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[quote author=baby.me link=topic=523073.msg6855338#msg6855338 date=1285930954]Thanks

U look pretty too [/quote]Thank you jare

REALITY101:
Come on sweetie I never said anything is wrong with that btw I have dated 2 chinko's. Your pretty anyways,

Thank you jare. But Im not fully chinko naa. Im only 1/2 chinko

Tosinville:
Ms. Potato,

you're funny on what you said about 190's pic lmao!

Sorry naa. Didnt mean to sound anyway harsh. Just that I know how he looks like

[quote author=baby.me link=topic=523073.msg6855217#msg6855217 date=1285929514]Ma pic and e-mail are on ma profile.

Happy 50th anniversary peeps.[/quote]U look very bautiful sista.


[quote author=baby.me link=topic=523073.msg6855322#msg6855322 date=1285930720]Pay no attention to him Potato. That's some name [/quote]Yes naa. I miss chopping potato

REALITY101:
Are the chick on your profile, Kinda Chino looking thou.

And whats wrong with being chinko

As far as I can remember 190 does not look anywhere near that guy on his profile

Hmmmm. . . . . . . . . . . . . .

queeneve:
I said before in previous thread, that I look like this and why keep asking for my picture if I said I am hideous,

I have:
One tooth
One eye
Four fingers
three toes
One butt cheek
Split tongue (hissing)
I weight about 2,897,988 kilo
I am 2 feet 3 inches tall
I am redbone
I have twenty five acnes on my face
and my nose is broken in half,

So there ya have it! Oh, and I am married

ROTFLMAO!!!!!

Hmmm. . . . . .  Poster why the hate? Show some love naa 

queeneve:
Ms Potato,

You know damn well I am BORING, aren't I guys?!!!  You can't get 75 PEOPLE to say I am not boring, mundane, and calm!  I bet everybody disagree with you!

I am soooooo boring it like watching paint dry!   

Make I stand to correct you. You must be bored but you are definitely not boring.    Well, I understand where u coming from considering that your boss forced you to take all of your annual leave join one go cause you have not taken one for the past 15 years working for that company. 

75 ke? LOL! There might be 500,000 members here but I doubt theres even [size=3pt]10 [/size] active posters here in a daily basis.   

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=506132.msg6685168#msg6685168 date=1283427069]Am here as the Financial Controller. So how much you going to pay?[/quote]

Omolola1:
No make 190 catch you o

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=506132.msg6686671#msg6686671 date=1283443175]^^
No baby leave am, na her own she dey talk~[/quote]

Omolola1:
No mind am,

She no know how we dey run things~

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=506132.msg6686845#msg6686845 date=1283444936]^^
hehehee, ^{im watching a horror movie, zombieland}[/quote]u sayin?

kashmo:
^^^^^^What happen to your ID! You got banned?

adagz 01:
Why u chose mrs potato na

I have a few reasons and the reasons are as follows:-

1) Im on a mission to loose weight bcause I bought this dress which is the bomb but it is 1 size smaller than me so I skip all carbihydrates especially Potatoes and I loveeeeee Potatoes. So I missed it

2) I have a Mr Potato in my house but he is missing his Ms. Potato and they dont sell her anymore in the market So I am honoring Mr. Potato by naming myself one.

3) I think its a cute name. Dont you?

Odunnu:
Welcome Ms P.

Thank you jare.

Vic2k3:
Gabry This your new id totally represents your personality lol.

LOL! I know right?

MRbrownJAY:
sadly, love has absolutely nothing to do with physical attraction. if the brain isnt stimulated by the sight of a partner's nak-ed body then that said brain wont send the signals to your groin area to "attack". . . . . . . .thus one of the simple causes of weak erection.
as hard as we may try, we cannot control our minds and what makes our juices flowing in these instances. LOVE will simply make us SETTLE FOR LESS (or more) but never turn us into lovers of big women just because our women just got big.

Do you think pure love is the one that would stimulate a man or physical attraction is the one that would stimulate a man?

Some of my guy friends will tell me that if he really loves someone, he would f**k her day and night and his desires to have her on bed is very strong. is it the same for you?

MRbrownJAY:
it could simply be that these hot couples dont upgrade their love making habits and therefore it becomes a routine which, in return, brings the needs for some "new" se-xual sparks in their lives. just being sexy isnt enough, you got work hard too!

Must one necessarily upgrade their love making skills? What if the peson loves making love in a traditional way? Like do people really get put off having to do he same routine everyday? Or do you mean the changes of position both will do on a daily basis?

MRbrownJAY:
i have never been attracted physically (or romantically) to a big woman and probably never will. a woman with big features, yes. . . . . . . but an all rounder big woman, NO.
i like my women to be freaky in the bedroom and to be able to swing from the chandelier, if needs be. a big gal wouldnt be able to do that or i would need some serious repairs done in the house every week, lol!

But will you go for a very slim girl with small features?

Example: https://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs169.snc3/19638_259076488757_634498757_3185196_6611133_n.jpg

queeneve:
(looking innocent) Moi?

I was abducted by the funnybones, LONG STORY, take my word for it,

My husband keep saying I aint gon kill him!  It took me a minute to realize that it was a Nigerian slang, I was like I aint going to jail for nobody!

