Konquest:

Hey Klass, how's it going?

So, generally speaking, there are many variables that can make a man to like (and love) his woman or spouse. It's a confluence of events and NOT just one aspect. A woman can be beautiful (on a scale of 9 out of 10) but if she isn't a good communicator and is BORING or is a stalker, then that's a red flag for me to ditch her either while dating or after marriage if she doesn't drop her insecurities. I would rather co-parent with her than to live under the same roof with her. Beauty in a woman alone has NEVER been enough with me.

For me, I'll say that since I'm a very visual person (who loves abstract art works as well), neat dressing, physical looks and personal fitness in my woman matter to me, but the most important thing is the intelligence of a woman and kindness OR genuine emphathy towards others. Those unique qualities in a woman are VERY sexy and attractive especially in a woman who is intentional and has personal goals of her own.

I also DON'T like a woman who is a doormat and who CANNOT hold functional conversations on a wide range of issues (without overtly making reference to the stereotypical animated female talk on make-ups, beefing other females, etc). Some narcissistic guys like the idea of a wife or spouse who is a "complete doormat," but NOT me because that's BORING. I like a wife who can have an opinion WITHOUT rubbing it in your face with the "I-told-you-so-attitude" when you make an investment mistake, which can be such a turn-off! So, yeah, a woman who isn't a "daddy's girl" and brings in a lot of "emotional drama and blackmail" while in the dating phase must be ditched ASAP so that she doesn't constitute a nuisance in marriage for any man.

I hope this helps.

Enjoy the rest of your day Klass.

Ciao.

But "I-told-you-so" doesn't mean she's completely fallen out on trusting you.🙂 it could mean, next time, trust my judgement on this context.

Klass99:


Okay, cool.

She sounds like a woman who will never maltreat the help, I like that.

Your maturity is the reason I wanted to see your view.

Quite through though.

franchasofficia:
Very wonderful topic.


Let me make attempt.

I love many things about my wife but let me see if I can list some.


I love her shape

Her love for the kids and family is topnotch. Anytime she didn't go to work, the kids will birth 3 times and change clothes thrice lol, sometimes I will just be laughing in my mind, but I kinda like it sha lol



I love her simplicity and free spirit.

Despite her career, she is domestic as in, finds time to cook good meals, supervise house cleaning, do laundry, etc.

She is a good listener and ready to learn.

She believes too much in me, like to a fault she likes getting my validation for virtually everything.

I never liked her profession initially, but I now cherish it as it brings respect and dignity to the family.

She is not expensive and highly contented.

Did I tell you that she doesn't keep friends aside one or two of her coworkers? I am her only friend, and she hate social media

Wait, what's her profession?

Focusmind:
Her obsession for cleanliness - mehn, the obsession's is much.
I de collect shredding sometimes when I mess up the toilet and bathroom after bathing

You don't dare mess her kitchen up, whether you are a visitor or not. She will show you how it is done

Once my niece or nephew comes on holidays, I will tell my wife to mellow down as their level of cleanliness is not at par with theirs. I will also tell my nieces and nephews to ensure cleanliness and that the room are neat and bed well laid. Don't dump unwashed clothes for long time in the basket. I have somehow learnt how to be organized with my things, wardrobe , shoe rack and bathroom discipline. I lack bathroom discipline. Before, once I was done bathing, soap foams will be everywhere on the tile walls and the bathroom would be like where children played with detergents.

Cleanliness 👌, another virtue I've learn today.

LordReed:


For me it's her kindness. And it's not just to me and the children, anybody who associates with her always gets a taste of it and it makes me marvel.

Me, I used to be kind to humans but pain & heartbreak have stolen my kindness away.

Maybe I'd bring another value sha, but not kindness.😒

Nice2023:
One woman I have never regret marrying.

Just this morning,I was asking myself,how on earth does she have this strength she uses to run the home. She is a banker,a very senior banker with unmatched humility. A loving mother who cherishes family beyond imagination. A girl I met in Abuja on my way to work now my most loving wife.

In my next world,I will marry her again and again...that is one thing I like about her.

She wakes up every 4am and by 6am everybody's food is ready,including my nanny. In fact,she does not wake my nanny to assist her but allows her to sleep and wake up with the children.

She is one of the sweetest women I have ever experienced. My marriage with her has experienced inexplicable growth and joy altogether.

Financially,she has never hid her money from me...not even one day,even when i don't ask her for it. Anytime she get a raise she tells me.

In summary, I don't regret ever marrying her.

All of the above is what I love about her.

This is sweet🥰.

Ladies, hope we're learning?

If your man/husband is not seeing the grace in you & praising you like this, I don't want to talk o🤐

Tempulated:
Let me laugh with the person up there 🤣🤣🤣

On a serious note nigerian men loves everything about their women. Case closed.

Not all Nigeria men o.

It's important to be specific. "Married Nigerian Men"

Carcholce:
What about those of us unmarried but in a committed relationship? Are we allowed to speak?

Marry first na. It's where the complete commitment take place.

Maeve7:
Nice thread. Can’t wait to read the comments.

Me too. Moderator please move to front page.

