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Oluboh:
They should explain what they mean by outages

I don’t know why this country’s leadership is so unaccountable everywhere

Exactly what we were just discussing...is it straight two weeks blackout or power coming on and off...

GanagiBitrus:
Arsenal & City will finish the season ahead of Forest.

You don't need bother to answer some banter which is clearly foolish. It's obvious the poster is 'anti Arsenal's so much so that even if it's Southampton in that position if he will tell you he considers them more title contenders than Arsenal

pansophist:
There are women that loves genuinely. Although the younger they are, the most likely they can love selflessly. Genuine loves comes with a feature of innocence.

But usually boys takes such ladies for granted, until she lost the elasticity of her love after being burnt, and that's not the version of a woman's love you will want.

I like your first paragraph and thatvlas sentence in particular....."genuine love comes with a feature of innocence"

UnfairLife7:
I have a cousin sister in her late 20s, she's going out with a guy in his mid 30s. This guy works in the oil and gas sector while this cousin of mine works in the telecommunication. They both based in Portharcourt. She met this guy immediately after her service year and they've been together for over 2 years now.

This guy hasn't asked my cousin out to be his girlfriend neither has he proposed to her to be his wife. He spent so much on my cousin. My cousin has met his parents and some of his siblings. He flew her from pH to Lagos to and fro before Christmas just to attend his friend's dad burial. This guy can spend close to million on a seat for her. He gave her ANYTHING, I mean just anything she wants. It got to a point my cousin started feeling somehow the way he spend.

The issue she's having with him is that, he can go for days at times weeks without communicating with her. Then the moment he reached out to her, he'd spend heavily on her. He's not a married man. He's single. Although he has jokingly told my cousin that all what he's doing for her is absolutely nothing . My cousin earn up to 100+ in salary while this guy earn million He jokingly told my cousin not to catch feelings for him as all what he's doing is nothing but unfortunately it mean a whole lot to my cousin. This guy isn't freak about sex. She can count the numbers of times they've had sex together. My cousin is confused why is he spending this much on her if he doesn't see her as his girlfriend or wife to be.

If not that my cousin has been to his office once and always goes to his house. She'd have think the guy is either a yahoo boy or into drugs due to how he spent on her. When he flew her to Lagos to his friends event, they spent a week in Lagos. The girl was in her parents house while the guy was in his parents house in Lagos. The guy didn't asked to meet her parents but he took my cousin younger siblings out for shopping, gave them money and also get stuff for my cousins mother.

My cousin understand the guy might have other girls as a successful young guy. She's just worried the way the guy is doing. She's really confused and doesn't know what to do.

Please what's your advice to my cousin

I think he is just not a commital kind of guy ( or at least not ready to commit emotionally into any deep relationship yet), your cousin on the other hand seems to have aught feelings and is seeing him as an ideal guy and wondering what more he is waiting for cos he seems to have it going 'well' for himself.....decisions is hers to make. She can decide to be patient a bit and maybe with time he might come around or she might go with the flow. In any case, she should just be firm with her decision and not get caught up with the 'goodies' she is enjoying if commitment is what she ultimately wants in the relationship....

chatinent:
You married Michael Myers?

Damn....

Wealthoptulent:
NPF needs to learn proper WORK ETHICS, did they FORCE anyone? freebies to dey worry 9ja ppl, that thing could av gone well if people were coordinated. How even meant for children was attended by ADULTS?

In Nigeria that old sugar daddy will drink performance enhance drugs and carry a female companion, die in hotel room and police will arrest the ladies .. npf and ethics ke

Pootle:
another cock and bull stories to tell a particular gender to be selfish.....how about countless men who work their ass off to feed both their kids and bastard

As sad as the story is, I couldn't help but wonder why the person who posted seems to be pushing a certain narrative or agenda kind of ....abi its the way i read it

LegendHero:
When I was young, I remember we have this Christmas event they always do in St Anne’s in Molete Ibadan. You have lot and lot of children that come there to celebrate and you have people give them gifts and throw parties. That time, we have lot of people but it is an open field so the space is okay to contain people.

I will blame the organizers of this event, they should have used a location that can contain people if you’re trying to do this kind of outreach. There is nothing bad in gifting children during Christmas, but you have to ensure safety as an organizer and I hope Oyo government hold them to this.

True. Location matters alot. I remember too how really large number of kids often turn up for christmasbparties organized by first ladies back then, but mostly done in Polo clubs parade ground. Anything involving fun time/play for minors, there has to be really big space...

Shes's been 42 in like forever....

Same thought ..not a fan of his but he made the song more interesting. The other giy's rap was average...

PulaPower:
He actually kill the song..

He also made the video so interesting..

MatrixCircle:
Social media, I tire oo , they way you guys are getting information about people's confidentiality and privacy and freely make it public without consent baffles me.
Tomorrow now, Peter Obi gave N50 million to this and that. As if Nigeria has no law on General data protection and regulations and privacy.

It's the people that believe everything posted on social media that I pity most. Just see all the people writing congratulations and saying another artist will be jealous, etc ..smh. do these folks know how much is $10 million dolls is?

press9jatv:
“ Those saying we are too young to get married are just poor “ Peller

“ You will not enjoy love or marriage if you stay up till 60 before getting married . Most of our parents got married late because there was no money . If you are young and you have money , just get married to the person you love . It will even save you from going outside and living a funny life . Yes we are engage and I’m proud of it . I love her “ Peller

Well I think he has a point , Omo like this if I get money I Dey just marry .

