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Mbkite:
1. You are stil a virgin
2. You have dated b4
3. You love a particular man
4. Am thinking
5. Keep waiting 4 reasons.
6. I need just one convincing reason y I should marry.
7. I don't even know what am saying
8. Pardon me
9. How can I locate Ojelegba from bode thomas?
10. Pls dnt quote me.

Lol you are not serious o

your no 1 tho :You are still a virgin

I can't remember discussing such with you so please watch what you say.

yomi007k:
Must u marry before sperm touch a fertilized egg?

Ask him for me o

Thoniameek:
Companionship is sweet, having someone to fall on when the whole world seems to be on top of you is ''Mr & Mrs Smith''.....

Well, that's not enough reason to consider any guy out there, but here are reasons that shouldn't make you not consider marriage

1. You're supper independent
2. You're afraid you'll not find someone to love you completely
3. You're are afraid when you do find ''the one'' you might not be good enough for them
4. Because of the stereotypical ideas held about marriage by some individuals who never even gave their best in it (marriage) or are not even married yet
5. Or maybe because your own parents never modelled what marriage should be like
6. Or maybe your just a control freak
7. Or being under some form of authority where you're expected to summit isn't your thing
8. Or maybe you think s.ex is overrated and you feel like it's the only reason why people get married in the first place


Babe, there can be more reasons you should not choose to not get married
I here was one time feminist, super independent, I-can-do-it-all-don't-need-a-man coz what a man can do a woman can do blah blah blah... But I only didn't want to get married for the wrong reasons

That being said, the only reason I think one shouldn't get married is if you have a calling that equals marriage I.e. Mission or you're career oriented coz you want to make some real good money to go save lives somewhere in the world or are into foundations or just doing something to help the society and help make the world a better place... Marriage is a calling and is not for everyone.

If you can't handle yourself, I don't see how you'll be able to handle someone else and make children to make the society. You're not gonna be married? You're not allowed to lead a usual lifestyle, take Mo Abudu for instance - help society, be a nun (I wanted to be one), take Jesus Christ and Paul the apostle for example.... Then you would have lived a fulfilled life coz marriages are meant to help the society(that's a topic for another season).

Nice words

Slimzjoe:
Lol... It wasn't a Competition anyway. You actually Sent me Back to My Bible to Clarify Stuffs . Been Long I Opened it. Especially The 'Letters' from Paul

Glad you confessed and said the truth.

freeage7:
U people should stop looking for ten reasons to get married or not. Do as u pls jo

ok

feran14:
dont get married. you obviously dont want it. or have not found someone you love enough to hey married to

The former is obviously the answer .

acidtalk:
It sure is but the ladies are more on the receiving end in most cases.

marriage concerns two people most;the bride and the groom .

snadguy007:
Because guys have nothing to lose

I don't believe that

naijainfogalery:
well the truth is i would first of all advice you to stay away from where you are currently you know why ? All you see around you are victims of love, i have seen people in love i mean husband and wives that are in love married for several years and its beautiful in the sense that they quarrel once in a while but their make up is usually awesome it makes them stronger, if you see them u will envy love, my dear people hav gotten this love thing twisted.

one day u will find a man that will love u crazy. Marriage is the sweetest thing ever trust me, it has its own ups and downs, quarrel must happen, argument is almost everyday lol, but the love, companion , friendship superceeds all the hurts.


I cant wait to get that medal (seeing you getting married to the love of your life)

You are wise and most of the things you wrote up there are true.

when it is being described (marriage) like you did,it sounds great buh the very opposite is what I see around me.

lilmax:
i got that,the “sex mate thing“ came from that “you are not a fan of premarital sex“

now the question is what kind of relationship do you wish to have? Or you just want a lonely life without relationships?

I just need solid logical reasons why I should get married .

yomi007k:
Babe bone, majority of em don't have enuf logical reasons n dey know it. They r just SCARED to admit.

FEAR is wat differentiates me from em.

So true

yomi007k:
Ur not wrong.

U want 10 reasons, I need 21 reasons.

Reasons that r logical, not emotional.

So, leave me for them. I seek to be enlightened.

