hurting,it must feel awful. I think people underestimate the power of proximity in a working environment.No matter the sort of workplace,bring a man and woman who find each other attractive together & sparks will fly whether married or not,it's up to them to ignore or do something about it. They are spending a lot of time together,sometimes even more time than they spend with their spouse,it can be very overwhelming. If your husband and his colleague are still working in the same place,they most likely haven't stopped seeing each other,just have gotten smarter about covering their tracks. Emotional affair which has graduated to verbally saying they love each other has gone quite far, possibly has gotten physical.For your man to continue and put up resistance despite being caught shows he's completely enamored with the lady in question.Its rather unfortunate but he has to be the one to make the decision to stop. Human beings will be human beings and it is naive to trust a person made of flesh and blood 100%. I struggle to remain faithful ,I have been propositioned by males married and unmarried and have even almost fallen.It is because of that I am aware that we all are mostly fallible..when temptation comes it's very easy to give in especially when the parties involved are willing. No one can tell you how to react ,how to forgive ,how to forget? Only you can choose what you really want out of this situation and how best to go about it.. Most likely you will stay suspicious and never be completely happy till you learn to place your happiness in your own hands. You need to become independent,have your own money and start to live.Then you can truly assess the situation for what it is and make the best decision for you and the kids. There is no wrong or right way,what matters is how you feel.You have a right to whatever emotion you are experiencing and you have a right to react within reason however way you deem fit. I hope you find peace of some sort. Sorry.. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Literature › Re: ALIEN - GALAXY AT WAR!!! by mrsthang: 5:56am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Ghostgambler:Careful what you wish for. Sometimes,it takes the right person to make us what we think we are not. If you open your mind up to a lot of possibilities and refuse to be defined by what society says males must be,you will be in for a real treat if you find the right partner. Cheers! |
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) but being in control all the time sounds weird and being commanded or made to feel like I'm the woman irks me....I'm the man FFS!!!