Something positive to learn from

Klass99:
This is an interesting topic MsFaith. I would like to know and see sincerity in the comments too.

Konquest & LordReed, I am particularly interested in your thoughts on this. Please do share if you don't mind.

Yes sister. And you'd get ideas from mature men compared to the unmarried young men in romance section all out to destroy the female gender

Nairaland married men, what do you love most about your wife?

What's that thing that gives you joy about her?

Share, single ladies can learn a thing or 2 and bachelors self awareness can also arise.

SUPERBLOOM:

Please whn you get the shop space, I wouldn't know if you'll need an extra hand to work with you.
If at all you do, I'm. Available

I would need workmanship, but no higher degree than OND, basic maths skills and basic computer operation skills and a digital marketer (good with motion graphics and graphics designing) basically everything good with everything relating to digital marketing.

I'm still looking for Shop space in Lagos.

I'm looking for ground floor office or store space in Lagos, about 17 sqm in a lucrative area in Lagos. Please message me if you have one.

Thanks

Mariangeles:
They're not using any substitute.
They only increase the price of bread.

No substitute can be cheaper than wheat flour.
Not even the so-called cassava flour.

Oh, wow.

Is it all purpose flour or a special bread flour?

Wheat flour or all purpose flour anyone they were formally using is now so expensive.

How are bakeries making their money?

what kind of flour are Nigerian bakeries using to substitute flour now?

Any idea?

mariahAngel:
Happy weekend people. ✨✨✨
It's a beautiful ☀️ Saturday morning, so try to give yourself a good breakfast.

So, if you could have any of these for breakfast, which would you prefer?

Picture credit: Instagram

I’d choose B, anything that has more fruits

justwise:
Here is the part 8


An incredible job by all contributors including those who ask questions and those who provide answers, job well done!

This is part 7 https://www.nairaland.com/5296943/general-german-student-visa-enquiries






For newbies your German school search starts here https://www.daad.de/deutschland/studienangebote/en/

Hi all, I want to ask if block account still costs 8,640 euros or it's been reviewed upwards?

Yes. I use it to chase clout

Australia. I dream about this large island every time.

I wonder what life is like over there. The people, the animals, work/business life, how quiet it is.

I belief the life there will suit my kind of person.
My problem is, Australia is too difficult to enter and too expensive if going through school route.


I genuinely need guidance to enter my dream country

VinnyBaba:


It seems you are a very JUDGEMENTAL person

That's how you were Castigating Asisat Oshoala up and down.

You think you are God's Special Messenger on Earth or a Morality Police?😏

Stop this Mentality. As an ObiDient, you are disappointing us! 😕😒

And he doesn’t even have sense

Jennyclay:
Going on a date with a broke man.

Even God forbids it!!

I wish the like button had options of emoji,na laugh I go give am

Only 1 thing and your wish shall come true

Me: Foreign Exchange Rates. $1 = #300

Oya let’s go.

1Alex:
How will hotel be cheaper than Airbnb in a city?

If Airbnb is cheaper, can you give me info about any Airbnb in Lagos?

In Lagos, which is better, hotel or Airbnb?

So, my foreign colleague has been disturbing me about the most popular beauty magazines and newspapers in Nigeria where she can make adverts of our products.

I’ve been thinking really hard. Do we still read magazines and newspapers in Nigeria?

Ok, if we read at all, which are the most popular?

SimeonOTC:
Gt Bank World App
Opay
Piggyvest
Calculator
Chrome
Facebook Lite
Wss and Live Sport Plus hd (For football match)
Youtube app

I make use of all this app everyday.

The best of the best among them all is piggyvest. I use it every 2minutes. That app is a life saver.

I’m thinking of investing in piggyvest, is it really safe?

She should have those kid and take them to the motherless babies home. Many are really looking for children.

sorepco:
From all you have said i did not see any reason why you would not help your brothers. How did you help them before? Is it by giving them 2k here or 10k there? That's no help...you can do that to a friend or even a neighbor!
To help here brothers so that they can stand on their own do these:

Let them learn a trade then you settle them.
For those that want to school sponsor them if you can.
If you can also sponsor them overseas.

Furthermore you can get them a bus for transportation business or bolt...

Helping us by changing someone's life for the better not giving them chicken change!

you talk as if you know how rich she is. You even say 2k and 10k is no help. in this economy o, can you pick 2k or 10k from the floor?

Is it really worth coming to this world?

[quote author=Dukeolumidemans post=114831499]My homie sees his own family as superior and sees others as nonsense. He takes everything from me and never likes to return them or share his. Same with his brother. Borrows cash, clothes, shoes and never bothers to return any but will never attempt to give u any help even though they are very rich.
Even when opportunities came through their eldest brother who is a head in a major government Oil company in Nigeria, they will rather give it to people who don't care about them...I woke up one morning and walked away from all of them. Years later, through hard work and consistency, I and my only brother blew up like nitro!!!
Now we drink Champaign when we are thirsty and drive some of the finest/cleanest cars on a low key... fuuuck that!!!

***And if u don't know, now u know niggar***
[/quote

Whether you are lying or not, I believe you cus I love success stories