Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn, whenever I think about the fact that we still have up to over a year to pass through this hectic maltreatment of this regime,I just dey say to myself--"anybody wey survive this regime suppose get direct ticket to heaven las las, because we are already paying our hell dues on earth".

Brace yourself. Whoever comes after Buhari will make things worse.

In Nigeria, it can only get worse

The funny thing is, whoever comes after Buhari is going to be worse.

Nigerians, brace yourself! It can only get worse.

Supreme145:
There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.

I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.

I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.

Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.

My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.

Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.

Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.

Another thing. Make sure your wife is working and contributing financially to the family.

E dey important, else, your little go wreck

If I could turn, turn back the hands of time,

Then my darling you, you’d still be mine

~ R. Kelly

I’d prefer to be born in a first world country.

mikhe2:
We no dey shake... Now dis na wake up call for the present government and incoming government to come and fix the fucking damn country

I laugh you. As if they will hear.

The one we have been singing in their ears even through endsars, did they hear?


It’s better all the countries ban Nigeria so that we(including our politicians) can all stay put

Make lie chop your mouth

Omicron007:



Happiest Birthday to a man who rose above his height and achieved success. You have paid your dues in the entertainment space.

The same cannot be said regarding some tall men who could have made a living by playing basketball but decided to embrace Zombie work and all they get is 30K Monthly BMC stipend just to asslick a popular failure from the North side of the corntree.

Is the second paragraph necesstree?

That’s how one religious fellow was telling to go for confession for not coming to church the previous Sunday. That it is a great sin

I told him if that’s the case I won’t be going to church again.

RUGGEDWEAVER:

Same food today chai , so yummy...

I can’t differentiate coconut rice from the normal rice because the aroma and the taste doesn’t tell a difference.

Maybe if the coconut is diced sha.

1Sharon:


Hell awaits.

Awaits who?

Thank God I’ve stopped being religious

A serious topic of discussion.

Aside those who were legally married before they lost their husbands or divorced, single motherhood is a no no.

It’s better to wait longer for marriage to happen than rush to have kids outside wedlock.

But love is blind

Sugar crafts. Well done creatives

Uncountable

And these soaps are poor quality

inoki247:
Lol if any werey bring out is Mahoood na to bring out my phone nd record him nd go upload it on Onlyfan or Pornhubb..

Maybe u fit gt career for dere...

You are hilarious

Too many evil things happening in the world.

Sly, may you find justice, may your killers be brought to book and may your soul find eternal rest. Amen

Bullying has been happening a long time ago, It’s just time for exposure. Thank God for technology and social media.

AfonjaConehead:

See woman... Na w for you... And you call yourself faith!!

Because I call myself Faith, I shouldn’t think for myself? It’s everything some white people say I should swallow/believe?

Biko, let’s be releasing ourselves from the falsehood we’ve been taught from childhood.

dydx2020:


Bros, no be only u ooo
I don't even like seeing his comment
The guy is kinda crazy.Lol

He’s too delusional.

Lebronjames23:
till Jesus overlooks u in the last days

Sorry deputy Jesus

Am I the only one that overlooks Righteousness2’s comments whenever I see them and move to the next commenter?

Nigeria

Only Nigeria that I was born inside.

OP, you don dey relocate go abroad?

Never mind

Datboredberry:
.…. Don't hold back the next generation with our retrogressive African culture where the parent is the all-knowing, self-righteous, supreme leader …….
.

I have come to realises that it’s mostly caused by lack of exposure and enlightenment on the part of these parents. Illiterates and parents that don’t like to read exhibit these terrible parenting styles.

I can’t imagine reading posts and comments like yours and still be hardened to mal-handle my unborn kids when I have them.

It’s highly important to marry a well educated spouse if you want the best for your kids

My former neighbour always beats her daughter for every little thing. They are always locked up in their 1 room apartment so there’s no way one can interfere to control the woman or the little girl to at least run away from this emotionally injured mother of hers.

It’s always so painful hearing this girl cry for help when she’s under torture. It’s one of the reasons I packed out of that house. My heart couldn’t take it anymore.

Vision101:
It's really difficult to be a pastor, pastor's wife or pastor's child. So much expectations. Everybody watches you. If you do what others are doing your friends will remind you that you are pastors son.

As a pastor if you have a bad tenant you can't do what other landlords to bad tenants. If you try it the same bad tenant will remind you that you call yourself a pastor.

If someone hits your car, you can't talk angrily on the road. Within minutes someone that knows you will emerge. I have had to spend #700k this year on my car that was totally damaged by someone that could not afford #20k.

You can't eat anywhere you want. When you attend parties you can't eat in public. Everyone brings their problems to you but you have no one to take your problem to.

It's worse for those of us that render free service. Your children only see sacrifices. They become scared to become pastors. Statistics show that majority of pastors seeds have no desire to be one.

When I carry my own too far, my wife will remind me that she didn't marry me as a pastor but as an accountant. My son will tell me that there are various routes through Jesus to heaven.

Will the world ever understand?

My own is, can’t you people be godly men without necessarily becoming a pastor?

Aaronsrod:

Just imagine burning to death in this volcanic fire only to perish and find oneself in the pit of Hell with Satan and his demons for all eternity.

This people were not Christians. They knew not Jesus. They died unsaved. Men women and children. To think they have been tortured in Hellfire for 1942 years and this is not even the beginning of the start of their suffering.

Nawa ooooooooooooo!

They’ve lied to us a long time ago. Let’s start emancipating ourselves from this lies.

Whether christian or not we all go the same place when we die.

Inugo?

Faller:
If it was in Nigeria now.....Those Cele people will say that it's their Members in heaven that are Spreading Clothes in the sky

How people they take reason out all these things

Pootle:
china dont waste time to exterminate kids like that

It’s because they are highly overpopulated and it’s part of their population control.


But what are the causes of Down syndrome in a child? This should be rather addressed.

'eya my friend why you leave so soon'

Sounds so fake.