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I dont think its about your nationality. I know Nigerians are one of the most friendliest people on this planet and I dont think they actually give a toss about a persons nationality or race.

I think it has sumthin to do with your character or maybe you have said sumthin that offended them

When I first got to this forum, Im shock to even see people claiming they are Christian and virgin (although when I first joined the forum, I was also a virgin but you see, my country dont really care if a person is a virgin or a Christian or not). When people talk about virgins here, I just admit it but I find it strange some people took it like I lied to them and all sort of nonsense. I guess than its the culture difference and the mentality of the person itself. I know we Malaysians will never look at the person's religion nor the sex status cause its really not important.

LOL! No, Ashewo does not mean Shower. its means Pr05t1tut3.    Haha! Who taught you mumu? Gosh! Let me teach you a nice sentence in Yoruba. When you see a Nigerian coming, you say Kabo means Welcome. 

And your ID name Upendo, what kinda language is that?

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=693929.msg8551920#msg8551920 date=1308552809]^Roperto can you carry my child for me [/quote]Na why you want have sex with an old woman for?

He doesnt have feelings for her and so he doesnt know how to break up with her. Ok, I can swallow that but if he has no feelings for her, why sleep with her and even get her pregnant? is he for real?

Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

Jenny, why would u care of what other people has to say? Why would u let other people decide for u when its your life and not theirs? If you love him and he loves you, you should just stay strong about your relationship.

I know I myself have learn alot of this kinda situation. Im an Asian Chinese, Mongolian malaysian and Im dating a Nigerian. Alot of people have criticized us, mocked us, sabotage us, backstab us and spit on us because of our relationship and even my own family do it but I dont give a sh1t on what they are thinking because this is my life, my decision and my choice and no one can take that freedom away from me. If they die, who will suffer? You will suffer for not making choices of your own and just when you wanted to make decisions and change your life, it might be too late for you.

I would advice you to put your feet down, make it very clear that you are here to stay for the relationship and if you get married and have babies with him, the perception of the other people towards Arabs and African falling in love together will change. Stay strong my dear.

pleep:
Hmm. . . And I'm such a sexy man it's a shame I don't have my picture up

Please post your Picture on my Dark Chocolate men thread. Pleaseee preety pleaseeee. . . .

Emmyk:
and I dont border sturkin' on nairaland members' profile onless such member makes an horrible post. So I'm like WHAT'S HE/SHE LIKE. Haha

Heheh! Agreed

upendo 98:
Upendo stands for LOVE.
By me saying christianity has been corrupted I mean people use it as cover for their evil deeds. Instead of it being a lifestyle people use it at their convinience.
I prefer you judge me by my actions than my words.Words are just just words. Its sad but it truth.You want a husband,you go lying you are a christian just to look good.You wanna steal, you say u a christian so that your least suspected.
I live in Africa though due to nature of my job I find myself elsewhere so I am a mobile person.
Thats LOVE for u. 
Cheers.

LEAVE MMM alone. Hes a MANMADEMAD

Ive never heard or seen people claiming of their religion for sumthin. here I come from, religion is no used as a topic of conversation or even an attraction. When I say Im a Christian or Muslim, the people here will just that it as your preference in religion and nothing more. over here, the people are most concern towards how you carry yourself or how you behave publicly and that about it.

Does that mean u are currently living in Nigeria?

LOl! I love threads like this!!!

but this is nowhere near romantic though

Match ke?

Dear LaViva,

I am not incharge of Nairaland nor am I incharge of this section. This section does not have a Moderator so I would suggest you open yoiur thread concerning your concerns in the Nairaland Section and ask the Owner or Super Mod there.

This is the section you must go to: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/board-18.0.html


Thanks

Quoted by: tellwisdom

so what happens now?

Your meaning exactly?

Quoted by: Upendo98

@Potato .I am 100% african of course not an oyibo . neither am I 9ja. But I do have them as friends.I am also not that lol.Sounds soo weird. I hate singing am a christisn cz its been corrupted so much.I prefer living it than screaming it. So just so you know I love God too much.The reason I live anyway.
I am just me. Seriously I hate hypocrisy,vanity,stupidity,arrogance and ignorance.
I like encouraging people.Life is too complex and stressful so why dance to its tune? Theres no way you will be close to me and nt be happy cz I chose to be happy regardles and I try to make my sorroundings happy too.

WHich part of Africa you come from if you dont mind me asking? And where u currently at?

What do you mean by Christianity has been corrupted so much?

What does your userID name stands for?

Quoted by: M M M

Ms.potato re u now lady-loving-lady?

I have clearly stated in my first post that I am not a lesbian

paraphase:
I just discovered today that there is a country called Lubuan Island.Its close to where i am right now,maybe i might sneak in

Labuan Island is not a country naa. And where u at?

190:
^she travelled to ITALY and its good!!

U should be concern about her happiness. If she is happy than why are u upset for?

REALITY101:
OMG what did I do again? 

Your posts naa

190:
^she travelled to italy

Isnt that good? You as a husband should support her and shoiw some loyalty now