Toba please explain to me what kinda wife material characteristic u are looking for cause there are just so many types.

Im sorry but I had sex with one guy so Im not a virgin. Ok u can find someone else than Sorry

Toba, how are u doing? So why are u single since 2004,

Hello Upendo. Kabo babes. I thought you dont wanna come in here no more. Im glad u are here babes.


Dave, Im singlr cause my bf and I broke up. Simple as that!

Idouogbo, please, I would appreciate if u dont be my Agent cause I dont need an agent.I dont want it to be so over explosive u know?

I just wanna holler up with the guys here and see what they like and dont like and so on.

Oh MY! Being out of NL for quite some time I must say I kinda not use to the rush of many people out of the sudden. Ok guys. Im going back from work. let me switch on my lappy and read your comments and I will get right back to ya. Thanks

Yes I can but unfortunately you need to send me some cause I need money to buy food for my poor dog that hasnt eaten for days

Gosh! So many good memories, so many bad memories, so many sweet memories, so many bitter memories.

I cannot imagine what ive gone through these past few weeks and in the end of the day, a 4 year 6 months relationship has ended not in tears but for the better of life and we are still good friends (winks)

I still cherish the sweet bitter memories we had together and today we are still friends but hey, on the bright side Im free and single and ready to mingle.

So I holler u guys out there HOlla!

^^^ Awwwww. . . . . . My baby is here



Go Gunners Gooo!!!!!

Mrs.Chima:

Gotcha suga.  That's why I said depending on which country you was referring to.  

Sad unfortunately.



To the thing that said people shouldn't judge should follow that statement themselves.  Pot calling the kettle black getting to be ridiculous.  

 

I once launched a complaint to my Prime Minister about this issue saying that if the local couldnt accept Africans and the government refuse to give job opportunities to Africans, than they should not in the first place promote Malaysia to Africans telling them that they would have good education and good job opportunities here and as usual, I get a good SILENCE from them. Calling them even is worst cause no one picks up the phone ever!

Mrs.Chima:

Ms. Potato

You asked what can a man do if he down to his luck? Simple, do what everybody who didn't retort to criminal activities do. Make it work. Now I don't know if you meant in the States or in Nigeria. If you was referring to Nigeria then I can't speak on that but if you was referring to the States then my answer would be go to food pantries, soup kitchens, ask the government for emergency funds, and apply for food assistance program.

If everyone was to do that then the world would have been finished long time ago. People get down to the last bit but SOME rely on the kindness of others or find other ways to survive LEGALLY.

Chima Im talking about Malaysia where theres no such thing as food pantries, soup kitchens, ask the government for emergency funds, and apply for food assistance program. The government here are so corrupted and the locals here mostly anti Africans. And truth be told, most Nigerians here ended up in the scamming world to survive and only a small % would beg on the streets and do m4l3 pr0stitution and those whom are lucky would engage in a decent business but my dear, not everyone would get that opportunity. Only those with the money or with really good connections from their own country Nigeria would get that opportunity but to do business in Malaysia, almost to impossible!

pleep:

If you don't mind me asking. Is he a bad man, like a scammer or something?

No he is not. . . Cause if he is, he wouldnt have all this problem I guess. . .

Mrs.Chima:

Hmm.  Sorry to hear that Ms. Potato.  I am sure you will find another dark chocolate man to peak your chakra.     I am thinking of going to Jamaica soon and would love if you can join me.  Maybe you will become the Queen of Hedonism.    

Just bring plenty of condoms for safety.  I heard some chick went and came back pregnant.  

Oh nooo. . . I still love him very much and I dont wanna do it with another man. . . I find it awkward,. And I dont want to be showing my VJ to another guy. Ewww  

I just want him and only him   And I wish God would soon find a way to help him. He needs it badly. for real. . . . . .

Mrs.Chima:

I don't know about that Ms. Potato because a person of rich character is rich regardless where they are.  If they traveled to another country from Nigeria then they were corrupted before they left Nigeria.  Just saying. 

Those who scams women for papers or money are usually fresh from  their home country unless they were already in the country on another visa. 

I use to believe in that but not anymore. . . .  They are factors which will push a person to his.her limits for real.What do u do if you were cheated to come to a country where u were promised that apart from studying, u are able to get a part time job to pay your fees and all and when u come here, u find everybody around u to be hating u for no reason, spit on you and covering their noses when they see u and the next thing you know your passport has been teared up to pieces by the police and they take all your money, your hp and leave and theres nothing you can about it. You walk from stores to stores and company to company looking for a job and none would offer u anything cause of the color of your skin and soon to come to realize theres no more food in your kitchen and the electricity billo, TV bill, water bill, internet bill, school fees are all piling up right infront of you. U wanted to call your parents back home for help but u remembered your hp got robbed by the police and u know how suffering your family is in your country that they themselves are struggling hard to pay for their house rent and their feeding. Going to school for u in troublesome cause u have to take 2 busses and one train to get there on a daily basis and all this requires money. But money is running dry. What do u do? With no passport, no money, no food , no job and all what do u do?

I change my mind

Mrs.Chima:

Ms. Potato!

I know you don't like sad story but a Nigerian was burned alive for stealing a necklace recently and there were some attacks on those who were involved recently.  If you thinking of going to visit with your man wait a few more months.  

Chima, Sad to say my bf and I broke up so they wont be any US visiting Nigeria. It would just be me or him alone  

And concerning the Nigerian getting burned, well it happens. Over here, if u are Muslim and u are found to steal or engage in sexual acts without marriage,m they will stone you to death

pleep:

it looks like we lost another fan.  Anyway, for what its worth, i'm sorry for w/e happend. we can be real idiots sometimes.

Pleep, I'm still am a fan of Nigerian men. Dont get me wrong. Based on my experience, if a woman whom is keen on finding a Nigerian man as her husband, its best to find him in his own country that is NIGERIA cause based on past history, they are so many genuine sweet Nigerian men in Nigeria itself however I find most Nigerian men that had traveled and lived abroad for more than 3 years are mostly an slowpoke. Not to say all but mostly.

In Malaysia, women have more rights than men in the court of law. Thats the reason why men in general be it a local or a foreignor is afraid to abuse the women here in general. Yes, prison here is like living in hell without the fire   but people do survive though  

if a man beats up a woman, he is wrong in the court of law but if the woman beats up a man, she is right in the court of law. Thats how it is.

However, many Malaysian women here get duped by their bf's. Some have the nerve to report it to the police saying that the guy rob and r4p3 them but most still have pity and love for the guy. . . . . . .

Well, suit them what they wanna call me. The truth is bitter indeed.

I know Nigerian men in Malaysia are almost all so cunning and a small percentage of them are still genuine but however, none of them lead to domestic violence. They are more towards scamming and duping off their gf's money most of the time but domestic violence, I havent heard of any cases like that just yet.

not really. I just came back from project site untill I saw this topic that caught my eye.

Sad to say, what the poster said is partly right

Hmm. . . Seems like Im too late to comment.

Oh well. . . And moving on!

Hmmmmmmmmmm!

me

I would still really like to have the PM feature here

HEY!!! That face above looks very familiar

No theres no Iphone APP.

Nobody

Hee Hee

Call MTN for 12 months and nothing?

U mean Nollywood right?

I am an Alien