Lol glad to see that we are in the same shoes and also cool to know that am not the only confused being about the topic.

naijainfogalery:
First of all you need someone to love you, care for you, adore you, and do anything for you these are some other reasons

1. to bring up children that will be your source of joy for the rest of your life
2. To actually take up the responsibility of leadership - it develops your leadership skills
3. It gives you a companion
4. You become Mrs
5. Its natural to get married cos thats the way God ordains it
6. You will have a family of your own
7. You will have a helper that assists you financially, sexually, materially, spiritually
8. Gives you a spirit of commitment
9. You know someones got your back anytime anyday
10. You have someone dedicated to you through out your life
11. Someone to talk to when you lonely, need advice or when you are down
12. Someone to tell you how beautiful you are and cant do without you


And please dont let anyone rub you of your happiness you are going to find someone that will love and adore you

Wow can I give you a medal for this ?
it sounds cool buh it didn't in anyway come close to convincing me.

Slimzjoe:
Well, First of all, Your Religion says You should. Except you're a Nun or a Priest..
Secondly, if Two People never Got married, you won't be Existing.
Third, Its Actually your Decision To Make.... To Marry or not...

keep religion out of this afterall the Bible also asked us to married if we wish and can't keep away from fornication .
These days parents make it seem like its the most important thing and the best thing after cabin biscuit .

lilmax:
Dont get married,you will know the reason in ten years time

And when guys ask you out make sure you tell them from the onset its sex mate game not marriage

Read my post again and you will notice where I stated that am not a fan of premarital sex.

yomi007k:
1- I'm a Monk. Hehe.
Religion has caused a lot of problems in this world. U still wanna use that as a yardstick?

2- if ur not existing, ur not existing. Existence is not defined by marriage, don't get it twisted.

3- true, its UR DECISION TO MARRY OR NOT.

Yomi007 seems like you are in the same situation as I am cos you seem to be answering the questions targeted at me.

delishpot:
Dont get married. If you dont feel the need to, no one can tell you why. You need to feel it in your bones.

I don't feel it .There are so many negatively in it than the positive sides .

goodmorning40:
Never get married if u don't want to run mad

You mean getting married is synonymous to madness ?

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]If you need people to give you reason to or not to marry, then you are actually making the mistake of allowing society/the public, to decide or dictate your choices.

This days marriage has become like a tradition. Everyone wants to marry because their parents married and older members of their family and a lot of their friends married and are marrying. So marriage has now become a must. As something that everyone has to engage in, if not, the persons life isn't complete or fulfilled.

Society has found a way to place a sort of stigma on someone who isn't married, especially ladies.
A lady who isn't married is perceived as cursed, as someone who hasn't achieved anything. And all this is utterly wrong

Msbliss, if you don't want to marry, and if you see marriage as something that you wouldn't gain from or enjoy, please don't let anybody force you into it.

It's your life and you are accountable for it. You are your life's own administrator and you have the choice and power to direct it in anyway you want.

Do what makes you happy and fulfilled and if being single for the rest of your life is that thing, then do it. [/color]

Hmm thanks

daimsy:
You need to have your own children just as you were gotten by mum and dad.







wait!


I dey come.

There are so many men around who will jump at the thought of being a baby papa so that your reason is not good enough

delishpot:
Dont get married. If you dont feel the need to, no one can tell you why. You need to feel it in your bones.

Everyone behaves like its the most important thing in this life and a woman is nothing without a husband

aim5:
It's the lighting of the picture.. why would you try and insinuate that a mixed person is bleaching?

I just asked a simple question.

Right from when i can remember, marriage don't seem bliss to me.I don't believe in premarital sex and I also don't believe in marriage .
I need just 10 good reasons why I need marriage in my life.











Cc:
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Seun

This Union called marriage tho

ezychris:

Anything funny?

wristbangle:
Uwc. Ur signature though

What's wrong with my signature ?

Hmm Its no more wristwatch eh.The way people clone other people 's name eh

Ok

If you collect from guys,them go complain.If you no collect them go still complain . I tire for una o

True talk

That thing is not done with an ordinary eyes.There are more to it.