Yall so silly, I am not funny at all!  I am boring, mundane, and calm!

Ehen! I hope u mean the opposite

Queeneve and Inked Nerd, gosh! U ladies crak me up! LMAO!

U askin me to sleep with my father that had produced me with his own semen? Ewwww!!!!!!!!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=522662.msg6847902#msg6847902 date=1285828036]

lol, he doesn't seem to mind when I'm prancing around in my undies in front of him

[/quote]LMAO!!!!! DANG! U so funny!

MRbrownJAY:
stick with it because they want to or because they have no other choices?!

I think its to the fact that they love their husbands no matter how big they blow up or how small they would deflate. After all, they say Love conquers all. Dont you think?

MRbrownJAY:
as i wrote earlier, both WOMEN and MEN get comfortable in marriage/relationships and thus they start to take for granted the passion/attraction/desires etc that is needed in any union to keep it alive and burning.

Yes, that I agree. Infact, some even are blinded about their looks that they simply dont bother. They treat as if their stock value in the market marriage life has gone down the hill. Thats sad really

MRbrownJAY:
if any person think that they can change in such HIDEOUS ways and still have all the same se-xual attraction within their union then they are TRULY DREAMING!!!!!!
same goes for going on dates, doing fun things etc after marriage, even if you are both tired or whatever. being happily married doesnt mean simply putting a ring on someone fingers and providing for their financial needs.

everyone needs to be at the top of their games physically to keep the passion/attraction in that said union, if they dont then THATS THE BEGINNING OF THE END for you guys

Hmmmm. . . . . . Maybe. . . I still see hot couples not sexually attrated to each other after marriage and they both would go cheating on each others back. I think its not just about physical attraction but also due to other criterias like behaviour change for instance. The behaviour alone is enough to put someone off from a relationship or from sex.

MRbrownJAY:
no i wouldnt but i would make DAMN sure that she understands the implication of me not being attracted to her se-xually any longer. i would help her get back to her former self as this is the only person i am physically attracted to, not the whale that she may have turned into.

we would go to the gym together or train at home, go jogging, change our eating habits. . . . . . . . .whatever it takes to make her lose the extra baby fat. one thing that i would never do is pretend that this is not a problem, when it is.

PS: remember this has nothing to do with how much i love her, but rather, how se-xually attracted i would be towards her. some guy love chubby (or fat) women and others simply dont!

So do you like thin girls, slim girls, slim girls with a little plumpness, plump or fat girls?

Just a general question

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=522662.msg6847308#msg6847308 date=1285812081]lol, I haven't really had a guy complain about my physique. There's a Ghanaian guy that I've been wanting to have s.ex with for a while now and although he's comfortable with my body, in the back of my mind, I get the feeling that he'd prefer a plumpier girl. Anyway like I said, its in my mind. He's never complained. I'd never go out of my way to change my body just because my partner didn't like it.[/quote]Hmmmm, . . . I hardly believe that African men loves Plump ladies anymore due to civilization.

gbolahan1:
@Poster. As for me, love conquers everything-including her physique. If she's someone I love, I wouldn't mind if she's plump or slim. My physical eyes will be closed to all that and my mind eyes will be wide open. @Inked_Nerd. How did u read your guy's mind even when he's not coplaining?I don't wanna generalize about African men but most African men that I know like girls with a little extra meat on them I didn't read his mind. He always told me that I had a nice body and that my physique was nice but I just had a feeling he liked curvier girls. I'm kinda over it now. Now, I have no problem prancing around his house half n.aked

I hope loves really conquers anything. Ive heard of guys having no interest anymore for their wife especially after she has given birth to his own child.

LMAO at the prancing half naked act!



[quote author=bk.babe97y link=topic=522662.msg6847537#msg6847537 date=1285820501]You do Ghanians too? Girl, u got no class! [/quote]Hey, whats wrong with Ghanian men?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
any individuals are the higher authority on whats good or not for THEIR own body, and if that person's bf met her like this and NOW has a problem with it then, bf can go and date someone else because he has no ground for complaint.

on the other hand, if gf was slim and now is chubby, bf has all the rights to complain about it, AND for the sake of that relationship, gf should try her hardest to get back to her initial "look" or accept the fact that the lack of physical attraction may cause friction in the union. same goes for men and pot bellies!

Hmmm. . . . . . . And yet we see alot of married men gaining weight and growing a pot belly after marriage without any excuse (having to get pregnant and all) but their wives still sitck to them?

Mr. Jay, will you dump your wife if she gains weight especially after child birth?

Nenum and stevetboy, just to tell you I am around.

But wont be here for long as my brother's wedding is this 9 Oct 2010. By than I needed to prepare everything. You will see the whole event. Will show it to you guys.


One love


Gabry

Ladies, what if your bf loves u plump but you prefer to be slightly slim. Who's choice do you follow? Yours or his?

Guys, if you love your gf plump but she wants to loose weight and be slimmer, what will you do? Will you follow her decision and still love her or protest?

U need to really tell him the truth once and for all in order to eliminate the lenght of time you are to be tortured from this. And the sooner you do it would be better for you and for him.

Tell him you need to talk to him and you need to tell him the truth and hope he would react fine to it.

Gosh! Although I have not been through your problem, but I can feel your heat. . .

All the best and good luck.