Moral lesson : If you’ve made money and there is someone you love , please marry .

There is no manual to these things. People's time and season is different especially as it relates to love and feelings..

"profesional" escorts or not, once you are been paid to keep someone company or engage in whatever physical activity you are bound to face those social stigma.

Merry100:
Not all men deserve submission.

Well then that is why the beginning is the most critical init? The man you agree to marry to!

Omoawoke:
Chai!

Wife must be younger than me… minimum 5 years

Because I haven’t aged in 5 years, I remain the same, only looking fresher and fresher but not aging
No weight added, I just remain the same.

Na why I dey laugh feminist dragging with men. You can’t fight nature

Yeah right...I think that's one factor most people didn't mention here. The man and the woman could actually be age mates or one or two years apart hence that's why she now looks older than him...

Not even a Man City fan, but anybody trying to ridiculeGudardiola by saying he didn't win fair and square is a clown. Pep is a top top coach! It is not his fault that City's administrators might not have followed rules or whatever....Mourinho is just a has been coach that thinks he is still box office draw. I don't blame him, it is only the English media that still give him attention and make him feel like he is still special. If not for Abrahmbovich money, he wouldnt have had a super team to win all those trophies too!

pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

True...civil cases are for the Police. It is only in this climes that people just call other Armed or security agencies anyhow all to just oppress or show others their 'might'

thatigboman:
Arteta is an apprentice coach?
You people just make yourselves feel important by bandying words unnecessarily and recklessly.
Arteta has proven himself to be a world-class coach. Arsenal has always been having world class coaches, his is no surprise. When Arsenal wins the treble this season as they will, u will come back with so many words and start turning logic on its head as usual.
Arsenal is undoubtedly and Indubitably the best team in Europe.

Don't bother answering some football Dumbo's. I have stopped batering with rival fans who don't have sense. I mean we all banter each other and laugh as opposite fans, but once I see someone write or say something like a clown, I just shun trying to explain. It's clear that when it comes to Arsenal FC matter, some people's brain needs resetting. Omo, the condescending manner some look at Arsenal no matter what they achieve is freaking annoying...

Sccarrr:
Since West Ham don luckily beat Arsenal 2times with ojorro and wuruwuru like this, there delusional fans think den dey same level with Arsenal...

I like how Arsenal no dey wan stop at 2-3goals over their matter , na to take am to 6 and more , chase their fans comot stadium before halftime, make statement say enikure!😹

Don't mind them ....some of theor fans were even saying why is Declan Rice leaving for Arsenal (as them and Arsenal na mate).. Can you imagine West Ham fa, just cos they got lucky that season and won that nothing cup that UEFA can scrapped any moment

Clown..

malaria:
So beauty is now a problem . I do not get it . If you are not psychologically, emotionally, socially balanced for commitment. Please stay away from someone else.

Smh...I don't know where some Nigerian men get this notion that beautiful women can't be of good character or behavior.

Nicepoker:
After delivery won't the tummy be flat? Surely it will.

🤣 Lmao!

AgeNat:
[quote wow thank God you later changed. Mine, i wanted to maintain that slim stature as a mother of 3 then so I don't eat. but i av changed since a year now i eat well and healthy infact right now my skin and my body shape are more better.

Exactly....the skin too looks radiant. Thank God for us

No matter how into each other people are, sometimes the vibe or morale is low to do some basic stuff. It may not be too deep. Alone time or a little bit of space is not bad to rejuvenate. You said 12 hours no call that's like half day...but they will see themselves at home right?

When I was younger growing up, I didn't eat much or always very selective with kinda of food I ate. Infact, I prefered light foods or fries. I did not like swallows and the likes. Though I didnt look sick or emaciated, I grew slim figured and didn't have a lot of weight. Later I. Years I had issue with dizziness and B'complex dificncy. However, ironically as I am getting older, it is now that I eat quite a lot and feel full of energy. Though no matter how much I eat my figure still slim

EmperorCaesar:


Is Hakimi for real?

PSG only won their domestic league and nothing more

Atalanta won the Europa,

Lookman netted a hattrick,

has a higher BDO finish,

Afcon finalist and

currently on 13G/A this season

Actually he said he 'hopes to win it' if not, he will keep working hard. He is just happy to be rewarded by been nominated amongst the top five. The poster wrote like Hakimi said he deserves it's more thank Lookman or something ..

Simple. CAF just give them a very lengthy ban from all official football activities!

Houseofglam7:
You waited 15 years to know he’s a beast??
🤦🏽‍♀️

I taya...

Kobicove:
She has never lived in Nigeria before, I hope she can integrate into the Nigerian society after the razzmatazz of this beauty competition fades

Exactly...I think after all the smoke calms down she will split. All this one na cos Nigeria(ans) stood by her after the whole burahahah she had with South Africans...

Ebubu8:
Mumu.

Looking for an innocent man's life to turn miserable with your jump in and jump out attitude to relationship and marriage.

No be me or my loved ones you go see

Disgusting

Even if a woman like this dangles cash at me I am not marrying her. Nothing bout her ticks

It's actually easier for people in privileged positions to cheat or scam people (especially Nigerians) cos people do believe and "semi worship" those they consider "destiny helper" or whatever they call it. Shame!

Lanre1st:
Wike, 2nd vice president

Something like that...