luminouz:





You never really gave out many details about yourself.

@toys... Well,she can try when I cut off my diick sha. So long I still make her scream with my organic tool,she has no need for an alternative.

On the other hand,if she is adventurous to that extent, I could oblige her a few times,to spice things up. Just a few times

You'd be surprised at the extent people go.
Any detail is scoured finely

@ toys Screaming doesn't mean anything, and the method of pleasure for her does not need to be organic if both of you experience it together.

@ no need for alternative? okayy o.

luminouz:


HNY.

Why random? Someone unto you here?

I don't do toys. What works is a body. Warm, soft,fleshy and wriggling with desire.

Yes,some are onto me to some extent.
@ toys,never say never.You can never tell.
Your partner may decide she wants to try and you will have no choice but to oblige.

Good.luck to you if you say no

luminouz:
So mrsthang is back!!!

You just upped and left like that, thought you ain't coming back.


Nice update.

That vibrator stuff looks weird to me but then,what do I know?

Not really back,will now be verry random.
Toys are great,just find one that works for you

luminouz:
@mrsthang...

Lol,so u now run from M when he initiates Seems u love doing the chasing,the thrill and feel get ur juices flowing, seeing a man in that position kinda cools ur ardour...its strange u know,cuz men are the ones wired by culture from birth to chase women. If you had been a guy, u would be a sex god or something lol, u have so many traits I can relate with... If I didn't know better,I would have said its a man under that moniker of urs. I hope M stops it soon so u can get back to the status quo ... I suspect if he continues,u might lose interest in sex sef and he will feel veeeerryyyy weird..Believe me when I tell u this,I think he is starting to improve on the sex thing, Hell,dude might even be feeling some upsurge of testoterones right now and he is feeling like his early 20's again. But the irony of life is this,the more you chase,the more the other party withdraws. Remember how mundane u think guys who disturb u incessantly with calls or text or mails or shiit ARE?? ME TOO!(from girls I mean). The thrill ain't there no more. Fvcked, if you ask me.

That Vibrator is still alive?? I was hoping it would have exploded or something... First time I'm seeing one dou. Noisy little snitch if you get my drift. Nice manicured nails.
Lastly,the song u dropped is 'just there' for me...have u tried Tank's album(SEX,LOVE AND PAIN). its got cool tracks...

N.B...Seems peeps are starting to consider ur plea for zero post likes...You mentioned caramelo...u in the country recently

Lol,I am good.I hope you are fine too.

M and I talk about death quite a bit as it's important to know each others wishes and also plan for the children and their future just incase. He knows my thoughts on remarrying and my reasons so no shockers here.

Me run from M?? Where did I write that one? Only way I can run is if I'm extremely unwell or the se x has made me unconscious or so weak I cannot move (we all know that ain't happening )

I don't know about any testosterone surge o, nothing at all this week.

It's Z that was chasing and it started to grate on my nerves as he was just so full on despite all the rebuffing.

I think chasing should be tailored to individual.Some like it hot,some prefer a slow and steady burn.

It's more of a turn on when I'm in charge of the naarative shaa or at least partake in the chase,keeps things exciting..no real issue if the man does the leg work , as long as it's in a way that appeals to me and it's not a permanent thing.I shaa know at some point,I'll take over.

Shaa,im not in the game as per married fella so it's always a blank look like I don't know what's up.


It is interesting to read that you've considered that I'm a man.
Perhaps it's because you feel that naturally a woman isn't wired the way I am? There are lots of women this way,they probably don't talk about it.

Remember nature also dictates that we are all to be born with body parts in a particular order and yet you have people born without limbs,conjoined twins , haemaphrodites etc

Human behaviour is too complex to be boxed into black and white.

Lots of men are brought up to feel they should be in charge,lots of women brought up to feel they need to be submissive.

Some men are naturally mellow but stay in charge not because they want to but because they are expected to.

Some women pretend to be submissive because its what is expected

If we were in a world that let people just be who they are without mockery,we would all be in for a huge shock,lol.

Eg M has been conditioned already since birth to believe he has to be in charge but he naturally isn't wired this way

Sometimes,the societal expectations kick in and he wants to play the lead role.I understand that and I'm happy to sit back for a bit till he's back to factory setting.

There has never been any ambiguity about my behavioural leanings at all.

For someone in my type of situation,you will find a lot of compromise and middle ground but still,most of the time,things will tilt to how I want them.

If M didn't marry me,I'm sure he would have married someone with similar traits.I would have married a man with his traits as well.

It's cool if people find their own spec and stick to it and then let other people be without undermining their choices.


Few people are still liking my posts.I think they do it just because I dont want them to,not because they like or agree with what I've written.

My vi brator is alive and well o,haha..Noisy bugger but very effective.Im glad to have it,good stress reliever. People praying for it to explode are wicked �

The songs I put up are just a reflection of my headspace at that moment ..I will check out Tank again,thank you.

I was in Nigeria not too long. Yes,I went to Caramelo,not my kind of ambience but they had nice fish. M was very uncomfortable,too many hot chicks / prossies,it was interesting to watch him..I will probably visit there again to feed my eyes.

Hopefully,I don't get bundled away.

** I may be a man o!** Maybe my diary is all made up?

Cheers!